What men like during intimacy: appearance, behavior

Sex is the most pleasant of sensual pleasures that a person can understand and appreciate, and in addition receive pleasure from the process. Inexperienced girls often have a misunderstanding of what men like during intimacy. But there is nothing complicated here. Every touch of a woman's delicate skin, passion, the ability to listen to the needs of a partner - this is not all that men like during sex. In order for a guy’s eyes to sparkle at the sight of his lady, you need to constantly fuel excitement and desire in him.

How to keep your partner's attention for a long time

It is impossible to know 100% what a man likes in intimacy with the woman he loves. First of all, he is attracted by an aesthetically attractive object.

It's no secret that men want and love with their eyes, and think about sex more often than food. Like a lion on the hunt, he first watches his prey, evaluates its gestures, manner of movement, and catches its gaze. The girl sends signs to the lion about her readiness to be caught, but not on the dinner table, but in bed.

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What to do when you catch each other

It’s important not to give up right away. The phrase “Take me, I’m all yours” is not at all suitable as an answer to the question of how to please a worthy man in bed. Continue the game you started until you remember all the sheets or the neighbors start knocking on the wall asking for silence. The game has simple rules:

Do everything slowly. Move smoothly, undress slowly. With nudity it is especially important! Show the body in parts. Let the man figure out what will happen next. His wild imagination plays into the hands of any woman. Leave a little mystery. This is the only thing that men like most about sex.
Keep moving. Who would be interested in lifeless prey in their teeth? The hunter's instinct must play in him until the last orgasm. The female body is not only beautiful, but also very plastic, gentle, in contrast to the rough male body. This is why a guy needs a girl. He doesn’t have such gentle and graceful hands or the arch of his back.
Show interest and initiative in moderation. Guys love independent women, but let him lead too. Don't turn the hunter into the prey. There are not many men around who prefer female domination. You can suggest changing the position or paying attention to his prominent parts of the body - this is what every man likes in sex.
Sound effects. They say that women love with their ears, and men with their eyes. But there is an exception to this rule - guys also like compliments. Moans, whispers, quiet requests to do a woman good are the best reward and what any man likes in bed. It's like a gold medal for his efforts. You don't have to constantly praise his shoulders or the size of his penis. To please a man, it is enough to mention the merits of your appearance a couple of times.

When you ask him what will give him pleasure, and then tell him where he needs to stroke the girl to make her feel good, a strong stimulating effect will be triggered, which will exceed the effect of aphrodisiacs in power.

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Avoid monotony

Sometimes it’s easy for a man to lose interest in sex, because everything about it turns out to be monotonous. By the way, such a fastidious zodiac sign as Scorpio is especially prone to this. What to do and how to please a Scorpio man in sex? First of all, you need to take control of the situation and do something that will catch him off guard. Here are some tips, but you can fantasize endlessly:

Invite your man to take a bath with you. If you haven't done this before, this would be a great idea. This simple method can easily awaken his senses and give him pleasure like never before. He may end up asking you to have sex right after the bath or while in the bath.
There are no rules to only have sex in the bedroom. Why don't you change your scenery? Why not sit down with your man on the floor, on an armchair or on the sofa? Have you ever tried to seduce your partner on the kitchen table?
Perhaps your partner lost interest in sex because you always dressed the same, and he got tired of it? Chances are that he will appreciate your sex suit that you buy especially for him.

The environment as an element of a successful process

“Lights, camera, motor!” It's not necessary to turn your bedroom into an erotic film shoot, but a few little things to create a stimulating environment won't hurt.

Let's return to the idea - men love with their eyes in sex. What if there are two girls? One in his hands, and the other in the reflection of the mirror? It has been proven that the presence of a mirror in a room increases the interest of both boys and girls. It’s even more interesting to watch the process from the outside, so it’s worth leaving the light on. But there should be little of it. Two or three thin rays from the next room, a night light, candles or the blue glow of the TV are enough.

Men like to look at feminine grace in bed, every curve of the body and swaying breasts. I would like to add: “Bon appetit!” While he eats the girl with his eyes, she can get more time for pleasure.

Kegel exercises

For many women around the world, exercises are already on par with the usual gymnastics. The technique was invented in the 20th century by gynecologist Arnold Kegel, who explained why and how to perform the exercises.

The Kegel technique helps women strengthen their pelvic floor muscles, tone them, and learn to feel. They are prescribed to pregnant women, women after childbirth, when the tissues have lost their elasticity, also for the prevention and treatment of the pelvic organs and, most importantly, to maintain sexual health and improve intimate life. They can be performed in any place and position.

To feel the muscles, you need to try to hold urination. When you understand where they are, try to gradually reduce them, holding them for 5-10 seconds. There are different variations of the exercises, they should be pumped daily.

Trained intimate muscles will not only enhance your sensations during sex, but will also help you control your own orgasm.

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How to serve the “dish”

The stronger sex loves thin straps, elegant lace, and panties that hide nothing. Our grandmothers knew how to please a guy. Guys love fabric pieces that make no sense at all. A naked girl right away is like a book without a cover and with empty pages, although women will never understand this. Here you just need to go to the store for new underwear, stockings, a transparent dress, and while shopping, don’t think about why spend money on things that will still be taken off in 5 minutes.

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Stop thinking all the time

How hard it is to get rid of thoughts during sex. After all, at the most interesting part, “borscht” comes up, “unsubmitted report”, “the children will come in now”, “when will all this end”. Remember that whatever our thoughts are, we can tame them and direct them in the right direction. These are our thoughts, which means we create them ourselves. And we ourselves can manage them - include those we need, those that we ourselves want. Psychologist, sexologist of the reality “Exy” (New Channel) Natalia Ezhova shares five ways to tame your thoughts.

Let's meditate.

“It helps to calm down, slow down the train of thought,” says the sexologist. – And when thoughts are slow, they can be controlled. Like driving, when a car is too fast it can become uncontrollable.

We train ourselves to think about sex during sex.

“This is also called being in the moment,” says Natalia. – When we write a report, think about the report. When we have sex, think about sex. It is impossible to do two things well at the same time.

We turn on our senses, they help us experience sex.

“We look at the color of the thigh, smell the partner behind the ear, touch hands, we can lick where we want,” the sexologist recommends. – Set it to “on.” to all five senses.

We prepare in advance what we will think about during sex.

“Preferably about what excites you,” explains Natalia. -We train before this. The more detailed we describe the picture we want to see, the clearer it will be. This thought is also called fantasy. Close your eyes, turn on your fantasy record and enjoy.

We train our focus.

“Now it’s so easy to lose our focus due to the multitude of stimuli and information,” says the psychologist. – We do an exercise to learn how to focus on what we need. Let's turn on the music. If you have children, great, let them also be a distraction. We count the words in the book for three minutes. The task is not to get distracted and count the words correctly. We don’t use a finger or a ruler, we follow only with our eyes. Interesting in learning, interesting in the bedroom. We develop our ability to keep our focus on pleasure during sex.

Take off your underwear yourself

You need to get rid of clothes slowly. A light dance, in the process the bra straps are lowered, a couple of reflections of candles fall on the body and make it even more attractive - this is what men like in intimacy with a woman. Such lively pictures will drive anyone crazy. Smile, and as often as possible. A smile on a woman’s face is a red rag to a bull. The girl may not be wearing beautiful lingerie, but a flirting half-smile must always be present.

This rule is especially true for a boss lady who is used to leading people with a straight face. Don't take your boss look into your bedroom. Unless, of course, this is a planned role-playing game.

Common mistakes women make in bed

Here the men also showed an enviable unity of opinions.

Rating of the most unpleasant female bed habits:

pour plenty of creams and perfumes;
be shy about naked bodies;
roughly touch intimate areas;
touch the body with cold hands;
being silent or expressing emotions too loudly, especially above the ear;
lisp, use diminutive epithets;
wear old, ugly underwear;
dynamite (it’s better to honestly admit that you shouldn’t count on sex in the coming days);
to be uptight and conservative.

The stronger sex is not as picky as the weaker sex. They are more loyal to many things, they are ready to ignore the hair on their legs and pimples. But manipulation of intimate activities is not tolerated. Many people are disheartened by the refusal of oral pleasures.

Why should you try?

Girls are always interested in knowing what men want from sex. The same as them! Exciting play, pleasure, touch, sensation, pleasant body odor and, of course, orgasm. Then guys need complete relaxation, comfort and warmth from their partner.

Sex is the most enjoyable game with a whole Talmud of rules that each individual couple writes for themselves. Not a single board game has such an opportunity, but in sex and relationships between a man and a woman there is. It's like an adventure into the unknown depths of your partner's desires, like Indiana Jones, but within the confines of the bedroom.

During a survey of men, it turned out that in the process it is important for them to please a woman. If the girl feels good, then the guy will like it in bed.

Summarizing

Just use your imagination and experiment until you start getting the results you want. The amazing secrets to please your husband in bed mentioned above give you an idea of how to sexually satisfy and interest him.

With a little ingenuity and imagination, you can change the perception of sex from just ordinary to amazing pleasure. All you need to remember is that seduction and sex begin in our minds long before bed. If you master this lesson perfectly, you will be able to constantly impress your man and get sexual satisfaction from it.

Guys can feel bad during sex

A woman can bring a man, if not to a heart attack, then to the fall of the Leaning Tower of Pisa if she makes the most common mistakes:

Lies like Pinocchio or a sleeping beauty in the middle of the bed.
She makes a frightened face, as if there is a maniac near her.
Silent.
She tugs at his dignity like a doorknob.
Uses obscene language.
Screams like her leg is being cut off
She drags the man to bed.

When the work on the mistakes has been done, all the little things in behavior have been polished, you can move on to maintaining a man’s long-term interest in sex with one partner.

Oral pleasure

Oral sex is the best and guaranteed sexual pleasure for your man. One of the main factors influencing male satisfaction is oral sex. It can be used as foreplay in sex or as a separate sexual act.

So, how can you please your husband? In Islam or any other faith, nothing can stop you from following the following advice:

You can focus on working on the entire penis, but it will be less sensitive than the pleasure your partner will get from stimulating just the head.
When performing oral sex, be sure to use a lot of saliva. This will stimulate the penis in the right direction and it will be more sensual.

How to pamper a man during sex

Imagine the expression on a girl’s face from a sudden bouquet, chocolate or the phrase: “Darling! I bought tickets to Italy for two days. Get ready!” It's just that guys are pleased with other spontaneous and no less pleasant little things in life. To do this, you don’t need to go to the garage at night and rebuild the car’s engine or change the oil to surprise him. It’s enough to stand in the middle of the park, put your hand on his thigh and gently whisper: “See that swing over there? It's dark and deserted. Lets play?". If you add a playful smile to the proposal, he will understand that we are not talking about building sand castles.

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When a girl is not yet ready for such radical games outside the bedroom, you can start with light coquetry on a 24-hour basis. This works especially well through private messages.

Throughout the day, indulge your partner with dirty jokes, naughty mentions of your sexual fantasies for the evening, or a photo of yourself in your underwear. And when you get back to bed, surprise your man with new techniques for achieving pleasure.

Self-improvement in sex will be appreciated. Fortunately, there is the Internet and a huge variety of intimate videos. For example, read up on the anatomy of the penis. This will help improve your oral sex skills. It is useful for a woman to know about massaging the male genital organ with her hands, what to do with her tongue, and what sensitive points to press on.

Your male friends can be an additional source of information. Ask them what kind of sex most men like.

Against the backdrop of eternal attempts to build a stable life (apartment, house, income, etc.), variety in sex will make a man’s life brighter. Then he will not need to run around in search of fresh sensations from one woman to another, since his regular partner will regularly give out something new.

Where to start with spontaneity

“Company, get up!” the man’s brain screams in the morning, like a commander in the army. The blood has already flowed through the pipes, but the brain continues to sleep. Early erection has long been no secret for girls who have undergone the practice of morning harassment. But a woman more often wants to sleep more or is afraid about her appearance, sleepy eyes. This list of women's problems can be continued endlessly. The only nuance that girls forget is that a man’s brain is not yet ready to think and evaluate his partner.

If you step over your own fears, the end result is a man happy with life, who likes everything about sex with his partner, including coffee in bed.

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Enjoy yourself

Who said sex can't be fun? There are many different positions for this. And in order to learn how to please a man, you need to be innovative and try to create fun in what you do. Not only will your partner be pleased with your efforts, but you will also enjoy some intimate moments.

Do you want to know how to please your husband when everything is wrong and make your games in bed more fun? Then read on:

Try to find positions that are unusual for you. You don't know which ones will work and which ones won't, so experiment. There may be times when strange noises are heard during sex, which will add extra excitement to you and your partner.
Start a small but healthy competition between you and your man. Maybe you can challenge each other for the time it takes to reach your orgasms. For example, whoever reaches orgasm first wins and receives a prize.

Age is not a barrier in sex

At the age of 25-30, while young blood is boiling and strength is enough for experiments, guys want more sex. What young guys like about sex is the desire for everything new, the desire to conquer peaks, to take in quantity. Everything here is like in sports. The quality of sex is only getting better.

At the age of 30-35, requests appear, a vision of the situation is formed, but the needs for quantity remain the same as at 25. The soul requires new impressions, but a more experienced approach to business is acquired.

At 35-45 years old, sex is like flying in business class on a private jet. The route is carefully planned, the flight attendants bring the best drinks, a top-class pilot is at the helm and is ready to take you to seventh heaven. Here every step is checked and both partners know what they like in sex, how to use it and how much time they need to spend in bed before they completely fly away.

At 45-55 years old, time plays a major role. Clear and precise movements. Quality and movements have been proven over the years. All the most pleasant places have long been marked on a map, which is imprinted in the head and memorized.

There are no age restrictions in sex, but there are strict taboos. A woman must remember three golden rules:

Poor hygiene harms the female body and will sink the Titanic of love in the first 5 minutes of erotic games. A girl should smell nice. It is advisable to maintain your natural body odor. A guy should remember a girl for who she is. If the smell is hidden under a ton of aromatic additives, then how will it then “recognize you from a thousand”?
Inaction in bed is akin to voluntary hanging. If you don't know what to do, then it's better to ask your partner or pretend that you are playing a role-playing game. Let the man himself tell where the girl should stand, how to bend over, what to do with her hands. If he doesn’t speak, the key will be constant smooth movement. Imagine your favorite melody in your head or turn it on in reality and move smoothly. If you don’t like something, then change the position yourself, but do not criticize the man.
Falsehood, lies, flattery, imitation are mortal sins, not only in sex, but in life too. If people were constantly told what they want to hear, then society would stop developing. This does not mean that you need to say the first thought you come across. But flattering compliments will cause harm to the relationship. The partner becomes arrogant about his skills. As a result, the woman will suffer, forced to forever endure the monotony and scarcity of technology.

Sex is an exciting game without boundaries. It may seem like there are a lot of rules, but this is a misconception. It’s worth remembering them once and constantly practicing them, then sex will become magical, and unnecessary anxieties will go away. The guy will really like this, and the woman will drown in attention from her regular partner.

Tell and then show her that you know what she likes

There's nothing sexier than being an attentive listener. If you're going to be a legendary lover, you'll have to constantly turn her head and make her feel like you're doing exactly what she wants before she even knows she wants it. How can you do this? Either you will have to learn to read minds, or learn to listen to what she likes and remember it for the future. This will make your significant other feel your dedication and attention during communication.

Advanced tip : If you can, try placing a pillow under your lower back to improve the angle of penetration. Even though this doesn't work for everyone, it might work for your lady.