Hysterical personality type of a woman: features of communication

Hello! My name is Igor Lapin, I am a professional pickup trainer. The topic of our conversation today will be a hysterical girl. What to do if you fall in love with a girl who, for any reason, creates a scandal on a universal scale, yells, cries, fights? Alas, love is an unpredictable thing and sometimes presents us with severe trials.

If a guy does not have the patience of a rock, then a relationship with a hysterical woman can end very badly. Everything seems to be fine: the woman is beautiful, smart, sexy, but all these positive aspects burn out in the fire of her inappropriate behavior.

What are the causes of breakdowns?

First you need to figure out why the girl is hysterical.
Is her emotional storm just a burst of emotions or does she like to tickle your nerves? It is quite possible that the root of the problem is the guy's behavior. Think about how you treat a woman - are you offending her? Maybe she is waiting for an apology, but no initiative comes from you. Or you are simply not suitable for each other, but endure and break down regularly.

In addition, a hysterical girl can make trouble at times.

Do you know what I mean? Menstrual cycles sometimes turn even the most gentle ladies into angry vixens who are unhappy with everything, from the fact that you didn’t wake her up with a kiss to the slurping at the table. Of course, this is not good, but hormonal surges are often simply uncontrollable and, no matter how much she wants, a girl cannot defeat the “dragon” of menstruation within herself.

The situation is much worse if such behavior is an integral part of a woman. What to do if your girlfriend is hysterical to the core? She just loves to shake her nerves, like an energy vampire, and doesn’t know how to live any other way. They use emotions to manipulate their partner. For example: a lady is capricious, screams, and then receives some expensive thing from a guy and shuts up for a while. Alas, this is a fact of life and there are such “ladies” in our world.

Perhaps, before her independent existence, such a girl observed similar behavior of her mother all her life and adopted everything from her, absorbed it like a sponge. As a result, a narrow view of the world has formed, and the lady may not even realize that life without constant screams and hysterics is possible.

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Hysteria concept

Initially, the term "hysteria" was applied only to women. Signs of hysteria in women included emotional demonstrative behavioral reactions, including:

• scream;
• tears;
• causeless prolonged laughter;
• paralysis;
• convulsive muscle contractions;
• loss of sensation;
• temporary deafness, blindness;
• increased sexual activity.

Hysteria was called “rabies of the uterus” and treatment consisted of exposure to the genitals. At first the doctor did this manually. Then vibrating machines were created. A little later, they began to use jets of water on the genitals for treatment. With the development of psychology, it was found that a woman can be calmed in other ways, and not all nervous breakdowns are the result of sexual dissatisfaction.

Today there is no diagnosis of hysteria. A correct chain of diagnoses was derived, which were characterized by certain symptoms and signs.

1. Anxious hysteria.
2. Dissociative disorders.
3. Hysterical disorders.
4. Somatomorphic disorders.

The old concept of hysteria in women most accurately defines the diagnosis - hysterical psychopathy.

Personality disorder is characterized by extreme concentration on one’s own person (egocentrism), the desire to attract more attention to oneself. Human behavioral reactions are often simulated.

Egocentrism provokes personality disorder and the development of hysterical psychopathy

Hysterical psychopathy in women manifests itself equally often as in men. According to the results of research by American scientists, 2-7% of the world's population suffer from constant breakdowns.

The disorder does not in every case lead to a breakdown in social ties or a decrease in professional skills. Some patients with this diagnosis become successful in the field of art.

Female hysteria is characterized by the desire to be in the center of attention at any cost and the inability to sensibly and adequately perceive criticism. Patients are highly suggestible, so their life journey often ends in complete collapse. Treatment through psychocorrection allows you to achieve sustainable compensation of behavioral reactions. But the disorder cannot be completely cured.

How to act so that a woman stops being hysterical?

You should think three times about whether you need a lady with character.
If she is really dear to you, then you cannot resign yourself and label her as “my girlfriend is hysterical.” You need to discuss the problem with her sincerely and do it very gently, investing as much care and tenderness as possible. The girl should feel the contrast between her behavior and yours. If she admits trouble, then this is already a great success. Because there are ladies who absolutely deny their scandalous nature. They immediately take the comments with hostility and all arrows fly at the guy: “You yourself are inadequate, I behave normally.” As a rule, such phrases sound like a scream.

It is important to understand the reasons for breakdowns and, if necessary, allow the woman to cry and complain about life.

By being a powerful support for her, you can wean the lady from constant screaming. Hug, say nice words. Find out if you are the reason for her grievances. Apologize if something is your fault (sometimes this is necessary, even if it is not your fault). When a girl is hysterical, she is unaware of many things. Later, the lady will understand how stupid she behaved and will appreciate your patience and self-sacrifice.

It is very important not to be influenced and not to adopt an emotional state. If you also start yelling at her and copying her reactions, this will only make things worse. But the worst thing you can do is try to ignore or wait out the storm somewhere on the sidelines.
The hysteria will not go away. The girl may get tired, but inside she will begin to accumulate even greater resentment and anger. Therefore, drop everything and go to calm down your chosen one.

They say that an effective technique is to film a girl in a bad state, and after a quarrel show her this “monster.” Personally, I have not tested the technique, but in my opinion it is unpredictable. This may offend the woman more and will not solve anything. Well, if it works, it will probably make her think about her manners.

What to do if a girl has a hysteria that cannot be solved with tenderness, apologies and hugs? Sometimes, I emphasize, sometimes, it can be effective to look at a lady menacingly and shout at her to stop. If your “demon” inside is stronger, then she will get scared and back down, smoothing out the situation. I would say that these are extreme measures that are not recommended for action, but they still have a right to exist.

Characteristics of hysteroids

Hysteroids are usually called overly emotional people with some specific character traits. As a rule, they all have a tendency to be demonstrative, love to be in the center of events and always try to attract the attention of others.

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Women are most often classified as hysteroids, since the name of this psychotype is associated with the Greek word “hysteria,” meaning uterus. In ancient times, people believed that this organ wanders throughout a woman’s body and causes sudden laughter, violent hysterics and uncontrollable tears.

The belief in exclusively female hysteria lasted for quite a long time, until the famous Austrian scientist, founder of psychoanalysis, Sigmund Freud, once declared the presence of pronounced hysterical traits in his character.

Girls with a hysterical personality type always stand out from the crowd. They clearly enjoy the envy, resentment, or admiration of others.

This is their credo, their worldview, which was influenced by the following character traits:

• lack of true feelings, covered by theatricality and pretense of experiences;
• egocentricity, inability to perceive different points of view;
• demonstrativeness as one of the ways of self-affirmation;
• sudden mood swings;
• public display of emotions, in the form of loud screams and sobs;
• preoccupation with personal experiences and needs;
• disinhibition of behavior, inconsistency in actions and reasoning;
• problems with analyzing information, assessing situations and one’s own mistakes.

However, along with general irresponsibility, women with a hysteroid personality type also have many positive qualities, such as:

• motivation for success;
• increased performance;
• expressed leadership;
• optimism;
• lack of fear of the public during performances;
• the ability to attract people.

A hysterical woman is characterized by skillful manipulation. She quite purposefully uses jealousy and numerous grievances. In order to achieve the desired goal, it can provoke scandals.

A man should not follow the lead of a hysterical woman. There is no need to argue with her; it is better to leave her alone for a while.

How should a man behave?

To summarize the information, let’s consider point by point what a guy needs to do during a girl’s tantrum:

• do not give in to her condition and emotions;
• do not ignore or avoid the scandal;
• do not be rude, do not offend;
• try to show care and tenderness;
• try to understand the reasons for the lady’s behavior;
• don't resort to extremes.

Of course, if you understand that a girl is “sucking” your strength, manipulating you with hysterics and making your existence unbearable, then you shouldn’t endure it.
We are talking about conscious manipulation of you. Well, if you understand that the storm of emotions is uncontrollable and spontaneous, then, like a real man, fight for what is dear to you. Hi, friend!
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We come home to relax and unwind, but instead we get a portion of selected crap. Who would want to come home after this? Then deceptions, betrayals, avoidance of meetings, etc. begin. In my opinion, it is not at all reasonable to continue to maintain such a relationship.

Hysterical female personality type: how to communicate with such people

It is difficult to build harmonious relationships with hysterical people. After all, they are unusually charismatic and bright, and therefore arouse genuine interest among others. Although they sometimes behave quite capriciously and tend to transfer responsibility to others in case of failure. They perceive any criticism negatively, and expect admiration from men. And if they don’t live up to expectations, then women get annoyed.

Girls of the hysterical type need constant attention. They like non-binding flirting or courtship, expressed in words or non-verbal actions (gestures, facial expressions).

You should communicate with them in a certain way, following the rules accepted in society:

1. You should not allow hysterical women to violate personal boundaries during a conversation, as they often do not understand that they are behaving provocatively or tactlessly.
2. You cannot rudely point out shortcomings or read moral lectures. The moral side of relationships interests them the least.
3. It is unacceptable to respond to provocations staged from time to time by hystericals. After all, they may have many more traps and accusations in store.
4. You need to praise and thank hysterics as often as possible, and take an interest in their achievements.

Women with a hysterical personality type can increase tension in relationships due to their characteristic high level of anxiety. There are many contradictions in their statements; they are capable of various adventures and risky actions.

What contributes

Hysteria is a painful hypertrophy of human character traits, which is based on a certain method of nervous response inherent from birth. The disease progresses and flourishes during education and if there are no restraining factors.

Who is this hysterical wife? This is a creature that you, a man, have most likely allowed to blossom like this. Even if she came from her parents like this, then you, a man, could not reason with your lady, whose abnormality and rage are dangerous to society.

Hysteroids "in action"

There are no complaints about the business qualities of hysterical women. They are considered reliable and efficient employees. At work, they strictly follow all established rules and instructions. Moreover, we are absolutely sure that this is exactly what needs to be done. Such women value their work very much and therefore are not prone to any reasoning. They respect leaders and expect clear instructions from them.

However, when describing events or situations, hysterical women may ignore some points, as well as, in their opinion, not the best and compromising facts. But they do it so subtly that it is very difficult to suspect them of distorting reality.

Despite the fact that hysterical personalities have many apparent similarities with the narcissistic type, they do not flaunt proud slogans and phrases. Women do not suffer because of inner emptiness and, under normal conditions, are quite sincere and friendly.

What do hysterics achieve?

The hysterical woman yells at her children, husband, parents. Her goal is to get what she wants by shouting, threatening, and unnerving people around her.

We encounter hysterics in life, realizing later that these ladies were raised in families where they were given complete freedom, there were no restrictions on the part of their parents, any whim was often fulfilled due to lack of love: “as long as it doesn’t interfere.”

The hysterical woman screams and attracts attention to herself; this is the only method available to her. She does not know how to convince or argue. When a woman shouts at her husband, makes scenes for him with or without reason, then she, in fact, demonstrates her loneliness and abandonment, her demands, in principle, are not so important, her main goal is to attract attention to herself. She wants to be noticed and pitied. Children behave in exactly the same way at a display case with an unpurchased toy. Mature and conscientious women are unlikely to agree to such methods.

The Taming of the Shrew: turning the three whales to face us

The principle of reasoning with girls of this type is very simple: the hysterical woman must be brought to the point that she herself wants to do what you expect from her.

They have three main character traits that can be turned to the benefit of the person living next to such a lady. You can use their assertiveness, theatricality and suggestibility for your own purposes. Since they think it is possible to manipulate you, you too should be cunning. Instill in the young lady what you would like to receive from her, let her think that this is her idea, and you will readily, marveling at her ingenuity, follow her lead. Let there be slight hesitation on your part - the hysterics will have their leadership pride satisfied. With encouragement and deterrence, you will play on her assertiveness. Don't overdo it. By developing your imagination, you will turn your life, including your sexual life, into a good theater with a hysterical prima, where in fact you are the main puppeteer. And sex with such an emotional lady is simply unforgettable. The main thing is to gently inspire her with what you want yourself, and you will create in bed what you need, having received an obedient, excellent lover.

But there should be no pressure, she should think that she decided this herself, and under no circumstances should she figure out your game.

Treatment: learn to manage yourself. Self-analysis needed

It is necessary to understand where hysterical behavior comes from. It is important to track each of your emotions, not to let it just be, but to understand the essence of the origin of anger, resentment, and pain. By understanding the cause and essence, you can control the occurrence of this emotion. If you live in a family, it is unacceptable to poison the lives of your loved ones, just as you cannot give them complete control over yourself.

Be honest with yourself, learn to love, respect and appreciate yourself. Work, increase your self-esteem, destroy painful pride. And then you will become your own best friend and learn to trust yourself. This is the first step to happiness.

The mechanics of hysteria

Sadism is the suppression of one's emotions. If you have had a violent emotional explosion, anger, resentment and pain are splashed out, you experience a huge feeling of guilt. If you managed to restrain yourself, be proud of yourself. There may be several such pre-hysterical situations, or there may be many; everything is individual and depends on how much patience a person has. If you constantly suppress emotions, they accumulate, tension reaches the limit, and hysterics arise.

In most cases, neither the woman nor her partner is to blame. Efforts should be directed not to blaming yourself or to shame - try to change the situation. The loss of control is not special and completely unintentional; scolding yourself is completely useless, it only causes harm.

The partner-spouse is most often not to blame either, but what to do? The hysterical wife finds herself in such a disposition with her husband that she bursts into violent anger. Something should be changed, taking into account the interests of the partner.

The potential for hysteria accumulates when a woman feels that her beloved man, whom she trusts, her husband, partner, the one to whom she has entrusted her life, is slowing her down with his behavior or words, preventing her from trusting, instilling in her a feeling of fear, not giving to open up to her, to be able to completely dissolve in him, to love him, to receive full pleasure from life with him.

A woman constantly experiences frustrations, her love for her partner does not grow, she is constantly depressed and oppressed. And one day a storm of aggression rises in a woman, like a tsunami, because suppression is like a spring, the more you compress, the greater the return. And every little thing usually serves as a reason for hysteria. If the occasion is serious and major, the woman gets ready, puts aside her emotions and begins to think about what to do to avoid a serious disaster. And an insignificant, nasty and annoying reason also subconsciously frightens her by the fact that it will again pass unnoticed, and a whole pocket has already been filled with such trifles, and the last insignificant reason no longer fits there.

And so the woman throws a huge, ugly hysteria, the insignificant reason for which allows others to think that she is mentally ill.

Hysterical today

Today, hysteria is an unofficial disease related to character accentuations and psychopathy. Currently, the diagnosis is not officially used in either the ICD-10 (International Classification of Diseases, Tenth Revision) or the American manual of mental disorders DSM-5. The ICD has more specific diagnoses that can be given to a hysterical girl:

• histrionic personality disorder;
• somatoform disorders;
• dissociative (conversion) disorders - conversion hysteria, conversion reaction, hysterical psychosis;
• dissociative movement disorders, including cases of partial or complete paralysis;
• loss of sensory perception and others.