100 playful text messages for a man to make him think about you

Messages to Send While Waiting for a Date

Before the meeting, you can send one of the following messages. By the way, this data can be converted into an SMS to a man for intrigue in your own words.

1. I'm crazy about one thing about you... I'll tell you during the date what it is.
2. Today I looked in the closet and saw my favorite blouse with an open neckline... I can’t wait to show it to you.
3. Hey, I've decided something. And now no one will dissuade me from this goal... I’ll tell you later.
4. All day long I have only one thing on my mind. I’ll tell you when we meet what it’s like...
5. Oh, I just had an incredible idea today. When you come, I’ll tell you which one it is.
6. You know, this is a very difficult question for me... Let's discuss it during the meeting?
7. Come as soon as possible. I’ll show you something that will simply stun you...
8. A real intrapersonal conflict flared up in my soul... Yes, during the conversation I’ll tell you what’s going on.
9. I don’t want to write about this yet. You know, the less you write, the more you can tell later.
10. We definitely need to meet this evening! I promise you won't regret it.
11. I'll show you how much I love you. I think you will be very surprised.
12. I hope you have a good rest today. Because tomorrow I will need all your energy, dear...
13. Let you tell me the three things that drive you crazy the most. And I will do 2 out of 3 of these things.
14. I recently came up with a daring thought related to you. But she is too seductive - I’ll tell you later...

The main laws of correct correspondence with a man at the beginning of a relationship

So, based on the above, the main laws of correct correspondence with a man at the beginning of a relationship:

Rule #1. As short as possible

Incorrect: “I just woke up, lay in bed for a long time, and finally decided to get up and make myself some coffee. Its aroma reminded me of our last wonderful night, and I slowly savor it and remember the taste of your lips ... "

Correct: “I just woke up. Thinking of you"

It's great if you have the gift of words. But this is completely unsuitable for correspondence with a man.

1. Firstly, do not overload him with unnecessary information - men by nature are a little rude compared to women. Therefore, you need to write briefly and to the point.
2. Secondly, leave room for his imagination. Set the direction of his thoughts, and add a little imagination.

For example: “I was thinking about you. I passed my stop"

In general, brevity and imagination are the sister of talented love correspondence.

And more humor.

Rule #2. Evoke emotions

Of course it won't be easy here. Women think that they can only evoke emotions with a long, beautiful saying (for example, see the incorrect example above). These are the messages that make them emotional, so they themselves write in this style, and are offended that they receive “Uh-huh” in response.

You need to learn to “hit.”

Doesn't answer for a long time or doesn't answer at all - it means you didn't get it. Try something different. At the initial stage of a relationship, when you don’t know the man very well, the main task is to understand him. What he is like, what he reacts to and how. The exciting process of getting to know another person.

There is only one way to do this - trial and error. This applies, by the way, not only to correspondence, but also to other areas of your communication. So don't be afraid, but explore.

Rule #3. Flirting in love correspondence

Of course, flirting. Of course, sexual half-hints, double overtones, ambiguous and unambiguous sentences. Let me remind you that we are talking about correspondence with a man with whom you have seen, communicate, we can say that you are starting an affair. And not with a stranger from a dating site.

Correspondence allows you to remove some barrier.

Now virtual communication is beginning to catch up and surpass real communication in volume, but still, there is a feeling that you can afford a little more in this field than in real life. Ask or ask for something that you don’t dare say to your face. Decide to say something that you would never say out loud.

Laconic messages

There are also short SMS messages for a man for intrigue, which will cause hundreds of guesses and thoughts in the admirer.

1. This evening I plan to wear only heels...
2. I couldn't sleep tonight. Guess why?
3. Would you be angry with me if I kissed a girl?
4. I want to do enoterapy with you.
5. Wow...what have you done?
6. I know something personal about you...
7. I haven’t told you everything yet, this is too painful a topic...
8. Again? Again? Well, I'm just out of touch with you...
9. Wow, this is fun...
10. Your friend told me something about you.
11. I'm already going crazy dreaming about you...
12. I found out what you like to spend money on. I am surprised!
13. I myself can’t believe how this even came to my mind...
14. I have some plans for you.
15. I want to go with you to an interesting place.

Comments:

• 24.11.2017

  Lilya:

  I liked about “My tongue itched to lick something.” Originally, I’ll send this to my friend in the evening, and we’ll see what he buys - ice cream, or “something for tea” with banana flavor at the pharmacy.

  22.07.2019

  Read also:  What is Tolerance in Psychology, and Why Is It Important?

  Natalia:

  What kind of “banana flavor” is there in the pharmacy? Share

Mysterious messages on various topics

The following SMS messages to a man for intrigue are devoted to various aspects of a romantic relationship.

1. When I saw you, I realized that only for me your heart is doomed to suffer.
2. Hello, I learned some interesting fact about you. He turns me on so much that it is impossible to concentrate on work.
3. I didn’t expect at all that so-so was hidden behind this modest appearance...
4. I want to be back in that romantic moment - where you and I were happy.
5. I wanted to ask you an immodest question: have you already imagined what I look like without clothes?
6. Your hugs are so pleasant to me that I cannot convey it to you in words.
7. For several days now I have not been able to overcome my desires. They just can't get out of my head.
8. I recently learned an interesting fact about you. I'm just fascinated by the kind of person you are.
9. I've been wanting to tell you one thing for a long time. You know... Oh, the phone will run out now, later!
10. I feel like I'm losing my mind. But I think about this thing all the time. No, don't even ask which one.
11. You know, you are such an unusual person. More specifically, when I saw you, I was seduced by one very rare feature in you...
12. Hello, do you know what the weather forecasters predict? Is it expected to rain today? Because I just wanted to go somewhere...
13. Hello, I have already prepared my formal dress. So I'm looking forward to seeing you tonight!
14. I saw one person while walking - he looked like you, like two peas in a pod.
15. I went to the hypermarket today. There, among other products, I bought cream in a can. Guess what I need them for?
16. Don't want to answer my messages? Well, okay, dear... Be careful) Because then I will take revenge on you in a very original way.
17. Then I’ll tell you why you must endure any of my whims.
18. Oh yes, this topic is familiar to me... Your story resonated with me such painful memories, I’ll tell you later...
19. Of course, you are somewhere far away. But look around. Because I see everything.
20. I was walking home from work along the street, joyful, and then the breeze inspired me with several interesting thoughts...
21. I love it when my sister leaves home. After all, then I can walk around the apartment naked...
22. Today I read that coffee increases female libido. So why do you constantly invite me for a cup of aromatic drink?
23. Last night I had an incredibly colorful dream involving you. I'll tell you when we meet.
24. All my girlfriends say they would like to date a guy like you.
25. Everyone started talking about me here - supposedly they saw me in the company of some handsome guy the other day. Do you happen to know who it was?
26. I find it hard to believe that you are real - do guys like that still exist?
27. I saw a naughty picture in a book here. She made me think about you.
28. Have I ever told you about my weirdest idea?
29. I type a message with one hand and do something else with the other. Guess what?
30. I can't help but think of you every time I hear this song. Guess what kind of hit this is?
31. I constantly think about whether you will live up to my hopes in this regard... In what way? I can’t say yet.
32. I have so much to do, but I still can’t stop looking at your photo...

What nice things can you write to a guy if you just met?

If your relationship with a man is just beginning, your correspondence is “fights without rules.” Kidding. Certain principles, of course, must be adhered to, but in general, the rule can be said only one thing - be sure to write.

Almost all girls are tormented by the question - to write first or not?

Numerous recommendations, such as those that you should never write or call a man first, are firmly entrenched in the female subconscious. Of course, there is a certain amount of truth in them - at the dating stage, a man should experience for as long as possible a certain amount of uncertainty about how much a woman needs him.

But if you are already communicating with all your might, and your interest in a man is more or less clearly indicated, I don’t think it’s worth engaging in childish calculations of who wrote to whom first, and who had the last word. Men are structured differently than women, I assure you, under almost no circumstances do they spend their time waiting for a call or message from a woman. And they hardly think about whether to write or not to write.

I felt the urge and wrote it. Or called. Without any doubts. You can try to play a little on the other, male side.

Rules for writing pleasant SMS

First, let's learn how to write SMS messages correctly. No, it’s clear, of course, that everyone knows how to press buttons, but sometimes even these innocent SMS messages turn reading time into a living hell for the subscriber. Therefore, we are guided by several rules:

• SMS cannot convey intonation, exactly the one that is understandable to the person who wrote it. Therefore, emoticons at the end of a sentence will definitely help you express all your feelings: are you smiling now, or are you sad.
• It is advisable not to use the “auto-correct” function . Sometimes there are certain oddities when, through inattention, you send out such nonsense, because of which the reader comes into a stupor. If you use “auto-correct”, be sure to double-check the text.
• Be friendly with spelling and punctuation. And this is not because your man is picky about literacy, but because texts written in a clumsy manner are difficult to read. And, frankly speaking, illiteracy does not look good on a girl.
• Again, long messages make reading difficult. SMS messages are needed more for dialogue than for an epistolary monologue. Even if your boyfriend did not immediately answer some of your questions, wait for some time - he may be busy.
• Do not mix pleasant messages with showdowns during correspondence. If you really want to please your man and not ruin your relationship with him, then it’s better to restrain yourself at some point if something goes wrong.
• Little surprises, in the form of SMS , should be as light as an air kiss, as short as a shot, and often not requiring a response. When sending an SMS, just think about how your lover will just smile now after reading it.
• Double-check the written text addressed to a man, in any case, and imagine: you would like to receive such a love letter yourself.
• Never try to make a “surprise” if a man warned you that at some time he will be very busy (meeting or driving), but you, being so mysterious, still wanted to provoke him with SMS of a sexual nature. This will be out of topic, and will most likely anger your young (or not so young) man.

Well, you understand…

Sometimes a woman is uncomfortable writing love messages to her chosen one, and she tries to give a short hint and sends a short SMS for a man she likes:

1. How about a glass of tea?
2. “I’m writing to you, what more?”
3. Everything is so strange and unusual.
4. I look after you - you have everything.
5. Words cannot be found, thoughts are confused.
6. I want to throw my hands on your shoulders.
7. I miss you, and you?
8. Your eyes are as tender as the sky...
9. You’re not cool, but just the way you are—that’s why you like him.
10. I want meetings, flowers, you.
11. I feel bad without you.
12. Call me somewhere.
13. Today I’m a fire hazard, I’m literally on fire.
14. I want to hear your voice.
15. I'm suffocating from tenderness...
16. I can’t sleep, you’re on my mind.
17. Somehow my heart was disturbed.
18. A long-forgotten feeling reappears after meeting you.
19. Don't be afraid, I'm afraid myself.
20. There are still many men on our land...
21. Fire in the chest - come quickly.
22. Let's try something and somehow.
23. I want you to no longer have sad eyes.
24. It's hard not to wait for you.
25. Men are the weaker sex - that’s what I thought before I met you.
26. Can you lend me your reliable shoulder?
27. I thought that this would never happen to me.
28. Everyone can speak beautifully, but you also do beautifully.
29. Love came unexpectedly.
30. A man's dignity lies in his actions, you proved it.
31. Thank you for you.
32. After meeting you I learned to dream again.
33. Are you somehow magical, or am I crazy?
34. I can’t sleep, you’re in my head.
35. Looks like Cupid hit me...
36. Your strength is not in your muscles, but in your head, and I like that.
37. I want romance, love, well, call me, call me.
38. I'm afraid to fall in love, and you?
39. I'm tired of everything, I'm just looking forward to meeting you.
40. You even outshine the spring sun for me.
41. I’m ready to jump into the pool headlong - call me.
42. It must be difficult to be a real man?

With a hint

Funny and funny SMS for a guy with a hint of something more! Hint to him about your needs. And if it’s hard for him to understand, then hint a couple more times and try to wink!

1. Where is my cute mosquito that loves to buzz behind my ear? I urgently need to be bitten!
2. I would like to be a fairy so that I can fly after you and scare away all sorts of professional furnets!
3. I am your sunshine, and you are my bunny! We are simply made for each other!
4. Don’t you think, my steppe eagle, that it’s time for us to go to warmer climes for a couple of weeks?
5. Today I was walking down the street, not touching anyone... and then somehow the bride’s bouquet from the wedding accidentally ended up in my hands!
6. In the evening, bugs in my head, treats on the table and hugs from me await you!
7. I propose to take our relationship to the next level! Shall we like each other on VK?
8. I really want to cheer you up! Pervert! Do not write me anymore…
9. You are my smart girl! You are an affectionate kitten! Pizza for you!
10. For the sake of my little paw, I’m even ready to watch 22 millionaires and 1 bald drug addict run through the grass after a ball!
11. The roof of my house leaked... and not only the roof!
12. I love you as much as locusts love to destroy fields! Muahaha...
13. I just want to hit you on the head with a shovel... so that you don’t remember about your exes!
14. Hmm, it turns out that it’s not so difficult to reach your head with your toe... Yes, I’m into yoga...
15. Well, that's it, now you're doomed! You can't escape me anymore!
16. I want to have a little fun... Do you, as usual, look down on this?
17. Do you want to get incredible pleasure? Go to bed and hope that you dream about me!
18. Is my gentle animal already willing or not yet?
19. I think you would make a great car service worker! After all, you start us off right away...
20. Do you want your cherished desires to come true? Well, first you have to sweat!

Why should you write first?

Leave the prejudice that a girl should not write first. It’s the 21st century—everything has changed a long time ago. Today, girls and women have the right to act as their heart and mind dictate. Also, by writing first, you can set the tone for the conversation, show that you are brave and open.

According to surveys, men are delighted with enterprising women and value care and attention no less than the fair half. He will respond with greater enthusiasm to a greeting from someone who takes the initiative, rather than independently looking for a reason to meet and communicate.

How to write an SMS to your beloved man

What messages should you use to start SMS communication with your beloved man?

The banal “Good morning” quickly becomes boring and very soon ceases to be a sign of attention. Every morning you need to charge your loved one for a good mood throughout the day. He will feel your warmth all day long, and in the evening he will dream of meeting you as soon as possible.

Example:

• “What a pity that this night is over! After all, in a dream I was with you"

or (before an important event)

• “I believe that today you will be on horseback!”

During the day, you can be reminded of your existence by remembering some pleasant moment together.

Example:

• “I look outside and remember those wonderful sunny weekends that we spent outside the city...”

Towards the end of the working day, you need to tease him with something so that the man spends the remaining time in anticipation of the meeting.

Example:

“I’ve already figured out how I’ll meet you at home, I can’t wait to show you”

Good night is the same story as good morning. Show your imagination so that your loved one falls asleep with a smile, and sees only you in his dreams.

How to cheer up a guy you like via online correspondence

Voice declarations of love on your phone

Make someone laugh with funny pictures and videos

Sometimes, when communicating with a guy on the Internet, a girl may come to the conclusion that the topics for communication have been exhausted, and in order to continue full-fledged communication, she often has to take a break for several days. Otherwise, the dialogue may simply become sluggish, which, of course, will not benefit the nascent relationship at all.

However, it is important to remember that when corresponding with a guy, it is not at all necessary to stick to only serious and ordinary everyday topics. The Internet does not make people closer, but it does provide undeniable advantages in communication in the form of bonuses such as funny pictures and various videos. In various groups on social networks, undoubtedly, you come across interesting memes every day that simply can’t help but make you smile. Save the most interesting ones and send them occasionally to your interlocutor - most likely, if you have a similar sense of humor, such messages will be able to cheer him up.

It is important to note that if your relationship is not yet very close, then avoid vulgar videos and pictures - you may be misunderstood. This kind of material is especially inappropriate if in real life you are a very modest and calm girl. Also, you should not send memes related to a topic that is unfamiliar to your interlocutor (about your favorite TV series, for example). Usually, funny pictures with animals, or those that illustrate typical scenes between a guy and a girl, are a safe bet.

Cheer up with emoticons and light dialogue on VK

Sometimes, just talking to someone is enough to lift a person’s mood. If you suspect that your interlocutor is upset about something, then start an unobtrusive and lightly distracting dialogue with him. You can talk about events that might interest him - for example, an upcoming concert or the release of a certain film. You can tell him that you visited some event, and you think that it would be interesting for him to be there too - briefly tell him about where you were. React to his jokes quickly, send back surprised or laughing emoticons. True, it’s better not to overdo it with the latter. Sometimes emoticons become the end of any conversation, since not every interlocutor can figure out the answer. That is why you should use emoticons mainly in combination with some phrase. You can also amuse a young man with a fresh joke found on the Internet.

Send your favorite song and find out about his musical preferences

When interlocutors begin to look for “common ground,” they often try to find out more information about each other’s tastes and determine in which areas they have the most in common. Of course, musical preferences are an important aspect of the lives of many people, and for many it is indicative.

Voice declarations of love on your phone

Send your guy one of your favorite songs, accompanying it with the question: “Do you like to listen to this or is it not your type?” If it turns out that the young man likes this composition, then you can send something else in the same spirit. Also ask what kind of music he prefers to listen to, show interest in his musical preferences! However, do not forget about politeness and a sense of tact - if a guy names you bands or compositions that you don’t like at all, then you don’t need to answer something like: “Oh, I can’t imagine how you can listen to this” or “No, no , such horror is not for me! Be tolerant and respectful of other people's tastes, and in the above situation you can answer like this: “Interesting music! I usually listen to a different style, but there’s definitely something in these songs.” Believe me, guys don’t react very well when they start making fun of their tastes or anything related to them, however, neither do girls.

If you really like the music that a young man is passionate about, do not hesitate to write to him openly about it. Ask if he has any other similar compositions in his “arsenal”. Subsequently, you can mention that on the road you listened to the songs that he sent to you and now you often put them on “repeat” - such a confession will undoubtedly please any guy.

Ready to share any moment with you

Women write SMS for a man I like, taking into account the character of the chosen one, his habits, priorities and goals. This makes it easier to reach his heart. Phrases could be:

1. I know you like books, maybe we can go to the reading room and remember our youth?
2. I love theater the same way. Like you, I bought two tickets, the second one is yours.
3. Italian cuisine is my thing, come, try and appreciate it, and not only the dishes...
4. I, too, like you, love loneliness, but maybe we can be sad together?
5. You love dogs just like me, and this is the criterion of a kind, wise and strong person.
6. You can’t be so versatile - fishing, hunting, restaurants, books - you are simply unique.
7. Take me fishing with you, I won’t interfere, and then I’ll cook some great fish soup.
8. Follow you into fire and water - call.
9. Come with me to the dacha, there is everything you love: a lake for fishing, a library for knowledge, and me for relaxation and enjoyment.
10. You can’t be so beautiful and smart, I thought I was the only one.
11. Oh, God, what a man, I’m not talking about my son and daughter yet...
12. I invite you to the cinema - you won’t guess that I love the same films as you.
13. I dreamed about this, but only read about it in books.
14. I don’t want to lose you, I’ve been waiting for you for so long, I’ve made mistakes, and now you’re here.
15. I even like the way you swear, even your words are very unusual and funny.
16. Hello, a unique woman is writing to you, who can do everything, understands everything and will endure everything, even “stopping a galloping horse” - do you need one?
17. It’s so rare to meet a person who is truly close to you both in spirit and in appearance, I think I’m lucky to have you. Or doesn't it seem so?
18. I met you and it seemed that I had never lived before, but was simply preparing for this meeting.
19. My heart is so light, because I know that my person is walking somewhere - you.
20. I thought that this would definitely never happen to me, but you appeared in my life and I realized that you are my person.
21. Women always dream only of real men - reliable, courageous and handsome, my dream seems to be coming true.
22. When you look at modern men, you think that people like you have all died out.
23. You always behave with dignity, calmly, and carefully - this is a sign of a real man.
24. I’m not afraid to mess up and make mistakes – especially since I’m sure that with you I won’t make mistakes and I won’t make mistakes.