20 quotes from famous psychologists that will help you understand yourself

Psychologists are extremely interesting people by nature. They choose such a profession not out of necessity, but rather at the call of their heart. In addition, once you start studying psychology, it’s difficult not to analyze the people around you on a subconscious level. Do they have problems with their family, are they happy, in love, and what secrets does their personality hide - all this is clear to them.

That’s why famous psychologists often speak out about all these aspects. They can give unobtrusive advice, or simply voice their opinion, but any information from their side is quite useful for ordinary people. The best quotes are listed below.

About love

A woman knows the meaning of love, and a man knows its price.
Evgeny Ilyin. Love begins to manifest itself only when we love those whom we cannot use for our own purposes. Erich Fromm.

Anyone who wants to be loved must know that love is attracted only by love. Luule Viilma.

Love exists when the satisfaction and security of another person becomes as important as one's own satisfaction and security. Harry Sullivan.

Love inevitably enriches the one who loves. Victor Frankl.

Where love reigns, there is no will to power. Carl Jung.

Love is an internal state that allows you to see life in a more attractive light. Laura Day.

Love penetrates far beyond the physical essence of a loved one. Victor Frankl.

Love is the fullest and most noble of all relationships and includes the best of all other relationships: respect, admiration, passion, friendship and intimacy. E. Bern.

Love is the only way to understand another human being in the full depth of his personality. Victor Frankl.

A huge number of people suffer from unrequited self-love. Karl Menninger.

If an individual loves only one person and is indifferent to others, his love is not love, but a symbiotic attachment or an overgrown narcissism. Erich Fromm.

If one of the partners refuses his share of pressure and aggressiveness, the other is forced to take on a double burden. Robin Skinner.

Love is the most proven way to overcome shame. Sigmund Freud.

Erich Fromm, one of the founders of neo-Freudianism

  1. Love is an active action, not a passive acceptance. This is “standing in...”, not “falling somewhere.” In its most general form, the active nature of love can be described by the statement that love means primarily to give, and not to receive.
  2. The character of a child is a copy of the character of the parents; it develops in response to their character.
  3. If I love another person, I feel oneness with him, but with him as he is, and not as I would like him to be.
  4. True love is an expression of creativity and involves caring, respect, responsibility and knowledge. This is not affect, in the sense of being subject to someone’s influence, but an active struggle for the development and happiness of a loved one, coming from the very ability to love.
  5. Faith in life, in oneself, in others must be built on a solid foundation of realism, so to speak, on the ability to see evil wherever it is, to see fraud, destructiveness and selfishness not only where they are obvious, but also under many masks and in various modifications. Indeed, faith, love and hope must go hand in hand with such a passion to see reality in all its nakedness that an outsider would be inclined to call it “cynicism.”

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About life

A satisfied person solves the task, but he does not turn the task into a problem. Max Luscher.

Anyone who has only a hammer as a tool tends to look at any problem as if it were a nail. Abraham Maslow.

Joy comes into our lives when we have something to do; have someone to love; and there is something to hope for. Victor Frankl.

Every normal person is actually only partly normal. Sigmund Freud.

Each accusation is autobiographical. Carl Whitaker.

By changing our thoughts, we can change our lives. Victor Frankl.

Everything that irritates others can lead to understanding oneself. Carl Jung.

You can only truly understand what you try to change. Erich Fromm.

The presence of anxiety indicates vitality. Rollo May.

The task of making a person happy was not part of the plan for the creation of the world. Sigmund Freud.

Every person is a creator, for he creates something from various innate factors and capabilities. Alfred Adler.

The essence of the world is not comprehended from the first onslaught, as naive realism thinks; Only through endless work do we get closer to this goal. Oswald Külpe.

Most of what is real within us is not realized, and most of what is realized is unreal. Sigmund Freud.

If you wear a mask long enough, it will become a face. Stephen Fry.

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Oh happiness

Comprehension of oneself is not only an interesting process, but also one that gives happiness. Luule Viilma.

Happiness is an ideal not of reason, but of imagination. Immanuel Kant.

Happiness is the experience of being full of being, not an emptiness that needs to be filled. E. Fromm.

Learning to find joy in life is the best way to attract happiness. Hong Zichen.

There is no happiness equal to peace. Buddha.

There is only one path to happiness: overcoming worry about what we cannot change. Epictetus.

Only making your childhood dreams come true can bring happiness. Sigmund Freud.

Choose a friend for yourself, you cannot be happy alone: ​​happiness is a matter of two. Pythagoras.

A man’s happiness is called “I want.” A woman’s happiness is “He wants.” Friedrich Nietzsche.

Where there is no desire for happiness, there is no desire at all. The pursuit of happiness is the pursuit of aspirations. Ludwig Andreas Feuerbach.

The desire for happiness is innate to man, so it should be the basis of all morality. Friedrich Engels.

Happiness strives to be “legitimate.” Max Weber.

To enjoy happiness is the greatest good; to be able to give it to others is even greater. Francis Bacon.

Happiness is not an easy thing: it is difficult to find within yourself and it is not easy to find outside of yourself. Nicola Sebastian Chamfort.

Happiness is like a butterfly. The more you catch it, the more it slips away. But if you shift your attention to other things, happiness will come and sit quietly on your shoulder. Victor Frankl.

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Smart psychological statuses (100 quotes)

Nowadays, more and more people are delving into the study of psychology, because the further society develops, the more it uses manipulation skills. Advertising signs attract customers with colorful images, online advertisements invite people to take courses in various disciplines. And people need to understand all this and be sure to show others that they certainly cannot be deceived, especially on social networks. This section contains smart psychological statuses.

The main thing in life is to find yourself, yours and yours.

I explore and detail the temperature conditions and amenities of the territorial water area of ​​the home bath.

Be honest even when alone with yourself. Honesty makes a person whole. When a person thinks, says and does the same thing, his strength triples.

In whom there is no truth, there is little good.

Cry into your vest with a family psychologist, so as not to burst into laughter soon with a psychiatrist.

Love is a pretext and a reason to live, enjoying the sunrise and every day.

With lost love, the meaning of existence disappeared.

In our youth we look for a beautiful body, over the years we look for our soul mate.

What matters is what a person does, not what he wanted to do.

Everything in this life comes back like a boomerang, no doubt about it.

Daily moral trauma when I cross the threshold of the third school.

Psychological balance depends on eight lucky people whom I have to hug, or one loser who is destined by fate to get punched in the hard chin.

All obstacles and difficulties are steps along which we grow upward.

Everyone knows how to love, because they receive this gift at birth.

Everything you pay attention to grows.

Everything that a person thinks he says about others, he actually says about himself.

When I stupidly try in vain to object to a woman, I remember the dentist. Always expensive - sometimes painful and unpleasant.

When the mirror makes funny faces, trying to object to you, it’s time to think about a visit to a psychotherapist.

When you enter the same water twice, do not forget what caused you to leave the first time.

You think this is just another day in your life. This is not just another day, it is the very only day that is given to you today.

It is not only the servants of psychiatry who heal human souls: psychologists and psychiatrists. Sometimes heroin and cocaine sellers consider themselves masters of souls.

The statistics are inexorable - men go into eternity before women, because of the habit of ladies to be late, even on their last journey to the cemetery.

Get out of the orbit of time and enter the orbit of love.

Even imperfections can be liked if the soul is manifested in them.

Even an intelligent person will become stupid if he does not improve himself.

Some people consider alcohol to be their friend, sometimes a news service or an emergency psychological aid room.

You have to live your life in such a way that everyone up there goes nuts and says: “Come on, repeat it!”

Don't kill mosquitoes! Your blood flows in them!

Give us the strength to comfort and not to be comforted; to understand, not to be understood; to love, not to be loved. For when we give, we receive. And by forgiving, we gain forgiveness for ourselves.

Moving along the road of life, you yourself create your universe.

Motto of the day: I'm doing well, but it will be even better!

To give birth to an idea, you don’t have to fuck your brains!

If I want it, it will come true.

To avoid stepping on the rake a second time, attach an ax to its handle)

There are those for whom even a Snickers can’t help...

There is nothing more precious than your soul in the world.

If there is aggression inside, life will “attack” you.

If you have the desire to fight inside, you will get rivals.

Love is the most wonderful feeling in the world,

I am a creative person: I want - I create, I want - I create

In what year were you born? In what month? What date?... And what the hell?

If you are offended inside, life will give you reasons to be offended even more.

If you have fear inside, life will scare you.

If I feel bad, then this is not a reason to cause suffering to others.

If you ever want to find a person who can overcome any, even the most severe, adversity and make you happy when no one else can, just look in the mirror and say “Hello.”

I do not care what you think of me. I do not think about you at all!

She loves to dream and talk about it out loud, she makes elephants out of very small flies

Sometimes I look at this world and I really want to scream: “ahh, dudes! let's get out of here!”

If you don't like something, change it. If you don't have enough time, stop staring at the TV.

If you are looking for the Love of your life, stop. She will find you when you do only what you love. Open your head, hands and heart to something new. Don't be afraid to ask. And don't be afraid to answer. Don't be afraid to share your dream. Many opportunities only appear once. Life is about the people on your path and what you create with them. So start creating. Life is very fast. It's time to start.

If you are moving in the right direction, you will feel it in your heart.

If you light a candle for someone, it will light your path too.

A woman needs only one thing to be happy... but new every day!

Only joint activities of idiocy can indicate true spiritual and emotional intimacy

A woman is given the intelligence to hide her character...

If you want good, kind people to be around you, try to treat them attentively, kindly, politely - you will see that everyone will become better. Everything in life depends on you, believe me.

If a person wants, he will put a mountain on a mountain

Life is an eternal movement, constant renewal and development, from generation to generation, from infancy to wisdom, the movement of mind and consciousness.

I fucking love listening to lies, looking them in the eye... Especially when I know the truth...

I'm blonde - everything that's not purple is pink to me

Life sees you as you are from the inside.

Often a person who fails learns more about how to win than someone who succeeds immediately.

Take care men! They are suffering! Sometimes it’s a lack of attention, sometimes it’s too much, and most often it’s BULLSHIT!!!

There are a couple of mowers in our pocket, we are positive, there are many of us, we are reckless, drunk and immodest.

Anger is the most useless of emotions. Destroys the brain and harms the heart.

I hardly know any evil people. One day I met one whom I was afraid of and thought was evil; but when I looked at him more closely, he was only unhappy.

And all this with one goal to show you what you are, what you carry in your soul.

Every time you want to react in the same old way, ask yourself whether you want to be a prisoner of the past or a pioneer of the future.

I must have gone crazy, I must have gotten it! When did it happen like this? And my cheerful laughter disappeared! Love has come, unexpected love, but you are not next to me!

Good always triumphs over evil; That means whoever wins is good.

If a person is bitten by a vampire, he becomes a vampire. It feels like so many people around were bitten by sheep...

Everyone is a star and deserves the right to shine.

Whatever your problem, its cause lies in your thinking pattern, and any pattern can be changed.

When you don’t know what to do, act like a human being.

Without you, the house never runs out of sausage...

They don't spend as long in prison as you do on the Internet.

I urge you to protect and appreciate

When you left me, I renamed you to NOBODY on my phone, but it’s a pity that you can’t do this with your heart...

Any difficulty gives wisdom.

Any kind of relationship is like sand that you hold in your hand. Hold it freely, in an open hand, and the sand remains in it. The moment you squeeze your hand tightly, sand will begin to pour out through your fingers. This way you can retain some sand, but most of it will spill out.

The measure of mental health is the willingness to find good in everything.

The world is full of clues, be attentive to the signs.

Talking a lot and saying a lot are not the same thing.

Get up bunny, it's time for your exam! – Today I’m a fish, I don’t have legs, and I’m not going anywhere!!!

Where nature is to blame, cotton wool will always help...

Never be afraid to do what you don't know how to do. Remember: The Ark was built by an amateur. Professionals built the Titanic

A cactus is a cucumber deeply disappointed in life.

We do not see everything as it is - we see everything as we are.

Think positively, if it doesn’t work out positively, it’s not a thought.

Find quiet peace in your head and love in your heart. And no matter what happens around you, don't let anything change these two things.

Not all of ours lead to positive changes in our lives, but we certainly cannot achieve happiness without doing anything.

Due to the disappearance of soap, video cameras have been installed in women's baths.

Are you out and about, darling? go for a walk... no one is holding you by the horns...

I dream of becoming a boomerang: they throw you, and you throw it back in their face.

A cigarette takes 4 minutes. from life, 100 g of vodka 8 minutes, and a lesson at school takes 45 minutes.

Don't let the noise of other people's opinions drown out your inner voice. Have the courage to follow your heart and intuition.

Don't turn your book of life into a lament.

An invisible red thread connects those who are destined to meet, despite the time, place and circumstances. The thread may stretch or tangle, but it will never break.

You can't give away what you don't have. You can't make other people happy if you yourself are unhappy.

You can't beat someone who doesn't give up.

About personality

People sometimes say about a person, “He hasn’t found himself yet.” But they don’t find themselves, they create them. Thomas Sass.

The desire to always be good turns a person not into an ethical giant, but into a self-satisfied pedant. Rollo May.

To know people, you need to forgive them the prejudices of their time. Charles Louis Montesquieu.

Having a specific goal, a person feels able to overcome any problems, since his future success lives within him. Alfred Adler.

We are what we ourselves have instilled about ourselves and what others have instilled in us about us. Erich Fromm.

Meeting yourself is one of the most unpleasant. Carl Gustav Jung.

To be at peace with oneself, a person must be what he can be. Abraham Maslow.

Brilliant thinkers are even rarer than somnambulists. Franz Brentano.

You can protect yourself from grief only by completely removing yourself from life, and therefore from the ability to experience joy. Erich Fromm.

Inside every person there continues to be a frightened, apprehensive child who fervently desires to be loved. Sandor Ferenczi.

Our psyche often uses depression to get our attention and indicate to us that there is a lie hidden somewhere deep within us. James Hollis.

You can decorate yourself with other people's feathers, but you cannot fly with them. Lucian Blaga.

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