The situation when a woman has already become attached to a man, but he simply does not pay attention to her, unfortunately, occurs quite often. Yes, it is complex, but it cannot be called insoluble either. It's kind of like hunting a lion on the African savannah.
When a lady goes out with her “enemy” (the man she likes) one on one and victory directly depends on her dexterity and dexterity. True, before you interest a man and fall in love with him, you first need to understand your feelings.
Is it this male representative that you really need, and if you need it, then why? After all, seducing a companion and making him fall in love with you are completely different tasks, and accordingly, their solutions are different.
In order to seduce a “macho”, it is enough to use all your sexuality, and now, in order to make him fall in love with you, you will have to use a large arsenal of “military actions” in full. But, whatever one may say, one should begin the stage of conquest with one’s own appearance.
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Everything ingenious is simple, as wise people said in the old days. And, whatever one may say, this rule still works one hundred percent today. If a girl expects to attract the attention of a man, and even more so to get him to look after her, she must look after herself. There are 5 main points, the combination of which will increase a lady’s chances of success or how to attract a man:
- Red lipstick. On a subconscious level, this is not only a sign of attractiveness, but also a direct indication that the lady is ready to give birth to little heirs. Why is that? And who knows what lurks in the depths of our subconscious.
- Strict eye contours. The eyes are the mirror of the soul, and if they are carefully “shaded” and clearly outlined with pencil or eyeliner, they create the effect of sensual sexuality.
- Well-groomed curls. It turns out that healthy hair is capable of releasing pheromones. And their brilliant splendor is not an excellent indicator of women's health, but also a wonderful trap for men.
- Blush on the cheeks. Again, it is a sign of female sexuality and the ability to bear children.
- A slim body. No one forces you to spend all your free time in the gym, but a woman should definitely be fit and slim.
All this, combined with stylish clothes and a very small drop of seductive perfume, will certainly attract the first glance of a man. And it will not only attract, but also make you linger and take a closer look at the owner of all this luxury.
Pleasant smile2
After completing the first stage of conquering Everest (in this case, men), the second, no less difficult, begins. Here, as in the cartoon, “a smile makes the world brighter.” This ability of a woman to rejoice even in seemingly insignificant little things disarms and conquers the stronger sex.
This is not at all surprising, because in this case men do not need to tense up and feel awkward. It will be easy and pleasant for the emu. It is this condition that will force him again and again to seek a meeting with this particular woman. Even more, he will strive to impress the woman. But this is where the main thing is not to overplay. Representatives of the stronger sex are very sensitive to falsehood.
A girl should behave freely and naturally. A flirtatious smile, a joyful laugh, as a direct reaction to a man’s joke - all this together will become direct proof for him that she is interested in him and, like a magnet, will attract him to her.
It is at this stage that a man should feel that he is the best for this woman. And this is very important for all males, without exception. Again, this is a kind of play on the thin strings of the male subconscious.
If a lady loses her head, makes far-reaching plans and strains her partner with her calls, checks and control, the effect will be absolutely opposite to what was expected. In the same way, you shouldn’t “get hung up” on the man you like and completely stop communicating with other males.
Now a woman must not only give a man complete freedom, but also keep it for herself. It's only begining. Unobtrusively let the man know that he is the best, and he will certainly reciprocate your feelings.
Show insecurity
Almost every man by nature wants to help girls. If a lady asks him for help and talks about difficulties, this will put him in a positive mood. This is one of the important factors that a man pays attention to. The guy needs to be made to understand that his attempts to protect, reassure and help are completely working. It should also be shown that there is a fragile girl in front of the man. Thanks to this, his self-esteem can increase. The dominant will come out, because all men want to be leaders, and the girl will help with this.
Sweet politeness3
A real man will never pay attention to a rude, cynical, arrogant and vulgar woman. You shouldn’t prove your importance by swearing at a careless waitress with a three-story obscenity. Such behavior, which is not at all feminine, can, on the contrary, scare him away forever. And it’s not surprising why you would subsequently listen to your companion’s constant scandals all your life.
Of course, you don’t need to lose your self-esteem, just like your fundamental views on certain things, but in no case should you use arrogant arrogance for this.
This is one of the most important tips on how to please a man, regardless of appearance, social status or nationality!
We share interests4
If a woman has already managed to interest a man and get a little attached to her, she should under no circumstances fold her arms and stop there. Sooner or later, talking about the weather and news will become tiresome, just like sweet and slightly flirtatious compliments addressed to him.
Here we need to talk about things that are more serious for the chosen one. So, even at the beginning of dating, a woman needs to carefully “probe” topics that are interesting to him. Hobbies, dreams, ambitious plans. Here you should not only sincerely believe in your companion’s dream, but also stock up on the necessary knowledge in order to be able to support a conversation on a highly specialized topic.
Moreover, here we are not talking about a somewhat stupid “oh, oh, how interesting this is to me, you’re so great,” but about a global understanding of the issue (even if it’s even about how spaceships plow the oceans).
If a companion believes that a woman is not only interested in his plans, but also sincerely believes in their implementation, and, accordingly, in his capabilities, he will absolutely appreciate it. This is especially important in cases where a hobby becomes a real passion for a man. If a lady shares her with him, she will become an ideal companion in his eyes.
What kind of women do men love?
Guys like girls with a good sense of humor. Boys love girls who laugh at their not always funny jokes and can tell some funny anecdote themselves.
Men don't get into relationships with people who like to manipulate. They do not like women who often manipulate their chosen one in order to get something. They want to date wise, sensible women.
Most men choose honest women they can trust for their family life. Naturally, if a woman dreams of marriage with a man, then she must always tell the truth, because one lie leads to another.
A woman who is ready to support her chosen one in any difficult moment for him can easily make a man fall in love with her. All men, without exception, need support and care. A girl who is ready to approve any choice of a man will become his lover.
Prove irresistibility5
It is very important for a man to feel his perfection, irresistibility, and, in some way, superiority. These are again games of the subconscious of the dominant male, for whom it is very important to feel his importance, especially in the presence of his companion.
Conversations eye to eye, you need to hold your gaze, give it significance and, as it were, assure the man that he is the best. It is worth giving him dreams and fantasies that he will definitely fall in love with.
You also need to give the man respectful gratitude and a positive assessment of all his actions, this will become a strong foundation for future relationships (of course, we are not talking about praising negative actions, for example, you should not praise your companion who kicked a stray dog on the street).
However, this does not mean that one should harshly criticize his minor mistakes and misdeeds. In this you need to support your boyfriend and become a reliable support for him. A woman definitely needs to appreciate everything that her partner does for her, from minor details to grandiose deeds.
The more positive assessments and gratitude a man receives from his companion, the more affection she can subsequently count on from him.
Many men call the ideal companion the woman who feels absolutely happy in his presence. This fully satisfies all his natural needs - to be the best protector, breadwinner and real, one hundred percent dominant head of the family.
Way to make a guy fall in love with you
Step 3: Be unpredictable
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Being predictable is boring. Predictability is usually routine. Routine destroys.
Unpredictable, active girls who know how to cheer up always attract the attention of the opposite sex.
Give up the usual framework by doing something unusual from time to time. Believe me, men lose their minds over women who sometimes do something unusual that goes against generally accepted norms.
Rules are made to be broken. Remember this at least sometimes.
Gentle touches6
Tactile contact is very important for the continuation of relationships. As if random, but at the same time affectionate female touches should contain all possible tenderness. Thus, the lady gets a very good ally for herself - sensory memory. Men's skin will remember these exciting sensations and a man will certainly want to feel them again.
A lady doesn’t have to hang on to her companion like Velcro, like a sticky fish. You can lightly take his hand at a pedestrian crossing or straighten a lopsided tie.
At this stage, the little secrets of a woman’s wardrobe won’t hurt either - light sliding fabrics and furs, in turn, will leave a man with pleasant memories of touching a lady. And tactile sensations can work wonders.
Own talent7
It is quite natural that a man who wants to feel like the best expects the same from his companion. Therefore, he definitely will not like the presence of such a gray mouse nearby. Here the woman must show creativity and gradually surprise him with her talents. It is gradual, and this is very important.
If you dump all your talents on your companion at once, like a bucket of water on your head, it will bring a one-time and far from the most positive effect. For example, in a stream - I can cook perfectly, embroider, jump with a parachute, grow cucumbers, make bandages, play chess and fight; most males will not remember even half of it.
Excellent results will be achieved by unobtrusive and, most importantly, gradual delivery of information. Only then will a woman, remaining a real mystery, always be interesting to her companion.
How to do everything right. Explore your goal
Without knowing the needs and inclinations of a man, you will not be able to present yourself correctly and as profitably as possible.
You definitely need to know the following about it:
- Life position
- Habits
- Interests
- Past partners
- Future plans
Where can you get such personal information, you ask? The main sources are mutual friends and social networks. Compose a kind of questionnaire and try to study in detail all the information available to you. The most important thing is to decide which type of women is most attractive to a man: Woman Mother, Girlfriend, Lioness or Mistress.
- As you understand, a girl like Mother is emotional, sensitive, and often creative. She loves children very much and strives to start a family.
- A Girlfriend type girl is a classic intellectual with whom you can discuss any topic and even go fishing.
- The Lioness girl is a bright, attractive and proud personality that a man will strive to conquer and show to others as his trophy.
- Finally, the Hostess girl is the same young lady who cooks excellently, keeps the house clean and manages to pursue her career. She may not be too emotional, but she is reliable and predictable.
Having decided on the tastes and inclinations of a man, build a line of behavior and take care of your appearance. Men love with their eyes, and if all his former passions were brunettes with a good figure, then it would not hurt you to compete with them. Then you can easily make a man fall in love with you.
Difficulty 8
Not the easiest task for a woman in love. However, it is mandatory. Strange as it may seem, a person is designed in such a way that he values only what is given to him with difficulty. Accordingly, the more accessible a woman is, the less a man will be attracted to her.
So what should lovely ladies do? It’s all very simple; if you get a man interested in you, you shouldn’t rush and rush headlong into a date at his first call. We are not talking about rudely pushing away a partner, but about a delicate refusal, the reason for which may be unexpected matters.
It is worth constantly being in the whirlpool of your own interests - hobbies and interests, work, communication with friends. Even the most beloved man should know that a lady also has her own interests, completely unrelated to him. This way she can always remain a little mysterious and, accordingly, interesting to him.
And if he starts to get bored, it’s almost a complete victory.
How to know that a man is in love - 7 signs
Now let's look at the obvious signs that a man is in love with you.
- Active communication. Even if a man himself is not particularly talkative, he will maintain a dialogue with you, ask questions, be interested in your life, and be the initiator of your meetings.
- He has time for you. A man in love will always find time to ask how you are doing and he will strive to spend time together. For him there are no barriers or excuses such as “being stuck at work” or “no time”.
- Showing concern. He is interested in your well-being, whether everything is okay, offers his help (if necessary), etc.
- Manifestation of jealousy. A man's possessive instinct turns on; he won't want you to maintain contact with other men.
Therefore, he will try to find out whether you communicate with someone of the opposite sex, and if so, in what format the communication is (there is a difference between a manager/cousin and “just a friend”). If you went for a walk, then he will certainly be interested in who you are with. But you must distinguish between adequate jealousy and toxic jealousy. If a person makes claims and tries to put you under control, then you should not continue communicating with him. This is not normal behavior. - Getting to know your social circle. If a man is serious about you, then he does not try to hide your relationship. He can easily introduce you to his friends and relatives. If he is shy about your relationship and hides it from others, then be sure that he is not in love.
- Nonverbal signs. He constantly looks at you (in some situations he may abruptly look away when you notice this), tries to touch you (hug, touch your arm/shoulder/hair, etc., adjust something on you), while talking his body will be turned towards you, physically he will not move away from you if the distance between you is close.
- Deviation from the baseline of behavior. The basic line of behavior is a person’s usual behavior in a calm environment and his characteristic manner of communication when talking with other people. When a man is in love, he will do things that are unusual for his behavior towards you. For example, if he is usually silent and uncommunicative, then next to you he will immediately become talkative.
Self-esteem9
No matter how important this particular man is to a woman, she should not always agree with him in everything and follow all his desires. This is especially true in those cases when it is unpleasant for her. Of course, harmony and peace in a relationship are very important, but this does not mean that you need to completely dissolve in it.
By the way, a lady’s refusal of one or another offer will make her partner respect him even more. It is very important for him to communicate with a woman who can worthily defend her opinion. A harmonious combination of a cheerful bird chirping on a branch and a thoughtful, mysterious personality will attract the attention of a man and firmly tie him to his companion.
Communication 10
Communication is important at absolutely all stages of a relationship, from dating to the pre-wedding period. What can I say, it is also very important in marriage. The fewer omissions there are between the couple, the stronger the union will be. We need to talk about everything. The worst thing is to withdraw into yourself and play the silent game with a pouty expression on your face.
Absolutely all conflicts can be resolved verbally. This also applies to the relationship between a man and a woman. Regular and meaningful communication can strengthen feelings and become the basis for a strong marriage.
We'll tell you more about how to win a man in the next article.
