The art of seduction or how to seduce a man beautifully
Behave as naturally and relaxed as possible in the company of your crush. If a man sees that you are comfortable in his company, that you enjoy communicating with him, then this will encourage him to take further steps in your relationship. Listen to him carefully, look closely into his eyes, sometimes looking away in embarrassment, smile mysteriously. You can also barely noticeably stroke your wrist or play with your bracelet while talking.
Also, appearance plays an important role in seduction. Of course, guys have different tastes, but it is worth recognizing that most of them still pay attention to a certain female type, considering him sexually attractive.
So, what should you pay attention to first?
- Hairstyle.
Hair plays an important role in the appearance of any woman. Of course, every man has his own preferences in hair color, but it is desirable that it be natural. Guys also like it when a girl’s hair is loose, falling in a beautiful waterfall (straight) or lying on her shoulders in exciting curls (wavy). Of course, the hair should be clean, well-groomed and shiny. They can play an important role in seduction, twirl the strands around your finger when communicating with a guy, or simply shake your hair, throwing it away from your face, and so on. - Advantages of the figure.
Be sure to highlight your figure with appropriate clothing. Think carefully about which part of your body looks most advantageous, perhaps it is beautiful breasts, butt, long slender legs or a thin waist. - Wardrobe.
If you want to seduce a guy, then choose a wardrobe that will make you look as feminine as possible. At the same time, avoid overtly vulgar outfits - men prefer intrigue in a woman’s appearance. A knee-length dress that covers both a woman’s neckline and hips, but at the same time hugs all the “bulges,” can be called seductive. Also pay attention to tight trousers and clothes with ruffles. That is, the guy should “complete” some parts of your body in his imagination. Of course, sometimes it won’t hurt to wear an outfit with a seductive neckline, but at the same time, let other elements of your wardrobe be more restrained. - Makeup.
Too bright makeup can certainly attract and interest a guy, but most males are still somewhat wary of “war paint.” It is enough to make advantageous accents on the lips or eyes. If you are meeting in the evening, red lipstick would be quite appropriate (choose a shade that suits you). In the daytime (as well as in the evening), you can use translucent or transparent lip gloss. Also, do not forget about proper eye makeup - sometimes long eyelashes and clear arrows are enough for the most positive effect. If you are sure that you know how to use shadows (in many cases girls do not know how to choose the right tone and simply shade them correctly), then you can apply them. With all this, your skin should look healthy and radiant.
Appearance
A seductive woman is, first of all, a neat woman. She wears clean, ironed clothes, mostly made of light fabrics. Candid, translucent blouses and dresses, short, tight skirts are best put aside. The girl should be seductive, but not vulgar or overly frank.
Women often confuse the appearance of a temptress with the image of a Moulin Rouge girl. They assume that showing off a woman's charms automatically makes her sexy and seductive to men. A lady should look attractive, seductive, but dignified.
How to properly seduce your ex-boyfriend
One way is to invite him to your home. The pretext could be an important conversation, or ask him to pick up or bring some thing. When a young man appears in your apartment, meet him in seductive clothes; you probably know what exactly your ex-boyfriend likes. Be calm, a little mysterious, say that you missed him. If he doesn’t have a new lover, then most likely he will react correctly to your actions. However, the very fact that he was at your house indicates that, at a minimum, he does not harbor intense hatred for you and wanted to see you - otherwise he would have found a way to avoid the meeting.
Playing with curls3
Working on gestures when communicating with a man will help a woman present her image as a soft, seductive cat that you just want to pet.
When a woman is next to a man, her hands “contain magic”, with the help of which she can attract and bewitch, or repel and disgust her interlocutor. Seduction lessons place a huge emphasis on manners. The struggle for male attention includes the maximum “artillery”: hair, facial expressions, lips, body, wrists, legs. Not a single man can resist such an arsenal if it is used correctly.
Hair is a serious weapon for girls. The length of the hair is not as important as its cleanliness, condition and smell. One of the seductive techniques dictates the following: sitting opposite a man, a woman should relax and play with her fingers along the ends of her hair.
The hand moves slowly, fingering the strands, and the fascinated guy watches this picture, frozen in mid-sentence. A careless gesture of straightening your hair will help bring it back to normal. Are the man's interested eyes following the movement of his hand? Great! You can move on to the next “procedure”.
I want to learn how to seduce guys in 2 minutes, is this possible?
It is quite possible to seduce a guy in two minutes, but under an important condition - he must like you. If this man likes you, then almost any of your feminine tricks will have a disarming effect on him. The easiest way is to just start a topic about intimacy - voice some provocative joke. You can also invite a guy to your home or simply try to kiss him. Any of these tricks will work instantly if you attract the young man's interest. Otherwise, the matter will not be limited to just two minutes.
Grace of the Panther5
Seduction lessons include eloquent body language. A seductive woman should combine everything: clothes, image, gestures, body movements. If a woman stumbles into the room like a collective farmer after milking, falling heavily onto a chair, her back slouched, her image will not be saved by a silk dress or a flutter of eyelashes with plump lips.
The temptress sits straight, crossing her legs. In her movements one can feel languor, relaxation, but not fatigue and a desire to rest.
Bracelets and wristwatches sliding on slender wrists beckon and attract the eyes of the stronger sex. The girl should show her wrists unobtrusively.
When she is next to a guy, she touches his cheek, shoulders or neck. This should be done gently and unobtrusively.
"Chat"
Every girl knows this type of man. He will chatter incessantly, shower you with compliments and humor. How does a Gemini man seduce a woman? His task is to speak monotonously, a lot and looking mainly at his partner. Thus, she is gradually introduced into a kind of trance. The effect is enhanced by key phrases that draw the girl’s attention to her, albeit not real, moral qualities. For example: “You are so risky, adventurous, interesting. Surely you can take off at any moment?” Finish with a proposal to go for a ride around the city at night or escape to an observation deck (or any other place). The point is that focusing on a woman's inner qualities gives her a reason to feel better than she really is. The girl will try to live up to the compliments attributed to her and behave as expected of her. For an experienced man, a few correctly constructed phrases are enough. It is important not to overdo it with monologues and not seem boring.
Velvet notes6
A woman should talk to a man softly, tenderly and bewitchingly, like a cat. Don't cluck like a chicken, filling the dialogue with continuous chatter, don't squawk like a crow, but "purr" like a furry pet.
Obscene and rude words must be removed from the speech of a seductive lady. The flow of phrases should flow like a stream, melodic, interesting, enticing.
If a girl is in a close relationship with a guy, she can conquer his words that describe her feelings and emotions. They sound something like this:
- “You give me shivers.”
- “I want to feel your touch.”
- “Your look excites me.”
- “The sight of your body turns me on.”
- “When I look at you, everything inside me burns.”
When addressing a man, be sure to use the following phrases:
- "You're so sexy"
- "My tender".
- "Dear boy."
- "My love".
Married
If you are married and decide to cheat on your spouse, remember that there is no turning back after this. What feelings do you have for your own wife? Is it worth continuing a relationship if you are ready to hurt the person next to you for the sake of a fleeting passion?
Why does a married man seduce a woman? Usually for the sake of a one-time connection, when he is not satisfied with the relationship in the family. Interest in sports, monogamy and other reasons for “alpha males” are, rather, excuses for immature individuals. An adequate adult man is able to understand and assess the scale of disasters and consequences in the event of betrayal being discovered. Therefore, think a thousand times whether a one-time dubious sexual experiment is worth the nerves and love of one, but the closest woman.
Sole of company
When choosing a man, a woman is also guided by how other women react to her chosen one. How can a man seduce a woman? In order for her to appreciate you as a worthy match, you need to please the people around you. For Leo men, this method will not be difficult. By attracting attention to himself from the right angle and without playing the role of a clown, he will not go unnoticed. To fulfill this point, you need to have certain oratorical abilities and activity. People are attracted to people who are listened to and respected. Such a man creates the impression of being competitive, someone with whom you can stand out and live an active life under the envious glances of your rivals.
Male opinion2
What do men themselves think about this? What feminine tricks work the most on them? Reddit users gave in to the onslaught of curious ladies and told them their secrets. The result is a very interesting list of revelations:
- “If I like you, then any expression of interest on your part will be pleasant to me. If I don’t like you, then your attempts to seduce me will look strange.
Just show me that you like me. Touch, kiss, touch my hair. No need to do a striptease, just express genuine interest.” – JustOneVote.
- “It was probably unintentional, but I was once seduced by a colleague. She called in the morning and said that she would be a little late for work. And that voice of hers right after waking up was damn exciting,” – Cask_Strenght_Islay.
- “One girl just told me she recorded herself masturbating on video and now masturbates while watching the video of herself masturbating,” TurnTheTVOff.
- "I asked her to dinner and she said 'how about I invite you to dinner?' – ihavesexwithmyself.
- “She started rapping all of a sudden. It was funny." - bjos144
- “It may not seem like a big deal, but she fed me. We were working together and decided to have lunch. She took the cookie and handed it to me,” deleted.
- “She kissed me. The message was absolutely clear,” oboedude.
Q.E.D! Well, except that we didn’t think about the sudden reading of a rap... It’s true that it will probably be difficult to forget.
Mystery
A man who is “all so mysterious” also has a good effect on young girls: he pauses at the right places in the monologue, misses something during the story in order to complement it later. He comes out without a word and disappears, then appears out of nowhere. In the story about himself he leaves some understatement, a secret. Friends who came with you should support this game. Thus, the girl will become interested, because they are all naturally curious, and will want to have a heart-to-heart talk, to unravel the mysterious person. The aura of mystery attracts and attracts them like moths. This role suits Pisces men. For older women, this method is contraindicated; most likely, you will be mistaken for a poser and sent to ask riddles elsewhere.
About high
Under no circumstances should you advertise to a woman your intentions to lure her into bed on the first date. You can hint from afar about your ardent desire, but you shouldn’t say it directly. On the contrary, tell us how you value sincerity and loyalty in women. That you believe in love and look for it everywhere. That she is that extraordinary, special woman whose company makes you feel warm and comfortable. Beautiful, non-binding words warm the soul and ears of a beautiful lady. Easy, non-committal flirting is typical for Aquarius men.
