Intolerance as a phenomenon
Any manifestations of intolerance are based on a feeling of superiority of one (one) individual over another (others). In a broad sense, intolerance implies negative, aggressive manifestations directed against someone whose lifestyle, views, personal or cultural characteristics cause disapproval or hostility. An intolerant person or group of individuals considers themselves better, higher, more intelligent than those against whom the arrows of their intolerance are directed.
In the historical aspect, the emergence of intolerance dates back to the most ancient times of the development of civilization. History knows many examples of intolerant attitudes towards other cultures, forms of religious worship, traditions, lifestyles and way of life. At the same time, there were many cases of extremely tolerant attitudes and even subsequent symbiosis of cultures that seemingly had nothing in common. Therefore, we can say that the development of tolerance and intolerance went hand in hand with the formation of human society.
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IT IS HARD TO DISAGREE with the fact that some people are naturally more tolerant, others less so. Quite obviously, this quality manifests itself in problematic ethno-contact situations. Ethnic intolerance is a really significant form of manifestation of crisis transformations of ethnic identity. The basis of ethnic intolerance is increased sensitivity to people of other nationalities. It can be expressed in a wide range - from mild discomfort and irritation, which is not realized in any way in behavior, to various forms of discriminatory behavior up to genocide.The studies of T. Adorno and his colleagues have long become classic, confirming the existence of a special type of authoritarian personality predisposed to prejudice. Among its main characteristics are the following: conservatism, authoritarian submission (the need for a strong leader), authoritarian aggression (the need for an external object for release), anti-intraception (fear of expressing one’s own feelings and fear of loss of self-control), bias and stereotyping, power complex (inclination to share conventional values), destructiveness and cynicism, projectivity (projection of suppressed aggression outward) (Adomo et al., 1950).
A crisis social situation in a multiethnic society becomes a breeding ground for the development and manifestation of these characteristics, which turns people of this type into subjects of intolerance towards representatives of other ethnic groups. Therefore, in the context of interethnic relations, it seems important to us to continue the study of two paths of personality development: tolerant and intolerant. Continue because back in the middle of the 20th century, G. Allport built a typology of personality in the tolerance-intolerance continuum.
Based on the work of T. Adorno and his colleagues “The Authoritarian Personality”, the work of other psychologists, as well as his own research, he gave generalized characteristics of tolerant and intolerant personalities according to a number of parameters. Let us list them, considering only the pole of tolerance. So, a tolerant person is characterized by: (1) knowledge of himself (a tolerant person is well aware of his strengths and weaknesses and is not inclined to blame others for all troubles); (2) security (a feeling of safety and the belief that the threat can be dealt with); (3) responsibility (developed sense of responsibility, does not shift responsibility to others); (4) the need for certainty (a tolerant person does not divide the world into black and white, but recognizes diversity, is ready to listen to any point of view and feels less discomfort in a state of uncertainty); (5) self-orientation (more focused on personal independence, less on belonging to external institutions and authorities); (6) less commitment to order (less focused on order in general, including social order, less pedantic, polite); (7) the ability to empathize (socially sensitive and inclined to make more adequate judgments about people); (8) sense of humor (able to laugh not only at others, but also at oneself); (9) prefers freedom, democracy (social hierarchy does not matter much to him) (Allport, 1954).
Of course, dividing people into tolerant and intolerant is quite arbitrary. Extreme positions are rare. Every person in his life commits both tolerant and intolerant actions. Nevertheless, the tendency to behave tolerantly or intolerantly can become a stable personality trait, which allows us to make such distinctions.
Tolerance-intolerance is always a problem of the attitude of one ethnic group to another. That is why we put tolerance among the psychological characteristics that are especially important when studying intergroup interaction and transformations of ethnic identity. How does an intolerant personality manifest itself in interethnic relations? In search of an answer to this question, we tried in different situations of interethnic tension to determine the ratio of ethnically tolerant and intolerant individuals and to specify in the interethnic context some of the psychological differences identified between them.
Among our respondents were simply observers, direct participants, and victims of ethnic conflicts, as well as ideologists of national movements in the republics (those who are often defined as “designers” of relations between peoples). The following three groups were compared. The first is the titular and Russian population of three Russian republics with different levels of interethnic tension - Tatarstan, Sakha (Yakutia) and North Ossetia-Alania (over 2000 people). The second is forced Russian migrants and refugees from Chechnya (80 people). Forced migrants who left Chechnya in 1993–1994 went through interpersonal conflict situations on ethnic grounds. Refugees who escaped from Grozny in January 1995 experienced a crisis of inter-ethnic tension and found themselves victims of the most terrible form of organized violence - war. The third group of respondents are representatives of national movements - leaders and activists of “Styr Nykhas” (North Ossetia) and “Khostug Tyva” (Republic of Tuva) (70 people). In 1994, when we surveyed and tested them, these movements were the most active. By 2001, Styr Nykhas had gained an even stronger position in the republic. “Khostug Tyva”, on the contrary, practically ceased its activities in 1996.
The ratio of tolerant and intolerant individuals was determined on the basis of the methodological development “Types of Ethnic Identity”. When interviewing titular and Russian respondents in the republics, we used an abbreviated version of this methodological development as part of an ethnosociological survey. When interviewing forced migrants, refugees and activists of national movements, the “Types of Ethnic Identity” methodology was used in combination with other socio-psychological methods - the Bogardus scale, the Rosenzweig Picture Frustration Test, DTO, the Bass-Darkey Aggression Test, the methodological development “Ethnic Affiliation”:
Tolerant persons included those respondents whose ethnic identity can be characterized by the type of “norm” (natural preference for one’s own ethnocultural values, combined with a positive attitude towards other ethnic groups), or by the type of “norm” and “ethnic indifference” (indifference to interethnic problems, assessing them as insignificant) at the same time.
The group of intolerant people consisted of respondents with ethnic self-awareness of the “hyperidentity” type. In interethnic interaction, hyperethnicity manifests itself in various forms of ethnic intolerance: from irritation that arises as a reaction to the presence of members of other ethnic groups, to advocating a policy of limiting their capabilities, aggressive and violent actions against another group. This also included those respondents whose general interethnic disposition, along with hyperidentity, included either “norm” or “ethnic indifference,” or both.
Two additional groups among tolerant and intolerant individuals should be considered rather as potential personalities for these categories. They express both tolerant and intolerant attitudes. But their ratio was not the same. The predominance of one of the trends allowed us to draw a conditional boundary and divide all respondents into two categories. Persons whose tolerant attitudes predominated in ethnocontact situations were classified as “tolerant.” Accordingly, persons with a dominance of intolerant attitudes fell into the alternative category. Within each category, subgroups with their own characteristics and varying degrees of ethnic intolerance are distinguished. But in this case, we will focus mainly on a comparison in general of the two categories of persons we have identified.
The data in Tables 1 and 2 reflect the dependence of the level of tolerance both on the situation of interethnic tension and on the experience of participation in problematic situations of interethnic communication. The higher the ratio, the more tolerant people there are in the group. There are no surprises. As interethnic tension increases, the number of intolerant people among respondents increases. The more dramatic the respondents’ experience in situations of interethnic tension, the more ethnically intolerant there are among them. Among the representatives of ethnic groups in our study, there was no “cultural” predisposition to ethnic intolerance, as well as to aggressive behavior. This suggests that ethnic intolerance is to a large extent a situational characteristic, determined by current and past experience of interethnic interaction.
Table 1 The ratio of tolerant and intolerant people among residents of the Russian republics
NORTH OSSETIA | TATARSTAN | SAKHA(YAKUTIA) | ||||
Ossetians | Russians | Tatars | Russians | Sakha | Russians | |
Ratio coefficient | 1,95 | 4,4 | 2,7 | 5,3 | 2,4 | 4,3 |
Table 2 The ratio of tolerant and intolerant people among activists of national movements and displaced persons
"HOSTUG TUVA" | "STYR NYHAS" | FORCED DISPLACEMENTS (Grozny) | REFUGEES (Grozny) | |
Tuvans | Ossetians | Russians | Russians | |
Ratio coefficient | 1,0 | 1,8 | 1,2 | 0,7 |
One of the proofs of this thesis is the largest number of tolerant people among Russians in the republics (Table 1) and the smallest among Russian refugees from Grozny (Table 2). Among the latter, in comparison with other subgroups of intolerant respondents, “ethnon-nihilists” stand out - those who demonstrated a negative attitude towards their own ethnic group, the Russians. The crisis situation of inter-ethnic tension, which resulted in a war between Russia and Chechnya, gave rise to a surge of xenophobic reactions indiscriminately towards “friends” and “strangers” among its victims.
The level of intolerant people among internally displaced persons from Grozny is very high. They did not have time to find themselves in such a difficult situation as the refugees who fled Grozny in panic in 1995. But they have their own reasons for the growth of intolerance. This includes post-traumatic stress, which increases the difficulties of adaptation in a new environment, and the consequences of socio-psychological deprivation both before and after migration.
The largest number of intolerant people (50%) were among the members of the national movement “Khostug Tyva”, which was active in 1991–1993. And although a significant part of the members of this movement showed only tendencies of intolerance, nevertheless their number reflected the declared goals, objectives and anti-Russian sentiment of the movement. Its representatives raised the question in 1992 of fixing in the Constitution of the republic the right to secede from the Russian Federation. The immoderation of slogans and intolerance of the positions of members of the movement did not give it stability and did not find sufficient support in Tuvan society. This is one of the reasons for the disappearance of the Khostug Tyva movement from the political arena in 1995.
The intolerance of refugees and internally displaced persons finds its justification as a result of the difficult life situations in which they find themselves. But what about ordinary residents of the Russian republics, where the friendship of peoples has been glorified for many years?
It turns out that among them, most of them only indirect participants in situations of interethnic tension, there are many people with a dominance of intolerant attitudes. The largest number of such persons was found among Ossetians (33%), the smallest – among Russians of Tatarstan (15%). But among the Tatars, in relatively prosperous Tatarstan, the number of intolerant people is only slightly less (27%) than in the troubled North Ossetia-Alania.
In the early 1990s, when the atmosphere of violence in our society became more and more noticeable, publicists, writers, and scientists actively discussed the psychological factors determining the growth of intolerance and the constant search for the enemy. As a rule, it was emphasized that several generations of modern Russians, former Soviet citizens, were brought up in the spirit of Bolshevik intolerance, based on dislike for differences and intransigence in the fight against enemies. As one writer noted, in Soviet literature, national heroes, glorified even in books for preschoolers, were, as a rule, from among those who shed more blood than others (Vek XX i mir, 1990). To sum up the past, our man has accumulated a bunch of grievances and carries within himself a thirst for retribution. In different generations and in different cultures, retribution takes its own forms, but its psychological basis is the same - intolerance. In psychological terms, grievances are accumulators of irritation and hatred. The former Soviet man, in a sense, renounced his history. As a result of the repression of common memory from mass consciousness, combined with the inability to escape from oneself, he is in constant conflict. The feeling of danger not only does not leave the Russian, but also increases. The expectation of trouble mobilizes protective psychological mechanisms, among which aggression is not the least important. And all this against the background of mass depression, neuroses, frustrations, the malignant nature of which consists in a decrease in sympathy not only for the world around us, but also for oneself. This is the not very favorable psychological basis for the development of dialogue in the country and a fertile ground for the cultivation of intolerant individuals and their manifestation of their aggressive qualities.
In addition to general psychological factors, the growth of ethnically intolerant people may be the result of the political practice of ethnic nationalism, inherited by the republics from the former USSR (Tishkov, 1994), and a consequence of the natural generalization of negative emotions caused by a variety of reasons into the sphere of interethnic relations.
There are at least one and a half times fewer intolerant people in the republics among Russians than among the titular peoples. Here, of course, we can assume that tolerance, along with patience, is characteristic of Russians as a quality of national character (Kasyanova, 1995). But, apparently, still not to a greater extent than for other peoples in our study. For example, when assessing a life situation, Russians generally show no more patience - the most important realistic mechanism for solving critical life situations - than the titular peoples. In the modern ethnopolitical situation in the republics of Russia, ethnic tolerance of Russians is a forced defense mechanism. The objective situation puts them in conditions where, in order to adapt, they have to strive to understand the interests of the titular peoples.
What characteristics in the context of interethnic relations turned out to be characteristic of persons with a predominance of intolerant attitudes? Some of them were identified using various psychological methods: the Kuhn test, the Rosenzweig frustration test, the Attitude Diagnostic Test, the Bass-Darkey Aggression Test, the methodological development “Ethnic Affiliation”, etc. Respondents with pronounced hyperidentical attitudes have a hierarchical identity structure in which ethnicity is dominant. In the structure of the referent group identities of these individuals, ethnicity, as a rule, is either in first or second place. At the same time, among respondents with weak hyperidentical attitudes, ethnicity is not often found among self-identifications. This is typical even for leaders and activists of national movements. If among the life priorities of ethnically intolerant people the ethnic group represents the most important status category, then for tolerant people ethnicity is not always one of the main social dimensions.
Intolerant people have a higher need for ethnic association, and they react more actively to national problems. Most of them are convinced of the need to feel part of “their nation.” This suggests that for individuals with a predominance of intolerant attitudes, the desire to give their group a higher positive status and increase its prestige is largely motivated from within. Thus, in the context of interethnic relations, the “commitment to order” (G. Allport) and to conventional values (T. Adorno and others), characteristic of intolerant individuals, is refracted. In the zone of ethnic conflict - North Ossetia-Alania - the considered differences were expressed to a lesser extent, since such a factor as the growth of interethnic tension significantly influenced the increased importance of the need for ethnicity among tolerant individuals.
Deeper differences between the self-consciousness of tolerant and intolerant individuals can be seen when analyzing ethnic stereotypes. Let us present changes in the ethnic stereotype using data from a group of leaders and activists of the national movement “Styr Nykhas” (North Ossetia-Alania) (Table 3). A comparison of indicators obtained on the basis of the Diagnostic Attitude Test shows that in individuals with a predominance of intolerant attitudes, the imbalance between the positivity of the autostereotype and the negativity of heterostereotypes is significantly increased. This means that they often have an exaggerated desire for a positive ethnic identity, and they try to give it a higher status by strengthening positive differences in favor of their group. This is confirmed by other data.
Table 3 The ratio of tolerant and intolerant people among activists of national movements and displaced persons
INTOLERANT | TOLERANT | |
AUTOSTEREOTYPE (Ossetians) | 0,45 | 0,36 |
HETEROSTEREOTYPES (Russians) | 0,22 | 0,30 |
HETEROSTEREOTYPES (Ingush) | –0,22 | –0,12 |
Intolerant individuals evaluate their own ethnic group more positively and other ethnic groups less positively, compared to tolerant individuals. This means that positive characteristics undoubtedly dominate in their autostereotypes, and among the ideas that make up heterostereotypes, the number of negative characteristics is growing. Although positive characteristics undoubtedly dominate in the heterostereotype of Russians, even among intolerant members of the movement, negative assessments are still found in it twice as often as in the autostereotype. The assessments of the Ingush among tolerant and intolerant persons are even more different, although the situation of conflict tension sharply increased negativism among all members of the movement (Table 3). In addition, from Table 3 it follows that among people with a predominance of intolerant attitudes, firstly, the “affectivity” zone is expanded (from 0.45 to –0.22). This means that their perception of interethnic differences is carried out mainly on the basis mechanism of emotional inversion, they are characterized by a wide range of emotional assessments and higher emotional involvement in situations of interethnic tension. Secondly, intolerant people in the process of perception focus on differences, in this case, differences between ethnic groups. In other words, tolerant people perceive ethnic groups as closer, and the boundaries between them are more blurred, than intolerant people, for whom ethnic boundaries are sharply delineated.
What role do tolerant and intolerant people perform in “protecting” ethnic borders? The answer to this question can be found through the study of socio-cultural distance.
We compared the attitudes of tolerant and intolerant individuals using the modified Bogardus scale. The answers to the question of a person’s readiness to contact people of other nationalities as citizens of the republic, business partners, bosses, neighbors, friends and family members were considered. Two differences were obtained between tolerant and intolerant individuals.
Firstly, regardless of nationality, tolerant people distance themselves less at various levels from representatives of other ethnic groups. Secondly, the smooth increase in social distance from less significant to more significant types of contact among tolerant respondents contrasts with the sharp abrupt increase in social distance in the sphere of informal relationships among intolerant ones. For example, in the subgroup of tolerant Tatars, 80% of respondents are ready to accept a person of another nationality as a citizen of their republic, 72% as a neighbor, 35% as a spouse of their children, and 29% as a marriage partner. Among intolerant Tatars, no less than 80% of respondents are also ready to see their children as a citizen of their republic, 64% as a neighbor, but only 18% as their children’s spouses, and 17% as their own spouse. This pattern is also typical for other nations.
So, the data obtained show that ethnically intolerant individuals are a significant psychological factor that influences the representation and degree of spread of hyperethnic attitudes in group consciousness and therefore increases interethnic tension. The activity of such individuals contributes to the transformation of the group into a subject of intolerance in interethnic interaction. It should also be added that, whether we want it or not, ethnically intolerant individuals are the human material that reduces the permeability of ethnic boundaries at the informal level and, in this sense, contributes to the preservation of the ethnic group. They seem to have no doubt that ethnic borders must be protected, and they know from whom.
LITERATURE
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Manifestations of intolerance
Manifestations of intolerance can be different:
- Verbal aggression: abuse, ridicule, reproach, manifestations of neglect, disgust; insult, obscene language.
- Physical aggression: beatings, torture, violence, murder.
- Psychological aggression: threats, intimidation, persecution, pressure.
- Territorial aggression and aggression at the state level: war, genocide, deportation, nationalism, fascism, repression.
- Aggression against manifestations of culture and religion, national symbols: desecration of monuments, graves, flags, objects of religious significance, etc.
This is only a small part of the manifestations of intolerance. Thus, intolerance is a serious threat to the life, health and well-being of people.
Ethnic and religious intolerance
Ethnic intolerance is one of the most common cases of intolerance.
This phenomenon is based on a feeling of superiority of one’s own ethnic group over another. In this case, one’s own ethnic group is perceived as dominant, preferential, and has more rights in relation to another group or groups.
Vivid manifestations of this type of intolerance are nationalism and Nazism.
The most widespread and terrible example of ethnic intolerance is the genocide of Jews in Nazi Germany. The feeling of superiority of Aryan origin over others instilled by the German government led to the mass extermination of not only Jews, but also Russians, Ukrainians, Poles and others. Concentration camps, gas chambers, repressions, deportations - all these components of the fascist regime became a manifestation of the German nation’s sense of superiority over “lower” ethnic groups.
Another example of intolerance on this basis is the genocide of Armenians by the Turks in 1915, which led to a huge number of casualties among the civilian population.
The worst thing about many cases of ethnic genocide is that it is often not just a social deviation among certain groups, but sanctioned and approved at the state level.
In modern Russia there are also manifestations of ethnic intolerance, mainly in relation to the so-called people of Caucasian nationality.
Tolerance and its downside
We are attracted to people who are similar to us, with whom we have something in common. This could be eye color, hair color, haircut, interests, clothing style and much more. And with those whose differences are more noticeable, we keep our distance. This is how our brain is programmed. We recognize “us” or “stranger” by the signs that we managed to catch. And all this happens on a subconscious level. And when the “stranger” instinct has more power over common sense, disrespect or even aggression towards another person begins to appear.
So tolerance means tolerance towards other people, their character, appearance, lifestyle, opinion, choice, etc. Simply put, it is when you allow another person to be unique or express themselves without hindrance. For example, you love pizza and french fries, and your friend is a supporter of healthy eating. And you are calm about his choice, just as he is about yours. And if your friend criticized, condemned your choice and vehemently argued that pizza is harmful, then this would already be a manifestation of intolerance. And it turns out that showing tolerance means allowing for what already exists and accepting this “is” as a given, without interfering in the choice of another person, no matter what it concerns. Be it faith, religion or love.
To be intolerant, on the contrary, means to show your indignation and intolerance towards what you do not agree with. Plus the desire to harm or otherwise hinder the object of your indignation.
Religious intolerance
Very often, ethnic intolerance goes in combination with religious intolerance, since other nationalities usually have different religious characteristics. Hostility towards a nation gives rise to a negative attitude towards everything that represents it.
In the context of history, it was religious intolerance that became the cause of the massacres of peoples. In particular, when Christianity arose, representatives of this religion were subjected to severe persecution and punishment. Subsequently, when Christianity took a dominant position in European civilizations, representatives of other faiths were subjected to persecution and forced conversion.
Racial intolerance
Racial intolerance is a phenomenon characterized by a feeling of superiority of one's own race over another (others). This form of intolerance is called racism.
The most striking example of racism is the situation in the United States. It is known that representatives of the Negroid race were used as slaves for many years in the southern states of the country. The war of 1861-1865 put an end to the existence of slavery as a phenomenon in the United States. However, attitudes towards African Americans remained for a long time (and in some places still remain to this day) negative and full of prejudice. They were not allowed to hold certain positions; they were taken to the lowest paid and dirtiest jobs. There were frequent cases of discrimination in public places, transport, and so on.
In our time, these manifestations have been reduced to a minimum, but the echoes of those events can still be heard.
Sexual intolerance
This type of intolerance manifests itself more often in relation to the female gender.
Until the 20th century, women had virtually no public rights or social protection, being considered to some extent the property of their husbands. They did not have the right to work, vote, or engage in entrepreneurial activity. Those who dared to violate these prohibitions were subjected to ridicule, insults, and sometimes violence.
Women's rights movements and movements softened the situation and granted women a number of social rights. However, even now one can observe a negative trend in relation to providing women with jobs, career opportunities, etc.
Tolerance: good or bad?
There is no clear answer to this question. The concept of tolerance, like a coin, has two sides. Try to decide for yourself which one outweighs.
Positive aspects of tolerance:
- the possibility of transferring experience between people with different points of view, which ultimately leads to the development of society and personal growth of a person;
- the ability to understand people whose lifestyles and behavior differ from those generally accepted;
- establishing communication and overcoming fear when communicating with people of different views;
- the path to universal understanding and humanity.
The negative points are:
- destruction of traditions and ways of society;
- substitution of concepts (for example, when biblical virtue is replaced by tolerance for violence);
- the possibility of manipulating people's consciousness under the guise of good intentions;
- erasing the line between tolerance and slavish patience, etc.
In reality, very often individuals in power use tolerance for their own selfish purposes.
Examples of positive manifestations of tolerance
An example of tolerance is the tolerance of different religions towards each other. Orthodox, Catholics, Buddhists - each of them believes in their own God, adheres to their own canons and traditions. At the same time, each religion recognizes the right to the existence of another belief.
Politicians and diplomats can be considered a striking example of tolerance. Sometimes, representatives of different states have directly opposite views on many things. But this does not prevent them from sitting down at the negotiating table and finding a compromise solution to controversial issues.
Examples of tolerance with negative consequences
Remember the refugees from Arab countries who flooded Europe. Arriving in a foreign country, they demand a tolerant attitude towards themselves. In return, they do not want to adhere to the principles of the countries that have adopted them. They continue to live with their medieval wild ways and show aggression towards the indigenous population.
The negative impact of tolerance affects traditional family values. Husbands turn into sponsors. Marriage contracts are replacing love unions. Attempts are being made to blur the line between a boy and a girl.
In European countries, an exclusively tolerant attitude towards almost all spheres of human life is being intensively promoted. There they call it tolerance, although often this word hides simply a substitution of concepts. Mom and dad turn into parent 1 and parent 2, prostitution is called work, pedophilia is called self-indulgence, and murder is called a fatal mistake...
Unfortunately, these European values also seep into our country, introducing obviously false truths into the minds of the younger generation. How to stop this flow? How to prevent society from sliding into complete degradation?
Everyone needs to start with themselves. Analyze all the good and bad, draw a clear line between tolerance and substitution of concepts, and raise children in the right direction.
Age intolerance
In Japan, there was a cruel custom: frail old people were taken to uninhabited areas (for example, in the mountains) and left to die.
Among other ethnic groups, there are similar examples when elderly people were either killed or abandoned to their fate.
In the modern world, things are more favorable. But, unfortunately, situations often arise when old people are abandoned without proper care and care, believing that they have lived their life. An example of age-based intolerance is not providing jobs to older people because it is believed that their cognitive processes are not as good as those of younger people and work flow may suffer.
It also happens the other way around: young people find it difficult to get a job due to lack of experience.
Another example of age-related intolerance is a disdainful attitude towards teenagers. It is believed that these people are immature, irrational, and incapable of making the right decisions. However, teenagers are often able to show much more common sense than adults.
Intolerance is a phenomenon that affects other social groups besides those listed above, for example, people with disabilities, representatives of certain professions, people with unusual hobbies, and so on.
How to develop tolerance?
If people can't stand each other, they become angry and frustrated. In a society filled with hatred, a person begins to feel constrained and is more susceptible to depression. Discrimination makes life miserable not only for those who are subjected to it, but also for all members of society. The ability to accept each other's differences can have a positive impact on a person's well-being. Tolerance removes barriers and allows you to think more broadly. Tolerance also leads to a reduction in stress and promotes the development of empathy.
Here are some tips to help you become more tolerant:
- Remind yourself that you are safe [8 Tips to Build Tolerance in Your Life]. If other people think differently and their opinion is different from yours, this does not mean that you are wrong. Just like the fact that you simply need to defend your beliefs, otherwise you will be attacked. You have nothing to fear.
- Speak for yourself. Try to express your thoughts more accurately and on your own behalf. For example, “I disagree that..., I have a different opinion...” You should not engage the person in an offensive debate: “You are stupid if you think that!” and so on.
- Avoid insults and personalization (this is precisely about intolerance). Try to learn more to understand another point of view. Ask for more details and explain that you would like to understand how the other person came to this opinion.
- Be calm. Don't swear, curse or shout. This can significantly escalate the situation and turn it into a real conflict.
- Look for common ground [HOW TO BECOME MORE TOLERANT]. If at first glance you cannot find anything in common, especially if you are annoyed by the person and you dislike him, put off hasty conclusions about him. Try to discern even the most minimal similarity between you. Perhaps you like the same music, books, or prefer similar movies. There are always points of contact. If they are not visible, this does not mean that they are not there. Remember this.
And one more very important tip:
- Watch your reactions. Our eyes, facial expressions and gestures tell the truth. Body language is the same way of communication. For example, when you feel contempt, you sigh and roll your eyes. Such reactions indicate intolerance and reveal your train of thought. In this case, it becomes obvious that you believe that the other person's opinion is completely useless, and as if you are saying that you are better than him.
Nothing can be achieved without additional effort, including tolerance. Yes, sometimes it is difficult to understand some people, cultures and completely different points of view. But such diversity helps us look at the world more broadly and see that the truth usually lies somewhere “in the middle.”
Tolerance of uncertainty
This term refers to a person’s ability to make the right decisions and calmly respond to new, unusual, uncertain or obscure situations. The inability to respond in this way is called intolerance of uncertainty.
In general, intolerance is a serious social problem that poses a threat to the well-being of not only individuals, but also entire nations. It is important to realize the relevance of this problem for its successful resolution.