In this article, psychologist Evgenia Dvoretskaya answers the question “How does a Scorpio married man in love behave?”
Scorpio is considered one of the most powerful signs. Men born during this zodiac period always realize their plans. In order to understand how a Scorpio man in love behaves, you just need to fall into his field of influence. Very often, such men immediately begin active courtship, trying to achieve the object of their love at any cost.
A few words about Scorpios
Scorpio is the embodiment of passionate energy and eroticism. Men belonging to this water sign have a tendency towards possessiveness; they strive to make anyone who interests them the object of their undivided power.
It is absolutely unrealistic to ignore the advances of a Scorpio man, since he will strive at any cost to make his chosen one fall in love with him. Scorpios are distinguished by incredible persistence in achieving goals. The excitement of victory will propel them forward to the finish line. And the Scorpio man will receive the palm in any case.
A man of this sign is a real mentalist who reads people’s souls like an open book. Few can resist the incredible charm and attractiveness of Scorpio, because he influences the object simply by mesmeric influence.
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Positive Traits of Scorpio
Positive features include: perseverance, erudition, developed sensitivity, high mental abilities, strong-willed temperament, idealism.
Such people can be faithful comrades and reliable companions. Scorpio is a man of his word. He is an incredibly charming conversationalist who subtly feels his partner and avoids tactlessness. Scorpio prefers the bitter truth to sweet lies, both towards himself and others.
Behind their outer proud and cold façade hides a burning passionate nature. They know how to hold their face very well, so it is impossible to penetrate the Scorpio mask, unless they want to reveal some of their secrets.
The Scorpio man can penetrate into the inner world of every woman, but they try not to allow anyone into their holy of holies, so their soul remains in darkness for a long time.
Negative traits
Scorpios have plenty of negative sides. Among them: rancor, arrogance, arrogance, pride, jealousy, possessiveness, narcissism, a tendency to fly into rage.
Scorpios are passionate natures, and this passion manifests itself in both love and hatred. This is the most dual sign of the zodiac, constantly moving from the light to the dark side. Getting him to trust someone is very difficult. Scorpio is very suspicious and arrogant; he always perceives himself as smarter than those around him. This determines a prejudiced attitude towards a partner, but a real Scorpio disguises it very skillfully.
Unreasonable jealousy and suspiciousness turn representatives of this sign into difficult objects of affection. Alas, their magical charm cannot but fascinate, and Scorpios are constantly surrounded by female affection. A loving Scorpio is capable of becoming a wonderful spouse and head of the family, but the entire family structure and relationships of loved ones will be built around him.
Representatives of this water sign often turn into domestic tyrants and command their relatives without a twinge of conscience. From the outside it seems that Scorpio is unconditionally in love with his chosen one, but in reality it turns out that she is completely subject to his desires and acts as he decides.
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What is he like in bed?
Scorpio is an experienced and passionate lover. He begins his journey in this direction quite early. For him, the female body is a map that he can navigate well.
If his partner is interesting to him as a person, he will give her unforgettable pleasure. But if it's just a casual relationship, he will only think about himself. In order for sex with this man to be harmonious, you need to give a gentle start. Coldness and severity will quickly melt after hot hugs and kisses.
What he loves
The psychology of Scorpio is such that he needs sex for inspiration and strengthening self-esteem. This sign's preferences in bed change with age. Monotony in bed is unacceptable for him, as is the coldness of his partner. This almost always results in betrayal. He will only be faithful to a girl who completely satisfies him.
Despite the romantic nature, base and vicious instincts prevail in him. These men practically do not notice the boundaries between love and hate. For Scorpios, violent sex after a scandal is a common occurrence.
How does he behave?
Scorpio has an animalistic appeal to the opposite sex, but his behavior both in everyday life and in sex is sometimes unpredictable. He is persistent, purposeful, constantly looking for erotic adventures.
This man is very savvy in the art of seduction and uses all his talents. The girl he chooses will not resist his pressure and ingenuity. Scorpios are insatiable in sex, but at the same time delicate with a woman’s body. It becomes possible for him to go beyond the limit only with the girl’s consent, but the potential desire for this is present.
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What to surprise
Only a sufficiently liberated and passionate girl can surprise Scorpio. It is worth abandoning the framework and conventions and completely surrendering to the feeling.
Subtle hints and erotic themes of conversation before intimacy will inflame a man’s desire. The girl's playful story about her fantasies will cause him admiration. At the same time, you can unobtrusively ask about his secret desires.
You can surprise this man with unusual lingerie and makeup. Here it is important to maintain the golden mean - to avoid banality and unnecessary originality. Role-playing and appropriate dressing will work well, but you need to be aware of his tastes and preferences.
Gentle manipulator
However, Scorpio most often behaves with impeccable delicacy with his beloved, which is why many call such a marriage happy. It is important to understand that Scorpio's despotism does not go into the phase of self-harm. The Scorpio man will never allow himself to cause physical harm to the weak, a woman or a child.
But he will not allow amateur activities, suppressing excessive willfulness with gentle manipulations with his partner. Scorpio never knowingly harms others, except in situations where he has the intention of revenge.
Captured by passion, Scorpio will not circle around his prey for long, and this will be noticeable to the naked eye. He performs these manipulations with the sole purpose of making the girl get used to his image. Then a sudden jump, and the prey is in the soft paws of a dexterous predator.
Gambling hunter
In order to get an answer to the question: how does a Scorpio man in love behave, you can take a closer look at their hunting habits. The circling of this tireless hunter around the object of his desire causes a state of mesmeric trance in the victim. Perhaps the magical gaze of Scorpio has such a bewitching power.
The attentions of a Scorpio man are simple, but effective, and it is impossible to avoid their influence. The representative of this sign will absorb the whole world of his chosen one with the power of his personality. After a couple of weeks, it turns out that Scorpio has invaluable information about all the passions and hobbies of his beloved, about her favorite delicacies and daily schedule.
Then the phase of manifestation of paternalism will come, he will help her, solve small problems and guess secret wishes. The period of gallant courtliness among representatives of this sign is very short. For a couple of weeks he will shower her with bouquets, organize memorable dates in restaurants, and suddenly it turns out that his personal belongings have already migrated to his beloved’s apartment.
Scorpio in a long-term relationship
Scorpio wants to be aware of all the affairs and circumstances of his chosen one. The attitude of Scorpio, struck by passion, is similar to madness, sometimes he even goes so far as to tire a woman with his suspicion. True, such a scenario often ends in violent passion, and most women are satisfied with such obsessive attention.
In his passion, Scorpio stops at nothing; sometimes he can propose marriage a couple of weeks after meeting. This should not be surprising, since he strives to undividedly take possession of his treasure.
They are loyal.
If Scorpio has chosen you, it means that you can now relax and enjoy a comfortable relationship. They are very loyal. Now your Scorpio is ready to follow you to the ends of the earth.
People of this sign choose only the most perfect of us as companions and companions. If this is you for him, it means he has already found his ideal. And will never look in anyone's direction again. Scorpios do not doubt their choice.
If you've won the Scorpio loyalty battle, congratulations. You'll be fine now. Living with them is easier than it usually seems.
How does a Scorpio man in love behave when he is forced to hide?
Although Scorpios are naturally very goal-oriented creatures, they also know how to respect existing relationships. The only worthy reason why a Scorpio man will hide his love will be the unfree heart of his chosen one. It is futile to assume that a representative of this sign will simply step aside. No, he will simply act in other ways.
He will choose a scenario in which the chosen one makes him her close friend. And after some time, her best friend will convince her (using exquisite manipulation) that her beloved is not a match for her. And in this game, Scorpio will have a lot of patience; he can wait several years for the result. The secretive Scorpio man will act delicately and unobtrusively. The entire magical arsenal will be used: from sharp humor to the mesmeric gaze with which he envelops his beloved.
Sex partner
Scorpio has clear requirements for a girl - only the ideal. A temperamental man does not accept intermediate options.
Perfect option
Scorpio prefers beautiful women. The ideal companion dresses elegantly, takes care of herself, and has natural charm. Girls who are similar to him in character and appearance are attractive to this zodiac sign.
Smart and sensible women have a special sexuality for representatives of this sign. The partner should unobtrusively guide the chosen one, leaving him the right to make decisions.
Tough, emancipated ladies will not attract a Scorpio man. He will like a feminine and graceful girl, an ardent lover, a magnificent hostess.
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Who doesn't stand a chance
There are a lot of women in love around this man due to his natural magnetism. Demanding Scorpio weeds out unsuitable candidates for his heart according to certain criteria:
- Low self-esteem, constraint in sex and unkemptness.
- Frivolity and frivolity. Scorpio is not attracted to frivolous girls at all. The passion of this man does not diminish his desire to create a strong, reliable family.
- Close-mindedness, undeveloped intelligence, limitations. He will not be interested in talking with a girl who is not able to carry on a conversation on any topic.
- No mystery. Simplicity and straightforwardness are not traits that can “hook” this guy. It is worth adding mystery and unpredictability when communicating with him.
If you have these aspects in your character, you need to do some work on yourself in order to win the heart of Scorpio.
How to communicate with a Scorpio man
Having found out how a Scorpio man in love behaves, it is logical to understand what strategy to build in relation to him. The Scorpio man belongs to the category of partners with whom passive participation is acceptable. He is so purposeful and self-sufficient that he need not be pushed to take active action.
If a woman wants to very gently influence the development of a relationship, then light coquetry is acceptable. It is important not to overdo it, so as not to cool the ardor of the Scorpio hunter. Scorpio men cannot tolerate excessive activity from their chosen one. They will not tolerate the usurpation of their right to pursue a victim.
Scorpios are most often looking for a serious relationship, but it is still worth limiting conversations about marriage and the eye color of future children to a certain time. Men of this sign love to solve mysteries, so it is better to leave something unsaid than to appear as an open book.
Scorpio woman and marriage.
The attitude of women towards marriage can be expressed in one phrase: she is perfectly suited for marriage - as long as marriage suits her.
*64% of Scorpio women marry 1 time, 31% - 2 times, 4% - 3 and 1% - 4, - i.e. 36% of women of this sign remarry, which is the highest rate among women of all zodiac signs
*almost half marry their only love
*51% believe their sex life has improved since remarriage
*if we talk about intercourse, the Scorpio woman could be the person who invented it, but since it exists on its own, she does not stop trying to improve it, experimenting in this area
*she imitates an orgasm less often than all other women according to zodiac signs
*but 36% of women - the highest figure for zodiac signs - imagine another partner during intercourse
*seductive, fickle, dissolute – the sexuality of a Scorpio woman has many sides, but in any case it occupies a central place in her life
*the Scorpio woman has earned her image as a sexual siren by beating other women of all zodiac signs in terms of the number of sexual acts: 14% of them say they make love every day, which is higher than the statistical average for other women (9%).
*20% of them make love 4 or more times a week, 40% - from 1 to 3 times a week, and only 11% - this is the lowest figure among all women - from 1 to 3 times a month
*and only 8% of them - this is the lowest figure - would like to make love less often
*2% of women of this sign are lesbians and 2% are bisexual
*63% of Scorpio women believe that the right weight is the way to improve intimacy
*women - Scorpios also lead in the number of infidelity in marriage: 42%, but 29% committed infidelity only once
*41% of women of this sign cheat due to the physical attractiveness of their partner and only 26% (one of the lowest rates) fell in love with their lovers
*23% cheat, seduced by the excitement of loving courtship - this is more than women of other zodiac signs and only 15% cheat due to unsatisfied intimacy in marriage
*the age of the lover is not of particular importance to them: 9% were attracted to younger partners, 7% to older partners
*if their husband cheats, 53% would prefer to talk and figure out the problems, 34% would prefer to immediately file for divorce
Differences between men and women of this sign.
Women and men of this sign are characterized by the same attitude towards marriage, but after the registry office their behavior changes. And while a Scorpio man will try with all his might to save the marriage, Scorpio women, if they consider that the marriage is unsuccessful, will divorce without much hesitation in order to try to start a family again.
But women, more than men of this sign, value intimacy in marriage and the reliability of marriage as a social institution.
Yes, we can say that all Scorpios love intimate relationships, but women are more excitable and they prefer shorter foreplay and longer fusion - for men it’s the other way around.
Scorpio men are much more conservative and much more restrained in their erotic manifestations than women of this zodiac sign: women want a lot of everything.
As for cheating, a woman has a much higher risk of falling in love with the person with whom she is having an affair than men of this zodiac sign.
And if the husband cheats, then Scorpio women demand divorce 2 times more often than men from this zodiac sign.
Most often, my clients order forecasts for compatibility in couples: love and marriage still worry people the most, and they turn to astrologers to clarify controversial issues in their personal lives no less often than to psychologists. But astrologers are criticized just as often as psychologists, apparently because astrological forecasts in the media often do not coincide with what is happening in people’s lives.
For example, everywhere it is indicated that Cancer men are attentive husbands, they stand guard over the family like no one else, and if you want “once and for life,” then you can’t find a better Cancer. However, in modern reality, Cancer tops the list of men prone to cheating, getting divorced and going back to the registry office: almost half of them get married more than once. I’ll tell you more: a fair number of Cancers 5 (!) or more go down the aisle. Or a Leo woman: they write that she is the last of the signs who strives to create a family, that Lionesses need constant attention and compliments from many men, that they strive for luxury and popularity... But, according to my many years of experience, Lionesses are the most hardworking in the field of marriage, wives: they try more than others to save the family, often get married only once and very rarely have lovers.
Source: astra-prognoz.ru
Scorpio Magic
Everything mysterious attracts Scorpio like a magnet, so be a little mysterious, do not demonstrate absolute openness. What will definitely turn a Scorpio away from a woman: vulgarity, aggressiveness, bad manners, unceremoniousness, arrogance.
Scorpio is a connoisseur of beauty, so a woman who is sloppily made up and tasteless cannot count on the attention of a representative of this sign. Don't even try to influence this master manipulator. This is beyond your strength. Scorpios instantly see through any deceit and treachery and nip them in the bud.
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Falling in love is typical of single and married people. At the same time, a man who is in love with another woman (not his wife) may believe that his passion does not harm his family and wife and may not feel guilty for breaking fidelity. So how does a married man in love behave?
Loves or is in love?
- love is affection, deep sympathy, aspiration for another person. It is not necessarily accompanied by physical attraction. An important component of love is sacrifice, the desire to do everything possible for the good of the object of feeling;
- falling in love is a positive feeling directed at a person, accompanied by a narrowing of consciousness, a refusal to adequately perceive the object of feeling.
Passion is also distinguished, that is, a strong sexual attraction to a person with additional emotional overtones - interest, enthusiasm. Falling in love and passion are confused, united into a single emotion, contrasting it with love. Thus, a man can love his wife, maintain a marriage and strive to please, take care of her and at the same time be in love with another woman.
In a family, a man does not necessarily love his wife, but strives to preserve the marriage for various reasons: economic, social, moral. 50...70% of marital obligations are preserved (in the absence of love) for the sake of children and due to the impossibility of living separately for financial reasons.
Interesting facts from history
Falling in love with another woman, passion for her in human culture was regarded differently.
Falling in love with someone other than your wife is a reason for condemnation, as is passion. In Christianity, falling in love is seen as a passionate desire for a person, a desire for physical intimacy.
Love is the highest manifestation of feelings, a possible consequence of falling in love. Loving someone other than your wife is not cheating if love is not accompanied by physical passion.
Arranged weddings, which were common in the past, meant that love for another man or woman was normal for spouses and was not condemned by society.
A typical picture of how a Cancer man in love behaves was the behavior of the commander and ruler Alexander the Great towards the famous hetaera (courtesan) Thais of Athens. Alexander’s wife and Thais’s abundance of connections did not prevent them from sincerely loving each other.
Is having an affair between unfree people a sin?
If you look from the point of view of biblical laws, then the connection between unfree people is a real sin. Everyone remembers the commandment “Thou shalt not covet thy neighbor’s wife.”
In some religions you can find references to the fact that dating a married man is not a sin. In Islam, for example, polygamy is allowed. But little is said about relationships with a married woman and always negatively. A girl must maintain comfort in the house, remain a good wife and mother, and also be faithful to her husband in all situations. Cheating on your husband is punishable by death in some countries.
In a civilized society, this, of course, does not happen, but cheating on your wife is still more acceptable. It is believed that guys are polygamous by nature, and for girls, banal promiscuity plays a role. In the emancipated world, they are trying to equalize these rights, but on a subconscious level, the love affair of unfree people is still condemned.
Psychological and physiological aspects of the problem
Modern psychologists consider falling in love, passion or love for a stranger as a type of betrayal, physiological or moral. Condemnation or approval depends on how a married man in love behaves. Scorpio (according to the zodiac horoscope) can have sex with his mistress without ceasing to love his wife.
In arranged marriages, when the wedding serves the benefit of the spouses and/or their families, the love of a married man for another woman or the presence of a lover of a married lady is logically justified. If the agreement exists not only formally, the spouses can stipulate in advance the possibility of connections on the side, subject to the observance of decency and the preservation of the visible well-being of the family.
A physiologically married man, falling in love, sometimes loses interest in his wife and refuses sexual relations with her. This is also possible if he does not have physical intimacy with the woman he loves.
Fall in love with yourself
In order to answer the question, you need to study their psychosexual horoscope.
There is probably no sexier zodiac sign than Scorpio. He is very sensual and passionate. He always knows how to please a woman and turn her head.
You need to know how to behave with a Scorpio man in bed so as not to seem too reserved or, conversely, promiscuous. It is necessary to give him sex, so to speak, in portions. This is necessary so that there is not too much of it and it does not have time to get boring. But at the same time, sex should be passionate and not constrained. In their younger years, Scorpios are very romantic and tender. With age, they become more liberated, ready for various experiments, and not only in sex. They are very faithful, but only spiritually. They can carry their spouse in their arms and idolize them in everything, but at the same time cheat on her, considering this completely normal. But they never forgive betrayal and will certainly try to take revenge if something happens.
How can you tell if a married man is in love?
Signs of falling in love are not obvious; observing the behavior of the object helps to notice them:
- attention to a woman without expectation of benefit or benefit;
- distinguishing her from other representatives of society, including special treatment (diminutive name, affectionate nicknames);
- desire for touching;
- attempts to organize time alone;
- negative comments about your wife/girlfriend/constant companion, disguised or direct;
- changes in behavior next to the lady you like.
You can understand that this is an unusual manifestation of love, and not ordinary hostility, by hidden interest - glances, jealousy of others, breakdowns during close contacts of the lady with other potential gentlemen or her husband.
Attitude towards the advances of a married man
Having learned that a married man is courting her, a woman can choose three options:
- immediately make it clear that for her a relationship with a person related by marriage is unacceptable;
- act as if nothing is happening in the hope that the lover will give up;
- accept courtship and start dating.
The first path is suitable for women who are either happy in their family (a couple not bound by formalities), or who do not accept such a relationship, considering it treason. The refusal in this case must be reasoned and avoid misunderstanding.
The second option is acceptable if there is no opportunity or desire to explain to an unwanted admirer (boss, relative, influential person). If a woman is consistent in her behavior, this method can work.
The third way - to accept the advances of a married man - is suitable only for those ladies who are either ready for such a relationship and understand its short-term nature, or who want to take a suitor away from the family. At the same time, women can act under the influence of illusion. Based on how a married man in love (Gemini, for example) behaves, the apparent readiness to leave his wife and marry his mistress can mislead a woman.
Scorpio is a passionate zodiac sign in love. Scorpio men attract the attention of representatives of the opposite sex with their charisma. Scorpio boldly takes leadership in relationships into his own hands. His chosen one can really be envied: she will be able to relax and feel under the tutelage of a man experienced in every sense. But there is one catch: how to understand that a Scorpio man is in love with you?
The representative of this zodiac sign is a kind of Casanova who shows signs of attention to many girls, but he rarely has real feelings. Like most representatives of the strong half of humanity, a Scorpio man in love hides his feelings. That is, he does not want others to know about his feelings for his chosen one.
Given Scorpio's natural secretiveness, it is very difficult to find out about his true feelings for you. But nothing is impossible. We offer several tips with which you can easily understand that the insidious Scorpio dreams of you day and night.
Zodiac sexual compatibility
The best partners for Scorpio are Pisces and Cancer. The Cancer girl is quite reserved and caring. She will provide the man with support and surround him with comfort, for which she will be rewarded with financial stability. The Pisces lady reads the thoughts of her chosen one, feels the waves of his mood. This union is harmonious not only in the sexual, but also in the spiritual and material spheres.
Scorpios are poorly compatible with girls of their sign in family life - this is an “explosive” combination.
Compatibility with the signs of the earth element is not the same. Capricorn girls can become excellent partners; they are just as purposeful and assertive. The Taurus lady is similar to Scorpio in her passion and sensuality combined with practicality. This union can exist if the partners are not too demanding of each other. A long-term union with Virgo is unlikely - this woman is too cold and calculating.
Air signs do not go well with this man. Aquarius girls are too freedom-loving, Geminis are frivolous, and Libras enjoy increased attention from strangers. Signs of this element have a low need for intimacy, which is not suitable for a hot man.
It will be difficult for Scorpio to create an alliance with Fire signs. He is too secretive and distrustful for the straightforward idealists of Sagittarius. With Aries, the spirit of competition will be expressed. Leo women will give endless reasons for jealousy.
Scorpio's behavior in love may seem selfish. But the man's true motives are much deeper. A partner must love sex - this is a prerequisite for a happy union with this sign. He does not open up to every girl he meets, but when he falls in love, he plunges headlong.
Signs of a Scorpio in Love
A sharp change in character for the better
A Scorpio in love tries his best to hide his shortcomings. Excessive masculinity is replaced by vulnerability, tyranny turns into compliance, and leadership into helpfulness. These magical changes in character apply only to the object of love. Changes can also apply to other people, but only at the moment when Scorpio is sure that you are watching him.
Increased focus on career
If a Scorpio man is in love, then he thinks about career growth. I want to earn more to buy a lady a beautiful ring, go abroad in the summer, rent a more comfortable apartment in a good area. If a Scorpio man begins to stay at work for a long time, his boss often calls him, frequent conversations about his career are noticeable, then all the signs of falling in love are evident.
Generosity - confirmation of feelings
If you want to see how a Scorpio man in love behaves, then try hinting to him about financial difficulties. You can come up with them, the most important thing for you is to check the man’s feelings. If he is really in love with you, he will not hesitate to share all his savings. Moreover, he may get into debt, which he will then pay off with earnings from an additional job. But reciprocal behavior will also be expected from you.
Showing feelings
It is important for Scorpios to have their own personal space, free from any encroachment. Even the closest people are not allowed into this secretive world. Experiencing strong feelings, a guy will try to hide their manifestation by all available means, such is the nature of a Scorpio man. What is he like when he loves - characteristic signs of behavior:
The intimate side of relationships is of great importance to Scorpio. He does not suffer from hypocrisy, he loves experiments and novelty. What is important for him is the girl’s active participation in the process, her willingness to accept his suggestions.
