Surprisingly, you won’t find a definition of the word happiness in the dictionary. And do you know why? Because each person is individual, and everyone has their own happy moments in life. And from vanity, problems and worries, we often lose these wonderful happy feelings. And sometimes we are even surprised when we see a cheerful, smiling face. Medoboz offers to “get to know” a truly happy person. It has some very characteristic features!
After all, the opinions of others are not the main thing!
True happiness, like armor, protects from negativity, from caustic remarks, gossip, ridicule and, in general, from the opinions of not so happy people (after all, see point one - what a happy person notices). Therefore, he is ready to give his goodness in return even to such people, following the wise words of King Solomon: “I have learned that there is nothing better for a person than to rejoice and do good in life...”
Good deeds
Not only good deeds, even a kind tone in the voice is louder than any “beautiful” but empty words; and this also does not go unnoticed; it is very pleasant to communicate with such a person. “The one who tries to make others happy is truly happy!” - this is not just a catchphrase, it is the main motive in all the affairs of a truly happy person. When communicating with him, you will feel his sincere attention and participation, his positive attitude will certainly be transmitted to you. Your joy will become joy for him, and he will be ready to share your misfortune with you and, of course, will willingly help. After all, happy people find pleasure in doing things for the benefit of others.
Life changes
A woman whose heart is shrouded in love and care changes before our eyes, both externally and internally. Every evening before going to bed you will understand that life will no longer be the same, it will be better, more beautiful, happier. And you will experience this happiness with every cell of your body.
If all this happens to you, enjoy the moment, every day, every hour spent together. Make plans, take care of each other. How else to preserve love until old age? Mutual understanding, trust and many other criteria for a strong and friendly family.
Be happy!
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Positive in everything
The belief that no matter what happens, everything happened for the better is also a sure sign of a happy person. Even in serious trials, he remains optimistic, will find an explanation for what happened, and will learn a lesson from the tragedy and draw the right conclusions that will help him cope with the situation now and not fall into it again. And this really makes them even happier in life. If others think that life is a zebra (and try to walk along the white stripe), then the happy ones see life with all its wonderful, so bright and colorful shades!
“You shall not covet anything that is your neighbor’s”
- says one of the 10 commandments. In other words, a happy person simply has no reason to envy anyone or anything, because he is happy with what he has, and, of course, sincerely rejoices at the happiness and achievements of others. This is also an invariable sign and the very essence of happy people; this is what protects them from the “poison” of envy. And life proves that an unenvious person is always rewarded for his selflessness and his sincerity. People who are satisfied with their lives very rarely complain or grumble. And since their modest desires do not exceed, but coincide with their capabilities, they suffer less from anxiety and stress.
They love themselves
A happy person will never hate himself. He understands perfectly well that there is no such thing as a perfect body and a perfect mind, and he is aware that he cannot avoid all mistakes. Strong and contented people do not delve into the past, looking at the night ceiling, and do not look for reasons to again experience burning shame for the events of five years ago that went according to a bad scenario. They simply have no time to waste energy on it.
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Is happiness in money or in quantity?
Often we hear how advertising convinces, and millions of people, believing it, work and exhaust themselves, trying to increase their well-being. But what do the facts say? According to the Journal of Happiness Studies, when a person's basic needs are met, increasing income has little effect on their level of happiness and peace of mind (Journal of Happiness Studies). And the problem, like happiness, is not in money or in its quantity... Here is a quote from the magazine “View on Psychology” - [namely] “the desire to get rich deprives a person of happiness” (Monitor on Psychology). And when hopes do not come true, disappointment arises because the thirst for more and more cannot be quenched. And most importantly, in the pursuit of money, people often sacrifice what real happiness depends on: precious time that they could give to their family and friends (and time is, in fact, priceless, it cannot be bought for any money )!
If I ask you right now, are you happy, what will you answer?
Many factors influence how we feel in our daily lives. Problems at work, stress, and difficult relationships can all take a toll on our happiness and well-being.
According to the latest World Happiness Report ( yes, there are such reports too ), the population of post-Soviet countries is now less happy than five years ago.
At the same time, as one scientific study , to be happy or not to be is to some extent our choice.
Happy means purposeful!
When a person has a goal in life, his life itself is interesting and he receives a lot of positive emotions during and after achieving it. And everyone, like happiness, has their own goals, inimitable and therefore beautiful! Even overcoming obstacles is more joyful and interesting than just going with the flow. And having the right guideline in life is the key to success!
Secrets of successful people
Many had to see from their own experience that determination and hard work are not enough to achieve their ideal of happiness. For some reason, some are happy in literally everything, while others try in vain, not moving forward. But the reason is simple: luck must be added to the efforts.
Every successful person has his own secrets in attracting luck, which opens all doors for him. What are the signs to distinguish the lucky ones from the unlucky ones? How can they use these common traits to achieve success in life?
Go to work like it's a holiday!
It is with this mood that happy people come to work and work all day. They simply can’t imagine how they can complain that their job is bad. Why? See the point above... once correctly set and, most importantly, achieved goals helped them devote themselves to a profession that provides both material rewards and emotional pleasure. And at the same time, such a person is happy, he always sees opportunities to improve, feels joy both in the process of his work and from its results.
You are getting better every day
Some women underestimate themselves, do not value themselves as a person, and sometimes “scold” themselves for being unlucky, outward appearance, or lack of motivation. However, when a girl falls in love, a certain force is born inside her, which immediately changes these views to the exact opposite. Firstly, she begins to bloom and smell, and secondly, for her chosen one, she will do everything possible to strive to be the best version of herself.
Family is sacred!
No family or friendship without love can be called happy. After all, it is reasonable and logical that love is necessary for happiness and mental health. But love should be the kind that encourages a person to sincerely care about the interests of others, perhaps to the detriment of his own. It is based on high moral principles, but is not devoid of warm feelings. Therefore, relationships built on such love are strong and happy, despite the fact that people continue to make mistakes. Marriage is the most durable union; it can safely be called a sacred union for life. And the spouses, who remember that they are now one, try to strengthen their marriage. When difficulties arise, they are in no hurry to break off the relationship; their love is so strong and lasting that it can protect the marriage from betrayal. Such love helps to overcome difficulties and maintain harmony and peace in the family. And the selfless love of parents for each other and for their children is a priceless gift for every family member.
What is child-centrism?
If you have never heard of child-centrism, don’t be surprised. This is a relatively new concept, under which experts consider a special style of education, in which the child is placed at the top of the family’s value hierarchy.
In fact, child-rearing patterns have changed greatly throughout history. Thus, a resident of the Middle Ages would be very surprised if he learned that children were considered a special value in the family - starting from the age of seven, peasants sent their children to hard work, and girls were married off at the age of 12. Changes came with the advent of the Renaissance - violence against children became unacceptable, and raising offspring became inherent in a fully developed personality.
Dedicating one's life entirely to a child can hardly be called a healthy phenomenon.
The twentieth century brought with it new views on the education of the future generation - the theory of free education, which, by the way, is still relevant to this day. This education system eliminates the competitive element, rewards and punishments, which allows the child to learn at his own pace. But this model was replaced in the 21st century by child-centrism - child worship .
“Whoever knows how to be happy in everyday life is truly a happy person!”
If, amid the hustle and bustle and routine, you have not ceased to be sincerely and kindly surprised by something, then you are a happy person. Again, everyone has their own moments that bring happiness, but they exist, they are noticed, they are enjoyed, they are appreciated and they try to share them with others.
“If you want to be happy, just be it!” - I would like to sum it up with this motto. Happiness is a process, not a final stop, not the achievement of a goal itself, but a path to that goal. This is an attitude towards life itself (when we have the problems we face, and when we know how to rejoice at the successes of others, and sincere support and care for those who need it so much, and much more).
Don’t be deceived, because the rich and beautiful cry too, and it’s not a fact that they are truly happy just because they have a lot of money or an attractive appearance. Quite often, this is precisely what prevents them from being sincere: in the appearance of their emotions, feelings, in selfless love, in understanding someone else’s misfortune and the ability to support in a timely manner; or even more so in the joy of the successes of others.
We hope that you were able to see at least one of the listed signs in yourself, and if there are more, we are sincerely happy for you and wish you to see happiness where it is, and it can be found in everything! And we tried very hard to help you with this!
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They love to be with people and love to be alone
Being surrounded by like-minded people and friends is pleasant and necessary. A company with which you can not only have a fun Friday, but also discuss really serious things, helps you not to fall into despair in difficult life moments, but you can’t build a happy life on this alone. People who are satisfied with themselves are ready to spend time alone, finding their charms in it. Solitude is both a form of relaxation and an opportunity to look at things in a new way. A person who is bored with himself can hardly be called satisfied with everything that happens in the world around him and in his own soul.
