When performed correctly, spanking the butt can give a girl serious excitement. This role-playing game will allow your partner to play the role of a “bad girl,” and you will feel like a real male. Spanking perfectly diversifies sex and can give both partners a bright and powerful orgasm. The most important thing is to learn how to properly spank her ass.
We recommend that you watch our training video. In it you will learn the secret rules on how to properly spank a girl so that she gets maximum pleasure from it.
Do girls like to have their butts spanked?
Why do women have such different reactions? One likes it, but the other may even report it to the police. It all depends on a number of factors: circumstances, mood, level of trust and intimacy between partners, degree of emancipation. But the main criterion is the relationship with the man.
Let's consider different scenarios. And let’s look at how girls react to spanking in each situation.
Why do men like to touch a woman's butt?
Any guy, of course, will say that he likes both a woman’s breasts and butt. But during sex, according to statistics, the buttocks are touched much more often. And they just admire the breasts.
Stroking the thighs causes arousal, which improves the quality of sexual intercourse. That's right, because you can look at breasts in everyday life. And you can only see attractive naked butts on the beach. Well, or in the women's bathhouse. Accidentally.
Another reason why men like to touch a woman’s butt is the desire to please their partner. We know where women's erogenous points are, and the buttocks are one of the strong zones. And further:
- A spank stimulates the nerve endings around the genitals, and accordingly, the act brings more pleasure. The happier a girl is, the more active she is in bed. And everyone is happy.
- Well, in everyday life, stroking the bottom is a hint to the girl that it’s time to finish with everyday issues and relax..
spanking from a stranger
The statistics are inexorable: in 90% of cases, such behavior by a man will be perceived negatively. A woman may regard a slap on the buttocks as harassment or a desire to humiliate her, but not as a sign of attention. Only 10% of ladies believe that in such an unusual way a man hints at sympathy and invites them to get to know each other better.
At the beginning of a relationship
“Why does a guy like to spank my butt? - the girls ask. “We just started dating!” Perhaps the man wants to quickly move the relationship to a new stage, namely, have sex. The response depends on the woman herself. If she is in the mood for intimacy, she will perceive a slap on the butt positively.
Physiological background2
The centers of pleasure and pain are located nearby in the brain, and during sex all sensations intensify. After a spanking, the brain receives a pain signal, which is transformed into severe arousal. Muscle tension also occurs, accelerating the onset of orgasm.
Some ladies are so addicted to this type of stimulation that they get turned on by just a few spanks. Such individuals are ready for full-fledged sex within a few minutes, exposing all their holes for penetration. Sometimes such ladies can pretend that they are unpleasant, but such an unexpected acquaintance ends with violent sex.
In some cases, explaining why girls love to be spanked is easy. Such manipulations really turn men on. They feel like real males, completely subjugating a woman. From the awareness of their own superiority, representatives of the stronger sex are ready to surprise and delight their partner in bed.
For this reason, women pretend that they like such manipulations. Although most often a girl gets truly excited by the touch of a huge man’s palm on her ass. Some people are attracted to light spankings, while others have to come up with a vulgar punishment for the girl in full.
But regardless of the strength of the impact, ladies get turned on by the knowledge that these actions excite their loved one.
With a loved man
If the partners have been together for a long time, then in the vast majority of cases, spanking the butt not even during sex will be appropriate, and no double interpretation will follow. By the way, a great foreplay can begin with spanking! You can find other options for foreplay in the article “How to seduce a girl for sex.”
Why do girls love to have their butts spanked?
For a guy, a slap on the buttocks is a manifestation of attention to a particular woman, a hint that he is not averse to moving the relationship to a horizontal plane, and also an indicator of dominance. Every man likes to put his palm on his lady's buttocks from time to time. But why do girls like spankings on the butt? Science has three explanations:
A man's frank desire.
People are not far removed from the animal world in terms of instincts. For any mammal, the strongest aphrodisiac is the desire of a male or female to have sex. When a man spanks a woman on the butt, she perceives this as a desire to have sexual intercourse and willingly becomes aroused herself. Of course, this only happens if there is a sufficient level of intimacy with the partner.
Fear and sense of danger.
The human brain is designed in such a way that the centers of pain and pleasure are nearby. Therefore, many girls are seriously aroused by spanking, as well as grabbing by the hair, light strangulation or wringing of hands behind the back during sex. The main rule is to use brute force more carefully. More details about this can be found in the article “What Women Want in Bed.”
Between affection and humiliation.
If a girl was physically abused as a child, she may unconsciously choose men who are similar to her aggressor as sexual partners.
Additional Tips
- Spank so that your palm is parallel to your butt. This is what will help you make sharp blows and will greatly excite your partner. After you spank, try to immediately remove your palm from your buttock.
- Once you see your girlfriend's bottom turning red, that means you can increase the strength of the spanking. Redness of the buttocks means that the muscles are warmed up, which means you can increase your strength without fear of hurting your partner.
- Try to spank rhythmically. If you perform the same spanks, your blows will become predictable for the girl, the girl will know what to expect, which means she will no longer be so interested. If you try to spank rhythmically, with different strength and speed, then she will get maximum pleasure from this unpredictability.
- You can try the technique of combining spanking with stroking. Show your imagination and don't forget that you have two hands. With one hand you can spank your partner, and with the other hand you can put on a condom, or stimulate her clitoris, or gently grab her hair. You can spank, then gently stroke the girl's buttocks for a couple of minutes, then do a few rough spanks again. Experiment.
- If you want to try spanking your partner with a belt, we recommend that you first try the force of the blows on yourself. It is important to feel the line where the girl will still be pleased, and what line she should not cross, because it will only hurt.
It is imperative that this process brings pleasure to both participants in the process. In order for spanking to bring maximum pleasure to both partners, it is advisable to do it in the appropriate mood. In addition, during such sex games, you can use additional dirty words, which will only warm up the atmosphere. You don’t have to practice spanking during every sex, do it the way you and your girlfriend like it.
Why do guys like to spank girls' butts?
For guys, the love for a woman’s “fifth point” is embedded in the subcortex of the brain. Spanking and, in general, aggression in its sexual manifestation are part of the biological program. To be convinced of this, just watch how animals mate. And other psychological reasons why guys spank girls on the butt lie in:
The desire to dominate.
In the modern world, women and men often change roles. But you can’t go against nature; the male must remain dominant in the pair. Not knowing how to show his masculinity, the guy spanks his partner on the buttocks and gets truly animal pleasure from it.
Hidden need to use force.
A man wants to use brute force on a woman, but cannot do this, due to the moral norms existing in society.
Understanding how sexy and fertile a woman is.
At the subconscious level, a rounded and firm butt is perceived by guys as an indicator that the girl has good genes and a high level of sexual activity. Such a woman can become the mother of his children, and will definitely be good at sex.
Now you know everything about how to properly spank the butt to excite you, and you can put your knowledge into practice.
The most important thing is not to rely only on your own instincts and not to justify your behavior with them. Men, before placing their palm on a pretty woman’s butt, need to ask themselves: will she really appreciate this way of showing attention? Spanking is a bright, but far from the only way to flirt. In the articles in the “Love and Sex” section on Pavel Rakov’s official website, guys and girls will find hundreds more effective ways to show attention to their partner.
About the reaction
For everything to go well, it is important to monitor your partner’s reaction. You need to see whether she likes what is happening or not. If you hear squeaking or giggling, you need to increase the pressure. If the “victim” dodges, this is the norm.
You need to hit the lower part of the buttocks, you can hit the thighs, but you shouldn’t hit higher, in the area of the kidneys. It would be too much.
Under no circumstances should you “stick” your hand. This is a fairly common mistake among men - when they hit the buttock, for some reason they hold their hand on it. The hand should bounce off it, as if it were being struck with a whip.
There is no need to spank all the time - you need to give the “victim” time to rest. It's important for her to take a breath. In addition, it provokes anticipation, which will make the process more enjoyable. But don’t delay – pauses should be short. It is best to give 5 spanks, and then stroke and massage the buttocks, you can penetrate between them with your fingers.
Nothing turns you on more at this moment than dirty talk. For example, the “top” can praise the “victim” for his patience, or even better, remind him why the “victim” gets it. It is best if this is not a real offense, but a game situation. Alternatively, you can say: “Did you understand everything?” It is important that the questions do not require detailed answers from the “victim”.
