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How to build a life chart by date of birth:
Now you know how to build a life chart by date of birth, and most importantly, you can decipher it. Numerology has been proving its benefits for several centuries, but it cannot be called an exact science. The living standard chart should be regarded as a hint, not a guide to action.
A twelve-year period is too long a time interval to describe with just one number. Numerology only shows what will dominate a person’s life, but does not exclude both success in difficult periods and failure in good years. The importance of the calendar in a person’s life is enormous, so take advantage of it for your health.
From 28 to 35 years old
The point of life is in Leo. A tendency toward adventurism, alcoholism, and drug addiction begins to appear; there is an influx of energy, which not everyone can use correctly; many begin to waste it, indulging in pleasures and entertainment, often empty and worthless. The best way to combat temptations is to study philosophy, religion, and read books that raise morality and purity of soul.
It is very important to choose the right philosophical concept, not to go into sectarianism, not to accumulate negative energy that can destroy a person. Turning point - up to 32 years
From the age of 28, family problems fade into the background, and one’s own ego becomes the main thing. A person tries to prove himself in a team, to be noticed and appreciated. At the age of 29, he takes stock of the years he has lived for the first time. For women, the period is very important - 32 years. Time to change feelings, reconsider your personal relationships. At this age, divorces often occur and new love affairs begin. We must try to analyze the past, weigh all the pros and cons, and not act too quickly. New feelings may not last long, sometimes only a year.
Main goals in human life
We strive to satisfy basic needs: food, comfort, safety, entertainment. The main goals in a person’s life are a happy family, a big house and a carefree old age. All of this refers to long-term goals, in order to progress towards which you need to complete daily short-term ones.
Main goal in life: philosophy
Aristotle believed that the goal of human life is happiness, which consists of thinking and knowing. Thus, the main goal in life according to Aristotle is constant self-development.
L.N. Tolstoy agreed with Aristotle. He believed that the essence of life is self-improvement and personal development.
Kant wrote: “man’s existence has within itself a highest goal, to which, as far as it is in his power, he can subordinate all nature.” According to his thoughts, the purpose of the individual is to work for the good of society. When a person dies, only his works and his activities remain.
Male and female aspirations
A man's goals in life and a woman's goals are different. Men, on average, are inclined to extract resources, to fight for supremacy (in the financial market, in sports). The purpose in the life of an ordinary woman is associated with creative fulfillment, family, and motherhood. This is just a statistic, not a rule. There are ladies who dream of a sports career and financial success, and men who dream of a strong and large family.
Circle of life goals
There is a psychological technique that helps you determine what exactly is missing in your life. For this:
Draw a circle on a piece of paper. Divide it into 8 sectors. Name them like this: “Hobbies”, “Health”, “Personal growth”, “Career”, “Family”, “Environment”, “Creativity”, “Recreation”. Think about each of these areas. What suits you most and what least? Draw each sector with colored markers or pencils. The 100% shaded segment shows your complete satisfaction with this area of life. And the one you leave empty reflects dissatisfaction and the need for change. Draw a similar circle nearby. Now fill it out with how you would like to feel in these areas. Compare what you want with what you actually have
Pay special attention to those areas where the difference is felt most acutely.
The exercise makes it clear which area of your activity has been left unattended. The circle of goals is a good technique that allows you to understand yourself and understand “what’s wrong with you.”
Adolescence
The next stage is the transition between childhood and adulthood. Adolescence lasts between 13 and 19 years. But changes in the psyche and body can begin much earlier - at the age of 9-12 years.
The most sensitive age is 11-13 years. At this time, teenagers are often ashamed of themselves, make ridiculous movements, cover their faces with their hair out of embarrassment and try in every possible way to hide their shyness.
At this age, a teenager is often disoriented. For the first time, he poses questions of independence and personality development. Teenagers often face difficulties at school and face serious choices regarding alcohol, drugs, or a healthy lifestyle. Great importance is attached to romantic interests and participation in teenage communities.
Growth Stage 2: Birth
Once the founder takes a risk, “a business is born.”
This is expressed by the registration of the organization. The idea becomes a reality and it should start producing results. Every sale is a special event and everything is action-oriented. Business does everything to sell. There are no processes or systems, and no one pays any attention to paperwork. What was really emphasized was the registration of the organization and the proper execution of papers. Further, accounting can be done remotely.
The founders work 16 hours a day, seven days a week. They have no time for their personal life because a business that requires constant attention is like a child. Decisions are difficult to make. New problems arise every day, so rules and best practices are created along the way. Energy and enthusiasm begin to gradually decline. The business can be opened at the main address of the organization. However, this is not always the case.
To ensure positive cash flow, long-term planning takes a backseat. Everyone is busy trying to keep businesses afloat. All this becomes a way of life. Every day brings unique situations that require creativity and the ability to make quick decisions. The main mistake of many starting projects is related to the inconvenient address of the organization. If a company works directly with clients, it is necessary to choose a comfortable and accessible location.
In addition, introducing processes and forming strategies early will be a mistake because everything changes too quickly. What works today won't necessarily work tomorrow. Founders are deeply involved in technical work and day-to-day operations and delegate only when necessary. Many companies forget about logo development. In fact, it is an important element in a company's marketing. Without it, recognition will be minimal.
Logo design can be ordered from professional designers. Clients greet a new business precisely by its design. Therefore, you should create a presentable appearance.
Planning and plan
The main purpose of planning is to determine possible actions to achieve a goal. Forecasting consequences and their implementation, as well as choosing the best path to the goal. The result of planning is an action plan.
A plan is a description of the sequence of actions, the conditions for their implementation, the required resources, and the rules for their use. And subgoals, the implementation of which allows you to achieve your goal.
Goal setting and planning not only allows you to determine the best way to achieve a goal. But also significantly save resources, for example:
- Time - found to only take 10 minutes a day to plan. Saves an average of 2 hours when doing the same tasks;
- The energy is you. you will do only useful things;
- Relationships - distribution of tasks between household members or delegation;
- Finance - you can clearly distribute income and expenditure of money.
Thus, goal setting and planning make it possible to make the process of self-realization consistent. A plan helps determine the optimal steps to successfully and effectively achieve your life goal.
Main types of plans:
1. MISSION
Abstractly describe the main results that you need to create in your life.
2. STRATEGIC PLANS
These are the most difficult, important and useful goals for self-realization. Most resources can be spent on achieving them, and the results are directly related to the mission of life. For such plans it is very difficult to predict the timing.
3. TACTICAL PLANS
Is part of and depends on a specific strategic plan. With such plans, the end result is known exactly. And you can set an approximate deadline for implementation.
4. OPERATIONAL PLANS
These are goals for which both the result and the path to achieving it are known. The results of these plans provide resources for tactical and strategic purposes. For such plans, you can set fairly precise deadlines.
From 0 to 7 years.
The point of life at this age moves according to the most nimble sign - Aries. Children are bursting with energy, they are restless and inquisitive, they immediately want to know everything about everything, and there is no force that could stop them.
And there is no need to restrain a child at this age; on the contrary, we need to give him more freedom, because it is very important for him to assert himself and show his abilities. The task of parents is to instill in the child a feeling of love and compassion for others, and to prevent the development of selfishness and cruelty. After all, the motto of this age and Aries is: “I want!” Don’t let your child hurt animals and other kids, teach them to take care of nature, and cultivate willpower
If you fail to instill these qualities in a child before the age of seven, you will never instill them!=
From 70 to 77 years
Aquarius time. A time of contemplation of life, a philosophical view of it, the view of an outside observer. Throughout his life, a person changes his attitude towards the world around him, changes his priorities. As children we say: “I”. In his youth: “Me and the world.” In adulthood: “The world and I.” At the age of Aquarius, only “PEACE” remains. This fourth stage of perception is the most important in understanding life and one’s place in it. If such a perception of the world does not come over the years, then a person’s spiritual qualities gradually begin to fade away, he falls into insanity, which inevitably leads to the collapse of the physical body. Aquarius time is a time of enjoying solitude or family solitude with your other half, since the life program has already been completed. But while enjoying life, show wisdom and philanthropy, then those around you will respect you for your thoughtfulness, justice and deep knowledge of the laws of life.
Stages of Personality Development
Stages of personality development:
- Primitive. This stage is the lowest level of personality development. Human behavior is close to the animal world, the main goal is to satisfy animal instincts. A person at the primitive stage is practically not interested in social norms. However, it is possible to show interest in other stages; this requires awareness of the need, as well as eradicating violence at the mental level.
- Common man. Such a person thinks little about life; he takes basic information from the media, newspapers and television, without analyzing it or criticizing it. In society, a person behaves according to the rules, but at the level of thoughts he allows himself to insult other people. The stage is based on the need to satisfy base needs (alcohol, smoking, etc.).
- Boss. A person becomes the master of his own feelings and demands order from those around him. The basis of behavior is the desire to control and subjugate. Such a person requires attention from others, especially from the opposite sex.
- "Blissful". A person is ready to take responsibility and take care of other people. There are changes in the perception of life, feelings and emotions are deep. To manage one’s power, the individual acquires the necessary knowledge. This stage is characteristic of the period of maturity.
- Sage. A person independently controls his own consciousness and understands the structure of the world. He realizes that all events have their reasons. A person sees the deep meaning of processes. At this stage, wisdom, understanding of life and personality development arise.
- Enlightenment. The transition to this stage is a revelation, an insight. A person realizes where the real truth is; such individuals are calm and resistant to any life situations.
Thus, regardless of position, a person always has the opportunity to move forward. In life you need to use all the necessary tools for self-knowledge, development of your business, creativity, etc.
What is goal setting
Each person has his own lifestyle. Models of behavior are conventionally divided into two large groups: opportunistic and goal-oriented. The first group includes people who adapt to living conditions, the second group includes people who are firmly moving towards their intended goal. Both models have their advantages and disadvantages. Focusing specifically on the disadvantages, you can determine what to choose. Let's look at both sides of the coin for each method.
Adapters tend to go with the flow and submit to modern realities. Such people do not try to radically change or improve anything. By nature, they are usually kind and forgiving, value stability and are afraid of losses due to some changes in life. At the slightest trouble, opportunists tend to become depressed or experience strong emotions. They do not create conditions, but get used to existing ones, trying to unconditionally comply with certain norms and rules.
Purposeful individuals build their own lives and do not go with the flow. Usually these are entrepreneurs, high-class specialists and successful people with wisdom and experience. Being one of many is not enough; they strive for unconditional leadership in the area of interest to them. Such activity and ambition sometimes promise trouble; goal-setting in the activities of these people involves overcoming various kinds of obstacles. With strong character, leaders are determined to achieve results and do not complain about the problems that arise. They tend to create for the sake of maximum comfort.
Each personality type has both pros and cons. Any person can equally choose one path or another. The same opportunists are useful for society. When a leader creates something, the other type takes it and uses it.
Let's understand the very term “goal setting”. In short, it is the work of setting goals. At the same time, not only are they formed (one large or several small ones), but also options for achieving them are developed. As a result, specific problems and tasks are solved that improve the quality of life.
By goal, each person understands something different:
- desired outcome of events;
- specific result of the process;
- expected future.
A goal defines an achievable and desired result for a person.
Why is this so important? In the process of goal setting, a person organizes his activities and begins to control them.
Unfortunately, some people sometimes enjoy the very process of solving the task they have set for themselves, which is why the original goal is forgotten and replaced by another.
The goal must be clear, clear and specific. Otherwise it becomes difficult to achieve. Fuzzy goal setting creates the basis for doubts about the need to complete the task. Initial desires are forgotten, and other priorities arise in their place.
