How to understand that a girl wants you

It is often difficult for representatives of the stronger sex to determine whether a woman really shows sexual interest or whether it is just friendly platonic sympathy. The fact is that it is extremely difficult for guys to read information through hints, and ladies are often not ready to directly communicate their desires. Fortunately, there are a number of signs that will allow you to understand that a girl wants you.

When a girl wants, she looks special

If you want to know how to understand that a woman wants you, then pay attention to her appearance. The woman will look like a lioness going hunting. Posture, grace and impeccable appearance. She will try to think through everything to the smallest detail to please you. If a colleague has suddenly changed and is trying to communicate with you more often, be sure that she wants you. You will constantly catch her glances at you, but if she flirts with you, shooting her eyes at your friend, then most likely the flirting is not addressed to you, but the girl is simply trying to arouse jealousy. But even in such a situation, you can always turn everything in your favor and get great sex.

All mysteries have been solved!

Photographer Guy Aroch, model Camilla Rowe

It would seem that you have a thousand articles, advice, discussions with friends at the bar, and you are still not sure whether the girl wants you?

Even if you have almost achieved perfection in recognizing her hints, our advice will still be useful and will not seem obvious.

A girl’s desire is revealed by her facial expressions and poses.

A girl can say that she doesn’t like you, but show the exact opposite with her behavior. As soon as you get a little closer and take the initiative, she will immediately succumb to your charms. To accurately identify women who want you, pay attention to the following nonverbal signals:

She bites her lips and licks them. This also includes biting a pendant or chain, your hair, or stroking your lips.
She plays with her eyebrows and her pupils dilate as she looks at you.
She often shows an open palm when communicating with you. But arms crossed on the chest is a bad sign that the girl is not very friendly towards you or is offended.
The girl smiles sincerely: not only with her lips, but also with her eyes, her whole face becomes more alive and open.

Physiological reasons

Long-term abstinence also affects a woman’s desire. Many girls who do not have a permanent partner refuse casual relationships. But the longer a lady doesn’t have intimacy, the more she wants release. The female body needs this even for normal functioning. Experts have proven that without intimacy, a woman becomes hot-tempered and irritable.

Physiologically, the peak of a girl’s desire occurs at the time of ovulation - this is the period when the concentration of the hormones estrogen and progesterone in the blood of the weaker sex increases, and this time is the highest chance of conception.

A girl is given away by her touching you

It’s not so easy to hide when a woman wants a man: the signs give her away. The most obvious one is that she is looking for an excuse to touch you. Either she shakes an invisible speck off your shoulder, or her foot accidentally touches yours when you are sitting next to her. A girl will not touch a guy who is unpleasant to her, and even so often. Pay attention to the expression on her face during these touches: she may be embarrassed or even openly flirt, depending on her character, but her eyes will always sparkle invitingly.

She may not touch you, but constantly stay close, violating your personal space every now and then. Usually people try to keep a distance of no closer than half a meter, and if a girl approaches you under various pretexts, then even without obvious touching it becomes clear that she is looking for your attention. She may lean towards you as if she didn't understand or didn't hear your words. You can try to support her initiative to get closer by fixing her clothes or hair and see how she reacts.

Nonverbal signs2

All women, young and old, want to look perfect in the eyes of the guy she likes. And if, next to a representative of the opposite sex, a lady makes any attempts to preen herself, then it is important for her to leave a pleasant impression of herself. Which indirectly may mean her desire to continue communication.

She straightens her hair, touches her hair, tugs at a strand of hair, or twirls it on her finger.
She opens her neck, throwing her hair back, or tilting her head back slightly.
The girl sits in an open position and shows her wrists to the guy with gestures.
She lets her hair down under the pretext of inconvenience or the need to straighten her hair.

A modest-looking lady, she laughs loudly enough to attract attention.
During the dialogue, the girl leans towards the interlocutor she likes.
She doesn't look away, and seems to be looking at the guy intently.
Her gaze moves quickly over the man's face and torso.
She shows off her body by taking off her jacket, exposing her shoulders, chest, and legs.

From a physiological point of view, non-verbal signs indicating sexual arousal can be:

The pupils, and possibly the girl’s eyes, are dilated.
Her chest rises high, and her breathing becomes heavier and more frequent.
She brings her knees together or crosses her legs.
A blush unfounded by the dialogue appears on her cheeks.
The voice becomes lower and speech becomes aspirated.

Girl's desire and gesticulation

It is not so easy to understand that a woman wants sex, and also that she is not in the mood for it. A girl can flirt, and then be indignant that you are pestering her. All because you need to ask and listen less, and look and feel more. Pay attention to her gestures:

she wants you if she eats her dessert too carefully and playfully, small pieces at a time, carefully licking the cutlery;
the girl straightens her clothes, plays with her hair, strokes herself;
she plays with a glass, strokes it, looking in your direction;
the girl tries to sit or stand in such a way as to emphasize all her charms: she exposes her breasts or butt, maintains her posture and tries to move smoothly and gracefully;
the girl takes out a mirror, preening herself, thus drawing attention to herself, she may also ask you to look if there are crumbs on her lips.

How to understand that an older woman wants you

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“If youth could do it, if old age could do it” - this proverb means that experience comes when the moments of getting what you want are missed. They spent a lot of trial and error. This also applies to the intimate sphere. Young girls and women, starting their sexual life, know and know little in bed. Of course, there are exceptions, but, as practice shows, reaching the highest point of pleasure (orgasm) comes to them at a later age.

For your information. By surveying women aged 20, 40, 50 years, it was found that orgasms occur more often after forty and closer to fifty years. This is due to hormonal levels and established psychological stability.

Married women have already grown up children and acquired sexual experience with their spouse. Unmarried women have results in career growth and life priorities are fixed.

While young women are attracted to experienced men, older women are looking for meetings with gentlemen younger than themselves. A mature woman who wants a man usually places an ad on the Internet, and young men respond.

the following signs will help determine that a lady of “Balzac’s age” wants sex

invites you home or to a suitable place under various pretexts;
flirts and clearly wants to get the chosen one drunk (to reduce the moral distance);
tries to demonstrate his charms under any pretext: it’s hot (unbuttons his blouse), his heart is beating strongly (puts the gentleman’s hand to his chest);
demonstrates new linen or bed in the bedroom.

The most relaxed ladies, having invited a guy to dance, openly rub their pubis against his genitals.

A young guy and a lady of “Balzac age”

The girl's desire and her gaze

If you don’t know how to understand that a girl wants sex, then pay attention to her look. It can be languid, playful or dreamy, but directed at you. She may feel embarrassed and look away when your eyes cross, as if she is ashamed of her thoughts. Pay attention to these signals:

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she looks at your lips as if she wants to kiss them;
her pupils dilate when she looks at you;
her gaze becomes moist, “calf-like,” and she looks at you with adoration.

Verbal signs

First of all, men can consider compliments as verbal signs of a nice person’s positive attitude towards themselves. She will talk about strength, intelligence, a beautiful body, a sense of style. He will evaluate the voice, hairstyle, gait, and note the large size of the hand, if it is such.
She will be interested in having a wife or a permanent girlfriend.
Perhaps he will ask provocative questions. Is he cheating on his wife? Or how do you feel about cheating if you are not married? How does he feel about sex without commitment? Or intimacy on the first date?
She herself is looking for meetings and communication.
She always answers messages and calls.
She writes or calls at night.

When a girl wants, it's clear from her behavior

Sometimes a girl behaves in such a way that only a fool would not understand that she wants sex. But there are also those guys who miss obvious signals. All a woman’s actions simply scream about her desire to be with you: all you have to do is not miss the moment. So, the following moments in behavior clearly indicate a girl’s desire:

she initiates random or non-random meetings or even takes the initiative: she is the first to call and invites her to go somewhere;
the girl makes an appointment under some pretext, but the place where you go clearly hints that she wants to be alone;
she invites you to her place under some pretext: learn to read between the lines - if a girl also meets you in a weightless robe, then your initiative is clearly needed;
she offers help and notices when she can be useful to you, often asking for help herself;
she doesn’t hang out on her phone when she communicates with you, but listens carefully and maintains the conversation - this is a clear sign, of course, if you are not her boss;
she begs to visit you: watch a movie, take a book to read.

Favorable conditions for intimacy

If the attraction turns out to be mutual, it is important to prepare suitable conditions for the first sex. Often, the further development of a couple’s relationship depends on how the first intimacy went.

If the guy lives alone, then it is appropriate to bring the girl to his home. This will allow him to feel more confident and comfortable, because he will be on his own territory. If, of course, the home does not create a positive impression, you should consider some other options. For example, you can try to ask to visit a woman.

You should not do this too actively, as such behavior can repel the weaker sex. If the girl herself does not take the initiative, most likely she will have to look for another shelter. There is no need to put pressure on a woman and force her to justify herself, because she is not to blame for anything. If she doesn't show enthusiasm, it means she has some reasons for it. Trying to figure them out at any cost would be the height of tactlessness.

You may have to rent a hotel room or apartment. If finances allow, then it is better to give preference to a good hotel. When trying to find a suitable place for a date, a man should make sure that the area is good. A beautiful view from the window will provide additional benefits.

As for sex on the street, everyone has their own thoughts on this matter. If such a pastime is acceptable for both, if you have a penchant for adventure, you should definitely take a risk. An adventure like this can leave unique memories that will last a lifetime. If a woman considers such behavior immoral, it is better to refuse experiments. In any case, it is recommended to choose more comfortable conditions for the first time.

If a guy realizes that a girl wants him, but at the same time he himself does not want to sleep with her, he should gently refuse so as not to offend the person. Most likely, if a man found himself in a similar situation, he would not want to face rudeness and rudeness. It can be explained that there is no feeling of readiness for sex yet.

The story that you recently had to break up with your loved one will help soften the refusal , and the pain has not yet passed, but it is not yet possible to rebuild. Under no circumstances should you undermine the self-esteem of a girl who wants sex. The emphasis should be placed on the fact that the reason is not in her, but in the man himself.

She asks special questions

If you want to figure out how to find out that a woman wants you, then you need to pay attention to seemingly innocent questions and phrases. Learn not to miss these nuances in order to know exactly about the girl’s desires. You should be wary if the following sounds:

"Are you living alone?". More veiled questions may also be asked, the purpose of which is to find out whether you have someone and whether you can meet on your territory. If she finds out that you live alone, then be prepared for her to find an excuse to come visit you.
“You’ll probably be busy with a girl in the evening” and similar questions with which she tries to carefully find out if you’re busy.
“I don’t have a boyfriend, which is a pity, I would know how we spent this evening.” At the same time, her meaningful gaze will be directed in your direction. Try to continue her fantasies and ask what she would do with her boyfriend if she had one. This game will bring you closer and help you better understand the girl’s motives and her attitude towards you.
“You smell good/look good.” Girls don't often give compliments - this is a clear sign that she wants you. This can also be a polite thing, so pay attention to other signs.
“How do you like my new perfume?” She can tell this by leaning closer so you can smell her. Another similar phrase may be said: “Do you like my new dress?”, while she will correct the area near the chest, waist or hips.

Also, a girl can tease, provoke you to “tease”, as if you were schoolchildren. The signal to attack is conversations about sex, intimate details of the girl’s past experience. She may casually or jokingly talk about her sexual desires. Such topics are not raised with the first people you meet - only with those who are considered as a potential partner. The main thing is, if you see that she wants you, try not to make these 10 mistakes of men.

If you understand that the girl wants you, then it’s up to you. Just don’t forget that her desire is not a guarantee that she will give herself to you on the very first evening. Some grab hold of every guy as if it were their last chance, while others like the game of “cat and mouse” and “impregnable fortress.” Even when you see a girl’s desire, you don’t need to go ahead. Act correctly, like an experienced man, not a green youth. Everything comes not only with experience, but also with an understanding of the basics of psychology. I, Alexander Galevich, will help you with this. My story began in 2004, and now I have 20 original courses and more than 3 thousand students annually. Relationships, love and sex are also a science in which success is achieved by those who are ready to understand the rules of the game.

Accelerating the convergence process

Even if a man finds out that a girl wants him, it is important for him not to ruin everything after that. Here are some tips from psychologists:

It is necessary to realize that women love sex. Perhaps even stronger than men. They are able to get much more pleasure.
Don't be afraid to take the initiative. For a representative of the fair sex, it is extremely important that a man knows how to take responsibility for himself and for the situation. Even if the guy realized that the girl dreams of kissing him, she is still unlikely to take the first step.
Under no circumstances should you judge a woman or reproach her for her sexual fantasies. It must be remembered that girls often experience fear of not conforming to social stereotypes. They are afraid of ruining their reputation, so they often behave with restraint, hiding intimate desires.
If a man feels constrained and awkward when talking about frank topics, a woman will also not be able to open up and relax.