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Each type of temperament loves in its own way.
If you ask different people about love, for each of them this definition will be different depending on their temperament.
What does love mean for different types of temperament, what are their needs, and how compatible are they with each other?
Sanguine and choleric
Sanguine and phlegmatic Sanguine and melancholic Sanguine and sanguine Choleric and phlegmatic Choleric and melancholic Choleric and choleric Phlegmatic and melancholic Phlegmatic and phlegmatic
Melancholic and melancholic
Characteristics of a sanguine person in love
Since this is the most adventurous type of temperament
, sanguine people are most compatible with their own type of temperament. In a partner they are looking for a friend, someone who shares their interests, with whom they can talk and travel around the world.
Relationships are a kind of fun for them, they like to go on dates and do new things. We can say that a relationship with a sanguine person will be very interesting.
Their extrovert nature and desire for variety
suggests that most sanguine people have quite a lot of experience in relationships, and they can adapt to almost any situation.
They are friendly and not inclined to control their partner, so you will feel comfortable and at ease in their company. Do not forget about the generosity of this type of temperament, which can bestow gifts on you from the very beginning of the relationship.
Sanguine people are good listeners and will ask you questions about themselves to satisfy their curiosity. During a conversation, they look straight into your eyes, touch your arm or leg, and listen to you carefully. It will not be difficult for them to move from one topic to another, but they will talk about themselves rather in a humorous manner.
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Your secondary temperament type often plays an important role in how you express love.
- Most sanguine people have a rather flexible attitude towards morality, but sanguine-phlegmatic
, as a rule, has stable moral values, and he is looking for a partner with the same attitude. This type is more conservative when courting, loves to give flowers, shows up on dates on time, and also wants to clearly know his place in the relationship.
- Sanguine-melancholic
seeks harmony. They are sensitive to their partner's needs and generous. They will not choose a person who will compete with them in a relationship or disrupt their rhythm of life.
- SanguineAndc-choleric
- This is, as a rule, an unusual person. They have strong nerves and like to walk on the edge, making no excuses for their behavior and acting decisively. They need a partner who understands their need for independence. It is also worth noting that men and women of this type of temperament are the sexiest.
In general, sanguine people need time before committing themselves to a relationship, but once they do, they become interesting and passionate partners.
Sanguine love language:
- Touch
: holding hands, hugging and other forms of skin-to-skin contact
- Present
: It can be difficult for them to make a choice, so effort on your part will always be appreciated.
- Full attention
: Listen to them, smile, nod, don't try to silence them.
- Tasty food
: remember that sanguine people love sensual pleasures
Characteristics of a choleric person in love
For people of choleric temperament, building personal relationships is not entertainment, as it is for sanguine people. They approach love and relationships the same way they approach everything else: pragmatic and purposeful.
. They will meet and study a potential partner to see if he is a good fit for them.
They need someone with whom they can exchange ideas and talk about topics that interest them.
They are attracted to people who can listen, resolve conflicts or disagreements, or have other social skills.
Choleric people do not pursue quantity when it comes to relationships, and in their youth, as a rule, they have little experience in their personal life. Of all the temperament types, choleric people fall in love least often. Throughout their lives, they usually have only a few serious relationships.
If they are in a relationship, it is not easy for them to let go of their partner, even if he does not meet their expectations in some way.
They may act awkward and, if they are not interested or don't see a future with you, they may ignore you or become impatient. Because of their decisive nature, they are capable of breaking off relationships at an unexpected moment.
At the same time, if they believe that a person is worth their time and effort, they will be completely focused on him. They can be romantic and make commitments. They express love by trying to fulfill your desires. It is important for them to feel needed, you can tell them about your problems and difficulties, and they will try to fix them.
Characteristics of a phlegmatic person in love
While many people get caught up in passion or emotion when they fall in love, phlegmatic love is more down-to-earth and pragmatic.
. They see their partner as an assistant, and base their preferences on common sense and compatibility.
Their lover must be predictable, adhere to traditions and be devoted to the family.
Phlegmatic people take relationships seriously. They are well-mannered, they are not late, the men are gallant, and the women are homely. They will always plan dates in advance, protect their loved ones and give gifts with meaning.
They do not like showdowns and can sometimes seem unromantic to other types of temperament. For this reason, they are most often attracted to their own type of temperament.
They do not choose their partners impulsively, but rather carefully, taking into account the opinions of friends and family, as they are afraid of criticism.
Intimacy with this type of person tends to develop very slowly. This is how a phlegmatic person can think through everything in advance so that the relationship develops as planned.
Additional temperament also influences how a phlegmatic person loves.
- Phlegmatic-sanguine
although he can be cautious, he still seeks a certain variety.
- Phlegmatic-choleric
can be inventive, goal-oriented, and willing to take you to new, unexpected places.
- Phlegmatic-melancholic
- He is a confident and good-natured person. He loves to bring people together and will most likely introduce you to his friends.
Phlegmatic people need marriage, they need a responsible partner who will respect traditions and is devoted to the family. When a phlegmatic person meets his soul mate, he takes full responsibility for his union.
Phlegmatic love language:
- Time with family and friends
: When you give them your attention, try not to be distracted by your phone or TV and maintain eye contact.
- Words of support
: tell phlegmatic people more often how beautiful, smart they are, how you appreciate their love and care.
- Touch
: not necessarily sex, but hugs, the desire to hold their hand or even tickle them.
Characteristics of a melancholic person in love
Melancholic is the most sensitive of the four temperament types. In a potential partner, they look for common intellectual and emotional points of contact. It hurts them deeply if they are rejected.
They do not take relationships lightly and simply, like sanguine people. They meet to build a long-term relationship or get married. Having created an alliance, they give themselves completely
and sometimes they get so tired emotionally that they stop dating altogether.
When a melancholic person finds his person, he tries to maintain a close relationship with his partner, avoids conflicts, and is ready to make concessions and sacrifices. Everything that happens within a relationship is carefully analyzed and weighed.
Melancholic is considered the most romantic type of temperament. They often fall in love, and romance comes first for them.
They plan romantic dates and weekends in advance, confess their feelings and hope for reciprocity.
Since melancholic people have a rich imagination, they tend to idealize their partners. As the relationship progresses, they discover that their ideal partner is not so perfect, and this can destroy their union.
As already mentioned, the secondary type of temperament plays a big role.
- Melancholic-sanguine
is looking for true love, but at the same time he likes fun and adventurous partners.
- Melancholic-phlegmatic
gets along well with different people, knows how to sympathize and has tact.
- Melancholic-choleriTo
also looking for an ideal partner, but can be tough and at the same time calculating.
In general, melancholic people value serious relationships. However, if they realize that their partner is not a suitable match for them, they may leave or go in search of true love.
Melancholic love language:
- Tender words
: They love affection and hugs when they are treated tenderly and caringly.
- Assurances
: although the melancholic person trusts you, from time to time he needs you to assure him of your love, promise never to offend him and to be there for him.
- Calm
: Never raise your voice to a melancholic person, or you will lose him emotionally.
- Touch
: a kiss on the forehead, on the cheek, gentle touches are of great importance for a melancholic person.
Who is better for a melancholic person to be with?
The best partner for a melancholic person is a phlegmatic person. In such an alliance, the leading role will immediately be designated, which will go to the phlegmatic person, and the role of the follower will be given to the melancholic person. What’s most interesting is that both the first and the second will find such a relationship comfortable and calm. They will understand each other wonderfully.
It is not necessary to follow the principles of choosing a partner based on temperament. You can adapt to any character and any person’s preferences, but only if the couple has mutual respect and sincere love.
Temperament types: compatibility in love
Sanguine and choleric
Compatibility
: neutral
In general, a sanguine person and a choleric person rarely find each other attractive, but if they do fall in love, their union can be very strong.
Their intellectual communication promises to be quite interesting. Both will look at each other with admiration: the sanguine person likes the rationality of the choleric person, and the choleric person likes the curiosity of the sanguine person.
However, it is worth remembering that both types of temperament need independence, both are self-sufficient and are always busy with something. On the other hand, no partner will be too demanding and jealous without reason.
However, a choleric person can be insensitive, and sometimes wants to insist on his own at any cost. Fortunately, sanguine people tend to easily adapt to various circumstances.
Although both types of temperament tend to compete, choleric people are more ambitious and aggressive, while sanguine people are calm and persistent only in their own interests.
In addition, at times a choleric person may consider a sanguine person too lazy, and a sanguine choleric person as boring. But despite all the differences, their compatibility can be called quite good.
Sanguine and phlegmatic
Compatibility
: difficult relationships
Two completely opposite types of temperament often find themselves in relationships.
They are indeed different, but this does not prevent them from creating a successful union. If an impulsive and adventurous sanguine person decides that he wants to start a family, he will be attracted to a devoted and traditional phlegmatic person. In addition, any sanguine person can brighten up the life of an inert phlegmatic person. A calm and cautious phlegmatic person will be delighted by the energy, vitality and ability not to lose heart of his partner.
In turn, the phlegmatic person will push the sanguine person towards stable work, family and responsibility. Problems will arise when the latter neglects the rules of morality, ignores traditions and customs, while the sanguine person will be irritated by the phlegmatic person’s attempts to limit his freedom.
Despite all the differences, learning to use them to your advantage will help bring balance to your relationship. The phlegmatic person will take care of the home, family and future, while the sanguine person will take on the role of leader.
Sanguine and melancholic
Compatibility
: good
This is a rather interesting pair of dissimilar temperament types.
Although there is often attraction between them, melancholic women are suspicious of sanguine men, fearing that a carefree sanguine man will hurt their feelings. This pair combines well the creative abilities of a sanguine person and the imagination of a melancholic person. Both are optimistic, flexible and open-minded.
A sanguine person will admire the trust and patience of a melancholic person. However, we should not forget about the sanguine person’s need for independence. A melancholic person will want real intimacy, which they may not get from a sanguine person, and as a result will feel lonely and abandoned.
In addition, the desire to analyze every step and action will drive a sanguine person crazy. On the other hand, a melancholic person will want to discuss feelings and emotions, while a sanguine person may not have such a desire, which is why he will seem superficial to the melancholic person.
Despite everything, this couple has qualities such as flexibility and optimism that will help them get through difficult times.
Sanguine and sanguine
Compatibility
: neutral
Two sanguine people have many different interests, they strive for novelty and adventure. They love to learn, are energetic, courageous and flexible. Therefore, if two sanguine people get together, they will most likely do a lot together.
Such a couple is unlikely to quarrel over money, since they consider it only a means to make their dreams come true. Rather, everyone will try to surprise their partner with unusual gifts and surprises.
Also, this union will not be affected by everyday disagreements, since both know how to adapt, avoid rules and regimes and look for advantages in any business. Such features will help them survive even the most difficult times and situations.
However, despite the mutual attraction, they may encounter difficulties of a different kind. This type of temperament avoids serious discussions, which is why many problems remain unresolved. Over time, they may lose the feeling of closeness due to both of them needing independence. We should not forget about the sanguine person’s tendency to flirt, which can take them far from the cozy family nest.
Sanguine people are also prone to various kinds of addictions, which means they can reinforce each other’s bad habits. Adventure and risky behavior can also ruin relationships.
Despite this, a minor type of temperament can significantly smooth out these shortcomings, and the couple will be very happy in this interesting union.
Choleric and phlegmatic
Compatibility
: good
A couple of choleric and phlegmatic people is a wonderful example of how completely different types of temperament can get along and find happiness together.
These opposites are attracted to each other from the first meeting, and in this pair the qualities of both complement each other.
The prudence of a phlegmatic person and the ability to solve problems of a choleric person will help them create a very strong team in any field. While the phlegmatic person will consider the problem from different angles, analyze and draw conclusions, the choleric person will become the engine of all changes.
They will also be able to complement each other in terms of social skills. Cholerics may sometimes lack the ability to empathize, while phlegmatic people have a developed sense of empathy. Both are able to admire each other's differences, which means they will always be interested.
The equanimity of a phlegmatic person calms a choleric person, and the latter will always be ready to take on the most difficult issues. If they both decide that they are ready to stick with the relationship, nothing will stop them.
Choleric and melancholic
Compatibility
: difficult relationships
Love at first sight rarely occurs between a choleric person and a melancholic person. Moreover, most often people of these types of temperament avoid each other’s company. Of course, among them there are many quite successful couples, but they rarely rely on compatibility of temperaments.
They can treat each other with respect, but the melancholic will be greatly offended by the rudeness of the choleric, and he, in turn, will get tired of the sensitivity of the melancholic.
Another stumbling block may be the different interests of the partners. While a choleric person pursues his own interests, a melancholic person may feel lonely and abandoned.
Despite all the differences, they can build a union if they decide to create a stable family life and correctly distribute responsibilities. If the choleric person takes care of the financial side of the issue, and the melancholic person mainly plans and takes care of most of the daily worries, they will be able to resolve many conflict situations.
Choleric and choleric
Compatibility
: difficult relationships
A choleric man and woman rarely experience strong attraction or rejection of each other from the very beginning. However, there is a slight difference - a choleric man is slightly more supportive of a choleric woman than vice versa.
Cholerics are enterprising individuals, and they are looking for a partner who is quite competent and purposeful with common interests. These are straightforward people who say what they think and love to argue. On the other hand, if choleric people confess their love to their significant other, you won’t have to guess about their true feelings.
Both partners understand the need for independence and autonomy.
In this couple, choleric people will admire each other’s determination until disagreements arise between them. In case of quarrels and conflicts, both tend to be unyielding and pull the blanket over themselves.
Another problem may be that both are busy. If at the beginning of the novel each of them still pays attention to each other, then in a long-term relationship they no longer spend enough time together. Feelings of loneliness, as well as a desire for attention and passion, can make them look around in search of a new partner.
Phlegmatic and melancholic
Compatibility:
neutral
A phlegmatic person and a melancholic person have some differences in their views on the world, but these differences can easily turn into advantages.
Melancholic people are rather inert and tend to put things off until later. They can get lost in their own conclusions, looking at problems from all sides, but never solving them. At the same time, a phlegmatic person takes everything very seriously and responsibly and always sets deadlines for common affairs.
On the other hand, the optimism and calmness of a phlegmatic person will have a calming effect on a melancholic person, who is prone to get nervous and worry about trifles.
Both partners strive for a strong and stable relationship. They are caring and attentive, although a melancholic person will be more sensitive to their partner's needs. They also like to make plans for the future together and take care of children.
A reserved phlegmatic person may feel uncomfortable in the company of a more emotional melancholic person. In turn, a melancholic person may feel unwanted and unloved by a seemingly indifferent phlegmatic person.
Despite these differences, they can be called a compatible couple who needs comfort and peace. If they learn to turn their weaknesses into strengths, they can create a strong union that will stand the test of time.
Phlegmatic and phlegmatic
Compatibility:
good
As a rule, a phlegmatic man and a phlegmatic woman are naturally compatible. They are more likely to fall in love and get married and less likely to get divorced.
Phlegmatic people are attracted to their own type of temperament, since both are calm and patient, and understand each other perfectly without words.
People of this temperament type are traditional and loyal. The family comes first for them, and its safety and stability is a top priority. Both can close their eyes to some of each other's shortcomings in order to save the marriage. In addition, it is easier for them than other couples to remain faithful to each other.
With age, they may have disagreements, but mainly on everyday issues related to cooking or cleaning the house.
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I think that many people have long known this interpretation of temperament types: choleric, phlegmatic, sanguine and melancholic. Most likely, you even know what type you are. However, if no one knows who he is and if you are not too lazy, then you can take the test first: 1. Eysenck test (57 questions) https://stanislaw.ru/rus/research/psytests/temper/
Or 2. There are 4 subtests (160 questions in total) https://testtemperamenta.ru/pravila_testa.php
Now I will briefly describe these types:
1. SANGUINE - emotional and characterized by good performance. He quickly navigates an unfamiliar environment, is proactive, optimistic, becomes part of a team in a short time, creates a positive microclimate around himself, and experiences failures relatively easily. At the same time, he avoids acute problems and often simplifies the tasks.
PHLEGMATIC - calm even in the most difficult situations, calm, stable and consistent in aspirations and relationships. Adheres to the established routine, strives for a system, is leisurely and thorough. At the same time, he is inert, slowly switching from one job to another.
CHOLERICA - characterized by quick actions and decisions, frequent mood swings, and increased excitability. In relationships he is often too harsh and straightforward in his assessments. He is often quarrelsome and does not know how to restrain himself. Has influence on others, quickly moves from one thing to another. Loves to be the center of attention.
MELANCHOLIC - easily tired, lacking self-confidence, anxious and suspicious. Well versed in shades of feelings, careful and prudent. Secretive and shy, very worried about the slightest reason. Difficulty adapting to new people.
Now let's move directly to your compatibility.
RELATIONSHIP WITH CHOLERICA
This type is quite complex in terms of relationships. Moreover, this complexity is expressed not only in incompatible types, but also in relation to people who have the same type. If the other person is of the same type, then this can lead to a conflict over the zone of influence, since control over the situation is often important to choleric people.
Choleric people treat sanguine people quite normally. After all, both types are often extroverted. But the best combination is between choleric people and phlegmatic people. They, as the most inert type, are perfectly stimulated by choleric people to activity.
Phlegmatic people themselves relax choleric people and prevent them from completely abandoning their main activity or going crazy. In the choleric type, the incompatibility of temperaments is most manifested with melancholics due to the strength of the first type and the weakness of the latter type.
COMPATIBILITY WITH PHLEGMATIC TEMPERAMENT
As already mentioned, phlegmatic people go well with choleric people due to their calmness. Quite good, but somewhat monotonous relationships develop between phlegmatic people and melancholic people. They can communicate, but due to the introversion of both types, communication will take a very long time to develop on the desired wavelength. Phlegmatic people will have great relationships with sanguine people.
The latter will slow down the communication process as extroverts. Phlegmatic people, as ideal listeners, will gratefully absorb the chatter of sanguine people. Conversations with phlegmatic people are very boring. Both are introverts, so a certain situation is needed that can influence the relationship between two phlegmatic people.
COMMUNICATION OF SANGUINES
Sanguine people usually get along well with each other. They know how to get along with any people, but communication with each other is simply a fairy tale.
They are sociable and active, making them excellent listeners and ideal talkers. Good relationships develop with choleric people who love monologues that sanguine people will listen to. Sanguine people generally communicate well with other people, but best of all with melancholic people, who will be stimulated by them.
WHAT ABOUT MELANCHOLICS?
Melancholic people are the most difficult type in terms of communication. They find it difficult to connect with other people due to a heightened sense of hostility. Moreover, this feeling is often exaggerated. Therefore, melancholic people need their own sanguine person who can stir them up.
But there is also a separate compatibility for girls :)
Sanguine girls are distinguished by the abundance of relationships with choleric people. Mutual likes and dislikes are found to the least extent during contacts with melancholic people.
Interpsychic relationships in melancholic girls are found with representatives of the same sex of choleric and choleric-sanguine temperament types, while the latter have only antipathies.
For all:)
Sources used:
- https://vplate.ru/temperament/sovmestimost/
- https://tvkoh.com/sovmestimost/sovmestimost-po-tipu-temperamenta.html
- https://srazu.pro/semeynaya/xolerik-i-xolerik-sovmestimost.html
- https://pikabu.ru/story/sovmestimost_po_tipam_temperamenta_4236908
