Of course, the times of the ancient people are long gone, but the desire to dominate and be the alpha male with men will remain forever. It doesn’t matter who he is: an office worker or a blue-collar worker, sexual attraction will be expressed in exactly the same way. How to understand that a man wants a woman? Where is the line between “cute, but nothing more” and “oh yes! I would rock with her."
Promising eyes2
How to understand that a man wants you? Look him in the eyes! The playful, mocking gaze of the opposite sex is familiar to almost everyone. He looks at his new colleague like a cat at his master's slippers, with undisguised interest. He studies, observes, sometimes provokes. But if his gaze suddenly becomes languid, his eyes become moist or, as they say, become “oily,” then this is a sure signal that he considers his interlocutor as a sex object.
You can also pay attention to the pupils, but in practice no one has ever met the cat from Shrek. Therefore, if he has eyes of the usual normal size, this does not mean that he doesn’t care. And irises that are blurred so that you can’t see them are not at all an indicator of animal lust. Maybe he is an addict or takes antihistamines.
What a man does only for the woman he loves
Love and respect are two things that are inseparable from each other.
5 things a man does only for the woman he loves:
- He will only listen to the woman he loves. When talking to your man, you will have his full attention. He will listen to you, listen to your advice, express his opinion
- Will be open to discussion with you. And this is a good sign. This means that he sees something in the relationship that does not suit him and is ready to find a solution to the problem
- A man who loves and respects his partner will try to find a compromise. All people are different and their opinions do not always coincide. Usually in strong relationships where there is love, there is a desire for compromise
- He will fight only for the woman he loves. He will protect her from attacks from friends and relatives, because it is important for him to be close to his beloved
- A man who has experienced true love knows how valuable it is and will consider his beloved the most important person in his life. If he has to choose between what he loves and the woman he loves, he will choose his beloved. In order to make her happy, he is able to change his life.
Exciting touches 4
The strong half of humanity are children at heart; they look at what they like, they touch what they want. In principle, nothing changes with age, if a guy considers a girl as a sexual partner, they tend to touch her on occasion or without.
At first, everything is within the bounds of decency, if the beauty doesn’t mind, heavier artillery enters the battle: hugs, flirtatious stroking, touching near intimate places. Naturally, not on purpose. Therefore, if you feel excessive physical attention, you should either reject or accept flirting. Pretending that “I’m in the house” will be regarded as a guide to further action.
Why does a man want the woman he likes?
If a man likes a woman, he feels tenderness and warmth towards her. He wants to touch her, kiss her, stroke her skin and hair. The culmination of falling in love is sex. At such moments, the couple becomes truly close, feels and understands each other. This is a natural process driven by instincts.
But for sex to be enjoyable, for many women simple sympathy is not enough; they need a permanent and serious relationship.
For men, things are a little different. If they want sex, they can find a temporary partner. But still, many of them prefer to have a permanent woman next to them, whom they love and want to see as a companion for life.
Approach from behind9
The ancestors of men were hunters, and tracking the prey, and then suddenly lunging at the victim, gave them considerable pleasure. Little has changed since ancient times. The woman is also perceived as a kind of prey, which, as before, needs to be pounced on from behind. In the modern world, of course, everything is somewhat different, but the moment has not lost its essence and poignancy.
So, if a colleague or acquaintance comes up from behind and begins to explain something at ear level, this is a direct indicator of intimate interest. He would have mastered it here and now, but, alas, these are not the times. And there are too many people in the office. Another sign is to scare a girl from behind and almost naturally hug her at the same time.
In general, everything connected with the position “from the back” is very exciting for the stronger sex, and if he constantly does different things from behind, this says something. This should not be confused with an angry boss who immediately reprimands his subordinate, who is standing with her back to him. In this case, it doesn't even smell like sex.
What to do and how to behave if a guy wants you
If there is mutual sympathy, it is worth maintaining interest by actively encouraging communication, demonstrating goodwill, accepting help and gifts.
A young man in love begins to pay closer attention to his appearance
A pleasant stage of flirting is necessary for building harmonious relationships in the future. You should not try to complete it as quickly as possible and move on to closer contact too quickly.
Let him have the opportunity to show his best qualities and win a woman. An object dropped into your hands loses half its original value. Every man needs a chance to be a knight. You should not manipulate a lover, achieving selfish goals, stroking his pride.
If the interest is one-sided, it is better to immediately nip in the bud any attempts at flirting, refuse dates or ambiguous situations.
It is advisable to carefully analyze your behavior around your lover. If you are actively harassing someone, you can openly but subtly express your lack of interest in words. The tone and phrases should not imply ambiguous formulations. And you certainly shouldn’t give in just to make him fall behind.
Speech signs of sexual arousal
Another sign of a man’s sexual predilection for a woman is the tempo and timbre of his partner’s voice. Women who have experience in sexual life can easily distinguish a man's attraction to a woman by their intonation. It is important to pay attention to the following signs:
- timbre of voice - if the girl wishes, the man’s voice becomes languid, low timbre;
- the tempo of the man’s voice becomes slow if his partner desires, verbal pronunciation is slow, interrupted by breathing;
- the speech of the sexual partner becomes inhibited, with long breaks between the pronunciations of various phrases, which also often do not combine with each other and are drawn out when pronounced;
- sometimes a man begins to stutter due to desire.
Useful advice from psychologists
To avoid a relationship with a man who is only interested in intimacy, psychologists recommend that girls listen to the following advice:
- Talk to a man about his feelings.
- Observe his behavior.
- Do not enter into intimate relationships immediately after meeting.
- Look closely at the young man's eyes.
These psychological tips will allow girls to avoid stupid situations and help build a stable relationship with a man.
I'm going on first name terms
This sign can also be called “seizure of territory.” The man will try to enter the intimate area. His invasion can happen in different ways. He can lean close to tell something “confidentially”. Can straighten an item of clothing, such as a strap on a dress or a stray lock of hair. If the atmosphere is not formal, then the man will try to find a reason to be alone, touch your hand, invite you to dance.
The office rules are different, so the guy will act differently. For example, you might “accidentally” forget a mug on your desk. Or at a meeting he will choose a seat next to you, even if this means pushing someone aside. Moreover, the distance between you will be reduced so much that your shoulders will touch.
All these are signals - a man wants to make a woman his.
Qualities of a man that women value in relationships
A real man, from a woman’s point of view, must have the following qualities:
- Be confident in yourself and your abilities, but not overconfident. With such a person a woman feels safe;
- Kind, not expressing aggression with or without reason. Many people know the expression “The strong must be kind.” Any woman feels delighted if such a man is next to her;
- Reliable. A woman must be sure that, if she finds herself in a difficult situation, he will be able to protect her;
- Faithful. There should be trust in a relationship. And if a man cheats on his partner, how can you trust him?
- Generous. Who would like a greedy man? Reasonable economy is one thing, pettiness and tight-fistedness are quite another;
- Neat. You can dress simply and tastefully, even if things are inexpensive;
- With a good sense of humor. You will never be bored with such a person.
A woman, being married to a man, must be confident in the future. The family must have financial stability and emotional closeness. The husband must not only provide financially for the family, but also pay attention to the children.
Psychotype of personality
Each member of the stronger sex is attracted to a certain type of woman. Taking into account the character traits of beautiful ladies, we can identify the main psychotypes of personality that attract men. Among them: a woman-mother, a friend, a partner, a simpleton, a capricious child, a predator, a tyrant.
Long-term relationships that turn into family ties are often built with women who show themselves as mothers. Men are attracted by touching care, the ability to conduct everyday life, and express support. Having a patient, understanding life partner nearby is an opportunity to relax and gain strength.
His voice was caressing and enchanting
“Closer, closer...”, the cartoon character, the wise mentor Mowgli, lured with his voice. And the point was that it was what he said, not in words, but in intonation, timbre. I wanted to follow the voice, even to certain death.
People are not so pessimistic, but the point of the comparison is that scientists have proven that the fair sex associates a low male voice with masculinity, strength, and will. By lowering his voice, the man is trying to “present himself more advantageously.”
When talking with a girl he likes, the timbre of his voice involuntarily changes. It sounds low and velvety, as if enveloping and beckoning, hypnotizing and bewitching the partner so that she stops noticing everything around her and hears only this voice.
The man himself is able to find the most banal reasons for conversation and make conversations as long as possible. And if his number is the leading one in the list of incoming calls, then you can be sure that you have become an object of attention or even attraction.
Inaccessibility
Often guys are attracted to proud, unapproachable girls. Usually such young ladies have a beautiful appearance, take care of themselves, and wear expensive perfumes. They proudly walk past the man, demonstrating with all their appearance their own superiority and mystery, which attracts like a magnet.
The desire to conquer an unapproachable woman is caused by the hunter's instinct. The more difficult it is to achieve the goal, the stronger the passion flares up. But if a lady decides to let the conqueror into her personal space, his ardor most likely fades away. After all, the main goal was to attract attention and achieve it, so there is no point in continuing.
