Why do women love women? Love between women has become a fairly common phenomenon and no longer causes much condemnation, although it still makes many people think about such a choice. The phenomenon of lesbianism cannot be considered a tribute to fashion, since it has always existed, now the veil of mystery and censure is only falling away. In the same way, attitudes towards women have changed, starting from gaining the right to significant career growth. All this influences and transforms interpersonal and intimate relationships, in which men increasingly take a driven and passive position. It starts with the active desire of women to get married, but that is not the goal. Every woman wants and seeks love and understanding, and if she cannot get it using the usual standard method, then her search takes on new horizons. The search for tenderness and romance can contribute to this. After all, it is much easier to build a relationship with a person who wants such a pastime than to constantly nag a man and be offended by rudeness or lack of understanding of the candles and roses on the table.
There is also the concept of innate homosexuality and now it is no longer condemned, and accordingly, many women, instead of suppressing their true desires and doomed life with a man, can afford to be in a comfortable relationship with a woman. In many ways, this is a balanced decision aimed at revealing one’s personal nature, as well as caring for other people. In this aspect, an established married couple is no different from a heterosexual one, since what is important for building relationships is not gender and the combination of gender characteristics, but the ability of people to hear the other and build relationships. But there are cases when women choose women after numerous traumas received in relationships with men. With such a development of events, negative consequences, ruined destinies and retraumatization are likely, since the choice of female relationships is not a continuation of the personality itself, but rather an escape from reality. Unhealed traumas will always surface in new interactions, no matter who is involved.
Choosing any orientation is not a deviation or violation, unless the behavior is a consequence of a traumatic experience. Initially, all people are bisexual and each personality contains both feminine and masculine traits that require implementation to the same extent.
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“Women in my family did not see anything good from men. Grandmother to the question: “Who was grandfather?” she invariably answered: “It burned, and there was no smoke.” My dad got the nickname “cyclist”: he was constantly riding somewhere, and always farther from home. Maybe it’s not surprising that I decided to choose a woman. And I didn’t regret it. We feel good together: we honestly share all responsibilities, even those that men usually run away from.”
Women who treat men poorly pass this feeling on to their daughters. The image of a parasite on the sofa, a “goat” who only needs one thing, who “sails and abandons” is one of the reasons why a woman chooses a woman. Fear, a feeling of disgust towards “animal” men - this is what sometimes becomes the reason for unconventional choices. So, if you want to raise a heterosexual girl, don't hold it against men.
And one more thing: don’t do a man’s job! In pursuit of equality, the woman herself tears the initiative and work from the hands of the man; he has no choice but to lie quietly on the sofa. Due to the heavy workload, a woman becomes nervous, becomes embittered towards the entire male family, and as a result, she either passes on her attitude to the younger generation or leaves the man for the woman.
Inexperiencei
In childhood, relationships between boys and girls are usually very unstable. Today Lesha and Yulia are walking together, laughing and excitedly discussing an episode of their favorite TV series. Tomorrow his friends will tell the boy that being friends with girls is not respectable. Yulina’s heart will break against the wall of indifference that unexpectedly separated her from her best friend and the object of her childhood affection.
But she always has someone to turn to, tell all her secret experiences and relieve herself of the burden of melancholy and sadness. Friend Natasha will always listen, hug and never betray. She likes to communicate with Yulia. After school, girls often spend the night at each other's houses. They have something to keep secret about. And there are much more common interests than with the strange Leshka without his own opinion.
A very strong and close emotional connection is built between young girls during puberty. The boundaries of friendship are often destroyed, because a young soul feels real sympathy towards a friend and is not afraid of being rejected or ridiculed. The point is that girls practice their first kisses and caresses with each other.
And we read more about why girls are turned on by girls in our article further on the link.
It's not even a matter of actually having lesbian inclinations. Just a friend - the closest person. There is not a single guy in the constant environment who could be perceived in the same way as Natasha’s girlfriend. Well, fleeting crushes on girls happen. They, of course, most often end with the appearance of boys and romantic advances on their part.
There is nothing terrible or reprehensible that girls are attracted to girls. It is a well-known fact that females always mature faster than males. This can be seen even in the example of wild nature and its inhabitants. It is precisely because guys don’t even think about sexual experiments yet, and girls are already expecting romance and tenderness with all their might, that short-term affairs with friends happen.
Unhappy love
“My relationships with women began from the moment when one fine day I shaved my head. She did this out of banal, unhappy love for a man. It was then that we discovered that the girls were very close.”
This is perhaps the most common reason for leaving for another love. The inability to build relationships with the opposite sex, resentment, a feeling of loneliness and one’s own unattractiveness, which is typical for many teenagers, can force one to look for love where the competition is not so high. This is the path of least resistance, which will sooner or later lead to disappointment if a person is controlled not by true desires and drives, but by considerations of spiritual comfort. It is better to go through unhappy love alone; a love experience with a woman can lead to such a wall growing between men and you that it will not be possible to destroy it even in a few years.
What attracts men most in a woman - Top 4 qualities
1) Correct internal state
Fact! A woman's attractiveness in a man's eyes will depend on the emotions he experiences when he is around her.
If a woman gives a man the emotions he needs, then he will become addicted to her like a drug addict. But how to evoke the right feelings in a man? The key lies in the inner state. To make the opposite sex go crazy over you, you need to know and use one law of communication.
Law of Communication - Emotions are transmitted
The feelings and emotions that you experience when you are next to a man are read by his subconscious and he begins to feel exactly the same as you, and you just like him. And if your synchronization of emotions brings both of you a thrill, then mutual sympathy arises.
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Remember your situation in life. You go on a date and are greeted by a gloomy and pessimistic guy. If you did not immediately go home, but continued the dialogue with him, then over time his gloomy mood will be transmitted to you. It is completely uncomfortable to be around him, because he feels awkward and transmits this state to you.
Now let's look at another example. You go on a date, and a cool, optimistic and happy man is waiting for you. Life energy is seething inside him. And even if your mood before meeting him was not very good, then in the process of communication he infected you with his optimism and energy. His positive emotions were transferred to you and therefore such a man is a charm in your eyes. We also call such people charismatics. And all because we feel cool next to them.
Remember: If inside you feel a buzz from life and positivity, then the people around you will consider you attractive!
Positive thinking and attitude towards life is the key to successful interaction with a man. I will say from my own experience that there are very few positive girls. The majority are depressed people with a lot of problems in life. And such people are not attractive in the eyes of the opposite sex. And only those women who look at the world through the prism of optimism and go through life with a smile catch the admiring glances of the best men.
Very often before a date I use the following trick: I imagine how great I will have today, how in the near future my dreams and goals will come true and fill my thoughts with positivity. My inner state becomes correct and almost any girl who meets me at this moment finds me charming. And all simply because my positive attitude was passed on to her.
Use this trick and never go on a date with a sad face.
2) Appearance
It's no secret that appearance plays a big role in a person's attractiveness. Now we will talk about the importance of being bright and impressive. Bright appearance, clothing, behavior - this is very attractive from an evolutionary point of view. (Read more about evolutionary biology here: The ideal figure of a girl according to men - Evolutionary biology).
The fact is that a bright style and shocking behavior are a demonstration of excess energy. Those. a man’s subconscious thinks that if a woman looks and presents herself so impressively, it means she has a lot of energy.
And excess energy is an indirect sign of a good immune system, and good immunity = healthy children. All these are games of perception of our animal brain, not logic. Therefore, a man will not carry out such complex biological analysis in his head. He will simply pay attention to a bright girl and want her. Instincts decide everything for him.
Therefore, under no circumstances should you be shy about dressing in bright colors. Men will start paying attention to you more often, and you will achieve success.
Second tip - stand out If everyone is wearing gray down jackets, then you should wear a bright red coat. If everyone around you is wearing a red dress, wear a black one. Standing out in the crowd is one of the tricks that will allow you to attract additional attention. The method is very simple but effective.
Seducers are well aware of evolutionary biology and the importance of standing out. The founder of the pickup truck and the pioneer in this topic, Eric Von Markovic, was well versed in human psychology and looked shocking at any event. (Below you can see Eric's image)
Painted my nails when it wasn't mainstream
People with this type of behavior are also called “White Crow” because such a person is not like the others. But oddly enough, many representatives of the fair sex are beginning to be interested in precisely such non-standard personalities. The explanation is as follows: if this guy is not like everyone else, and at the same time he managed to survive, then he has strong genes.
The pickup guru liked to paint his nails black to differentiate himself from all the guys in the establishment. Very often the girls were the first to start a conversation with him to ask about his black nails. Thanks to this trick, the seduction process was easier and faster.
I also recommend reading: Why do men love bitches? - in simple words
3) Homogamy and social equality
Scientists studied happy couples who have been living together for more than 5 years and found the following: partners in stable couples are usually very similar to each other. They are of the same social level, they have similar thinking, values and views of the world. Even outwardly, many of them are very similar. And they called this social phenomenon a beautiful word - homogamy.
Homogamy is the tendency to choose a love or marriage partner who is similar to oneself.
It turns out that if you and your man are similar in many ways (in interests, views, values), then you have a higher chance of creating a stable couple.
But why does this happen? The fact is that people find attractive those who share their views and worldview. Such a person automatically seems like one of our own, and we begin to like him more. But people who do not share our point of view, and even worse, argue with us, seem unattractive to us.
Therefore, if you want to truly hook a man, find commonalities between you. Perhaps you like the same music or have the same views on life situations. All this is a huge plus for your communication.
Men also find girls attractive who are on the same social level as them. Not only women, but also men pay attention to the social status of their partner. And if the man is an oligarch, and the girl works in a five-star team, then they will not be able to build a full-fledged relationship. Of course, an oligarch can fall in love, but he will always pull the blanket over himself and perceive her lower.
Therefore, it is very important to choose a partner from approximately the same social circle. And if you want to happily marry a billionaire, then you yourself need to earn at least a million. Otherwise, your value in the relationship will be lower.
4) Vibes and smell
Fact! People find the natural scent of the person they are biologically best suited to reproduce attractive.
We are subconsciously able to determine the immune system and our genetic compatibility with a partner by smell. Of course, these processes are not realized by logic, you are not intentionally sniffing anyone, but your instinctive mechanisms cope with this task perfectly. It is smell that is the most important criterion in assessing the attractiveness of a partner.
By the way, you can influence the attractiveness of your scent. If you exercise, eat right, and lead a healthy lifestyle, men's olfactory receptors will perceive your scent as more attractive. Therefore, it is important to exercise not only to maintain your figure, but also to radiate fluids.
You can watch the video below to learn more about how we choose a partner based on smell.
Dances to choose from
“Sex with a woman is more sophisticated, refined, leisurely. And although I love a man’s body more than a woman’s, I find what I need only in a woman’s arms.”
Even the erotic dances of lesbians are different from the way women who love men move. But dance is a kind of imitation of sexual intercourse. The movements of traditional women are more conservative and rhythmic; among lesbians, languor and smoothness prevail, they focus on the chest and hips. If a woman sometimes has sex with a woman, it means she needs it, this is evidence of her bisexuality. She is unlikely to become happy in life: such a “split” of desires is a difficult test, because a person always strives to make a decision. Even the great bisexuals, such as Marlene Dietrich or Madonna (who eventually settled on men), were not looking for diversity, but trying to understand themselves.
Like clockwork
“I get the impression that half the female population of the world has decided that not trying sex with a woman is a sign of cowardice and narrow-mindedness.”
Fashion has a great influence on hobbies. Young people especially obey her. And homosexuality is relevant today. It is no coincidence that the Tatu group, whose soloists have nothing to do with sexual minorities, successfully exploited the theme of same-sex female love. By the way, true lesbians treated the work of this once popular duo with contempt. Although his success was precisely calculated. The desire of young people to be shocking, to imitate (kiss girls, take off their T-shirts, like on stage) does its job. So the mass character and peculiar popularity of same-sex relationships are to a large extent children’s games, which cynical adults invent for them.
Fight for a woman
“Recently, on the subway, two girls waved their hands at me and expressed admiration for my appearance with loud exclamations. The mood lifted - so what, girls. I need attention, and it doesn’t matter from whose side.”
This is a problem of seeking comfort and low self-esteem. Among lesbians, traditionally male behavior patterns such as fighting for a chosen one are more common today than among men. For a young girl, deprived of male attention, lesbian knightly tournaments in her honor are a pleasant surprise. Self-esteem grows, overwhelming all other instincts and feelings.
Body language and tactile cues
The brain of a girl in love provokes her into various tactile contacts with the object of love. You can easily recognize these signs without much effort:
The most obvious signal will be open flirting with you.
The flirtatious nature of women will not allow her to calmly walk past you without any advances. This way she will express her attraction to you and also use a way to test your feelings for her. Try to reciprocate such tricks of a woman and then your relationship will move to a new level much faster. Many girls don’t know how to behave and start teasing them a lot, don’t be offended because this is just an expression of their feelings.
Violation of personal space can make it clear that a girl loves you.
She tries to constantly be near you and calmly invades your space without embarrassment, but at the same time she is not afraid of your intrusions into her comfort zone. On the contrary, she is very happy when you violate her boundaries and are closer to her.
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Tactile contact and touching you indicate a strong interest in you.
Constant contact with you allows you to know that the girl loves you. After all, she is very pleased to feel your warmth and always be there. For example, in a cafe she will sit as close to you as possible, even in a large company, and will hope for random touches of you. The main tactile signal will be the desire to straighten your hair, blow away dust particles, or simply run your hand over your shoulder. Having noticed these signs, feel free to talk about your feelings for her.
Constant emotional stress and unrest around you.
For a woman, any contact with a loved one is a burst of emotions and hormones; she will always be nervous around you. Looking at her at the moment of first contact, you will immediately understand her feelings. She may hesitate or answer out of tune or stutter. Her face will be covered with a slight blush, and her breathing will become more frequent. It will be difficult to understand these signs at first, but over time you will get the hang of it and be able to see them at a glance. Such training is good for developing observation skills.
