- September 9, 2018
- Psychology of relationships
- Epifantseva Anna
What to do if you meet your first love many years later? There is a story in everyone's life that is remembered more vividly than the rest. Memories of that person overshadow all subsequent ones, no matter how vivid the emotions experienced afterwards. As if he gave something that others could not give. You are drawn to him at the slightest memory of those events, and if you meet your first love years later, you are seized by a real storm of emotions mixed with curiosity. What to do here?
Ideal image
First of all, you should be aware of one thing. You once communicated with this person, and then broke up. And there was some reason why this happened. Why did it happen so? Probably, circumstances got in the way - moving, different plans for the future. Maybe for some reason you yourself interrupted communication. Or perhaps the object of desire did not want to continue. But there is only one conclusion from this situation: if a person burns with love, he always takes a thousand steps towards being together and turns the world upside down. And this thought should sober up from the surging fantasies. The peculiarity of the psychology of a lover is such that there are and cannot be any barriers for the one who loves: people destroy entire families and change cities in order to achieve reunification with their soulmate. Therefore, you need to understand that since you didn’t do everything possible, maybe you didn’t want it that much? There was a reason that held me back from reuniting with this person; my intuition probably did not deceive me. If you resume communication now, these traits will appear again. If that side did not want communication, then does it make sense to focus on one thing in order to suffer forever? A person who once left will again discover the reason why he left. In this state it will be easier to make a decision.
Advice from psychologists
The psychology of feelings is such that it is difficult to lose love, but it is even more difficult to accept it and move on. Happiness doesn't end after a breakup. There are many opportunities in the world that will help make life brighter and more interesting. The main thing is not to get hung up on one partner.
To make it easier to cope with a breakup, psychologists advise using the following recommendations:
- It is necessary to put an end to the relationship, calm down and realize that the couple is no longer there. If it is difficult to realize this on your own, you can consult a psychologist. A specialist will help you get rid of love addiction.
- There is no need to suppress your tears. If you want to cry, then you need to give vent to your feelings. For atmosphere, you can turn on a sad film or read dramatic stories. But you need to stop after splashing out negative emotions, otherwise there is a risk of falling into deep depression. 2-3 days are enough for discharge.
- A new hobby is a great way to take your mind off worries and bad moods. After a breakup, it's time to start a hobby that you didn't have time for before.
- Transformation is a great way to relieve sadness for women. If a girl loses weight, goes in for sports, goes to the spa and hairdresser, then she will blossom again, and not a trace will remain of thoughts about the guy. The former boyfriend will be replaced by new interesting men.
- There is no need to immediately rush into the maelstrom of a new relationship, because you will want to see the features of your ex-boyfriend in your chosen one. A man will not be able to live up to expectations, and separation will not be long in coming, so nothing good will come from such a union.
- Don't lock yourself at home. Lack of contact with the outside world is the path to depression. You need to meet with friends more often, go to the cinema, roller skate. The more active your social life is, the easier it is to survive a difficult period.
- Do not forget that no matter how strong love is, it is not the last.
Don't expect quick results. Relief will come gradually. If there is no improvement, there is no need to hesitate. Psychologists will help you cope with your depressed mood and forget your ex-boyfriend forever.
Causes
Psychologists say that the importance of first strong love is high. She tends to acquire over time a veil full of thoughts: “With him I would be happy. If only everything could be returned and corrected!” It may seem that you will never meet anyone like him again. This happens due to idealization; usually there is nothing real behind this idea. This is the most common phenomenon that every person encounters. Your case is not unique. Essentially, these are the thoughts of a child. If you don’t continue to think like that, then you will become very happy with others. After all, you are the master of your thoughts, and not they you? If this is a problem, watch your thoughts: what were you thinking about a minute ago? Now take any new thought that was not in your head, and think only about it. You will notice that it will begin to appear among your thoughts. This proves that you yourself can control what runs through your thoughts, if, of course, you want it.
First love can happen at 12, 18, 22, and sometimes even at 40 years old. During it, a person acquires a unique experience, he discovers hitherto unknown emotions. Everything is seen in a completely different light. This experience influences all further communication with the opposite sex. If the separation was peaceful, there were no mutual grievances, then this positive aftertaste will transfer to the next relationship. When there is a lot of pain and dissatisfaction left, a person experiences suffering, he begins to try to find compensation in other people.
From a psychological point of view, the first serious feelings are a real personal test. The personality will be “built” in accordance with the characteristics of the experience of a given situation. Like any strong surge that unbalances a person, love destroys the previous personality, and what kind of personality will be built later depends only on the lover himself. The irresponsibility or absurdity of a breakup sometimes turns into trauma and great resentment towards people. Such a trail sometimes follows a person, always serving as a reminder that he missed something important. And thoughts come that hope for happiness is lost forever. But this is the purest illusion. And there is not a single person who has not broken wood in the past.
PINK GLASSES
No matter how much a person boasts of his mind and intellect, emotions, according to psychologists, determine his choice much more often, as well as their absence. If there is not enough drive in life, dull predictable gray everyday life is all around, where can you get new impressions? Books, movies, TV? Past!
Memories of a former, long-gone first love are often devoid of anger and selfish expectations. Over time, we forgive ourselves for our mistakes made out of inexperience and forget all the pain caused to us. Only good, bright, sweet moments emerge in the memory, warm and feed the imagination, which, in turn, spurs the desire to regain lost happiness.
This scenario is especially true for those whom real partners humiliate, reproach and nag, thereby pushing into the arms of the past. If a person catches his first love on social networks on the Internet, and she, in turn, turns out to be free, then old feelings flare up again, and this is far from uncommon, experts say. Although disappointments happen much more often. What can we do, our imagination is a great artist, always ready to serve us and paint our expectations in bright colors as opposed to the real, not always rosy reality.
Whatever the present is, it is better than a ghostly past and a vague future, says Victoria Panchenko and quotes her favorite proverb: “A man who lives in the past has already died. The person who lives in the future has not yet been born. Only those who live for today truly live.” Therefore, even when talking about ways to return your ex-love, the psychotherapist convinces: “Start a new life here and now!”
Psychologist Andrei Kopyev identifies a separate category of people for whom returning loved ones “to their place” becomes the meaning of life.
“Abbé Prevost’s novel Manon Lescaut is an illustration of a relationship model where one escapes and the other tries to return him,” Andrey Kopyev gives an example. “She constantly finds herself in the arms of another man, and he, a very impressionable monogamous man, whose feelings are completely subordinated to one woman, follows her until his last breath.”
In the real world, it's the other way around. Women are more affectionate and impressionable. Men are more inclined to follow the manifesto of the poet Andrei Voznesensky: “Do not return to your former lovers, there are no former lovers in the world.”
Little love
There is no situation that does not depend on you. If a person has built his life successfully, then the first feelings will be a pleasant memory and nothing more. New emotions received in your current personal life will come to the fore. And for some, meeting their first love many years later will be a reason to reconsider their life, to ask themselves the question: “Am I really happy now?” If you are strongly drawn to what is gone, perhaps something in your current lifestyle needs to be changed. As a rule, in such cases, the temptation to meet your first love after many years becomes very great. If both people are free and willingly surrender to the power of feelings, this is ideal. Be sure to plunge headlong into this pool! But the situation will be different when the choice arises - to destroy your family or not.
Does a man love you?
Unlike psychologists who for some reason looked at problems in relationships between women and men only from the point of view of a woman who has fallen out of love, we will not make such gender biases. To complete the picture, it is important to know the signs by which you can determine whether a man loves a woman.
Experts (now others) recommend paying attention to the eyes of the faithful. They are the mirror of the soul and they don’t lie. A man in love looks at his chosen one with warmth, tenderness, and care. If you no longer feel such a warming gaze, then there is reason to think...
When a representative of the stronger sex is in love, he never forgets about his beloved, showing her various signs of attention. And it doesn’t matter what these gifts will be - expensive or not very expensive. The main thing is that he will give them from the bottom of his heart, with love.
Can you remember the last time you hugged and kissed your lover? Or have you already forgotten how the touch of his hands feels? Well, if kissing during your meetings has become something of an “honorable” duty, then you need to be even more wary. Because if a man loves, then the fire in his heart will definitely look for a way out, namely: he will try to touch his beloved more often, kiss her, take her hand, hug her in order to feel the warmth of her body. If you don’t feel such manifestations, then think about your future together, whether it has any prospects...
Have you started to quarrel more often? Have constant showdowns become an everyday occurrence? And during these quarrels, you are always to blame, not him? This is where you definitely need to think hard. Because, as practice shows, a loving partner subconsciously tries to smooth over a conflict situation and often takes the blame upon himself. Also, pay attention to the behavior of your life partner. As soon as you notice his interest in other women, this can only mean one thing - it seems that there is nothing left of his former love. Just affection. At worst, it's a habit.
Married, but met my first love
Choices vary greatly depending on gender and experience. Psychologists say that when a man has met his first love and surrendered to her power, he will strive to return to his family, while keeping his emotions on the side. Often public morality is stricter towards women, and they, committing the same actions, can be tormented by this. Based on psychological practice, this is characteristic of them even more so the younger they are.
A representative of the fair sex who restrained herself, who endured a lot for the sake of her family, often discovers with age that no one needed this, that men are much more selfish in this matter, and a guy, having met his first love, will be less tormented by betrayal. Usually, upon reaching the age of 40, a woman begins to live for herself and, having met her first love again, rushes into the arms of emotions and does not avoid cheating. This is a very common case in the practice of psychologists. Having looked at these cases, isn’t it better to draw conclusions for yourself and not wait a few more years to live the way you want?
Having a good family, quality relationships and strong love for her husband, a woman will not be drawn to another. If this occurs, is your husband probably not the best man in your life? The instinctive program of any woman is that she is always looking for the best, she will not be happy until the strongest is next to her. If she realized that there is a weakling next to her, she often begins to persuade herself, tries to come to an agreement with herself in order to leave everything as it is. She even inspires herself to love him. This is because women have been taught for years to adapt to the situation and endure. But this does not bring them happiness.
When that very strong man meets her way, she falls into his arms. This is her nature. And there are a lot of such cases in the practice of any psychologist. Don't you need to admit the truth to yourself and meet your desires halfway, getting rid of the weaklings? Even if the truth entails a revolution in your whole life? Everyone makes their own choice.
Reality test
The hardest thing is to accept the present. A whole era has passed since the parting. The discrepancy between life attitudes, ideals, aspirations, and social status often simply does not give a chance to first love. “How could you wrap sandwiches in my dissertation draft?” - “Let’s use the money we saved to buy a boat.”
And these are just words. When first love returns, a parallel scanning of external appearance occurs. Once a thin teenage girl who was supposed to
corresponding to the concept of an ideal woman, has turned into a portly aunt, and a boy with luxuriant hair is now combing his thin hair over the resulting bald spot. The test of truth is the most difficult.
Having met your first love, you urgently need to cross to the other side, hide in a bomb shelter or fly into space. First love has practically no chance of existing, so it is better to die immediately. Why bring up the past again? What if this is a classic femme fatale? To live your dreams? To be sad every day about your lost youth? To see changed “love”? To then run away and suffer again?
Man is a complex creature. He doesn't look for easy ways. That's why first love flings itself, like a songbird, against the thorns. Many die, but those who manage to survive retain their feelings forever.
If there is a first love, then there must be a last one. It’s good when both of them coincide, because flirting on the side is a dangerous game, even if it is connected with first love, maybe this has its own reasons for female infidelity .
The man is married and met her
As for men, after many years of meeting their first love and giving in to their feelings, most often in the depths of their souls they remember that they have a family. Receiving an even life with loved ones on two sides of the scale and a mistress on the other, they continue to balance, but are in no hurry to leave their wife. There is comfort in the family, and the presence of new feelings on the side only awakens in them the personality of a lover, which adds spice to relationships with women. If your husband has met his first love, you should not expect that he will want to exchange his family for her just like that. It is generally impossible to destroy a strong family from the outside. If it falls apart due to seemingly external forces, this is not so: it means that everything was no longer so good in it, and a crack has long appeared in the relationship between the spouses.
Therefore, the situation is somewhat different when he already experiences discomfort in the family and is thinking about leaving. If such a husband has met his first love, she may be the impetus after which he takes this step.
Sometimes it can be difficult to meet that woman from your younger years for fear of entering into competition with her current lover, who may be better than you. But everything is in your hands. And for sure, if you feel strongly in love, you will not ask such a question. You will simply go to destroy obstacles.
Psychology of relationships
Category: Psychology of relationships
Our world is structured so that people cannot imagine life without love. Each of us wants to find a couple, and when this happens, we fly into seventh heaven with happiness. True, some find their soul mate very quickly, others have to wait a long time, and others even discover true love only after crossing the forty-year mark.
But, alas, a happy beginning of a relationship does not always mean a happy continuation and end. Someone compared love to playing puzzles: as soon as you insert a “picture” into the wrong cell, it becomes distorted, and the overall appearance turns out to be distorted (even if the incorrectly inserted fragment remains for some time and does not fall out). In other words, in life there are both episodes of fleeting love and cases of true love. But love can crack in both the first and second versions.
What to do if this fire in a relationship goes out or has already died out? Where can one go from memories, especially if there are years of marriage left behind? How to return lost love? Is this possible, is it worth taking such a step?
Emotions
At the same time, sometimes emotions simply interfere with life. Sometimes you can understand with your mind that a person is not suitable, but still have feelings for him. There is only one way out: take a deep breath and announce that you are leaving. Enjoy yourself in this moment of taking a strong and decisive step. A week of black emptiness, subject to cutting off all contacts with a person, will result in a feeling of deep self-esteem, which will then manifest itself in new successes on the personal front. And most importantly, there will be internal freedom to leave the relationship at any time, whatever it may be. The realization that he has the power to leave anyone, at any time, makes a person self-sufficient and damn attractive. Isn't this a wonderful price for that pain?
Well, where we do not
A person's need for love is very deep. When he is filled with someone else's love, he cannot help but love himself. And this is the whole source of his strength, energy, this is his support in life. When she's gone, he languishes. This is a great danger, a direct indication that it is time to change something in life. Often in this state, after many years of meeting first love, a person gets stuck in memories of the past for many years. Forgetting that the past has already died and no longer exists. Why does someone remember the same love story for years and replay it in their head? There is only one reason: insufficient brightness of current life, unsettledness on the personal front. Even while remaining married, a person can be unhappy and dream about missed opportunities and past delights. Of course, it will seem to him that that pie in the sky was the best thing that happened to him. If it turns out that this is so, then this means that this is the best moment to turn everything around.
Feelings won't be the same
Sometimes a meeting with an ideal image of the past confirms one fact: you can’t catch the wind. It happens that, having met your first love after 20 years, you realize that feelings will not be the same.
And it’s really like this: whoever tries to bring back the past catches the wind. It won't be the same as before. In the practice of psychologists, there are cases when a person is simply disappointed in his former love. Looking at this ideal image, which has already changed over the years, a person experiences sadness. Out of old memory, I still feel drawn to him, but that mad passion leaves no trace.
Meeting your first love many years later, you go to that young person, but a completely different picture appears before your eyes.
When comparing your nearby husband with that exalted image of a guy from the past, you will always find at least one reason for your real partner to lose in a competition with an ideal hero. After all, the second one was not pettyly annoyed because of the charred potatoes, and did not propose to cast lots for who would go for a walk with the dog. This is an imperfect person with his own shortcomings. But at that wonderful time, man loved and was loved at the behest of inexperienced hearts. Therefore, the first feelings are charming, tender and especially pure. And this is also the past. Having met your first love after 20 years, you see “déjà vu”, which is of a different taste. Maybe it's better to keep warm memories of good moments in your head? Let them remain that beautiful and untouched fairy tale that they once had the opportunity to create. Wouldn't this be more effective than, having met your first love, bitterly noticing that she is not as fresh as you would like?
Show more feelings
Well, one last piece of advice that can be given to people who want to build relationships in their teenage years. As a rule, most teenagers try to find a life partner just to feel loved. However, if a person does not show enough feelings, then this may lead to the idea that they simply do not exist. Therefore, even if it’s unusual for you to talk about love or walk holding hands, it’s worth overcoming your complexes in order to avoid parting with your soulmate.
We hope you now better understand why first love is the strongest. Moreover, we also wholeheartedly believe that these tips will help you build a strong relationship with your significant other and live happily for many years to come. If you feel that this person is destined for you, be sure to hold on to him. Otherwise, you will have to “sort through” partners for a long time in search of someone who is at least a little like your first love.
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Why are we looking for her?
The desire to relive what happened in the past can overtake anyone. One day the question may arise in your head: “Where can you meet your first love?” Is this useful?
The thing is that first feelings are part of a person’s life history. With the return to youth, a person is looking for a source of unspent energy.
Such a return confirms consistency: sometimes you need to understand that the choice was made correctly, and the relationship was completed for the better. When a question that has been tormenting for a long time is closed, a person is inspired to build new relationships in the present.
The search for first love is always nostalgia for a bygone romantic era. Many, plunging into the pool of past feelings, revive in themselves that bright personality who knew that the whole world was within her reach, and who had an incredible future ahead of her.
Only with the development of the first relationship does the idealized image of a lover give way to a real person. Usually the question “Where can you meet your first love?” are asked by those who have not had time to sufficiently know each other.
Psychologists believe that in any case, the search for this personality from the past is aimed at oneself. On a subconscious level, a person wants to return to a time when, as it seems to him, he was stronger and purer. This indicates that now his “I” is not realized.
Happy Anniversary!
You may be wondering why I remembered this passage today. It's not because I'm worried about my salvation, far from it. I thought about him because our 53rd wedding anniversary is approaching. And today is just that day, taking my thoughts to the sunny January 30, 1965, the city of Cheveport, Louisiana. Four years earlier, Teresa and I had our first crush on each other when we were in high school. I remember this almost all-consuming euphoria of early love. Whatever chemical reactions were going on in our bodies at that time were strong enough for both of us.
Express
Sometimes those who want to meet their first love are those who feel that their “gestalt was not closed.” That is, questions remained unanswered, there was no sense of completion from those episodes.
This is often felt most acutely when the relationship ended due to the influence of an external force with which the couple did not begin to fight. This could be due to parental pressure in youth, relocation, or public opinion.
On a deep subconscious level, a person identifies this story with the relationship of Romeo and Juliet, forbidden feelings. They are actively cultivated everywhere.
Is it possible to be with just one person all your life?
Do you dream of the kind of love that is described in fairy tales and romantic films? We hasten to please you. Relationship experts say that people are capable of loving only one partner for the rest of their lives. In addition, such a scenario has a much greater chance than the fact that a person meets his fate after “tasting” several dozen different people.
Another question is whether you can stay for life with the person you fell in love with in your youth. Sometimes this is as simple as being faithful to your partner and constantly telling him how much you love him. However, most often you have to put up with some of a person’s shortcomings - and not everyone has this skill. However, in the following sections we will give some recommendations on how to save your relationship with your first love.
Second chance
Sometimes, having come a long way in his life, having changed a lot during personal crises, a person wants to find some support in the past. If he wants to meet his first love, the advice of psychologists will be clear: he needs to understand why he is drawn to safe territory, where everything has already been studied instead of new unexplored distances.
Finding those feelings again regenerates a person; it may seem that a recipe for eternal youth has been found. Even those who have everything in their life already arranged can go in search of them. It would seem that everything is there: why look for first love? For the fountain of youth!
Try to make concessions
How can you best characterize adolescence? That's right, with a worldview, as if you know everything in the world better than anyone else. However, every adult understands that sometimes you need to make concessions. Even if your partner is wrong, it is important to do this. Such actions strengthen trust between people and also help to find compromise in the future.
But what happens if both young men defend their position to the end? As a rule, mutual distrust will arise first: “If he goes against me in an argument, then soon I will have to learn what betrayal is.” However, simply taking the side of your lover is enough for the relationship between people to noticeably strengthen.
Female aspiration
Often, female representatives strive to meet that guy from the past, experiencing a craving to get away from the daily routine, where, within the framework of the traditional roles of wife and mother, they become too bored and cramped.
They go into dreams of those relationships where there were no burdensome obligations, and everything was light and airy, like porous chocolate.
Any person likes to feel that there is that support in life to which he can always return. But if he is always mentally in the past, living in memories, then this is direct evidence that he is afraid of the present and the future. He is trying to escape reality into his illusions.
Update
Even if you meet your first love in a photo while searching on social networks, you can be disappointed. It can feel like a walk around the block from your youth. It becomes clear how much the image deposited in the head differs from the real situation. Even if he remains in the heart, then a person will leave less room for him.
Sometimes a meeting with the object of your first feelings can result in a startling discovery: your current partner is your true soulmate.
Psychologists advise: if you have a desire to meet that person from the past with whom a lot of good things are associated, you should bring it to life. This experience is always useful and it in itself cannot destroy anything. It will become an indicator of what is happening in the present. It will show the sincerity of feelings in the current relationship, highlight those moments that need correction, or confirm that everything is fine in the present.
The loss of illusions is extremely useful for further development. It will open the door to a new world in which a person will find himself.
Love
Sometimes you can understand that it is that person who is the truest love. This also happens. In this case, you will need to take a number of actions to make sure that this other half also wants to continue. After all, she may have no idea that your feelings have flared up, she may not want to return everything and start over, she may not want to live in the past.
One of the most striking situations is when a girl marries someone she doesn’t love. Only because he will be a good husband and father.
And then, against this background, the very man with whom she feels a strong connection appears. She met her first love many years later. He probably only became better, more successful and more attractive over the years. It doesn't matter where he appeared or why. The memories immediately flashed through all the best moments together, reflections of those vivid emotions that we managed to experience together. At the same time, good moments appear more clearly, and all the bad is thrown aside: this is the property of the human psyche.
And it can’t help but creep into your head, sometimes constantly haunting you. There are more and more thoughts about him. And now - it can no longer be shaken out of the everyday flow of thought! The question arises: what to do if you have met such a past love?
Being in a relationship with someone else and experiencing such a vivid palette of emotions from a living personification of your past, it is worth understanding yourself by remembering the reasons for breaking up with such a wonderful person. There was probably a reason, and not such an insignificant one, since the relationship was terminated. This is where you need to pay the closest attention. Scroll through your head all the difficulties that arose during communication. After all, the deep essence of people never changes anyway. Only a few change radically over the course of life, and this is hardly a unique case. If this affair continues now, then again all the sharp corners will come to the surface, and this will be a repetition of the same steps. Why repeat yourself when you can build a new beautiful love story with someone else, someone who matches your values?
But if your gut clearly speaks in favor of resuming relations, the last line of defense will remain. You need to find out from yourself whether this is really love or just a storm of passions that was caused by one memory of what was and is gone? Perhaps it's just nostalgia. But even if so, there is nothing reprehensible in this. Feel free to plunge into the feeling where your soul calls you. It is always a pleasant and positive experience. You shouldn’t take this too seriously, because it is likely that when you get closer to the person, you will realize that you no longer want to continue. But this experience is necessary, it will bring pleasant emotions. Without taking a step towards the surging feelings, you can be left with a long lifelong regret about what was not done. According to psychological studies conducted in hospices, this is what dying people most often regret: that they never took a risk.
How not to remember the past
Getting thoughts of your ex-love out of your head is not an easy task. You will have to take all your will into your fist to achieve a positive outcome. Don't expect everything to work out quickly and the first time. The main thing is not to give up, then pleasant emotions will not keep you waiting.
Stop communication
Often, former lovers offer to remain friends after the relationship. They do not understand that such actions not only give a person hope for restoring relationships, but also torment him. To forget love, you need to stop contact with your ex-passion:
- You should not write to your beloved on social networks, instant messengers, or call on the phone for any reason.
- It is necessary to distance yourself as much as possible from the life of this person. You should not try to find out through your friends about the affairs and new relationships of your beloved passion.
- If friends mention your lover in a conversation, you need to let the information fall on deaf ears. If you have a trusting relationship with your friends, it is better to ask them not to raise such topics.
- If the former chosen one makes contact on his own, then you need to openly talk to him about it and explain that communication brings pain, so it is better to stop it.
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Delete correspondence and photos
Having parted with a loved one, many people love to torment themselves with memories by looking through photographs and correspondence. You shouldn’t do this if you don’t want to be in constant mourning for a faded relationship.
The best way to forget your favorite passion is to get rid of everything that reminds you of her.
There is no need to hold on to the past. New photos will appear in place of old photos, and on social networks another person will wish you good morning. The faster you can get rid of old things, the sooner the doors will open for mutual feelings.
Don't meet
It is difficult to forget a person if you encounter him every day at work, at college or at a sports club. If possible, you need to minimize meetings with your ex-boyfriend as much as possible. You can do this in the following ways:
- You should not communicate with your lover without a good reason. If it is possible to avoid dialogue, then it is better to do so.
- In order not to cross paths again when moving around the building of a company or institute, you need to take other paths.
- If a guy or girl has a favorite vacation spot, you shouldn’t choose it for a hike with friends. It's better to choose another option for entertainment.
