How to kiss a girl on the lips correctly and surprise her

08/25/201608/25/2016 Nadezhda Plotnikova

A kiss is a great way to share feelings and emotions with your chosen one, as well as show the depth of passion and desire. The first touch on a girl’s lips should still be more gentle, since it is this that often becomes decisive in the transition of relationships to a more serious level.

It is not surprising that many young people are concerned about how to kiss a girl for the first time, so as not to push her away, but, on the contrary, to attract her to them. Improvisation, of course, is a good thing, but it is still better to prepare for such an important event as a kiss.

How can a guy kiss a girl

Don't know how to kiss a girl on the lips first? This is fine! You are either not experienced yet, or you are very much in love. You can endlessly scroll through situations in your head in which you could do this. We need to start preparing and create all the necessary conditions for such an important moment.

• Most importantly, be mentally prepared for rejection. Life doesn’t end there, and there is even a chance to start a relationship with the one you want to kiss.
• Make sure the girl is available and ready to go on a date with you. It is rude to kiss a young lady who is in a relationship, even if you want to beat her off. And even more so, think about it if she initiates a date and is active when paired with someone else. Is such a person worth trusting? You decide.

Many guys are interested in the question of how to kiss passionately and emotionally. This is important, but it comes with experience and depends on what connects you with your partner. If the matter is limited only to sympathy on both sides, then the kiss will not turn out to be passionate and hot. But when you get goosebumps just from the thought of her, when you feel hot when meeting her, then you yourself will understand what you need to do and how to behave when kissing.

But it is much more important to learn gentleness and consistency in your actions. You can’t just give a girl an unforgettable kiss at the first meeting. Unless you want to get a slap in the face. Treat the kiss as the first building block of your future relationship.

Who should kiss?

The question of how to behave on a first date is an age-old and relevant one.

Girls and boys are discussing this topic, but have not come to a common conclusion.

Who should kiss first? The ideal option would be if this happened at the same time . Of course, this doesn't always happen.

It is generally accepted that the initiative should come from a guy , as a representative of the stronger sex. However, there is nothing wrong with a girl taking the first step.

If a couple is in love, they have a serious relationship and they are on the same wavelength, then it doesn’t matter at all who opens up first and kisses their partner first.

Prepare properly

To please yourself and the girl during a kiss, don’t be lazy. Set the stage for a romantic date, the girl should want to kiss you before you do it.

Becoming attractive and inviting to close contact is not difficult, you need:

• Be carefully shaven. Girls really don't like a man's prickly face; it leaves micro-scratches and causes irritation after a kiss. If your image does not imply grown and softer stubble, or even a beard and mustache, then shave properly and give the girl unforgettable tenderness.
• Take a shower. Unpleasant odors that invariably appear throughout the day can give the wrong impression about you. The girl will decide that you are too lazy to prepare or don’t take care of yourself at all. When planning close contact, make sure that you smell of pleasant eau de toilette or a clean, ironed shirt, at a minimum.
• Brush your teeth. At this point, comments will be superfluous, but stock up on chewing gum, refreshing candies or just mints.
• Don't smoke before a date. It is better to abstain from cigarettes an hour or two before the date, as the smell of tobacco lingers for a long time, including on your hands, hair and clothes. If a girl does not smoke, it will be very unpleasant for her to kiss an “ashtray”. In the event that your partner does not hesitate to smoke at a meeting, relax and discuss brands of cigarettes.
• Wash the hands. It is quite possible that on the way to a date you snacked on nuts, smoked and pet the neighbor's dog. Or they just touched hands a few times in public places. Wash your hands before your meeting or bring refreshing wipes with you. Be prepared to hug and stroke her hair with clean hands, because she deserves it.

Kissing etiquette7

There are a few unwritten rules you need to know about kissing. It makes sense to pay attention to them and, if possible, implement them.

1. Don't tell everyone about the kiss. Yes, it is very easy to talk about this. But easy doesn't mean right. Everything that happens between a guy and a girl should stay between them. If you still want to tell, then try not to talk about it much.
2. Do not kiss if you are not completely healthy and can infect him. Yes, kissing brings you closer, but not enough to exchange infectious germs.
3. Kiss not everyone, but one. Kissing is very pleasant, but this does not mean that you can kiss everyone you want. It’s better to focus on one specific person who is really pleasant, and if suddenly nothing works out, then you can switch to another.

How to Know if She's Ready

Before you kiss a girl, make sure your interest is reciprocated. Even if she invited you to dinner and smiles mysteriously all evening, take your time! There are several tricks to understand that a girl is ready to enter into close contact through a kiss.

She is ready to move to the “next level” if:

• Doesn't take his eyes off your lips;
• Plays with her hair;
• Biting his lower lip;
• Strokes himself on the neck, arms, thighs;
• Breathing heavily and frequently;
• Peers into your face very carefully;
• Allows you to get close;
• He speaks quietly and tilts his head to the side;

Watch carefully and you will understand at what moment you can kiss a girl. Just one sign is not a green light and does not give you the right to take her into your arms. But the combination of several points at once suggests mutual interest and a desire to get closer.

First date

To be successful at your first meeting, it is IMPORTANT to consider several factors. The first of which is the “be yourself” rule. Let your partner understand the real you, this will allow you to immediately determine whether you are suitable for each other. You should not wear masks.

REMEMBER! Sincere emotions are your best weapon when meeting someone for the first time. Smile, but don't force a smile, he/she will feel it and it will work against you.

Take note of the fact that it is very important to let your interlocutor know that you are interested in him. Don't talk only about yourself, even if your partner isn't very talkative. Don't hesitate to ask. But, do not go beyond comfort, if a person hesitates and does not give a clear answer - you should not continue to stir up a topic that may not be pleasant to him (her). Change the topic to something more casual.

Rules to follow with a girl

If a man decides to abruptly and unexpectedly kiss a girl, then he should be prepared for the most negative consequences. Do not neglect our advice, because if you stumble, you may lose her trust forever.

When communicating, avoid vulgar compliments, stupid jokes and topics on which your views radically differ. First, read the article about the best compliments to a girl and see what to talk about with a girl on a date. Having thoroughly prepared and studied the theory, behave with dignity and demonstrate the following qualities:

• Politeness and gallantry. Giving a hand, helping to take off or put on outerwear, letting a lady go forward is the shortest way to become a gentleman in her eyes.
• Attentiveness and interest. Ask a variety of but relevant questions and listen carefully to the answers: hobbies, friends, leisure, work, etc.
• Caring and desire to protect. Create maximum comfort for the girl so that she feels safe next to you. Try to keep a distance that indicates your interest, but does not force the girl to look for ways to retreat.

Choose the meeting place wisely and with special passion! Strictly not suitable:

• concerts,
• sporting events,
• noisy parties,
• meetings at your home.

They will not allow you to relax and have a casual conversation.

Much better for creating the desired sensual atmosphere are:

• cozy cafe or bar,
• cinema,
• a walk in the park in good weather.

You can catch the moment for a kiss on the way home from rides or other joint entertainment.

Don't forget to give sincere compliments, for example:

• "You have an amazing figure"
• “Your lips are very beautiful, and your eyes are simply mesmerizing.”

Women often care not about what you say, but how exactly you say it, with what tone, intonation, and gestures.

Watch your lady's reaction to words, actions and signs of attention. If she reacts well, then you can give her a little hug and whisper something gentle and sweet in her ear:

• "You are a wonderful girl"
• “My head spins when you’re around” is quite suitable.

I found out that my girlfriend kissed her friend!

For some girls this is normal, friend)

rejoice!! ! sex in threesome, with proper planning

uh. . stuff happens... Some people wash themselves with their tongue... Some mice eat... This is fine. My opinion is to separate.

This means nothing.

it's cool. I had the same thing. then the three of us will also be together

She decided to see how you would react with jealousy

I also kissed your girlfriend, and I don’t write about it to the whole country.

So what is going on? ! Yesterday one guy's girlfriend slept with his girlfriend, today another guy's girl is kissing!! ! Boys! ! It's time to think))))

I myself kissed a girl in front of my boyfriend in the winter. So he also wanted to film it) then he said that this excites him) we have been together for a year and are not going to part. Maybe she just wanted new sensations that you couldn’t give her? In this case, the girl will not cheat if she really loves you and is not attracted to girls. I think you just need to talk to her about this topic, but under no circumstances should you break up unless this is a reason to break up

Ugh, what disgusting. How's that for marrying her? What is she? and in your house will you kiss your friend? I would run away from such a relationship!

This is normal for teenagers)))

And what if I didn’t allow you, the toad is pressing. Kiss her friend. What's the problem?

This is fine. don't be stupid

AAAAAAAAA ARE YOU A FOOL. THIS IS COMPLETELY NORMAL)))

and then I found out that they went to the same toilet. HORROR . I don't sleep at night. break up - don't say goodbye, asshole!

Yes, it's fucked up) ) break up) (just kidding) it's best that she sucks your friend, right? ? XXDD

Take action. Instructions for the perfect kiss

Any important event requires preparation. Follow our instructions, and you yourself will understand when to kiss a girl.

• Eye contact. The time for talking is coming to an end, you have already managed to get acquainted and get used to each other. Look at her carefully, but with interest and tenderness. If the girl continues to talk and does not make eye contact, she may not have noticed your attitude yet. Or she’s embarrassed and doesn’t know how else to hide her excitement. Keep catching her eye and waiting for her to stop talking and then move on to the next step.
• Touching. After establishing eye contact, it's time to engage in tactile contact. Light touches will show how she is in the mood and whether she is ready to get closer. Stroke your arm, shoulder, or tuck a strand of hair behind your ear; if the girl smiles shyly, you are on the right track. If she moves away or shows dissatisfaction, you need to stop and take a step back.
• Active actions. If the girl doesn't remove your hands and doesn't look away, congratulations, she's ready for a kiss. Approach her slowly, pull her slightly towards you and feel the breath and heat that burns both of you. Enjoy the moment. As you approach your face and lips, stop for a couple of moments to give the girl one last chance to refuse the kiss. If she just continues to look into your eyes and wait, then feel free to kiss her!
• Kiss. The first kiss should be gentle and light, touch her lips gently and without pressure, give her the opportunity to reciprocate. Don't use all your skills! Leave the passion for subsequent kisses in a more intimate setting. Make sure that your hands do not go below her waist; their place is still on her face, neck or back. By keeping a low profile, you will show that you are well-mannered and respect your date.

Avoid cliches

The first point that is worth fixing: get away from the movie cliche that your first kiss should happen strictly after breaking up. Agree, it’s strange - after a good and smooth date, you suddenly for some reason pounce on her and start kissing her furiously. Remember that this game is your rules. The kiss can happen in the middle of the date, at the end, or at any other time. Yes, you can walk her home and kiss her at the door, but remember that this is not at all necessary.

Show her what French kissing is

Don't you want to limit yourself to an innocent kiss on the lips? Then you need to figure out how to kiss passionately and what techniques exist for kissing with the tongue.

1. First, open your mouth slightly and touch her upper or lower lip with the tip of your tongue. If the girl likes it, she will do the same.
2. Then trust your intuition and continue to explore each other, gently and gently.
3. Take short breaks, accompanying them with kisses on the cheek, earlobe, and neck.
4. When you feel it's time to end, take things gradually.
5. Don't break the kiss in the middle, slow down the pace and relax the hug. This will let the girl know that your kiss is coming to an end.

Read the article on how to understand that a girl likes you and try to avoid making serious mistakes. If the girl herself removes her tongue, leans back and tries to free herself from your embrace, it means she wants to end the kiss as quickly as possible. This does not indicate that she did not like the kiss or that she regrets it. For the first close contact, it is important not to overdo it and maintain a little intrigue.

Create an atmosphere

Next you need to think about where this will happen. And the right choice of location will determine success. How to do this - read here “How to choose places for dates”. It happens that you seem to have already become quite close, but you are sitting somewhere in a crowded cafe, and the girl is a little shy, and her attraction does not overcome the feeling of discomfort that arises in her. Therefore, you should make sure that you are in a cafe where the lights are dim, you are sitting next to each other and there are not many prying eyes around. Then the atmosphere itself will allow the girl to allow herself much more.

Advice from experienced

It is unlikely that the girl will want to be the initiator of the kiss, and therefore will wait for your initiative. The main thing is not to miss your chance!

Haste in this matter is an insidious enemy; you should not rush things, especially when one of the partners is not ready for this.

You can ask whether you can kiss her - watch her reaction, make sure your actions are correct.

Holidays are a great reason to do everything beautifully so that the first kiss will be remembered for many years.

It is equally important to maintain oral hygiene; chewing mint gum after dinner at a restaurant is enough to make a good impression on a girl.