Ivan Vdovin
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There are people who are so charismatic, they know everything, they can support any topic of conversation. They are easy and comfortable. And you look at him and think how to become a sociable and interesting person? In fact, everything is not so difficult, but you will have to try if you want to become a truly interesting person and be liked by everyone. Read to the end, as usual, all the most interesting things are there.
How to become an interesting person?
What does it mean to be an interesting person? An interesting person is someone who is able to present information in a way that others would like. This could be humor, useful information that few people know, and competent speech. If we put all this together, we get a good and interesting person. Therefore, in this article we will understand. How to become an interesting person and let's try to learn how to become one.
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Humor
One of the characteristics of an interesting person is, of course, humor. Humor is a delicate matter and needs to be learned. It’s unlikely that you will be a humorous person if you yourself are depressed and constantly apathetic. To start practicing humor, just start watching funny programs and model the behavior of the presenters. In this regard, the “ProjectorParisHilton” program helped me. There are 4 people in the program and each has their own sense of humor, which was very interesting to watch.
Just watching and observing how people joke, our psyche tries on the behavior for itself. And if it can be integrated, it will begin to integrate. Then it’s a matter of small things, just communicating with people.
The next workout is a delirium generator. To learn how to level it up, read the article “How to Develop Charisma.” Therefore, there is no point in writing the same thing. I will say that the trick is very working, the brain is trained very well. I highly recommend it. What is it needed for? To build complex analogies in your head, this leads to the fact that it is easy to tell jokes.
There are also various courses on stagecraft; it also develops a sense of humor well if you take such courses.
In general, there is quite a bit of information about a sense of humor. But I can say that your sense of humor can be trained well this way if you get carried away with it a little. I recommend reading Bernard Werber’s book “The Laughter of the Cyclops.” This work clearly outlines what humor is, how it affects people and where it came from, as well as where jokes come from. I liked the book and recommend reading it.
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Possession of information
If you do not have information about the topic of conversation, then you will have nothing to say or tell. Therefore, usually an interesting person is one who develops and receives information from the outside and has an opinion on this matter.
I repeat once again, the more you develop your intellect, the higher the chance of having an interesting conversation, since there is a topic for conversation. Therefore, invest your free time in reading books and learning information.
Smile on your face
A smile on your face inspires trust and generally makes you feel good about your interlocutor. But the smile should be natural and kind, and not mockery. In general, smile more, it will attract others and inspire confidence in you.
To start smiling more often, train your smile, start baring your teeth, and then, out of habit, the smile will fall into place and look natural on your face.
Travel more
Perhaps you will say, what the hell are you doing, where does the money for travel come from? But you don’t have to visit other countries to travel. It is enough to travel to other cities, go to museums and learn information. In general, if you go to different places, exhibitions, galleries, museums, etc., then your horizons will develop as much as possible, so the word travel means, don’t sit at home stupidly on the Internet, but diversify your surroundings.
Improve your communication skills
Sociability, that is, the ability to communicate naturally and easily start a conversation, is the key to social success. If you want to become a more interesting person to others, overcome your fear or reluctance to communicate. If you are a naturally introverted person, it will be difficult at first. You will literally have to step over yourself, because sometimes it is difficult for such people to even ask the minibus driver to stop in the right place.
But there is good news: it will only be difficult at first. Each time it will be easier for you to start and maintain interesting conversations with people. Erudition, a sense of humor, having diverse hobbies and a friendly attitude towards others will also help you develop your communication skills.
Work on your speech and non-verbal communication. Learn to speak in front of a mirror, pronounce your words loudly and clearly enough, watch your intonation and expressiveness. Pay attention to facial expressions and gestures, watch how your face changes under the influence of different emotions: joy, sadness, anger, irritation.
How to become an interesting conversationalist?
To become an interesting conversationalist, you need to become interesting yourself, as I wrote about above. But there are still some rules that will have a good effect on the course of communication in any situation. I will also describe below what destroys any communication at the root and from interlocutors you will turn into arguers and enemies by blood.
Be polite
"The city's politeness takes over." When you communicate with a person politely, your interlocutor understands that you are interested in him. And this is very captivating and inspires trust and sympathy in you.
Important Details
The above methods work. But to achieve maximum results, remember a few warnings:
- Relationships with friends need to be protected. It's rare to meet someone with the same interests and views.
- Don't laugh at your interlocutor. Laugh with him or at yourself.
- Don't forget that you don't always have to have fun and have fun. Sometimes friends need support and compassion. Manifest them.
- Be polite and helpful.
- Jokes must be appropriate. It is important that they do not harm anyone: neither the interlocutor, nor yourself.
The last warning is this: don't force people to think you're an interesting person. Otherwise, your seemingly good intentions will play a cruel joke against you.
How to become an interesting conversationalist? - Simply, you need to increase your self-esteem!
Your whole life is in circles, like a broken record, and you wonder why I’m worse than others? You always compare yourself to others, underestimate your successes and are generally incapable of success in any endeavor. It is so?
What’s even worse, if you don’t solve this problem, it will only get worse, bringing more pain and dissatisfaction with life. Stress, meaningless existence.
I know what I'm talking about because... I myself lived in such a state.
And the simplest thing you can do is to work through the root of the problem and raise your self-esteem, and then your self-esteem will rise. It will become easier to communicate with people, you will become an interesting interlocutor.
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