60 original ways to surprise a girl: on the first date and in correspondence

If the relationship has already reached the official stage and everything is very serious for you, then this does not mean at all that you need to forget about all those pleasant little things that happened during the candy-bouquet period.

On the contrary, it is worth learning something new so that your feelings do not lose their novelty. And if you don’t know how to please your girlfriend and surprise her so that she will be grateful to you, then there are some wonderful ideas that you can follow.

The best ideas: how to surprise any girl

The girls are both similar and different from each other at the same time. Each of them has manifestations of attention that bring maximum pleasure - just like guys. But there is also something that everyone loves - if you decide to organize something on my list, you definitely won’t go wrong and will please her. And to be surprised, it’s enough to add an element of surprise and not warn her about anything.

The girl is surprised in the right way when she receives an unexpected, but certainly pleasant sign of attention. If your relationship is already established and within a certain framework, if you already have habits and traditions, the field for creativity will be wide.

Here is a small universal list of what to do to make a girl surprised:

Do something you refused to do before.
Help with something where she is not waiting for your help.
Fulfill an old, forgotten promise.
Save her: solve a problem that she is struggling with and cannot cope with on her own. Before she asks for help.
Add romance to your everyday life: a night walk, a great dinner, going to the theater, a picnic - whatever.
Show concern for no reason: bring her coffee to work, clean the house yourself, buy or do something for her that will make her life easier. Here, even a hanging shelf or headphones bought to replace broken ones will do - mere little things that make life better.
Provide relaxation: go bowling with friends, go to the spa, or just go to nature for the weekend.
Give an unexpected, non-obvious compliment: praise something that the girl is not used to noting about herself.

How to impress a girl on the first date

It’s doubly pleasant to please a girl when you meet her - you’ll see her reaction. And the first date is a great occasion. Just first choose a good place that she will definitely like. Any pleasant surprise will be in place here, but you will have to prepare a little in advance.

Dress unusually and stylishly. Don’t repeat the exalting stylistic tricks of Philip Kirkorov, but dilute the look with interesting accessories or pick up a T-shirt with a provocative slogan. Preferably not about politics, in English, and not from a joke shop.
Change the program on the fly: say that you wanted to take them to a cafe, but there is a more interesting idea. Think about this idea in advance, and make it really more interesting.
Ask a friend to hand you a bouquet of flowers when the girl's back is turned. Hand over the bouquet with a harmless smile and the phrase “I almost forgot,” as if everything was planned that way.
Take the girl to a picturesque place that few people know about. Let it not be a wasteland or an abandoned construction site: she will be surprised that you are behaving like a maniac, but this is not the surprise we are looking for.
If you go to a cafe, arrange to be served something from the exclusive menu. You can also pretend that you are making up a dish on the go - she will be pleasantly surprised at how you are treated in the establishment.

Run away from a cafe without paying

Deep down, every girl dreams of meeting a “bad guy.” A joint hooligan act that will not lead to harmful consequences can add an interesting mood to a date. To avoid any risk, the bill should be paid in advance while the girl goes to the toilet.

It’s better for the girl to admit that it was planned, but somehow later.

This trick is only good for one time. If you repeat something like this several times, the young lady will get scared and decide not to get involved with such a man.

How to surprise a girl in correspondence

Pleasantly surprising a girl in VK messages or on a dating site may seem like a difficult task, but in reality it is not.

There is less room for maneuver than with a personal meeting, but there are solutions here too:

Buy an advertisement that she will see in the feed or under a block of sections of the site - let this advertisement have her photo and a few pleasant words from you.
Record an audio message with a song, poem, or just beautiful words about her and your feelings. Voices help you perceive your interlocutor better, and the opportunity to let her listen to your voice in romantic matters is a definite plus.
Send a poem or a card you made yourself. The very fact that you thought about her, spent time and effort to please her is important.
Leave comments on her posts and photos - with compliments, poems and other manifestations of feelings.
Through personal messages, organize a quest or a game of charades, the solution to which will be an invitation to a date.

I’ll show you five examples of messages that will surprise a girl:

Intrigue with a secret: “There is a thing that I don’t tell anyone, but I’m ready to share with you. Do you want to know a big secret? Just promise not to tell anyone."
Start communicating in another language, if she speaks it too: “You were just perfect tonight. I fell in love with your bright eyes and charming smile"
Use “clairvoyance”: find out some small detail about her and her life in advance and show what you know. Let’s say she didn’t say that she has a cat, and you ask: “How is Marshmallow doing? Still as fluffy?”
Show up to others: send photos that aren't found anywhere of you doing something unusual. You lift weights if you mostly don't go to the gym, bungee jump if you seem quiet, sit in a serious meeting if you have a reputation as a carefree party animal. In a message to them, write: “You thought you already knew me well? There are still many surprises waiting for you :)"
Show off your intellect. When the opportunity arises, say something that not everyone knows. For example, when discussing dogs, say: “Did you know that your favorite Yorkshire terriers are more aggressive in character than pit bulls?”

Social networks and other joys6

The Internet helps not only to search for information and buy products, but also to maintain and maintain relationships.

Watch movies together;
Like and comment on her post on social media;
Create a social media post about it;
Send her things you think she'll like;
Create a music list just for her;
Take the online survey together and compare the results;
Create a joint photo album;
Send her a Snapchat.

What gift will surprise a girl: original ideas

A meaningful and valuable gift does not always mean expensive. You don’t have to run to the jewelry store and look for the prettiest ring that isn’t cheap. You don’t have to order a bouquet of 101 roses or take out a loan for the latest iPhone. These gifts are so typical that not every girl will be truly happy with them. This is given to everyone around, and it says less and less about real feelings, about the time spent and the attention shown to the girl.

A ticket to a concert of your favorite band risks making a bigger impression than the largest teddy bear in your city. I explain how to give a gift that she will appreciate and remember for a long time.

Here are examples of such gifts:

Something she has been dreaming about for a long time. The girl probably lets slip that she has been wanting it for a long time and can’t buy it for herself - and this is your trump card.
Something related to her hobby. Is she a gamer? Buy a game on Steam that she will definitely like (you can find one in the corresponding list). Dancing? Give clothes or shoes for training or a ticket to a master class from a skilled trainer. Does he like the theater? Find out when a really cool production is coming on and get tickets to it. Are you interested in photography? Pay for a master class or something technical.
Something related to your couple. With one of the affectionate nicknames, favorite places or adventures experienced together.
Something she needs and doesn't understand. From household tools to appliances.
Going to the spa together. Believe me: you both will like it.
A day of rest from everyday life: clean the apartment and take care of food.
Evening out with friends: Take them somewhere to have fun when she's not expecting it, but the evening isn't busy.
A ticket to a concert of your favorite artist.
Planned weekend trip.
A bouquet ordered for work with a sweet note. This, by the way, is a great way to entertain a girl from a distance and remind her of your feelings.

Care

A set of animal masks is perfect for a bachelorette party.
A set of creams may not be the most original, but it is a practical and necessary gift for any girl.
A facial massager is an indispensable thing that should be in any girl’s arsenal.
Black scrub is an interesting and unusual, as well as a very useful gift that will definitely please every woman.
A set of colored washcloths made from natural sponges - natural sponges pleasantly envelop the skin, cleansing the pores. The gift will definitely not go unused and unattended.
Body lotion with glitter is what it means to shine after a shower, perfect for going to a party or a date.
A cosmetic bag is a simple but very necessary thing that is always missing.
Gift set of cosmetics – there will be no extra cosmetics, in addition, gift sets always have everything you need.
Colored mascara is suitable for lovers of bright and memorable images.
A set of face glitter is a fashion trend that will make any girl happy.

Author: Anastasia Glukhikh

How to surprise a girl without money

You don't need to be rich to demonstrate attention, affection, and a desire to please. A reason for joy may not cost you anything if you approach the issue wisely.

Give her a massage. Everyone loves a massage!
Set up a home spa: fill a bath with foam and rose petals, decorate everything with candles, turn on relaxing music. Take care of her, massage her legs or neck.
Write a checkbook of your wishes for the year and hand it to her. She will be able to tear off the checks with the desired wishes when she needs them.
Make a cute homemade gift: from a card to a metal keychain or a soft toy - whatever you can create.
Clean the house perfectly and cook dinner - such a gift will never lose its value.
Bring her breakfast in bed.
Confess your love.
Take a walk through the forest or park with a thermos, or have a picnic.
Teach her something.
Help her solve a problem that she can’t cope with and doesn’t expect your help.

Plants

Moss is a great gift that will decorate any interior, and it does not require any maintenance.
Bonsai are smaller versions of large trees that live up to several hundred years. The plant looks very unusual and beautiful.
The Carnivorous Flower is an interesting plant with teeth that definitely doesn't look like an ordinary flower.
Eco-cube is a special device for growing smaller copies of some plants. It is very easy to use: you just need to pour the seeds into a cube with soil and water the resulting plant.
Homemade fruit tree - fruit trees always look interesting and beautiful, and when you can grow an orange or lemon at home, it is especially nice.
A florarium is a glass flask that creates its own ecosystem for plants. This gift looks futuristic and unusual.
A set of cacti are unpretentious plants that can stand on a windowsill and please the eye, and sometimes even bloom.
A compact smart garden is an excellent replacement for a large vegetable garden that will fit on the windowsill.
A rose in a flask is an exquisite gift that you won’t have to throw away after a week.
A set of mini violets - small flowers on the windowsill - what could be cuter?

Photo by Vinicius “amnx” Amano, unsplash

How nice it is to surprise your girlfriend every day

When a relationship has already been established, it often lacks emotions and experiences. It's easy to fall into a boring routine, and you have to make an effort to prevent this from happening. For regular surprises, you need to follow the girl’s life, know her hobbies, desires and problems. Speak kind words more often and about how beautiful she is. Surprises will remain surprises only if they relate to relevant, current events.

However, here are a few options to get you started:

Go to an amusement park. It's always emotion and adrenaline, and you'll be in a great mood.
Change something in the house: update the decor or furniture without agreeing in advance. But take into account the girl’s taste or use the help of her friends.
Bake a cake. If you are not a pastry chef, she clearly does not expect this and will be amazed.
Get an animal - even a hamster, even a dog, if resources and schedule allow. This greatly revitalizes relationships and brings new emotions into them.
Post stickers with nice words for her, changing them every few days.
Place small gifts and notes in her things so she finds them when she's not expecting them.
Organize a surprise party with all your friends. For this, by the way, you don’t need a reason.
Come sometimes to meet her from work or school - not every day, so that it remains a surprise, but from time to time.
Create quests to find gifts around the house: you will need a chain of notes in different places, the last of which will lead to a gift.
Organize themed days: watch relevant films, have conversations in tune with the theme and image of the day, and, if desired, dress up.
Keep going on dates even if you live together.
Set up a blind date and a secret date.
Fulfill her fantasies.

What can I write to her?4

Nobody notices such things at all, but they play a huge role in maintaining relationships.

Wish her good night and good morning;
Write to her what you like about her;
Ask her questions to learn as much as possible about her and become closer;
Playfully tease her;
Tell her jokes;
Send her corny pick-up lines to laugh together;

Send emoticons, stickers and funny pictures;
Play 20 questions;
Organize a date, even if you have been dating for a long time;
Write after the date that you had a great time;
Send her dirty sexy texts;