10 reasons why a man is magnetically attracted to a certain woman

Every man has experienced a strong attraction to a girl at least once in his life. Moreover, sexual desire can appear for a woman even if the man is in a relationship with another and is absolutely happy. For some, sexual attraction becomes a pleasant surprise and an opportunity to enjoy life.

Others really suffer because of him. But in both cases, we can say with confidence that coping with a strong sexual desire towards a particular girl is very difficult.

Smell

Each person has a unique smell. And if a man has a high threshold of smell, he unconsciously reaches out to a woman who smells appropriately. We are not talking about the fragrances used by the lady, but about the smell that the female body exudes (by the way, it may not be noticeable; for others, this happens).

The attractiveness of the fairer sex increases significantly in the presence of high levels of estrogen and low concentrations of progesterone. Such hormonal indicators indicate the fertility of women, so instinctively men are more likely to pay attention to them.

Pathological attraction to women

In addition to the healthy attraction caused by positive childhood memories with which the image of a woman is correlated, there is an unhealthy attachment that is painful in nature.

This addictive behavior is caused by a special psychological state caused by pathological attachment to a woman. This leads to a person losing his own personality; he lives only with the problems of his partner and empathizes with everything that happens to him.

Addictive behavior occurs due to the following factors:

Inability to be responsible for one's own actions and emotions.
Negative emotional background - anxiety, self-doubt, resentment, doubt.

It is extremely difficult for a person to cope with this condition on his own, so he often has to seek the support of a psychologist or psychiatrist. Love dependence on a person arises against the backdrop of rapidly developing relationships.

These people were inseparable all the time, enjoying spending time together and the accompanying sensations.

Other people from the circle of lovers fade into the background, because they believe that they do not need to communicate with anyone else. Strong emotional attraction at first is due to hormonal reactions and positive emotions.

Over time, hormonal levels change and the feelings subside. Partners strive to diversify their lives and begin to meet other people and devote time to new activities.

If healthy relationships develop between people, then they experience this period normally and move on to a new stage. When one of the partners has a mental disorder of a reversible nature, he begins to experience pathological manifestations:

a feeling of lack of love from a partner;
jealousy;
resentment due to lack of attention;
dissatisfaction.

A man feels abandoned, betrayed, which is why a painful attachment is formed.

Eyes

With the help of a look you can convey the whole gamut of emotions, it is not necessary to say any words. In addition, the eyes allow you to understand how a girl really feels. If she loves life and knows how to notice the positive sides in everything, her eyes will glow with kindness.

Men like to see love and respect in the eyes of their chosen one. Some ladies slay you on the spot with just one flirtatious look. It is not surprising that it is difficult for guys to resist such a powerful female “weapon”. BUT! Men “quickly leave” if a girl’s eyes radiate coldness and indifference.

Read: how to understand that a girl likes you - main signs and signals

Voice

One of the most important guidelines that determines attraction to a particular lady. On a subconscious level, men perceive women with a beautiful voice as more sexually attractive. External data may fade into the background.

Voice timbre is associated with body features. Often (but not always):

high ringing voice - slender, petite girl;
low bass timbre - the owner of large “grace”.

Guys can tell their age by their voice. High, sonorous voices intuitively evoke associations with youth and carefreeness, while low, bass voices are identified with manifestations of maturity and experience.

Many people like ladies with a low tone, because they consider them very sexy. It is not surprising that a man can fall for an unremarkable lady with a special voice - this phenomenon is not uncommon in our age.

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If you detect these signs in a man's behavior, be sure that he is eager to throw you on the floor right now and do all those dirty things that are shown in adult films.

Perhaps he has been waiting for more than a month, and is ready to literally explode with excitement.

If your desires coincide, just beckon and he will pounce on you like a hungry tiger on a delicious doe. What happens after is another question.

But if you reciprocate his feelings, you will definitely be guaranteed wild sex.

But this is precisely where the hottest romances often begin...
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Inaccessibility

Often guys are attracted to proud, unapproachable girls. Usually such young ladies have a beautiful appearance, take care of themselves, and wear expensive perfumes. They proudly walk past the man, demonstrating with all their appearance their own superiority and mystery, which attracts like a magnet.

The desire to conquer an unapproachable woman is caused by the hunter's instinct. The more difficult it is to achieve the goal, the stronger the passion flares up. But if a lady decides to let the conqueror into her personal space, his ardor most likely fades away. After all, the main goal was to attract attention and achieve it, so there is no point in continuing.

Non-verbal signals

There are several non-verbal body signals that tell better than any words about a man’s sexual state.

During a conversation, the guy begins to involuntarily move closer to the object of his attention. And gradually the distance between the bodies inevitably decreases. This will be followed by a light touch of the arms and legs. This gesture will not entail active actions; it will be practically invisible. But this is how a new love story can begin. Sexual state of a man
If a woman is nearby, a man wants to touch her, hug her. But it happens that circumstances do not allow this, and he tries to occupy his hands: he buttons and unbuttons his collar, fiddles with his tie, twists a button, smoothes and tousles his hair, straightens his jacket. With sufficient arousal, the young man wants his partner to know about it. A man can become aroused when he touches her hand or other parts of the body, straightens the lady’s hair, seeks a response glance, while literally leaning close to her. Therefore, do not be surprised when an outwardly calm gentleman suddenly begins to actively help you get out of the car or hand you a coat. Everything is understandable: pleasant gestures of participation are another way to touch the object of your interest. When sexual arousal comes, the guy begins to automatically stroke and twirl in his hands the object that has fallen into his hands, which has the shape of a cylinder. Be it a pen, a glass, etc. This is no longer a signal, but a decisive call.

Psychotype of personality

Each member of the stronger sex is attracted to a certain type of woman. Taking into account the character traits of beautiful ladies, we can identify the main psychotypes of personality that attract men. Among them: a woman-mother, a friend, a partner, a simpleton, a capricious child, a predator, a tyrant.

Long-term relationships that turn into family ties are often built with women who show themselves as mothers. Men are attracted by touching care, the ability to conduct everyday life, and express support. Having a patient, understanding life partner nearby is an opportunity to relax and gain strength.

Appearance

External data has an advantage at the dating stage. Therefore, modest simpletons next to well-groomed beauties go unnoticed. Of course, symmetrical facial features, large breasts, long legs immediately attract attention, because beauty implies the ability to “show off the product with your face”:

healthy white teeth;
toned, slender body;
neat manicure-pedicure;
clean silky hair;
neat clothes.

It’s not for nothing that they say that men love with their eyes. They notice the figure (lush chest and protruding buttocks), hair, sincere smile. And although slender ladies seem more attractive, some guys are drawn to curvy ladies. The secret lies in the girl’s ability to present herself, being confident in her own irresistibility.

If a young lady does not love herself, she does not care about her own appearance. Guys unconsciously read the lady’s lack of interest in herself, and therefore do not want to waste time on communication. Although a cold, calculating personality may be hidden behind an attractive appearance, it can be difficult to recognize.

She touches you

One of the classic signs of female attraction is overcoming the sensory barrier. Girls are wary of men, so the desire to touch you is a sign that she feels comfortable and good around you.

She may touch you more often than usual. Or act more boldly, touching and lightly running along the thigh, neck, chest. Even more gently - patting the thigh, stroking the back. If you find a girl touching you in your private parts, either accidentally or on purpose, then you are probably a regular guest in her wet dreams!

Don't forget to look into her eyes when she touches you, this will mean that the challenge is accepted and you hear her.

She may also touch the areas described above and mutter, “Oh, sorry!” and smile all the way. This is also a sure sign of sexual arousal.

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The taste of a kiss

Kissing is considered the first sign of intimacy between representatives of opposite sexes. Touching your lips to each other can increase mutual attraction or destroy the relationship. What is meant here is not the partner’s ability to kiss, but the presence of biological compatibility.

Through kissing, a couple can taste and smell each other, which helps determine how compatible the partners are. If a man likes the sensations of taste and smell, he will be even more attracted to his partner. The stronger sex intuitively determines female fertility by the taste of saliva.

Life values

Usually, one is attracted to a woman who has similar character traits and outlook on life. A couple who knows how to trust, sympathize with each other, show openness and support in difficult life situations has a greater chance of building a strong relationship. Falsity, lies, mistrust quickly “kill” any union.

If a man dreams of a big family and the possibility of traveling together, naturally he will choose a girl who sees herself as a mother of many children and also wants to visit other countries. A man with a calm temperament, who prefers to relax at home, is drawn to a woman who does not like noisy parties.

Although, as with any rule, there are exceptions, which only confirms the correctness of the theory.

How does a man feel when he wants a woman but doesn’t get it?

The range is wide - from burning hatred to an obsessive desire to turn the situation in one’s favor, to achieve favor. Refusal is unpleasant, it hits the ego and undermines self-esteem.

At this moment, the true face of a male representative is revealed in all its glory. One will try to make efforts to win his beloved, another will begin persistent persecution, the third will spread nasty things.

In most situations, guys still make a few more attempts to get closer. If they end in fiasco, they switch to another object. Active multi-year courtship is rare, as is an openly hostile reaction.

Sexual compatibility

The sexual needs of each partner are of no small importance. A man is naturally attracted to someone who has similar sexual temperament, tastes and preferences. A frank conversation about preferences in bed helps determine the presence of compatibility before intimacy.

A guy is like a magnet drawn to a girl if they both:

consider sex to be an integral part of relationships;
prefer the same actions in bed;
love to practice new poses;
mutually strive to satisfy each other;
talk openly about sexual preferences;
communicate after orgasm and the end of the process.

Of course, it’s worth working on compatibility by getting rid of prejudices and opening up to everything new. However, it is unlikely that the relationship will be strong if a man wants to have sex every day, but a woman needs 1-2 times a week. Or, when the partner likes passionate manifestations, but the young lady is embarrassed to show pleasure.

Read: How to tell if a girl is using you

From “Hello” to “Come to my place”

Time spent: from 1 to 3 hours

This is exactly the case when less is more. That is, you don’t need to have a multi-hour date. You shouldn’t wear out a girl by talking instead of going and having sex.

As soon as you find the right girl, immediately move on to seduction. Moreover, rest assured, this is exactly what the girl expects from you.

Playful banter

After a couple of dozen successful hunts, you will be able to develop your own style of seducing women for one night. At the same time, you will also understand how to quickly seduce a married woman - it is no more difficult than an unmarried woman.

But – from the very beginning you should start playfully teasing her. Girls in clubs and other establishments are used to guys hitting on them. They are also used to bossing these guys around. And they got used to the fact that all the guys around were ready to kiss their feet if only the girl would go with him. Often a girl hints to a guy that she likes him, but then she gets really dynamite - leaving home alone, or with a completely different guy.

You need to start communicating, demonstrating a fair sense of humor, while making fun of the girl herself and her friends.

Women are very sensitive to men with a good sense of humor, since most guys around are dull bores. So you have a great opportunity to stand out from the general gray mass.

Things you can joke about:

Over how the girl herself looks (“And how do you eat with those lips?”).
Over the way she communicates.
Over what she wears (“Is it just my imagination, or did you forget to wear a skirt today?”).
Over what she does (“Come on, drink this cocktail in one gulp, I see what you want!”).
Over how she tries to attract male attention.

At the same time, you need to stay within limits and not go too far. If you seriously offend a girl, then you can’t count on her this evening.

Great - if you make fun of yourself - girls will appreciate it.

Talk about sexual topics

Most guys are used to talking to girls politely. And this leads nowhere.

You need to immediately create a sexual atmosphere by constantly talking with girls about sexual and semi-sexual topics. If a girl supports such a conversation, you are lucky.

But don't get too deep into the sexual conversation. And this conversation should not be made an end in itself. But periodic mentions related to this topic will maintain the desired atmosphere.

To do this you need:

Flirt – and with the girls around.
Communicate interesting facts about sex.
Telling a girl that she looks sexy.
Discussing her outfit is in the context of sexuality.
Sexual customs of the peoples of the world.
Discuss others.

As soon as you understand that the girl likes this conversation, you can tick yourself - you are on the right track.

Touch her constantly

You need a lot, a lot of touch. I have already written about how to touch a girl correctly. Therefore, here I will give only the main facts:

The more you touch a girl, the more she trusts you, and the more chances you have.
The fact that a girl reacts normally to your touch means that she is pleasant and likes you - since girls are squeamish creatures, and they are very sensitive to the touches of strangers.
You need to start with socially acceptable touches (hands, elbow, shoulder).
It is necessary to gradually increase the intensity of touching - along with this, the girl’s excitement will increase.
If you want to kiss her, kiss her, don’t ask.
Move on to seductive and intimate touches.
As soon as you kissed and started having intimate touches, it’s time to go home.

The main thing is to take your time and move persistently and consistently.

Take a walk with her

This is a very important test of how involved a girl is. 15-20 minutes after the start of communication, offer to take a walk - for example, go out into the fresh air, or smoke.

It doesn’t matter to you where you go or what you do there. The fact itself is important to you - that the girl is, in principle, ready to follow you.

Also – here you can offer the girl to go to another place. This is exactly the point I talked about at the beginning of the article. You are with a girl, everything is moving well for you, the girl is clearly passionate. Invite her to go to another place and continue the conversation there.

If a girl agrees to move with you, you’ll do great!

Build rapport

Rapport is a psychological term that refers to the level of trust and comfort in communication. You need to be in a constant state of rapport with the girl. You will understand this state immediately: you will suddenly feel very light and comfortable. The girl will feel exactly the same thing.

Therefore, you need to constantly work on trust and comfort in communication.

In fact, for some girls, rapport will be completely unimportant. For some, it is not fundamental, but for some, trust is the basis of all communication. You don't need to find out which category your particular girlfriend falls into - just build rapport.

The easiest way is to be sincerely interested in the girl and talk at the upper levels of the Dilts pyramid . Namely, to find out from her what is valuable to her, why she does certain things.

But here you can’t get too carried away. After all, you are leading a seduction, and not choosing a wife for yourself. Therefore, alternate between banter, talking about values, kissing and touching.

And everything will be fine.

Don't miss the moment

If you do everything correctly, then a moment will come that can be called “It’s time.”

That is, the girl will definitely let you know that she is ready to go with you. This moment will not last long, and if you miss it, then today, with this particular girl, nothing will happen to you.

I am convinced that you will lose more than a dozen evenings, and more than a dozen girls, before you learn to understand that this moment has come. This comes with experience.

But I'll tell you how it can be determined:

You are very close.
She touches you herself.
She looks at you and smiles.
She blushes.
She holds your hand.
She begins to say little.
Her breathing becomes deep.

As soon as you see at least three of these signs, it’s time to go to your home.

Invite her home

Girls expect decisive action from guys. And for some reason guys prefer a very ornate path. For some reason, it seems to a handsome and sexy guy that as soon as he utters the words “Come to my place,” the girl will immediately call the police and hit him with a sledgehammer.

In fact, the girl realized a long time ago what was going on. And if she sits next to you and is not in a hurry, it means that she likes everything, and she is just waiting for you to stop slowing down and finally begin to act.

And this is where you need to prepare the most important thing: an excuse .

The girl is ready to come to you. She understands perfectly why you are coming to see you. But - she wants you to explain to her - why you are going there, and this is not having sex.

After you find yourself in the same bed, and even later - when the girl returns home, a feeling of guilt will wash over her. And she will need an excuse that will explain that she is not a whore, but simply became a victim of circumstances and could not do anything.

Therefore, you need to come up with an excuse for traveling to your place in advance.

The excuse can be anything:

Listen to music.
Watch the series.
Feed the fish.
Charge the phone.
Do something incredibly important.
Check the security alarm.
Show her your collection of Metallica vinyl records.

It will take a long time before you understand which excuses for visiting you work better. You need to practice and check what gives a good conversion.

In addition, it is imperative to provide an emergency exit for the girl. The phrase is extremely simple: “If anything happens, I’ll send you home right away, don’t worry.” It is also important for a girl to understand that, once in the same room with you, she will have the opportunity to run away if she doesn’t like something, or if something goes wrong.

What you need to have at home

In order for your dates not to end at the threshold of the apartment, you need to make sure that the girl feels comfortable there.

Therefore, here are some tips for you:

Before going after the girls, be sure to put your home in perfect order.
Ideal order should also be in the bathroom. Be sure to have CLEAN TOWELS ready to give to your girlfriend if she plans to take a shower.
Ideally, have a sealed toothbrush at home for girls.
There are NEW linens on the bed.
The bedroom is in perfect order.
The refrigerator should have: white wine, red wine, martini, champagne, vodka, champagne, pineapple juice, orange juice, apple juice. In this case, you can satisfy ANY girl for a drink.
There are apples and grapes in the refrigerator. Then you will also have something to chew before going to bed.

Once you are at home, give the girl some time to get comfortable there. A little is a little. No more than 10 minutes.

Then kiss her and go to bed.

And remember: the fact that a girl came to your house really means that she wants to have sex with you. But it doesn’t at all negate the fact that you will need to seduce her again.

10 minutes later you kiss her. Then - kinesthetics and kisses. And then - sex. If you delay getting to know the apartment for three hours, the girl will fall asleep. And she will fall asleep, most likely in a taxi on the way home, left without sex.

Freedom? Please receive - sign

Freedom for a man is one of the most important values in life.

Many representatives of the stronger sex avoid creating relationships for fear of losing their own independence. If a woman gives a man complete freedom, she becomes so valuable that her partner will not want to lose her, he will be even more drawn to her.

Every person knows how much freedom he needs to feel happy. Some couples spend time together around the clock, while for others two or three hours are enough. Some people like to go on vacation together, while others prefer to go on vacation alone.

There are two additional factors to consider. In the end, a man is always attracted to one of 2 types of women:

to the one with whom he will be comfortable (if we are talking about a mentally healthy man who does not suffer from deviations);
to the one in which he invested more (and it doesn’t matter whether it’s love or money) - this is the essence of a person.

Wants to please you

Yes, yes, in every sense of the word. But for now she’s only trying to please you with something small - treat you, cook your favorite dish, give an easy gift, perfume yourself with your favorite scent, wear that dress in which you once praised her, buy tickets to the movie you were talking about.

A woman won’t just take care of a man and do nice things for him. This is her way of showing you that you are special to her. You are her man and she views you as a serious partner. Including for bed.