Sometimes love forces you to go to the most desperate measures to get to the object of your adoration and be with him. Is a woman who falls in love with a married man to blame? The question is ambiguous. The situation becomes more tense when there are children in the family. Love clouds the mind and does not allow rational thinking. You can also take a guy away from a girl who is not married. This article will tell you exactly how to make a married man fall in love with you.
How to behave i
Men have affairs for a reason; most often they are nagged and not satisfied by their wives. So, the main rule is that you can’t be like his wife! To win the attention and trust of a married person, you need to indulge his needs. He lacks high-quality and crazy sex - give him such pleasure. If your wife cooks poorly, or if the food is reduced to dumplings and instant noodles, learn to cook what he loves and the man will be almost subdued.
Trying to be an order of magnitude better than his wife in everything is the key point. The ability to listen to a man and not nag him about nonsense is a very important point. A real man, of course, will not constantly whine about how bad everything is in his life, but daily domestic squabbles will drive anyone to a state of devastation!
Magic to help
Some mistresses fall so in love with their “married men” that they turn to love spells. A special conspiracy will help to repel a man and tie him to you, but it’s extremely difficult for a non-professional to do such a ritual correctly.
Weigh all the risks, think about the moral side, and if even God’s punishment cannot stop you (there is such an opinion), then proceed to implement your plan. Before performing the spell, determine what kind of relationship binds the lover and his wife. If the connection is strong, then additional folds and cooling will be needed. If there are constant quarrels in a marriage, then it will be much easier to fight off the guy.
Plot No. 1. Flower
To implement this plot, you need to first prepare the following components:
jasmine oil;- candle;
- a new needle;
- flower pot;
- biological traces of the chosen one (pieces of nails or hair);
- seedling of a flower plant.
The plot needs to be done as follows. Scratch your name and your husband's name on the candle with a needle. Then lubricate it with jasmine oil, place it in a candlestick and say the following words: “Both names and destinies are intertwined. Water, earth, fire united, were determined by deeds, and were crowned by heaven. We will be together forever."
Wait until the candle burns out completely. Collect the remaining drops of wax and roll your hair or nails into them, place everything in a pot filled with soil. At the end of the ritual, plant a flower in it.
While watering, repeat the magic words every time. This conspiracy will intensify as the flower grows. After some time, you will feel that the feelings between you and your lover will only grow stronger.
Plot No. 2. Amulet
This plot will help to repel a man, tie him to you and strengthen the sexual energy between you.
To do the ritual correctly, cut out two small circles from plain paper, and the third from foil. Write your and your husband's names and dates of birth on paper mugs and place a foil mold between them.
Make a hole in the workpiece with a gypsy needle. Thread a red woolen thread into it and tie several knots at its end.
In this case, it is necessary to pronounce the following text: “I connect destinies and life, souls and bodies, thoughts and hearts.”
After completing the plot, hide this magical amulet away. It will help preserve your relationship and remove all barriers to love.
Stay desired 2
External appearance is the first thing men pay attention to, so it’s worth taking care of your appearance. If necessary, sign up for a gym, take care of your face, hairstyle, nails and body hair. Always be in style with a great mood. Beautiful speech also accompanies success. The right word, spoken with the right intonation, can light a huge fire in a man. You need to speak with a hint of sexuality, to turn on a man. Flirting, of course, is required.
There is no need to behave like his wife or mother, he is fed up with all this, he needs something fresh, such youthful hot relationships that will make his heart pound.
Should I agree to become the mistress of a married man?3
For example, a woman, directly or indirectly, received an offer from a family man to become his mistress. Her future life will depend on the decision she makes. She must be ready:
- To be only a friend for the chosen one. The desire to partially replace his wife, to tie him with care and gifts, should be abandoned. Do not make comments to a man (even if there is a reason for this). The destiny of a mistress is to be always ready to meet her lover with an impeccable appearance and organize pleasant communication.
- To be a supporting woman for a man. Even if the close relationship between the spouses has ceased to satisfy the man, he will never make a decision in favor of his mistress. The scales on which are children, family, settled and familiar life will always tip the scales.
- To keep a man, a mistress must always be fully prepared: not just keep herself in shape, but constantly look for new ways to diversify her intimate life and not bore her partner.
- The relationship will always be on the woman’s territory, in a rented apartment or hotel. Joint trips to the theatre, club, guests, and especially relatives, are out of the question.
- A woman should not get hung up on this relationship. She is free and has the right to decide how long they last.
About male psychology5
No matter how sad it may sound, most men are cowards, they are not capable of making serious decisions. They can only become bolder under pain of death, or under pressure. Expecting a man to immediately leave his wife is stupid. After a long period of time, a man may dare to leave his wife and move in with a new chosen one, but marriage will most likely be postponed for a long time in the future.
The desire of a homewrecker to drag a man into the registry office can be considered as a method of manipulation. And men don't like that. And who loves anyway?
Also, any blackmail can destroy your relationship; it destroys words about high love. Love should not be accompanied by blackmail, love is a beautiful and pure feeling.
Permanent relationships outside of marriage
If your husband has been dating the same woman for a long time or has openly told you about his intention to leave for her, then most likely this is not just about passion, but about feelings. According to Yana Leikina, in this case, it is better not to delay attempts to return your loved one. Begin to act actively no later than 40 days from the moment the man leaves, when he has not yet formed new habits.
Study your opponent. “When a man takes a mistress, this does not mean that he is going to destroy the family. He just wants what is missing inside his monastery,” notes Ekaterina Fedorova. Try to determine what type of woman your husband preferred: “little girl”, “mommy”, “passionate tigress” or “perky hooligan”? Is she similar to you or the complete opposite? This will help you understand what your loved one was missing in their relationship with you.
Talk to your husband. The simplest and most correct thing is to simply tell your loved one about your feelings. As Yana Leikina emphasizes, in this case there is no need to reproach the man or try to present him with a choice of “either me or her.” Just tell him about your love, and then give him the opportunity to decide for himself what reciprocal step to take.
Turn on your feminine cunning. If you and your husband have had a lot of joint activities and have children together, then it will not be difficult for you to find common ground with him again. Ask him to come to you more often and “in a friendly way” help fix the tap, go for a walk with the child, etc. “The more you have in common in every sense of the word (leisure, interests, traditions), the easier it will be for you to get your man back,” adds Yana Leikina.
Well, if all your efforts were in vain, then allow yourself to be sad and let go of the situation. After all, your man is not the only one in this world.
Family psychology 6
Before you take a married man away from your family, you should familiarize yourself with the family psychology of relationships. The matter is very delicate, so you should pay attention to absolutely everything - to answers, to gestures, to body language. There are situations when a mountain of books does not help. Because situations are different, men and their motives are different. But still, extra knowledge won’t hurt.
Abundance of Women 7
What to do in a situation with a man who is a womanizer? Surely, if he exchanged his wife for a mistress, he can easily exchange his mistress for another mistress. The wife may know about his infidelities if they live for quite a long time, but she may not know if they do not live together for a long time.
In the case of a man who is a womanizer, it becomes even easier to take him away. You can deceive them into a scandal or plant a couple of your own evidence (panties or a bra) and then their marriage will definitely come to an end. If a man is smart, then he can understand that this is a setup and will break off relations with his mistress and make peace with his wife. However, there is no guarantee that after leaving his wife, he will not leave his mistress.
Step-by-step instruction
To win back a young man who is already in a relationship, you need to think about various options for seducing him and make a plan. Several techniques can be used for this purpose.
Know the enemy by sight
Knowing his current girlfriend will allow him to competently adjust his appearance. Let's say she has an acid-colored hairstyle, and he likes naturalness.
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To get to know the girlfriend of the man you like, you can use mutual friends, social networks, try to join the group where she usually spends time (work, fitness center, beauty salon). By receiving information about your rival, you can easily understand how to win a guy away from a girl.
Make friends with her
After meeting your opponent, you need to try to make friends with her. Thanks to this, the girl will have access to information about what is happening in the couple, what difficulties there are in the relationship, what the guy considers unacceptable in the behavior of women and other valuable information. This data will make it possible to adjust your behavior so as to quickly achieve reciprocity from your loved one.
It cannot be ruled out that her friend is already bored with the young man. This state of affairs would help the young lady not to feel remorse because her best friend took her boyfriend away.
Talk to your boyfriend more
Young people really appreciate girls who pay them a lot of attention. When dating a man, you should definitely take an interest in his affairs, plans, and listen about new projects. Showing sincere interest in the guy, the girl will soon become his friend.
A young lady should not make dates herself, but it is also not good to leave a man unattended, so you should organize one or two “casual” meetings a week. In order not to cause disgust instead of friendship, you should not overdo it and become intrusive. Proposals for a meeting from a guy are accepted with an expression of pleasure, but in order to create a good impression of yourself, sometimes it is better to refuse dates under the pretext of important matters.
Children8
The moral aspect appears in the issue with children. Destroying a family with children is a very serious step. If it does come to a divorce from his wife, then the mistress will need to be ready to take on the role of a stepmother. And try to prevent your ex-wife from meeting her man.
If we are talking about small children, then the man constantly works and all the money goes to consumables for the little one, the man automatically turns into a source of funds. And you should think very carefully whether it is worth destroying such a family, because the mistress will have to become a mother for a small child if he remains with his father. In general, the issue of children is very sensitive and requires clear action.
Restore your inner resources
Now that you have overcome the most emotionally difficult stage of betrayal, your task is to increase the level of your internal energy. Leave all thoughts about your husband for a while and try to bring yourself to your senses.
“When a woman is jealous of another, she is not in a resourceful state and cannot attract a man. Therefore, try to increase your attractiveness and inner strength - organize joyful events, walks, and hobbies. Anything to feel young and attractive,” comments Yana Leikina.
“If you find it difficult to restore emotional balance within the walls of your home, take a vacation and be alone with yourself. A few days in nature will help you come to your senses,” adds psychologist and sex coach Ekaterina Fedorova .
And only by restoring the integrity of your “I” can you begin to actively conquer your loved one. At the same time, it is important to understand what exactly is behind the extramarital affair of a loved one - ardent passion or deep feelings?
Society's position 9
If you want to take your husband away from your family, you definitely won’t get approval from society. This act is in any case immoral and disgusting. You can justify a homewrecker in a case where everything is truly bad in a family and anarchy reigns. And if everything is relatively safe and peaceful, then the homewrecker will receive condemnation from society. When taking such actions, you should be aware of this.
There are many examples when husbands were taken away from the family, and then the relationship with the new passion fell apart after six months. All this ends with depression and a bottle in hand.
In general, this is a desperate matter; to go for it you need to clearly understand that this is the same man with whom you want to spend your whole life and give yourself to him to the fullest. In other cases, it may be temporary love, which can lead to a series of terrible events.
What should a mistress do if she does not want to become the next wife or even be discovered, read in our next article.
What can you do?
Flirt! The man may be tied by marriage, but you are not bound by anything, right? So practice your flirting skills. This is a very useful quality. When you are flirtatious, your self-esteem increases and you exude feminine vibes. I talk about all these tricks in the online course “Secrets of Women’s Happiness.”
Remember, my beautiful ones. Even if you manage to become the most highly spiritual, feminine and beautiful for an unfree man, your chance of getting what you want is 1:1000. So don’t waste time, look around and choose a worthy man. Read about where to start best in the section “Secrets of dating and first dates.”
Please write comments. Do you think it’s possible to take married people away? Who takes husbands away from their families and how? Why are married men so attractive to girls?
