How to win any man in 12 minutes

Somehow, naturally, in the course of the existence and development of society, a clear idea has developed that it is a man who should win the heart of a woman, and not vice versa. Ladies traditionally expect bold actions, decisive steps, romantic advances from their gentlemen; they want to feel weak and defenseless. What if the situation is reversed? Imagine you have found your ideal, but you don’t want to take risks and wait for his reaction, so as not to miss time and opportunity. And now we’ll talk about how to win a man’s heart.
From this article you will learn:

What behavior will win a man's heart?
How to look and dress to win a man's heart
What tricks will help you win a man's heart?
How to win a man's heart in 12 minutes

6:00. Three questions

It's time to start a conversation. Harvard University is here to help. Forget the clichés like “What do you do now?”, “How was your day?” or the notorious “About the Weather”. Using a mathematical algorithm, Harvard experts calculated four sure-fire questions that will determine your compatibility: “Do you like horror movies?”, “Have you ever traveled alone?”, “Wouldn’t it be great to leave everything and live on a ship?”, “Which one?” ingredient you would add to pizza?” If your partner answers the questions the way you do, science gives the green light to your relationship.

Preparation. How to look

To attract a guy's attention, you need to stand out from the crowd, be able to position yourself as a self-sufficient and interesting girl. And also look your best!

It will be easy to get your loved one if you follow the following rules:

Take care of yourself

You can't afford to be ugly. The female sex has a million procedures and tricks in its arsenal, thanks to which you can turn a village simpleton into a beauty from the cover of a magazine. But a lot depends on you!

Take extra care of your hair, skin and hands.
If you need to lose weight, don’t be shy, go straight to the gym and improve your diet.

Your makeup should not be flashy:

It is enough to even out the tone, highlight the eyes, eyebrows and moisturize the lips. Leave false eyelashes and clearly defined cheekbones for an evening out or a photo shoot.
Don't forget about hygiene, in particular removing hair wherever it shouldn't be.

Neatness is your main ally on the path to winning the man you love. Be natural, hiding imperfections if necessary.

Choose your style

Is your rich inner world hidden behind shapeless clothes in dull colors? I have news for you, it's time to change! Girls, just don’t run to the store to buy all the bright blouses, short skirts and dresses with sparkles. Leave this kind of outfits for frivolous girls. After all, your goal is to charm and win over a specific person, which means it’s best to focus on his or her own style or wishes.

If you don’t know what style of clothing he prefers to see on girls, opt for neutral outfits that can be accentuated with accessories:

Plain jeans, a cashmere turtleneck or a delicately colored silk blouse, perhaps with a print, is the perfect look for every day.
Pair it with comfortable yet elegant low to mid heels.
Be sure to wear earrings, a bracelet or a feminine watch - don’t be shy to remind others that you are a girl and like to decorate yourself.

To create a sensual look, you don’t have to buy a tight dress with an open back and stilettos. The most important thing is your confidence in yourself and your attractiveness. Give yourself a gift by purchasing quality lingerie with lace or embroidery. Wear a beautiful set of stockings even under a regular dress, and you will immediately feel how your behavior and sense of self have changed.

Keep it intriguing

This advice is as old as time, but many girls don’t use it. As soon as a man realizes that he knows everything about you, good for you. You will become an open book for him, which he has already read. Don’t lay out all the facts; even after years of marriage, a man does not need to know the details of your personal life before meeting him.

Try to communicate with a man using intriguing gestures and transparent hints. Sway your hips a little more than usual as you walk. Show off your wrists, neck, legs and adjust your hair so that he pays attention to it. Show your interest naturally and unobtrusively. The man will feel reciprocity and will look forward to each meeting.
It is sometimes useful to show character to show independence and self-esteem. Don't hide your point of view simply because it doesn't coincide with a man's opinion. Express it politely and gently, offer to discuss it over a cup of coffee. Become a full-fledged companion for a man, and not just an object of sexual desire.

9:00. Work interview

The most common mistake on a first date is when communication turns into a tennis tournament or a job interview in a question-and-answer format. Feel the waters: what topics does your interlocutor willingly support, and what topics is unpleasant for him to talk about? Well-known taboos include topics of material well-being and former relationships. Do not ask closed questions, that is, those whose answer implies “yes” or “no.” Choose lines that will help your partner open up. And answer any question yourself as if you were talking about something very pleasant. And then your interlocutor will probably want to call you back.

Typical mistakes that can scare a man away

There are several mistakes that can ruin or end a relationship. It is better to take them into account and control your actions. How to win his heart?

Don't be intrusive. There is no need to show excessive attention to the guy, try to constantly be nearby, control every step and talk about all your affairs down to the smallest detail. This behavior will look annoying and quickly get boring. If you decide to act this way, plans to conquer him will become obvious, and this will most likely put an end to your relationship.
When choosing topics for conversation on dates, in the company, at first, stick to common interests, find out the man’s opinion and views on various issues. Later, when you get to know each other better, you can talk about more personal things. To win him, at the beginning of your acquaintance you need to try to avoid banalities, flat humor and stupid compliments, especially about his appearance, less naive coquetry and advances, so as not to look superficial, but to pave the path to his heart.
If you start comparing your gentleman with popular people and actors as compliments, this will not increase his self-esteem, but on the contrary, the man will think that you are with him only because of his appearance, and not his personal qualities, and you will not be able to win him. Therefore, praise his talents, abilities, skills, interests and wit. Let him understand that for you he is the only one and unlike anyone else.
Be moderately arrogant and unapproachable, do not overdo it. And, in general, first think about whether your chosen one will cope with the task of conquering such Everest, or whether he is initially unable to do it and does not need it.
At the beginning of dating and getting closer, do not torment a man with your troubles and complaints. There is no benefit or interest in this. He may think that you see him as a solution to problems and just get scared.
Don't confuse wit and humor with vulgarity. Obscene jokes and anecdotes will not add points to your intelligence in his eyes and will not help you win his heart. Rather, on the contrary, your personal value will decrease, the desire to fight for such “happiness” will disappear.
Distinguish sincerity from tired compliments and stock phrases. Do not create the image of a frivolous, frivolous, easily accessible girl. This may be interpreted and used not in your favor.
The success of the first date plays a huge role in the development of relationships. It will be decisive in winning the heart of a man. Prepare for it thoroughly. Think over your outfit, it should emphasize your advantages, but not be vulgar, pay close attention to your hands and manicure if you plan to hold hands. Hair and makeup should be simple and neat, and add a highlight to the look with a delicate sensual aroma of perfume.

To win your chosen one, try to behave naturally and calmly, laugh, joke, find reasons for humor. To feel freer, it’s better to take a walk instead of sitting in a cafe; this will help you get rid of excessive tension and give you more topics to talk about.

What not to talk about

To make the right impression on Him, you need to be careful in choosing phrases and topics. You should never give a man trivial compliments. For example, talking about how beautiful his shirt is. You can't talk about relationships as a game. Otherwise, the gentleman will think that in front of him is just a flirt, and such a woman cannot count on a serious relationship.

You should never compare guys with some movie character or actor. Admirations must be sincere. It is better to admire not appearance, but hobbies, talents and actions. Men consider a woman smart who praises and does not play smart.

What to talk about

The topic of conversation is one of the ways to win a man’s heart. Even if the topic of conversation is not interesting, you need to support it. If you look a man in the eyes and listen carefully, then you can already interest him. To confirm your interest, you need to smile mysteriously. Another proof of interest is questions. After listening to your interlocutor, you can move the conversation to a more interesting topic. In conversation, you can hint at the next date. For example, you can talk about your passion for walking around the city at night.

A bit of a bitch

Kindness and caring, however, are also annoying, like bitchiness. For this reason, in a relationship with a man you need to alternate between carrots and sticks. Having offended him, there is no need to be afraid to apologize. You need to order kindly. There is no need to alternate between kindness and harshness too often. The boyfriend may think that his beloved is stressed and is insane.

You need to listen to the opinion of your life partner. But sometimes it's worth rebelling. A man must constantly doubt the one who is nearby, see her as a mystery. Some guys like to be the victim, but only for a while. A woman can pretend to be a bitch, but she cannot be one. He must always win.

Jealousy

Jealousy is one of the ways to settle in the heart of a loved one for a long time. Just don't go too far. If he has a jealous character, then flirtatious behavior in society will not be beneficial. It is believed that since the other half is jealous, it means he loves. But in fact, the reason for male jealousy is insecurity. A husband's jealousy can cause separation.

Therefore, before flirting with someone, you need to convince your lover of your feelings. A man should not feel insignificant, small and pathetic. If he is not rich, you need to convince him that happiness does not come from money. If he is overweight, you need to play sports with him.

Radiant face

With a man you should never be sad. Otherwise, he will think that the girl is unhappy with him. You need to try to be cheerful. Respectable gentlemen look younger next to cheerful people. You don't have to be young at all. But you should always be playful and smile. But how to become happy with the burden of everyday worries? You just need to understand what prevents you from rejoicing in the first place.

If the reason is in appearance, then take care of appearance. If the reason is success, then pursue a career. There is no need to set unattainable goals for yourself. You need to look for something positive in every day. Why convince yourself of the bad when you can just as easily convince yourself of the positive?

What other ways are there to win a man’s heart:

Listen carefully to everything he says, no matter what you think about it yourself, do not interrupt.
Show recognition of a man’s right to personal freedom, hobbies, and choice of desires from the very beginning of communication.
Tell us about your hobbies. Not about work and career, but about women’s hobbies, favorite pastimes, about what they like to do and what they are good at, even if it’s embroidery, cakes and pies, push-ups and hiking. Be a girl, conquer his heart with your femininity!
Never judge yourself by the reaction of one man. He may simply not be a very worthy person or be in a bad mood. Increase and maintain your self-esteem.
Show your chosen one that you accept him for who he is and are not trying to change him, either now or later. Do it sincerely, first of all to yourself. If the chosen one sees his shortcomings and talks about them, admit them, but play up the situation in an inoffensive and loving way. You can win a heart for a long time only with tenderness!
Express approval, good attitude, positive opinion about his family and relatives. You need their location, useful for family life.
Recognize the superiority of your chosen one both as a specialist, a professional in his field, and as a man.
Ask him for help, seek advice. Start doing this as early as possible, so that later your requests will not be a shock to your gentleman.
Show that in your relationship his decisions will always be the main ones, because he is a man.
Remember that you are a woman, not a conqueror. Your main question and thought: how to become the kind of woman who can attract a worthy, desirable and necessary man, how to win his heart forever!

Thank you for reading this article to the end.

Hello, my name is Yaroslav Samoilov. I am an expert in the psychology of relationships and over the years of practice I have helped more than 10,000 girls meet worthy soul mates, build harmonious relationships and return love and understanding to families that were on the verge of divorce.
More than anything, I am inspired by the happy eyes of students who meet the people of their dreams and enjoy a truly vibrant life.
My goal is to show women a way to develop relationships that will help them create a synergy of success and happiness!

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