From a cute little doll to a hungry animal. Why does my man always want sex? • Growth Phase

For some girls, it's a joy when a guy constantly wants sex. But there are women who are enraged by frequent advances. In any case, scientists have concluded that it is enough for a girl to have sex 3-4 times a week for her health and mood. Opinions about this figure are divided: some call it too high, all because they are tired at work and at home and once a week is enough for them.

But a man, according to scientists, desires a new sexual relationship already 15-20 minutes after the last sexual intercourse. Why is this happening? In fact, everything is individual, and the female sex has prostitutes who are also ready to have sex 24 hours a day, but in truth there are not many of them.

What to do if your boyfriend constantly wants sex? Let's give some advice to girls.

Signs that a man wants a woman

A man wants a woman - by what signs can this be determined? A woman can understand that a man wants her by his eyes. Decisive men with the makings of a leader look closely, without being embarrassed by it. Self-doubting, timid guys avoid direct eye contact. Young people in love are characterized by an ingratiating gaze. The most important sign is tactile contact.

Tactile contact is a form of communication that conveys direct physical contact with another person. For example, a handshake, pat on the shoulder or back.
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A man in love tries to take a woman by the hand, hug her by the shoulders, and cuddle up to her. While communicating with her, the timbre of his voice changes, it becomes lower and acquires a velvety quality.

A man in love is always available to his beloved. He will immediately answer her call and drop everything he is doing to help her solve her problems. He is interested in her life, knows her preferences and habits, and is attentive to details.

He takes care of his appearance. He visits the hairdresser more often, wears perfume, and buys new clothes. He tries to show himself only from the good side, and is always in high spirits.

Signs of excitement

It’s not difficult to understand that a man is excited:

His heartbeat quickens, his pulse increases;
Palms become sweaty;
Muscles tense;
“Goose bumps” may appear;
Pupils enlarge;
The eyes are covered with darkness.

But the main sign of arousal is an erection. A fleeting glance is enough to notice this.

Doctor says

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Erection is an increase in volume and hardening of the male penis as a result of sexual arousal.

How to behave if a man wants you

If the sympathy is mutual, it is worth maintaining communication, demonstrating your affection, accepting gifts and help. Light flirting is necessary to build further relationships.

But don’t move too quickly to closer contact. Give the man time to show his best qualities and conquer you.

If you do not want to continue the relationship, refuse to date and stop all attempts at flirting. If there is active harassment, explain frankly and delicately that you are not interested in the man and you do not want to continue the relationship.

Of course, a man’s refusal will be unpleasant. At this moment he will show his true colors. Someone will try to make an effort to win their beloved. Some will persistently pursue, and some will say nasty things. But, more often than not, men try to make attempts to get closer.

Signs of obvious attention

In fact, it’s not difficult to understand whether a man wants you. He won't hide it too much.

It is important for women not to show their sympathy and to be modest, mysterious, intriguing and making men suffer in ignorance. But the stronger sex is structured differently - its representatives are usually very direct, open and persistent.

Most likely, the man will begin to show signs of attention, because he doesn’t just want a woman - he certainly thinks about how to get her. And to achieve this, you need to persistently look after her, give nice gifts and flowers, say beautiful compliments, and so on.

The presence of sexual lust will make him choose special gifts and say special words. This will be different from romantic youthful impulses, and will certainly have subtle sexual overtones. This way you can reliably and accurately understand what’s on your gentleman’s mind.

If he presented you with sexy lingerie, a peignoir or a robe, this is already an open offer, and not even a hint. But this rarely happens, more often a man who wants a woman gives her very cute trinkets - soft bears, cute jewelry, bouquets and sweets.

Why does a man want the woman he likes?

If a man likes a woman, he feels tenderness and warmth towards her. He wants to touch her, kiss her, stroke her skin and hair. The culmination of falling in love is sex. At such moments, the couple becomes truly close, feels and understands each other. This is a natural process driven by instincts.

But for sex to be enjoyable, for many women simple sympathy is not enough; they need a permanent and serious relationship.

For men, things are a little different. If they want sex, they can find a temporary partner. But still, many of them prefer to have a permanent woman next to them, whom they love and want to see as a companion for life.

Sex is more than just physical contact

A banal, insensitive hookup doesn't turn you on. He got excited and finished mechanically without much pleasure. Sex with the woman you love is completely different. Touching this beautiful body, delivering pleasure to your lover and feeling your feedback on every touch, your partner becomes more confident. Surely you yourself have noticed: a man after sex and before it are people with different emotional states.

The feeling of determination and firmness extends beyond the bed: when negotiating, communicating with friends, seeing passing girls with inflated butts, he feels like a male and a conqueror.

Long-term sexual abstinence - and a man “withers” before our eyes: he has complexes about the lack of intimate life, does not joke about vulgar topics, and feels slightly inferior.

Gestures of a man in love

Few men can express their feelings in words. It is much easier for them to express their feelings and emotions with the help of gestures and actions.

How to understand that a man loves you? Very often, men in love express their love with gestures.

One of the forms of showing love is kissing. Women need kisses more than men. For them, a kiss is a sign of tenderness, sympathy, gratitude and other feelings. If a man kisses you often, it shows that he loves you.

Men get tired of long conversations. He can listen attentively only if the topic is interesting to him and if the dialogue is led by the woman he loves.

Every man in love is so overwhelmed with feelings that he cannot restrain them even among his acquaintances and friends. He tries to unobtrusively touch his beloved, hug her, straighten her curl, take her hand.

He can give gifts and make surprises for no reason. And this speaks of his love and affection, that he thinks about you and wants to please you.

The fact that a man loves you can be understood without words by his attitude towards you, how he surrounds you with care, attention and tenderness.

Stop making up excuses, is your partner no longer attracted to you?

He flirts by putting his hand under his dress, and you make a grimace like an angry mother? Are you first in the shower so you can fall asleep before he gets into bed? Inviting the kids to sleep in your bedroom? Or when having sex, do you make such a pained face, as if you are being forced into this dirty activity?

All these are alarming signals. During sex, a man feels when you are faking an orgasm. He notices when his chosen one withdraws and avoids real intimacy. He reacts painfully to the way you smile at strangers on the street/work, and drink aspirin at home.

Intimacy is an integral part of adult love relationships.

If you have cooled off towards your partner, are tired of marriage, have fallen in love with someone else, or have become frigid, you need to work with this separately. Seek help from a psychologist, sex therapist, or discuss the problem with your husband directly. You won't be able to hide behind a headache for long.

What a man does only for the woman he loves

Love and respect are two things that are inseparable from each other.

5 things a man does only for the woman he loves:

He will only listen to the woman he loves. When talking to your man, you will have his full attention. He will listen to you, listen to your advice, express his opinion
Will be open to discussion with you. And this is a good sign. This means that he sees something in the relationship that does not suit him and is ready to find a solution to the problem
A man who loves and respects his partner will try to find a compromise. All people are different and their opinions do not always coincide. Usually in strong relationships where there is love, there is a desire for compromise
He will fight only for the woman he loves. He will protect her from attacks from friends and relatives, because it is important for him to be close to his beloved
A man who has experienced true love knows how valuable it is and will consider his beloved the most important person in his life. If he has to choose between what he loves and the woman he loves, he will choose his beloved. In order to make her happy, he is able to change his life.

Finally open your mouth!

First for conversation, not what you thought...

If you experience pain during sex (for example, from deep penetration) or you want to be on top, or your clitoris needs to be treated more gently - say so!

Your partner can't read minds. Orgasms for guys are much simpler: they largely depend on the mechanics of movements. While women use a variety of feelings: erotic fantasies, kisses behind the ear, and sweet anticipation - all this is important.

Don’t be surprised why a man, after sex, turns away and sleeps with a satisfied face, while you look at the ceiling with a silent thought: “Is that all?..”.

If he came and you didn’t even get excited, tell him. Only without the rude: “You suck in bed!” Share your fantasies, for example: “I get turned on by sex where the man doesn’t cum before the woman…”

Qualities of a man that women value in relationships

A real man, from a woman’s point of view, must have the following qualities:

Be confident in yourself and your abilities, but not overconfident. With such a person a woman feels safe;
Kind, not expressing aggression with or without reason. Many people know the expression “The strong must be kind.” Any woman feels delighted if such a man is next to her;
Reliable. A woman must be sure that, if she finds herself in a difficult situation, he will be able to protect her;
Faithful. There should be trust in a relationship. And if a man cheats on his partner, how can you trust him?
Generous. Who would like a greedy man? Reasonable economy is one thing, pettiness and tight-fistedness are quite another;
Neat. You can dress simply and tastefully, even if things are inexpensive;
With a good sense of humor. You will never be bored with such a person.

A woman, being married to a man, must be confident in the future. The family must have financial stability and emotional closeness. The husband must not only provide financially for the family, but also pay attention to the children.