How to persuade your parents to get a dog and what to do if they don’t agree

Not all parents are ready to agree to have a hamster, let alone a dog. Requests and persuasion sometimes do not bring the desired result at all, so the only way out for the child is to prove that he is completely ready to take responsibility for the life of the pet. There are several ways to beg your parents for a dog, but this will require a lot of effort and, first of all, adjusting your own behavior.

For a child, a dog is the most faithful and reliable friend

“I want a dog” - a game or a conscious decision

Often, many parents, especially mothers, flatly refuse to buy the dog that their child dreams of. A negative answer arises from fears that the child will eventually play enough with the animal and all responsibilities for caring for it will fall on the shoulders of adults. That is why it is worth figuring out whether this is really a conscious decision or whether the dog will serve only as a temporary toy.

Most often, children ask to buy them a dog if:

they lack attention, and a four-legged friend in this case is associated with an ideal friend;
I want to feel protected;
a partner for games is needed;
stop being shy about yourself and learn to meet people;
there is a need to take care of someone.

If this is so, then probably his desire is a conscious decision, and not a game that will become completely uninteresting after a short time.
Attention! If the desire to get a dog arises immediately after communicating with a family where there is already a cheerful four-legged friend, then in most cases this indicates a temporary impulse.

Psychologist's comment:

To understand why parents are often against getting a dog, you need to understand how they think and what motivates them.

I must say that the life of your parents is not as simple as you think. Besides the fact that they take care of you, cook food, clean the apartment and do a bunch of other important things, they also need to work so that you have something to eat and you can live normally

But there is something else important. It may be hard to believe, but after your mom and dad have done all that work and are about to go to bed, they want to have at least a little time to themselves. A time when they could watch a good movie on TV or read an interesting book

Well, something like that. Usually, the older you get, the less time they have for this, but this is a very important time for any person, no matter how old he is.

A time when they could watch a good movie on TV or read an interesting book. Well, something like that

Usually, the older you get, the less time they have for this, but this is a very important time for any person, no matter how old he is.

Now let's look at your desire to have a dog. It would seem - what’s so special about this, since almost every family has a dog or cat? To understand why everything is not so simple, imagine that the pet you want to get is not an animal at all, but... a small child! A baby, like any pet, cannot take care of itself - it must be fed. This baby doesn’t really know how to control his urge to go to the toilet, doing his business anywhere and anytime, so you need to clean up after him - at least at first. Walks are very important for small children - it’s not for nothing that you can see so many women with strollers walking on the street for a long time - that is, you need to walk with them too, and so on.

In other words, getting a dog is a special matter, which, in terms of the level of responsibility, the emergence of new responsibilities and worries, can really be compared to what it would be like if you decided to become a mom or dad! Of course, this will take as much work and effort as in the case of a real child, but in fact the situations are very similar.

Now let's go back to your parents. When you ask them to get a dog, are you saying to them: “let me get myself a child, but you will take care of him”? For parents who have just begun to get you (and perhaps also your brother or sister) back on your feet, it’s hard to imagine more hopeless news - after all, if they agree, they will have a lot more worries, and they will still have time for themselves less!

Parents are designed in such a way that they will always consider you a child, regardless of your age. Therefore, the best thing you can do to get them to allow you to have a dog is to demonstrate that you are old enough to take care of not only yourself, but also someone else. If you can show them that you are ready to take responsibility for your words and actions, that you are ready not only to fulfill your personal responsibilities, but also to help your parents do their part, then this may convince them that having a pet is quite possible , and it won’t fall on their shoulders.

What to ask yourself before asking for a puppy

Not all children understand that a pet is a big responsibility, because over time it becomes a full-fledged member of the family. That is why, before asking parents to buy a puppy, the baby must honestly answer several questions:

Is he disciplined enough?
Do you like an active lifestyle?
Is he doing well at school?
Does he always keep his promises?
is he responsible?
Is helping around the house your favorite thing to do?
Is he capable of sacrificing his own interests for the sake of someone else?
does the whole burden of responsibility represent?
Is he a fairly independent person?

Before you persuade your parents to get a dog, you need to make sure that all of the above questions have a positive answer, otherwise you need to think carefully about your own desire before you start “persuading” adults.

Before asking your parents for permission and bringing a dog into the house, you need to analyze your own strengths

Best answers

Nikita Stepanov: IF I were YOU, I would say something like this: “Dad, this dog will significantly improve my well-being in difficult times, lift my spirits (by the way, you too), and make me go outside more often - breathe fresh air, run and develop physically. . . Besides, I will take more care of others - she will teach me... I will clean up after her, I will groom her myself, and I will clean the carpet more often... You won't even notice her presence (for that matter), but over time you will understand that she is a treasure... You so rarely make me happy with something, buy me a dog, please... ".

ANTI-CREST OF GOD: prove that you will look after her

Daria Me: just buy and introduce dad to the dog, and if he decides to throw away the dog, then you have the same right to throw away something for dad (and there’s no need to breed papiarchy)

como estas: no need to persuade. bring the puppy home and tell him he loves you

User deleted: There are so many of these questions here. Look at the previous answers and draw a conclusion!!!!

Anne))): You need to grow up so that you are at least 16 or 17, or buy the dog that your dad likes))

Adelina: take it yourself and your parents will take pity))

Dmitry Volsky: No way. You will grow up and have one.

Anya Sidorova: promise to study well! clean and care and learn responsibility! this is a strong argument! say dad! the dog will teach me to take care not only of myself but also of others! I will need this in my adult life! We are responsible for those we have tamed! I will become a more organized person! should work! good luck!)

Anastasia:

see my answer here)

Angelok: I’ve been asking my mom to buy a dog for 12-13 years now... I hope she doesn’t change her mind about the decision to get a puppy in the fall. She loves animals very much, and her favorite dog is the German Shepherd, but because when I was little, a German puppy was stolen from us, she didn’t want to have them anymore... But then I gradually got used to it and realized that I wouldn’t blame the dog on her, that I would take care of him myself, and we decided that we would get a puppy this fall (we didn’t risk it in the summer - there’s a big risk of getting distemper). Most likely, something is eating your dad too, that’s why he doesn't want to get a dog. Find out, have a heart-to-heart talk with him, explain why exactly you need a dog (for example, I wanted it for exhibitions, but then I decided that it was purely for the soul.). If he loves animals and understands that you don’t just want some creature to run around the house and for everyone except you to look after it, then over time he will agree to get a puppy.))

Lyu [email protected] f [email protected] : you will grow it and buy it for yourself without asking anyone for class!!!!

pole: find out what breed of dogs your dad likes, if not, then you probably should get a dog (checked), otherwise there will be a tragedy. a dog is not a thing and not “support for your healthy spirit in a healthy body” - it is also an inhabitant of planet Earth, it is sick just like you, it loves and suffers. and when she dies, it is very painful... and when you play with her enough and abandon her, the world will collapse for her... to get a dog you need to be prepared for this and so that the WHOLE family is happy about the new family member... sorry, Katyunya, for the gloominess of my thoughts, but this has been tested by life

Elena Oseeva: I understand that it is no longer relevant for this person, but suddenly it will be useful for someone else: there is no need to bring a dog into the house, presenting parents with a fait accompli. This is a sure way to ruin relationships with your family, and the dog has a high chance of ending up on the street. And not because dad or mom are animals, but because someone’s wishes were put above the desires of the rest of the family. The appearance of a pet in a house will affect everyone who lives in that house. Even more: the neighbors downstairs may come and say that the dog is stomping too loudly and is disturbing them. Who will deal with this? Definitely not a child who brought an animal because he really wanted to. You can make an independent decision only by living separately on your own territory and providing for yourself without the help of your parents. And the advice to throw away dad’s thing if he throws away the puppy he brought… was that written by a foolish child, or what? If a person is not a complete and utter egoist, he will take into account the wishes of his family. And if someone is categorically against the appearance of a dog, then they must wait to purchase it. Moreover, an unloved animal will feel such an attitude towards itself. The question arises again: Are your wishes more important than your family and even the feelings of the dog you so dream of? Then it's just selfishness.

Why parents don't want to get a dog

There are several reasons why mom and dad categorically reject the idea of purchasing an animal:

It takes a lot of money to maintain a dog;
an allergy to wool may occur;
a burden of additional responsibility for his life arises;
loss of personal freedom;
some breeds are complex and may not be trainable;
Before any trip, you need to think about how and where to place the dog;
there is a risk of property damage.

Important! Some parents are also afraid that their child may suffer childhood trauma if an accident happens to their pet.

How to choose the right moment to talk

You should not choose a time to talk when mom and dad are busy. It would also be a bad time to have guests in the house.

It is best to choose evenings or weekends for conversation. A prerequisite is that mom or dad be in a good mood, otherwise the conversation will be doomed to failure.

A child who studies well, helps around the house and does not upset his parents with bad behavior increases the chances that his request will be answered positively.

Important! An excellent moment for conversation is the time after watching a movie about the life of our little brothers, because under the impression your loved ones may allow you to buy a dog, and you won’t even have to beg them.

The right moment for conversation will significantly increase the chance of approval from adults

The most important rule is that you are an adult now.

From now on, you are an adult and independent person, ready to bear responsibility for another living being. The first rule of persuading parents is: demonstrate your readiness to mom and dad. Parents should know that you are a reliable person and can be relied on:

Do some housework. Clean up the apartment, you can start with your room (table, closet), don’t forget about the kitchen and your parents’ bedroom, under no circumstances clean, and especially don’t throw out your dad’s and mom’s things at your own discretion, such amateur activities will not end well. Tell the adults that having a dog will not burden them, because you will definitely help them with the cleaning.
Prepare dinner. If you already know how to use a gas or electric stove, prepare a delicious dinner and boil the kettle before your parents arrive. Explain that you will do the same with the arrival of a dog, that you will be quite capable of preparing dinner for your four-legged pet.

Show your parents that you can be independent and responsible: clean the apartment, take out the trash, help mom and dad around the house

Study well. Many parents like to reward their children for good grades from school. This option does not seem attractive, but, on the other hand, lessons learned by heart and exemplary behavior during breaks are the key to success. Perhaps it is the “5” in mathematics or the Russian language that will be decisive in the question of the appearance of a dog in the apartment.
Demonstrate the ability to care for a living being. Start small, even if it's a houseplant. Don’t forget to water it, protect it from scorching rays. You can test your abilities with an aquarium fish or a hamster. Seeing your efforts, patience and care, the parents will definitely buy a puppy.

Promise that walking the dog will be your direct responsibility. In any weather, morning and evening

Find a part-time job. If you have the opportunity to earn some extra money, be sure to take it. All parents, without exception, love independent children. Show that you can not only play with the dog, but also feed this animal. Promise that you will pay for the dog's expenses (the main thing is to keep your promise). A little secret: before your next request, use some of the money you earn to buy a beautiful bouquet for mom and something for dad’s car.
Say that you will take care of the dog and walk it yourself; parents will not have to do this after work or even on weekends.

Parents will really like the fact that the dog means constant walks in the fresh air. Describe how you will frolic with her, involve your friends in the fun

How to convince your parents to buy a dog

To convince parents to buy a four-legged friend, the child needs to prove that he is capable of caring for her. This argument will become powerful, but where to start? There are several rules:

The child must prove that he is able to take care of himself first and foremost.
If there is a problem with grades at school, they need to be corrected, because if a child tries and does not stay in the same class for the second year, then most likely mom and dad will meet him.
Before you make an offer and try to “persuad” adults, you need to analyze the issue of purchasing a pet, namely, choose a suitable breed, study its characteristics and the intricacies of caring for its representatives.

Important! First of all, you need to start with yourself, because an obedient child will most likely agree to a meeting and the question of how to ask your parents for a dog will not become particularly difficult.

It is very important to prove to parents that a dog will unite the family and make it more active.

Introspection

Before you start begging adults to buy a puppy, you need to be aware of the consequences. After watching a touching film like “Beethoven” or “A Dog’s Life”, one can draw a not entirely correct conclusion about what the owner of a tailed pet has to do. Meanwhile, parents understand perfectly well that:

1. A dog is a gigantic responsibility. It is difficult to find any other animal that is so in need of human attention. For example, recently it has been fashionable to own a husky. However, this breed does not do well in warm climates. He also feels the need to run many kilometers every day. Having a husky, you will need to forget about many things - the computer, phone and other gadgets, and completely devote your free time to the animal;

2. The daily routine will change. If you have to force yourself to get up to school, then having a puppy, you will have to do it an hour earlier. After all, the animal needs to walk at least twice a day. Naturally, no one canceled the evening walk either, so lying down after school with a book or in front of a cartoon will no longer be possible;

3. Maintaining order. The room is a mess, which means it’s too early to think about getting a dog. Not only is a lively four-legged animal a source of chaos, but all things that are within reach run the risk of being chewed. At first, the puppy may bite the school shoe and tear the diary to shreds. Therefore, it is better to immediately get used to order and take care of your clothes and shoes;

4. Care. To keep your dog healthy, looking and smelling good, you need to constantly groom it. This means: taking him to the veterinarian, getting vaccinations, regularly bathing him, combing his hair, and monitoring changes in his health. This is not a toy that you can easily throw away if you stop liking it. This is a family member who, without careful supervision, may even die;

5. Training. Dogs are quite smart animals. But in order to raise a protector and non-dangerous pet, you need professional skills. Otherwise, endless barking and obscene behavior will dramatically reduce the pleasure of the purchase.

There is no need to be upset if none of the methods work. Getting mom and dad to change a clear decision is sometimes difficult. A dog is not only the personal responsibility of the owner, but also another member in the family. And every resident must express consent. Often even the husband denies his wife such a desire, so endlessly begging and convincing adults is selfish and ugly. You can ask for another animal - a hamster or a cat - to demonstrate your ability to properly care for a pet.

Can you talk about the benefits of living with a dog?

Most parents are categorically against it when their child spends a long time at the computer, thus moving into the virtual world, in which it is so easy to live. They often share memories of what a wonderful childhood they had, where there was no place for the Internet. You need to take advantage of this moment and talk about the benefits of living with a pet. It is necessary to describe to them how the life of the family will change, naturally for the better.

It is best to emphasize that the family will become friendly, and all thanks to caring for a defenseless animal.

Benefits of living with a dog

Having a four-legged friend in the house has a number of advantages that parents must point out, for example:

an active lifestyle, because with the appearance of a pet in the house, you will need to reconsider your usual lifestyle and focus on long walks;
good mood, because there is simply no time to be bored with a dog;
stress relief - the animal senses the mood of its owner and tries with all its might to help him overcome stress;
the opportunity to become responsible;
security.

Parents need to prove that the decision made is conscious and the dog will not become just a toy

Where to begin?

If you like a particular breed of dog, tell your parents why it is so good - each breed has its own advantages and characteristics, and you need to know them in order to properly care for your pet. Keep in mind that you need to choose a breed according to your age and weight, as you must be able to keep the animal on a leash in any situation.

Explain that your interest will not go away with the purchase - constantly remind you that you want a dog (not every day). Be prepared for the fact that persuasion may take a lot of time. Ask to go to exhibitions together, tell us how your friends take care of their pets.

A dog can truly change the life and character of its owner. What your parents may not know is that this pet develops a sense of responsibility.

Tell me how important it is for you to have a friend with whom you can always be together. In addition, the dog will help you make new friends and gain greater authority among old ones.

A puppy that appears in a house teaches children honesty and devotion, trust and love.

There are organizations that care for stray animals.

Talk to your parents and tell them how important it is that every animal has its own home. Chances are this approach will melt their heart.

However, in this case, it is necessary to take into account that the dog may not be a purebred dog, but an ordinary mongrel, although if you really want to make a friend, then this will not matter to you.

If you have been persuading your parents for so long that they cannot calmly respond to your requests, talk about how a dog has a beneficial effect on the psycho-emotional state of people. Her presence relieves stress and calms you down.

Despite all attempts, parents may still not agree to have a puppy. Be prepared for this and don’t be upset - the time will come and you will still have the best dog.

Alexandra, Penza

How to beg your parents for a dog

For a child who has a burning desire to become the owner of a dog, the question of how to beg a puppy from his parents becomes the most pressing. In this case, a simple experiment can help. To do this, you should ask one of your friends for a dog for the day and bring him home and take on the role of his owner. And you need to agree with your mother that if you manage to cope, then she will think seriously about purchasing a pet.

Important! After such an experiment, many children lose the thought of a pet, as they become aware of the whole burden of responsibility.

But what to do if your parents do not allow you to have a dog? In this case, you can take a risky approach - just bring home the dog.

Some parents cannot refuse their child, seeing his eyes filled with tears, and not everyone raises their hand to drive an animal out onto the street.

A dog will bring bright colors into a child’s life and make him more responsible.

A dog in the house: looking for advantages

Walking with a four-legged friend in nature is not only interesting, but also plays a huge role in the development of a child.

In such a difficult matter as persuading parents to buy a dog, you can use the advantages of keeping it. Chief among them will be the reason to limit the hours devoted to communication on social networks and online games. The pet will have to be walked twice a day, and even more often in the first months. Adults will like that the child will spend time in the fresh air, and not watching TV or playing online games. Other undeniable advantages of buying a puppy include:

Transition to the correct daily routine and active lifestyle. While raising a puppy, it is impossible to remain a sedentary person living according to a free schedule. You will have to forget about late walks or late-night movie watching and go to bed on time. After all, in the morning you need to get up at dawn to walk the dog.
Improved emotional state. “Smaller friends” are able to influence people’s moods, relieving stress and inducing a feeling of happiness. With the advent of a pet, apathy, melancholy, irritability or a feeling of uncertainty will be replaced by a continuous flow of positive emotions.
Family cohesion. Walking together or playing together with a pet brings children and parents closer together. It becomes easier for them to find common interests and soon with the appearance of a dog, all misunderstandings will be a thing of the past, and boring family videos will turn into real comedies in which the dog will be the main character.
A loyal comrade and a good defender. This argument will be the most powerful in convincing parents. The dog will always keep company while the adults are at work or away, and in case of danger it will act as a faithful guard, driving away hooligans from the owner or scaring off thieves who decide to break into the apartment.
Developing good skills. Caring for animals shapes the qualities of a successful person: responsibility, sociability, and the ability to concentrate on the task at hand.
Making friends with similar interests. A dog is a great excuse to meet new people. If a person has difficulty communicating or has few close friends, he will change this situation. Walking with your dog in the park, visiting exhibitions or other events, you can meet interesting people who are ready to share the necessary experience about keeping a pet.
Good health. Walking in the fresh air and playing sports with your pet helps maintain normal weight and increases physical endurance.

Parents, of course, want their son or daughter to be healthy, successful and happy. The only thing that can stop them from buying a dog is the need to take care of it. If the desire to have a puppy is real and not temporary, then convincing them of this will not be difficult.

How else can you convince your family to get a pet?

It can take a long time to persuade mom and dad to have a four-legged friend, but it’s best to help them decide to do this for this purpose:

invite you to go to the shelter and tell them how noble it is to help an animal find a new home;
choose or view a training course, but so that mom and dad see this process - let them see that their child is absolutely serious;
become a volunteer at a dog shelter: this will help demonstrate the seriousness of your intentions.

Try to solve some problems yourself

It is important for you now to demonstrate the seriousness of your intentions, so that it becomes clear that this is not just another whim. Take the initiative, think about how to solve the problems associated with the appearance of a pet

This information will help you when you talk to family members about the animal and how to care for it:

When it comes to furniture, say that you can buy special scratching posts. Your mustachioed friend will get used to using them and the interior items will remain unharmed. Or there are special plastic pads for the paws;
Be sure to explain that you will take care of the animal yourself
. You can both remove the litter in the tray and feed it. The main thing is to say that this will not affect your studies in any way, but on the contrary, it will teach you to be disciplined;
If the fluffy ball accidentally leaves a puddle on the carpet or bed, then you already know that there are good odor removers. They will get rid of dirt and odors, and will discourage the cat from peeing in the wrong places. Non-harmful, but effective essential oils and flavorings are added to such liquids, which irritate the delicate sense of smell of Barsiks and Muroks.

The more information you collect, the more productive the conversation with your elders will be. They will see that you take the issue seriously and they simply will have nothing to object to.

What to do

To convince your parents of the seriousness of your intentions, you must first start with yourself. If a child studies well, knows how to take care of himself and is not averse to helping around the house, then in this case the likelihood that loved ones will make concessions will increase.

Important! If a request is refused, there is no need to throw tantrums and be offended, since such behavior demonstrates immaturity.

If all persuasion does not help, you can ask your grandparents for help

Independence and willingness to care - how to prove it

Some children are perplexed by this task - how can they prove their independence to adults? It’s worth starting at least with your studies - take it seriously, improve your performance, correct your bad grades. Also, don’t neglect your room - carefully keep order, clean up after yourself, wash the floors and vacuum, and clean up the dishes. Show adults that you are capable of taking care of yourself - and sometimes even of them, by setting the table for your parents when they come home from work. You will definitely be able to do something, prove to your parents that you are growing up.

It’s also worth knowing that all parents want to make their children happy. And therefore there are several more effective ways to influence their opinion and finally get a puppy.

Sports and part-time work

If a child is dependent on a computer and does not like to leave the house, then in this case the request will most likely be refused. This decision will be due to the fact that they will not want to take on the responsibility of caring for the pet as well.

If buying a dog is so desirable, the baby needs to change his lifestyle. It is best to focus on physical activity, because having a pet requires an active lifestyle.

If a child wants a certain breed, for example, a Spitz, Chihuahua, Yorkie or Jack, which are quite expensive and the parents are not able to pay for such a purchase, it is best to get a part-time job, for example as a volunteer. When the time comes to talk, an additional argument will be the availability of funds for the purchase.

Does a child need a dog?

One way or another, analyze the situation in the family and relationships with friends to understand whether the child needs a dog.

It is quite possible that the child has enough parental warmth and affection, but he is ready to show independence and begin to take care of himself and the pet. The kid understands that the dog will depend on him, which means he is responsible for ensuring that it is fed, walked, and healthy.

Why is it a dog that children ask for most often? The dog is an emotional and playful creature, it is pleasant to pet it, you can talk to it, as it reacts to words and senses the owner’s mood. Among the pets that children ask for, dogs and cats are the leaders.

Rarely do any children dream of turtles and fish. You can't share emotions with them. And cats are considered wayward pets; not everyone makes contact.

Which breed to choose and where to buy a dog

Before begging your loved ones for an animal, you need to choose a specific breed and decide where to buy it.

The question of how to persuade your mother to buy a dog can be greatly facilitated if during the conversation you offer to buy the breed that she likes so much.

It is best to choose breeds that can take care of children and love to play with them, such as Labradors, Collies, Shelties, Jack Russell Terriers, Pugs or German Shepherds.

It is strictly forbidden to allow a child to bring representatives of fighting breeds into the house.

It is also worth considering the place where the pet will live, whether it will be a house or an apartment, as well as its size. You can choose large and medium-sized breeds to keep in a house, but choosing a huge dog for an apartment is not recommended.

You can buy a four-legged pet either at a nursery or at a shelter, but in this case you need to ask the opinion of adults.

Before asking the parents for a puppy, you need to decide on a suitable breed in order to come up with a specific offer.

Three Essential Ingredients to Successful Persuasion

How to persuade your parents to buy a dog without it being a waste of time?

Show the advantages of living with a dog
. Start with the fact that you will spend more time at home - this argument will definitely impress your parents. Note that with the “paw” you will begin to walk in the fresh air more often, finally looking away from the computer, you will be able to significantly increase your physical activity, and in the evening you can warm your feet in front of the TV on a living “hot water bottle”.
If you have few friends, hint that this way you will never be lonely, and also emphasize the fact that a dog is a reliable defense against bullies in the absence of adults, especially if the family lives in a private house.
Finally, prove once again that you can become more responsible: strictly obey the daily routine, rest properly at night. One of the most important aspects of persuasion is specificity: it is not enough to say “I want a dog” - it is desirable that a specific breed and the main advantages of coexistence with it be named.
For example, the Labrador is very friendly and gets along well with children, and the Dachshund is almost the only one of its relatives that has a real sense of humor and has good watchdog abilities. Find out all the most interesting things about caring for and raising a pet, where and how to buy one, and unobtrusively tell your parents about it.

Destroy parental worries.

In this aspect, the main thing is not just to promise in words, but to prove that you can be trusted. To do this, tell us more about your plans: where and when the walks will take place, how you can organize the day so that your studies and other important matters do not suffer. If you have a sister or brother, arm yourself with their support and distribution of responsibilities.

In order to assure your mother of the safety of the furniture, tell her that you plan to buy special toys for the four-legged dog with your pocket money, and that you will carefully monitor dirty paws, hair on the carpets and the smell of the dog. Don't forget to consult your veterinarian first so you know how to take care of your dog's health.

If everything comes down to a financial issue, and the parents are not ready to shell out a round sum for a baby with a pedigree, say that you agree to take the animal from the shelter and allocate a certain amount of personal funds (for example, donated for the holidays) for food and care. To convince the father of the firmness of his decision, that the dog will not get bored over time, wait a few months and do everything to make the opposite appear.

Your persistence and individual approach to the issue will definitely bring positive results.

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What to do if parents don't buy a dog

The question of how to ask a mother for a dog is quite difficult. Sometimes it can take a long time to get the desired result. If persuasion does not work, then:

you need to be patient, because sometimes it can take more than one year for loved ones to agree to allow you to bring a dog into your home;
follow the chosen line of behavior: if a child tried to prove that he is an adult, but received a refusal to his request, there is no need to start studying with bad marks as a sign of protest.

Before begging your parents, you should soberly assess your own strengths, because caring for a dog takes quite a lot of time

Willingness to take responsibility

The main question that interests parents is whether the child can cope on his own, whether he is ready to bear responsibility for another creature. Experts have different opinions. Some people recommend getting a four-legged friend immediately after the baby is born. This way, the puppy and the newborn will develop harmoniously together, get used to each other’s company, and build strong relationships. In this case, mom and dad take responsibility.

Another option is to buy a dog for a child aged 5 to 10 or 11 to 16 years old. You should not expect a preschooler to show independence. If adult family members do not have time to clean and look after the animal, it is better to abandon the idea. But a teenager (11-16 years old) is able to rationally divide his free time, in addition, he already has the skills (cleaning, washing dishes, cooking, heating food) that are needed to care for a dog.

To prepare yourself, to check whether you can handle a pet, it is better to start with a small pet, which is less hassle - a fish, a budgie, a rat or a hamster, a chinchilla

It is important that all household members agree to buy a dog, otherwise the tailed one’s stay in the apartment will be a test

Advice for children: how to persuade parents to get a dog

There is no need to give up, you need to believe in your own dream. Mom and dad should see to what extent a four-legged pet is a welcome gift for their child. With the help of paintings, you can convey your dream: draw pictures in which the dog will be present, and give them to your loved ones: such an act will certainly attract the attention of adults. Do not forget that parents were also children once and perhaps also dreamed of a puppy. They need to be reminded of this. You can also ask for such a birthday gift.

Advice. If all this does not help and mom and dad are still against it, sometimes it’s worth reminding of your desire, choosing the right moment for this.

A dog is a reliable, faithful and best friend, caring for which is a rather painstaking process. The decision to get an animal should be balanced and deliberate, because it is not a toy, but a living creature that also needs love, games, food and care.

Is it possible to convince your mother to let you wear what you want?

Yes, of course, these items of clothing are very necessary for small children, mind you, and only parents know best what needs to be bought. But children who are already 13-14 years old, especially girls, need to be given freedom of choice. They are especially picky at this age.

Is it good or bad to be a fashionista? To answer this question, answer another one. Why, exactly, should being a fashionista be bad? Nobody is doing anything illegal. And everything that is not illegal and approved by modern morality has the right to exist.

True, the grandmothers sitting on the benches know better what young people should wear. In their time, they didn’t wear short skirts and tops. What a disaster! And if you mention that the past also had its own “rare” accessories, then you can immediately “run into” harsh criticism of fashion representatives of past generations.

Relax, you just need to follow the latest fashion trends and have fun with it. There's just a little bit left to do. How to convince your parents to let you wear what you like? First, let's figure out in what cases it is worth doing this, and in which it is not worth it, and in which cases it will only cause the righteous anger of your parents.

So, if you decide to wear the following things and you are between 13 and 18, then it is better to just forget about it and not be upset. Everything is still ahead, at 18 years old no one will say a word to you about this. What are these things? Skirts that are too short (especially in the evening). This can lead to banal rape. Believe me, this fashion is not worth following. The time will come when you will be able to show off your clothes without unwanted consequences. Short tops also have a rather attractive effect on criminals. And in general, they are worn to the beach, not to a disco.

You might be thinking: “What is he talking about here? I have enough teachings at home.” Dear girls, understand that no one wishes you harm, especially some author of the article who has never seen you and will never see you. It's better to dress less provocatively.

Be fashionable and stylish. To be fashionable, follow these two rules. If you want to be stylish, don't imitate your friends and classmates, because... you have to be individual, even if you really like the things they wear. Style comes from individuality. Don't dress too provocatively; such fashion is not always good for you.

But in order to be stylish, you first need to somehow persuade your parents to buy you modern clothes. Very often, current fashion irritates them. This happens because the child does not want to wear what the parents offer. So, how do you convince your mom to let you wear what you want? More precisely, what should parents know about children's fashion? Inform them.

Children are divided into groups not only by interests, but also by clothing. By not following fashion, a child risks remaining an outsider, which will significantly reduce self-esteem

With the help of fashion, you can attract the attention of peers, especially the opposite sex, which is very important in adolescence. Fashionable clothing is a means of self-expression and individuality. Helps improve self-esteem

Helps improve self-esteem.

Therefore, dear adults, treat the fashion that your child wants to follow with understanding; he wants to choose for himself, not because everyone else does it, but because he is an individual.

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