Love often faces difficulties. Sometimes you fall in love with someone who already has a partner. Some people believe that it is wrong to destroy other people’s relationships in order to achieve their own happiness. But there is another view: you have to fight for love. How to win a girl away from another guy if you have already decided to act?
Become her friend3
The more you learn about a girl, the higher your chance of winning her heart. First, try to make friends with her, become a close and important person to her. Don't show off your love interest prematurely. Try to act calm and confident around the girl.
No one should suspect that you are planning to take her away from the guy she is dating. Act only after you notice that the girl is ready to break up with her current partner for you. Signs that indicate this are listed at the end of the article.
What to do before trying to pick up a girl
In love, like in war. But even here, haste and wrong strategic moves will lead to defeat. Before you take a girl away from the guy she loves, carefully find out about their relationship, but not from the girl herself. Put yourself in the place of her lover: why are you better? Why exactly should you be with her and what are you willing to do to take her away? There are many questions that you must answer yourself:
- Is she worth your effort? Think about it, it’s easier to conquer an ordinary free girl, but here you will have to invest more morally and financially in order to take away the one who is busy.
- What do you feel: unearthly love or just rivalry? The war for her heart for the sake of victory will not bring pleasure. Now, you beat her back, and then what? How do you see your future? She will always remind you that it was you who achieved her, so you are responsible for your happiness.
- How does the girl feel about you? It makes sense to take active action and try to take her away if you see mutual sympathy, but for objective reasons she cannot so easily abandon the current relationship. Financial dependence, fear, children – there can be many circumstances.
- Will she abandon you as easily as her lover as soon as a more suitable match appears on her horizon? There are girls who are easy to lead away: just lure them and they will run in anticipation of golden mountains, but not for feelings. Now she will run to you, and then to another.
Have your questions been answered? Now let's move on to the actual ways to steal a girl from a guy.
Show that she can trust you7
Be the friend to whom she can trust all her secrets. In any conversation, try not to judge her, but try to understand, and one day she will start telling you really personal things. Make it so that she can talk to you about any things - including those that she does not dare to talk about even with her friends.
If a girl trusts you enough, she will be willing to talk about her boyfriend and her relationship with him. You can use her frankness to take action at the right time. Plus, when things get tough in her love life, you'll be there to make her boyfriend look like a knight in shining armor.
Common mistakes
If some actions can lead to the desired result, others, on the contrary, only alienate the girl of your dreams from you and allow your opponent to gain the upper hand. To prevent this from happening, you need to know about the main mistakes and try not to make them.
The main mistakes that prevent you from getting the lady of your heart:
- Staying in the "friend zone" for a long time . There are legends about this concept, but every man who has been there is unlikely to be able to win the heart of this lady. Therefore, if you feel that the “vest” and “strong shoulder” stage has dragged on, and you are turning from a potential boyfriend into just a friend, start taking decisive action. Include more romance, talk about your feelings, identify yourself not as a friend, but as a contender for her heart.
- Fear . Often a man cannot do anything about his fear of interfering in other people's relationships. If you feel that she is “the one,” you should throw away your moral beliefs and at least try to compete for her heart. Know that you may not have another chance like this.
- Remorse . Ambitious men may be disgusted by the mere thought of breaking up someone's union. Do not forget that the struggle for a woman is inherent in nature itself and many alliances are built precisely on broken relationships. Remember that you will most likely bite your elbows if you don’t try.
- If you learn to avoid mistakes and go ahead towards your goal , you will have a better chance of getting the woman you love. It’s no secret that they prefer persistent and self-confident men.
Try to understand her in any situation8
People are always drawn to those who understand them well. Show the girl how important her feelings and thoughts are to you, how close they are to you. When she gets into trouble and asks you for advice, be there to give it.
This will make her turn to you every time she doubts something. She will get used to you, become attached and will value communication with you. Perhaps one day she will start consulting with you about her relationship, and you can turn this to your advantage.
Way to get a girl off #2: Seduce her
There is no way without this. It's no use drawing castles in the air and telling her how much you can give her. A mercantile person will fall for this, but ordinary girls live by emotions. You can start talking about breaking up with her boyfriend only when you have become as close as possible. Before that, she will doubt, think a lot, and if she finds out about your feelings too early, this may completely push her away.
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Don’t disappear and don’t intrude10
Try to correspond with the girl regularly, but not too intensely. Contact her once or twice a day if you have something to discuss, such as a movie or news. If you don't have a good conversation topic, check in with her every few days to keep track of how she's doing. But be in touch if she wants to talk to you or needs your help.
Don't text her too often or too much, otherwise she will become uncomfortable with you. Also try not to disappear for a long time or without warning, otherwise the girl will think that you do not value communication with her.
How to find out if she loves her boyfriend
It is very important to find out what feelings a girl really has for her partner. This could be sincere love, affection, friendship based on long acquaintance, and so on. How to determine the presence or absence of feelings in a potential lover?
- It is important to pay attention to how she talks about her partner. If a girl notes exclusively his shortcomings, then there are serious problems in the relationship.
- You should find out how much time the girl devotes to her lover. If there are feelings, a person tries to spend every free minute next to his other half.
- You can find out about the degree of love of partners from their friends and acquaintances, since from the outside such things are sometimes more noticeable.
- You can also try to show attention to the girl and give her several gifts. If a representative of the fairer sex is truly sincerely in love, she does not intend to reciprocate her feelings.
But vows of eternal love should not be taken seriously. Words do not always have much meaning, and often they are just a given of a long relationship to which both partners are accustomed. A girl can truly love and never talk about it, or she can scream about her feelings at every corner, while accepting advances from other people.
Be prepared for the worst11
Attempts to fight off a girl can be sharply condemned by other people: your mutual friends and even the girl herself. Be prepared for the loss of her friendship, attacks from friends, and also for her boyfriend to understand your intentions and give you a hard time.
If you steal the girl of your dreams from another guy, you will have to always hide the fact that you ruined her past relationship on purpose.
Remember: when you become a couple, you will have to maintain the same level of attention and care towards the girl as before. Otherwise, the girl will be disappointed and eventually move away from you.
Is it worth getting your ex back?
Whether it is worth rebuilding a relationship with an ex-girlfriend is a personal matter for everyone. The main role in the decision is played by the reason why the couple broke up. If the feelings have passed or the young lady simply wants a better life, then it is unlikely that a new attempt to build a joint future will be crowned with success. But when the young man was to blame for the breakup, a small chance of a happy continuation is not excluded.
Before you take your girlfriend away from a new guy, you need to analyze the whole situation, understand the mistakes and make efforts to correct them. Then you will need to prove to your former passion that history will not repeat itself.
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To do this, you need to impress her and show that the guy is determined to change:
- Before you try to win back your ex-girlfriend, you need to get yourself in order. Clothes, shoes, hairstyle - a guy should be well-groomed from the tips of his hair to his heels. You need to join a gym, because a beautiful, toned body will attract attention.
- Restore harmony within yourself. A guy who is confident, courageous and not afraid of any hardships in life will attract attention and will also make the girl think about whether she was in a hurry to break up.
- Surprises and compliments. It’s easier to please your ex than your new one, because the guy knows her tastes and preferences. But this is the main problem - it will be difficult to surprise her, since she is familiar with all the tricks. You need to try to show imagination in order to get attention.
- Do not have a “man’s talk” with the girl’s boyfriend, because it will not influence her decision in this situation. This will only humiliate the young man and reduce his chances of winning his former passion away from his current boyfriend.
- Don't manipulate. Even if such a technique helps, it won’t be for long. You can induce feelings of guilt or carefully turn your loved one against a friend, but such attempts will have the opposite effect. Then the woman will no longer be able to return.
Remember that you may not succeed12
You can try to please the girl, you can get closer to her, prove to her that you are a better partner for her than anyone else. And yet there is no way to force things and be guaranteed to win her heart. Remember that all your efforts may not bring results. Be prepared to fail. Remind yourself that there are many single girls with whom your chances of reciprocity and a happy relationship are much higher.
Is it worth destroying a relationship?
If, nevertheless, a man or young man believes that the wedge has converged on this girl, and he is not embarrassed that by his actions he can break up someone else’s couple or family, he needs to act decisively.
Attention! Before you act, you need to think everything through. After all, a fleeting desire to just have a girl at a given moment in time can lead to very disastrous consequences.
Analysis of ethical and moral standards is a purely individual matter for each person. But it is important to remember that a person must be prepared to bear responsibility for any actions.
If, nevertheless, a man is determined to act, then, of course, simple pressure and charisma will not come out a winner here. The process of beating a girl is delicate and painstaking, requiring an individual approach to each person.
The approach and method of its implementation will significantly depend on the following circumstances:
- whether the man knew this girl before,
- are they, for example, colleagues or friends, or even friends of friends?
- It is important that this representative of the fair sex has marital ties.
