Often young girls are worried about how to learn to kiss. Of course, this issue should not worry too much. Traditionally, girls tend to passively expect actions from the stronger sex. It’s better not to take the initiative, because in the future it will be nice to remember that the guy kissed you first. A girl does not need to be ashamed of her inability to kiss, since a worthy young man will appreciate her inexperience. Under no circumstances should you kiss a guy for the first time solely for the sake of gaining experience. The first kiss should be a manifestation of feelings, and not at all an obligation.
Less panic
Most of all, girls worry that such an important event will be ruined. As soon as we talk about the first date, panic begins that nothing will work out. But for everything to go well, you need to get rid of fear. As long as partners are afraid of each other, act stiff and embarrassed, the more likely they are to get an awkward kiss.
Watching romantic films will help you get into the right frame of mind and remove panic.
It’s not surprising when girls are overcome by the fear that a failed first kiss could ruin everything. Building a romantic relationship is not an easy task. It is important to realize that the kiss is not their defining factor. You should tune in to the fact that there are no bad kisses. This is one of the most beautiful phenomena existing in the world.
Situation
If the first kiss happens in a romantic place, it will definitely be remembered for many years. One of these is a movie show (it is recommended to choose a melodrama). The ideal moment for the first kiss would be goodbye. When a young man has to leave for a while, a girl can come to see him off. Romance is inherent in women's nature, so in such a situation an unforgettable first kiss can occur.
"Mill".
This species can be called one of the subspecies of French kiss. This technique is very common and popular, and therefore deserves special consideration. How to proceed:
- go to standard technology;
- start kissing in French;
- at first, touch only the tips of your tongues, teasing your mate;
- using your back as well, try to make a circular rotation of your tongue around your partner’s tongue;
- adjust the pace, find a comfortable rhythm, continue moving in a circle;
- occasionally change directions (clockwise and counterclockwise), alternate with other touches (standard, other French).
"Mill" can be used as a first attempt at a French kiss. The movements are more understandable, there is less improvisation in them, and therefore they will appeal to those who like everything to go according to plan.
Preparation
Before a girl goes on a date, she should worry about the condition of her lips. This is important because tactile sensations should be pleasant. The following procedures will help prepare your lips for the first kiss:
- treatment of cracks and herpes - if they are present, kissing such lips will be unpleasant, and your partner should be protected from infection;
- peeling – you can remove excess dryness using sugar or a special scrub. Lips will become softer and acquire a natural bright shade;
- moisturizing – applying a special balm without a pronounced aroma and taste will help add the missing moisture to your lips;
- fresh breath – don’t forget to brush your teeth before a date. You can also chew the gum for a short time, but remember to throw it away before everything happens.
Another important point is a friendly attitude.
Often, a girl can unknowingly repel a guy with her menacing appearance, even if she wants a kiss. Psychologists consider such spontaneous manifestations to be a consequence of nervous overstrain. To exclude this phenomenon it is not recommended:
- cover your face with your palms;
- cross your arms in front of you;
- to appear sullen;
- avoid eye contact;
- be unsmiling.
Visual and tactile contact is important to break the barrier between partners. To do this, it is enough to look into the eyes when talking, smile more often and periodically lightly touch your hand.
What to do before a kiss
- Get rid of unpleasant odor
Before you go on a date, be sure to brush your teeth. Fresh breath is the key to success. When you are together, try not to smoke or eat food with the specific smell of onion and garlic. Believe me, even chewing gum will not help get rid of such an aggressive aroma. And kissing a girl who smells bad, to put it mildly, is not very pleasant.
If you do go to a cafe to have a snack, use chewing gum or a special spray after salads or coffee. But you shouldn’t pick your teeth with a toothpick. It doesn't look nice. As a result, the guy simply won’t want to kiss such an uncultured girl.
- Use chapstick
If you have rough or chapped lips, apply a small amount of lipstick to them before leaving the house. The main thing is not to overdo it with the amount so that your face does not become oily. By the way, today there are similar decorative cosmetics with different exotic tastes and smells.
As for glosses and regular lipsticks, caution should be exercised here. You don't want to come home with smeared makeup. Plus, guys don't really like kissing a girl with makeup because they're afraid of getting dirty. At such a young age, future men take this too seriously.
- Take the gum out of your mouth
If you have chewing gum, candy, etc. in your mouth, try to get rid of it quietly. It’s not very pleasant when things like this get into your mouth during a kiss. At best, this will confuse the guy, at worst, it will cause disgust. Therefore, you should not test his endurance.
First kiss technique
Often the first kiss is gentle and innocent. However, the temperament of the partners also plays an important role. In any case, for the first time there is no need to kiss aggressively, only lips should participate, without tongue. It is advisable that they be relaxed, since hard and tense lips are unlikely to bring pleasure to your partner. Moreover, you should not pull them out with a tube, because... this will only make them harder.
The main rule of a kiss without tongue is naturalness. There is no need to adopt the manner of kissing, the girl should remain herself.
So, when a girl finds herself face to face with a guy, she can freeze for a moment to feel the whole atmosphere of the moment. Excitement can even cause slight dizziness. Then the girl closes her eyes, slightly closes her lips and smoothly approaches her partner’s lips. Touches should be slow, gentle and brief. Having lingered a little on the guy’s lips, the girl can mysteriously leave, leaving him in anticipation of the next meeting.
How and where to kiss a guy to make him want you
Kiss a guy on the neck and turn him on with a kiss
As you know, intimacy between a guy and a girl begins with a kiss. Of course, you can go “straightforward” and kiss the guy on the lips right away, but you can “go further” by kissing his neck first. When you are in the most comfortable environment, in close proximity to each other, cuddle up to the young man, bury your nose in his neck, inhale the smell of his skin with pleasure, and then gently kiss the same place several times. In this case, it is advisable to stroke the other side of his neck with your palm, and then touch your lips to his lips - this will surely turn on your chosen one.
Get a guy excited with a passionate kiss on the lips
A passionate kiss on the lips will certainly excite a guy. If your goal is to evoke a strong desire in a young man, then during a kiss you can show him how pleasant it is for you to be around. Gently touch his face with your fingers, stroke his neck, shoulders, and back with your palms. You can also gently run your hand through your hair. Most likely, you will be able to “hook” one of your lover’s erogenous zones.
Seduce a guy into a kiss with your behavior and words
If you want to provoke a guy to kiss, show him with your appearance and behavior that you are as comfortable and pleasant as possible in his company. Initiate physical contact - touch your hand, hug. Act relaxed, smile and flirt, let him see that you are interested in him as a man.
Nuances to consider
To prevent the kiss from being too wet, the saliva that collects in the mouth must first be swallowed, and the duration of the kiss should not be prolonged. As for the latter, this is another one of the fears that comes before this exciting moment. The optimal first kiss should last about 1 minute. It is better to breathe through your nose.
Among other things, many girls worry about what to do with their own eyes in the process. There is no need to deliberately try to look at your partner's nose or the sky, they will close on their own. Psychologically, a person is designed in such a way that he detaches himself from the environment and concentrates on his own feelings.
How to kiss correctly for the first time
The first kiss is an exciting event that will be remembered for a lifetime. Usually he is timid and inept, because lovers have too many emotions and little experience. But this is the beauty of the intercourse of pure, innocent partners embarking on a long path of pleasure. Then, from the height of past years, awkward touches with lips are remembered with warmth and longing for carefree times, when mere trifles worried.
To avoid ruining a kiss prematurely, you need to:
- thoroughly brush your teeth and tongue using a special attachment, remove pieces of food from the interdental space with dental floss;
- if desired, spray your mouth with a special spray, chew chewing gum, but do not overdo it with aromas;
- do not eat foods with a strong, difficult-to-remove odor, for example, onions, garlic, horseradish and the like;
- to make your lips pleasant and not rough, exfoliate them with a scrub and apply hygienic lipstick;
- gain confidence and courage, but do not drink alcohol, which spoils all the romance between young people;
- if the partner is older and more experienced, honestly admit that the kiss is the first, and support, understanding, and patience are required.
If the kiss didn’t take you by surprise, then that’s half the success. But the process is unpredictable because it involves two people, and overzealousness can be a bad joke. You shouldn’t immediately attack your partner, trying to demonstrate the famous French kiss. There is a risk that the anticipation of passionate intercourse will turn into a series of awkwardness. The most common mistakes: chattering teeth, excessive salivation, not knowing where to put your tongue, prolonging the kiss or ending it too quickly.
A timid first kiss will be remembered for a lifetime
To make the first kiss look like something out of a beautiful movie, it is better to start with fleeting touches of the lips and observing the reaction of your loved one. His behavior will say it all. If he reaches forward and closes his eyes with pleasure, then you can continue, gradually pressing closer. If he pulls away and shows signs of dissatisfaction, it’s time to stop the experiment. If you respond to a kiss, but periodically tries to gently push away, then you need to reconsider your technique and kiss more tenderly or, conversely, more assertively.
Useful tips
For your first kiss to remain in your memory forever, you need to kiss the guy you want, looking at whom your heart skips a beat. Reciprocal sympathy is no less important. In the absence of desire and a suitable environment, it is better not to kiss for the first time. It is wrong to drink alcohol for courage. It will only dull the feelings, and artificially created liberation will not make the kiss memorable.
