How to make a girl fall in love with you: 100% working methods

Relationship

What to do if you want to make the girl you like fall in love with you, but doubt your abilities? What to do if you want to be the most desirable and the only one for her? I will answer your question right in the first paragraph! What a twist! So, to make a girl fall in love with you, you must be less in love with her than she is with you. Understood?! Yes, but probably not entirely! Falling in love is a drug. Therefore, you need to turn the girl into a notorious drug addict who will become more addicted to you than you are! Read the entire article and everything will be clear what needs to be done!

Show your importance (value)

Significance is how valuable you are to a girl. The greater the significance, the more the girl will invest in the relationship. And the more she invests, the more she will fall in love with you. Everything is very simple. For this …

Be a leader

The great Greek philosopher Socrates once taught, “The unexamined life is not worth living.” And he was absolutely right. A girl won't fall in love with a guy who has no direction and doesn't know who he is. This is not a man, this is a child. Girls need a man who knows what he wants, is confident in himself and moves towards his goals. And for this you need to become a leader in life. Every girl needs someone who will lead her to her dreams, and not just some “weapon man.” Therefore, have big goals, a plan to achieve them and real actions. There are already enough balabols.

Be interesting

What does it mean? And the fact that you shouldn’t be like everyone else - only go to work and drink beer with friends in the bathhouse on Fridays, and on weekends just lie down in front of the TV. It is necessary to create a certain lifestyle so that she falls in love with you, or rather with your lifestyle.

What can be included here:

- be sure to engage in one or two sports or go to the rocking room, and finally, to the stadium to work out on the horizontal bars and uneven bars;

- constantly meet new interesting people;

- create and develop your own projects that can grow into a profitable business or are already a business (this will make you an interesting person in the eyes of the woman you love!)

- have your own hobby ;

— spend interesting leisure time on weekends and don’t sit at home;

— travel constantly, both within your own country and around the world.

Be unavailable

The mistake of many men who want to make girls fall in love with them is that they begin to devote a lot of time to them. But also A.S. Pushkin wrote very correct words: “The less we love a woman, the easier it is for her to like us.” Who do we fall in love with most often? In unavailable women. Likewise, women prefer unavailable men. This is a function of the mind. While we don't have something, we want it. Therefore, you should not constantly talk about your love for a girl. It’s better to show a slightly indifferent behavior, reducing the importance of your relationship, but this does not mean that you need to become an inveterate bastard.

How to demonstrate indifference:

- do not call or write 100,500 times a day;

- disappear for a while;

- when you meet, joke about her, make fun of her, treat her like a child;

— in a company, communicate with other girls, flirt, touch them, show interest on the part of other girls.

Remember! The girl falls in love not with you, but with the image. If you want to make her fall in love with you, create in her head the image of your personality that she will fall in love with.

Give her emotions

We like what gives us emotions. Or the one who gives emotions. And here men have big problems. Because we are about mind and logic, and women are about heart and emotions. We just speak different languages. Therefore, if you decide to make a girl fall in love with you, then you need to create an emotional connection with her.

Smile and laugh

Make her laugh. Girls love guys who make them laugh. Know that laughter helps produce dopamine (the hormone of happiness) in our body. So learn to tell funny stories and jokes. You should have fun and enjoyment together! The main thing here is not to go too far and not look like a real clown. Everything is good in moderation!

Give compliments

Who doesn't like receiving nice compliments? Everyone. And girls especially love them! Just please, don’t praise a girl in order to make her fall in love with you. Otherwise, all this will backfire on you. Remember that a compliment to a girl should first of all be sincere from the heart.

Make it romantic

You can follow the standard path: flowers, restaurant, gifts. But this is the “beaten” path and you will be like everyone else! And you need to be original. Therefore, invite her to some unusual place - it doesn’t matter whether it’s a climbing wall or Tolstoy’s estate - the main thing is that you both find it interesting there. To get to the point, it’s better to find out the girl’s interests and fears, otherwise if she’s afraid of heights, she obviously won’t fly in a hot air balloon. In general, study such a topic as “roof blowers” and stock them in your arsenal, so that you don’t have to think every time, but how to evoke unrealistic emotions in her. The main thing in this matter is not to go too far: your task is to surprise, not shock.

And yes, don’t just give positive emotions, otherwise you’ll be as sweet as a white marshmallow!

70% positive + 20% neutral + 10% negative = a girl in love with you!

Bottom line

In conclusion, here are the main reasons that may prevent you from falling in love with a girl:

Early conflicts. It's very bad to start a relationship like this. Since you are not a couple yet and are just trying to show feelings, a quarrel could end in tears. In a relationship, you can afford a scandal, knowing that you will make peace anyway. But you shouldn’t do this at the beginning of your journey, since you have just begun to build bridges. And any conflict will destroy everything. That's why:
remember the positive aspects of a person, even if there are shortcomings.
Old relationships. If the girl doesn’t have any relationship, but you had a relationship, then it becomes clear what the matter is: old feelings interfere with the beginning of new ones. Memories of past relationships can slow down the process of forming new ones. Therefore, you will have to somehow drown them out. For example, find a new hobby or immerse yourself in work so that there is no time to think about the past.

In the end, if you have tried everything and the result is still zero, then ask yourself: should you strive to create a new relationship or not? Perhaps this person is not right for you, and it is better to find another mate.

Trigger your instincts

And the last thing you need to do to make a girl fall in love with you is to have great sex with her. To do this, it is necessary to evoke animal instincts in her through kinesthetics or, more simply, through touch. Do you remember how you spanked your school and college girlfriends on the ass? So it was your mistake! There is no need to rush headlong into the quarry! Everything needs to be done gradually.

Touch

You need to start with those touches that are acceptable from the point of view of society and culture. They are called socially acceptable touching.

Shake hands when meeting.

Give your hand from the transport.

Take it by the arm while walking.

Kiss on the cheek when meeting or parting.

For such touches, look for a socially acceptable excuse. For example, an interesting ring on her finger - he took her hand in his, touched the ring, and let go. Or, with an approaching drunk, you can take her by the shoulders and bring her closer to you, as if fencing her off from danger.

Kiss tenderly

Next you need to move on to more serious touches.

Touching the girl’s hands, knees, back.

Light massage of fingers, forearms, shoulders, neck, back.

Kisses on the shoulders, neck, lips, etc.

Give her good sex

If you really want to make a girl fall in love with you, then you should have sex with her. Learn one thing. Real relationships begin after sex. All that is “BEFORE” is friendship. She can be your friend 1000 times over. Chat on different topics, go to the movies with you, do common things, etc. And at this time he can sleep with other guys. Here you need to know a little biology. During sex, a hormone called oxytocin is released. It forms attachment to a sexual partner. It is thanks to its development that partners remain faithful to each other and do not notice representatives of the opposite sex.

This is a whole separate topic that I will not touch on here. But sex is a powerful drug. And you need to give her such a dose that she cannot exist without you. Give her so much pleasure that she wants more. And don’t forget about yourself and your feelings at the same time. You yourself must get a buzz from the process so that this feeling is also conveyed to her. I'll repeat it again. Everything before sex is sympathy, which should not be taken so seriously.

So, I have listed the most effective ways to make a girl fall in love with you. You need to work on them and make them work on autopilot. But! There are moments when a girl can fall in love with you, as if without your participation. And here you need to understand how a girl who is already in love behaves, otherwise you can slow down for a long time and in the end just ruin everything.

Advice from the experienced!

Be special, don't show her your devotion and don't show obsession, try to be a mystery, because you're not that easy to get. You can’t be predicted, today you are ardent and passionate, but tomorrow you don’t even pick up the phone or respond to SMS, citing the fact that you are very busy at work or school.

After a quarrel or conflict, do not show her that you will now go to the bar to drink beer or sit at home and play computer games, let it remain a mystery. So the chosen one will torment herself, suffer, whether you suffer after separation from her or not.

This way, she will be the first to call and ask where you have been and what you have been doing. You remain calm, but invite her on a date and make her charming, and say goodbye with a phrase, as if jokingly: “See you soon, maybe!”

These actions will drive the girl crazy, and she will definitely be yours!

How does a girl in love behave?

Ignores others

A woman who is in love with one particular man is cold, like a cartoon queen, to everyone else. That's just absolutely. In general, in general. At least even retired Brad Pitt will approach her. She won't care about him. The thing is that for a woman in love there is only one alpha male. And if she flirts only with you, then you are the one, the one and only.

Constantly in sight

Perhaps you study, work or relax together and she catches your eye very often. Maybe it's fate? Or maybe it's just an accident?! No. Most likely, she specifically chooses a place and time to annoy you and start a conversation on some topic. She wants you to notice her more - so beautiful and slender. And girls know how to make themselves look like that!

Looking for a reason to meet

A girl in love can invite you first to go for a walk along the embankment, go to a concert or city event, or ride bikes in the park. The difference between guys and girls in love is that girls don’t think - they act. And while you are figuring out how and where to invite a girl, she will do it first. If you have this situation, then the girl has fallen in love with you.

Acts a bit like a fool

Love is, first of all, a lot of stress. And stress, as a rule, turns a reasonable person into an inadequate one. Here she is - shrinking and shrinking when she sees you when she meets. May speak in a loose manner or as if lacking intelligence. She speaks in a manner that is unusual for her. She may behave too vulgarly, although this is not her style of communication at all. But by the way, the same thing happens to you. Now remember how you behaved the last time you fell in love. I'm sure like a fool. Here she is, acting like a fool. It's just stressful, that's all.

Open in communication

A girl in love will begin to tell you everything about herself openly and at the same time ask you various clarifying questions with great interest. Thus, she wants to know not only some facts about your life, but also understand the potential of her lover. She will want to understand what interests you, what goals and plans you have for the near future. If you notice that she is looking for common ground, hobbies or similar experiences, then this is a clear sign of falling in love.

Flirting

Of course, a woman in love begins to flirt. It’s just like in nature, when pink flamingos start performing mating dances. All girls can do this, although not all boys can notice it. And you need to see women's signals! What could it be. Maintains his posture, can swing his leg in a relaxed manner, straightens his hair, bites his lips, has a deep, direct gaze, leans his body forward towards you, can straighten his or your clothes.

Strives to be closer

A girl in love, intentionally and unintentionally, strives to be physically closer to the object of her sympathy. For example, take a man by the arm, touch him in passing, straighten the lapel of his jacket. The same is true when a man enters her personal space: she allows him to close the distance. A girl in love is not against a straightened strand of hair, touches, light hugs.

Shows concern

Women have a maternal instinct inherent in them and you need to know that it extends not only to children. She will take care of those who are truly dear to her. And the object of love will always be dear! Therefore, if a girl has fallen in love with you, then scan all the actions that will show her care for you. If a girl starts feeding you, then believe me, she is in love with you. This signal works 100% and never fails. However, she will not demand anything in return. Instincts cannot be removed anywhere!

Gives gifts

Giving gifts means showing sympathy for a person. Many guys do this almost automatically. Flowers, irons, earrings, telephones. But if a girl gives a gift to a man who was mentioned by him in conversations earlier and, as it were, in passing, then this is a clear sign that she likes this man. Therefore, such moments are especially worth paying attention to. This means that the girl is already seriously starting to invest in the relationship.

Asks questions about family, children, housing.

When a girl is in love, she automatically begins to imagine how she could build a family with you, have children and live happily in a cozy “nest” until the end of your days together. These thoughts, of course, will slip into your conversations. She will ask questions that interest her on this topic. And this is a sure sign that she is interested in you as her future chosen one.

I hope my article helped you clarify the issue of falling in love. In fact, I want you to be able to find your other half without using any tricks or tricks. I want you to just lose your head! This is so cool! Be yourself first. And the girl who should be nearby will definitely appear! Good luck in your relationship!

Interest level

Many men are interested in the question of how to make a girl fall in love with you, without running after her like a boy in love.

To fully understand matters of the heart, I regularly update my level of knowledge. My enlightenment is not limited to my contemporaries. Questions about falling in love have been raised and explored long before we were born. More recently, my interest was attracted by the work of the ancient Roman poet Ovid.

This man put forward his theory on building ideal relationships. Ovid argued that a man should be a “mirror image” of his chosen one.

According to his theory, if a girl is indifferent and cold towards her man, then he should “reflect” the same emotions and feelings towards her.

The same thing needs to be done when a young lady tries to show her feelings. The ancient Roman poet recommended not to be afraid and also open up to your woman.

I think this is a great concept for building strong relationships. She has minimal risk of being trapped by a woman.

Very often relationships lose balance, and some people begin to love more and others less. In an instant, a person loses control and submits to the object of his love. This makes it worse for both sides.

But this can be avoided if you strictly follow the poet’s instructions.

Based on his theory and personal experience, I developed my own technique, which I think is better suited for our time. Let's call it, for example, “Little Mirror”.

We take the basis of this concept from the poet. You must clearly “reflect” all the girl’s emotions directed at you. But there is one change. Always give less than you receive. This will allow you to be one step ahead of the young lady.

This kind of control will make a woman fall deeply in love and hold on to you. Less interest in some periods of your relationship will help you be the initiator of taking it to the next level. After this, you can show more interest, which will definitely not go unnoticed.

This way, you don't lose balance because you're making up for your lack of attention in the past. Such a jump in emotions will surprise your chosen one and make her look at you in a new way.

When should you pay more interest and when should you pay less?

The answer to this question is insanely simple. If you want to reward your woman when she deserves it, then you can increase the level of your attention to her. And vice versa, when she behaves disgustingly, you can, without remorse, briefly reduce interest in her.

Perhaps in some places this will seem like training, but in the future the young lady will understand what she needs to do or not do in order to be happy with you.

Be unusual

Maybe I will surprise you, but women are not always attracted to guys who are no different from each other. To start a relationship with a hot girl, you have to be unusual. And right now you will ask me “how can I be unique, Leon?” Don't worry, you already have it in you. The options are varied: maybe you write memoirs of adult film stars, you do powerlifting, you like to read the classics, you lived in New Zealand, you worked on an organic farm.

In any case, this should be used. You shouldn’t talk about this all the time, but you need to be able to drop a word in time to interest your interlocutor. If you are still ordinary, it is time to change.

Meeting the parents

What else can you do to fall in love with a young man? This is facilitated by communication with those for whom he is the best. First of all, these are the parents of a potential partner, so you should not avoid communicating with them or flatly refuse to meet them. In addition, this will help you get to know the candidate for the role of the other half better.

Of course, it is also useful to communicate with friends and acquaintances of a possible chosen one, who are also able to talk about his best qualities and help him demonstrate them.

If you need to love a person

Let’s assume that feelings for your ex-lover no longer poison your life and do not prevent you from starting a new relationship. How to love a person for whom the object of unrequited love feels only sympathy? You should start working on this by making a list of its advantages. It is possible that the applicant has many positive qualities that make him worthy of attention. You can note his intelligence, devotion, kindness, sense of humor and so on. The longer the list of advantages, the better.

It’s great if a person likes the appearance of someone who declares their love for him. In this case, you should definitely place the photo of your chosen one in a prominent place so that you can admire him as often as possible.

Signs of attention

An important point is showing attention to the chosen one. It is necessary to provide the applicant with support in difficult life situations, take an interest in his problems and concerns, and show sympathy. Indifference does not contribute to the emergence of mutual feelings. Also, one cannot ignore the opinion he holds on a particular issue. It is known that the more moral strength invested in a person, the closer and dearer he becomes.

Is it possible to love a person without paying attention to the good that he does for the object of his love? Gifts, compliments, expressions of care - all this needs to be celebrated. Cultivating a sense of gratitude in yourself, talking about it out loud, makes it easier to get closer.

Of course, when paying attention to a potential partner, it is important not to forget and share with him your own experiences, thoughts, and feelings. Secrecy does not contribute to rapprochement, nor does the desire to solve all your problems on your own.

Is the game worth the candle?

In books and films there are not only stories about how people fell in love with each other. Non-reciprocal love also often becomes the basis for the plot, and such works often have a happy ending. Similar situations are quite common in life. Should a person who has become the object of non-reciprocal love try to arouse feelings in himself for the contender for his heart?

Why not, if a person dreams of starting a family, he understands that the one who seeks his attention suits him and inspires favor. Friendly sympathy can always be reborn into something more if it is promoted correctly. How to do this is described below.

What to do if the company of someone who is in love is unpleasant for a person and only causes irritation and anxiety? In this case, you should hardly force yourself to spend time with him, trying to fall in love. The result of such efforts will most likely be zero.

Where to begin

How to love a person who loves you? First, you need to finally free yourself from relationships that are already in the past. It is especially important to pay attention to this issue if the separation occurred recently. You can’t count on a positive outcome if a person still has feelings for his former lover. Of course, it is difficult to get rid of emotions associated with previous relationships, but the process can always be speeded up.

So, before you try to love a good person, you need to force yourself to forget about the one with whom the relationship did not work out. To do this, you need to find yourself as many interesting activities as possible that will not leave time for sad thoughts and memories. You are encouraged to attend social events that will help you unwind. You can also come up with an exciting hobby, sign up for courses that promote personal growth, and so on.

What not to do

How to find yourself and your purpose in life: what does it mean and where to start

Guys very often make fatal mistakes when trying to make a woman fall in love with them, and at other stages of a relationship.

You can't blame

What not to do:

judge and evaluate her qualities and actions;
redo, criticize her behavior;
to be rude, humiliate, be rude;
expect it to change;
obsess over how to make a girl love you.

Psychological techniques will help a guy solve the problem of how to quickly make girls fall in love with him. A young man needs to take into account each of the above tips and tricks, and should also pay attention to mistakes that should not be made.

If this doesn’t work, you need to understand that you may not meet your soul mate right away and don’t get hung up on coming up with fail-safe ways. You can make friends and have fun in the process. Enjoy life and wait as long as it takes to meet your life partner, and not manipulate the feelings of another. You should also not try to make a married person fall in love with you, this can destroy the family and lead to physical conflicts.

It must be remembered that regardless of whether or not it is possible to return an ex-girlfriend, the guy must, first of all, having completed the entire process of his improvement, move on.

Fix things around the house

The magic of driving a nail and changing the gasket in a faucet for a woman is equivalent to the awe that the average man experiences when watching a mountain of dirty vegetables, bloody bones and strange herbs turn into a delicious three-course meal in an hour.
A male mechanic wants to be worshiped, a desire immortalized in the classic plumbing porn story. And even if your dad and grandpa didn’t take you to a workbench in the garage as a child, looking up a manual on the Internet and trying to be a home craftsman is better than muttering “I don’t know, somewhere my mom wrote down the electrician’s phone number on the wallpaper in the hallway.” Practical knowledge of how to cope with everyday life is part of male eroticism and evokes respect from those who, in principle, are not given such things or are not interested (most girls). The only best alternative is “listen, take the money in the nightstand and order the toilet that you like, along with the installation, otherwise I’m not as strong in interior aesthetics as you are, and at the same time you’ll buy shoes for yourself in the shopping center opposite.”

Frankness is important

It is said above that it is necessary to refrain from criticism and try not to provoke quarrels. However, this does not mean that you need to remain silent about everything that does not suit you in a relationship, especially if we are talking about really important points that can destroy it. A frank conversation helps eliminate many problems if conducted in a calm and friendly tone. For example, you should not hide your preferences in bed from your partner, and also forget to be interested in his habits and desires.

About the benefits of parting

The above describes how to love a person if such a desire arises. However, we should not forget that moderation is necessary in everything. Anyone who literally forces himself to spend a lot of time in the company of a potential partner can easily begin to feel tired and irritated. If dating begins to seem like an unpleasant chore, you should definitely press pause, take a break from communication and try to understand your own feelings.

It is possible that separation will help to understand how important a role a person in love plays in the life of the object of his attention. Perhaps simple interest has already transformed into a more serious feeling. If the desire to meet does not arise for a long time, you should not force yourself to resume dating. There is a high probability that nothing good will come of this.

What does a woman want?

You don’t need to conduct a survey to find out what girls expect from a man. Ask any lady how to win a woman, and she will give you an approximate list of the most attractive qualities for the majority of the fair sex:

pleasant appearance,
ability to carry on a conversation,
desire to earn money,
politeness and gallantry,
good sense of humour,
patience for women's whims,
tirelessness in bed.

“Such a huge list, I went...”, you will say and you will be right, but only partly. We all strive for the ideal, but we fall in love with flawed people, with all their pros and cons. Therefore, it may not be worth taking the generally accepted requirements of girls too seriously, but it is quite possible to learn something from them for yourself. Let us generalize and draw a conclusion from women’s claims regarding the candidacy of a real man:

Mutual care is the basis of healthy relationships. Women love it when they are treated like a treasure: they take care of their health, pamper them, look after them and support them. Such behavior on the part of a man significantly increases the chance of success in the further development of the relationship. A girl who is treated this way will reciprocate in 90% of cases. And you yourself will feel like a real gentleman, the master of the situation and a kind of benefactor. Your lady's grateful eyes will say a lot.
No to rude people, yes to respect in a couple! You may not be a prince on a white horse and you will never become one, but you simply must show respect, restrain aggression and not be rude. This is one of the most important requirements for men, which must be strictly observed. Do you want to create a harmonious couple?
Sloths are not particularly successful with women. Many young people dream of marrying an oligarch. But in reality, they are looking for at least those men whom they can rely on in difficult times. Think for yourself how many worries the average woman takes on: comfort in the home and cooking, caring for children and husband, and almost everyone works! I really don’t want to take on the burden of supporting an adult capable man. That's why ladies choose hard-working guys with the desire to get ahead.

These are the key points that girls pay attention to when choosing a partner. Of course, there is love at first sight, when ladies lose their heads over a handsome man without a king in his head

But relationships based on momentary sympathy are unlikely to last long. Therefore, develop in the right directions and you will be successful with any girl.

Total ignore

After your ex meets you in the company of a breathtaking beauty, gets over it and stops breaking down, she will try to contact you. At this time, you must begin an operation codenamed "Ignore". Cut off all ties with the girl, let her think that everything is fine with you, you have found your happiness. Such a step can make a young lady who previously had serious feelings for you nervous. Jealousy will bring with it a sense of ownership and renewed sympathy. Of course, you shouldn’t ignore her for too long, because it’s quite possible that she’ll find herself a new guy out of revenge. One week of ignoring is enough. How to communicate with her after this? Let's tell you right now!

Methods

A great option is to secretly give bouquets to your beloved.
You need to understand that every girl is unique in some way and has her own characteristics. If you want to win a woman’s heart, you must find out everything about her: what she prefers, what she loves, how she spends her time (free from work), what her dreams are, what kind of gentleman she wants to see next to her. When you have a sufficient amount of information at your disposal, it will not be difficult to choose the right key to your chosen one, to demonstrate that she can trust you, that you are the one she dreamed of. A man who is able to provide invaluable assistance to his chosen one will definitely win her. According to statistics, the strongest relationships arise among people who work together or are friends. This may happen because they have similar interests or there is an opportunity to learn more about each other, an opportunity to get closer. But the biggest reason is that people who spend a lot of time together are sure to help in a given situation. That is, it is mutual assistance that generates more trust and the development of romantic feelings. Performing a romantic act

A modern girl will be delighted with this behavior of a guy and will pay attention to him.

you can send mysterious bouquets, inserting notes with romantic content into them, at first you can remain a secret stranger, and with each subsequent bouquet, open the veil of secrecy more and more;
you can make romantic gifts, these are plush toys, themed souvenirs, or, for example, a figurine from the collection that she collects (you can find out about this in advance by studying the girl’s hobbies);
Singing under the window of your chosen one will still be relevant, of course, when choosing this method, it is advisable to have an ear for music and vocal abilities;
a guy who has the soul of a poet can write a poem about love and dedicate it to his chosen one;
If you have artistic talent, draw a portrait of a girl, you can also simply create a picture on any topic, the main thing is to dedicate it to a specific young lady.

Spending time together

If a girl wants to fall in love with a young man, she needs to spend time in his company more often. It is unlikely that you will be able to evoke feelings for a stranger, so you should try to get to know the candidate better. It’s great if you manage to discover common interests and start a joint hobby. Such a pastime will certainly lead to rapprochement, and more topics of conversation will appear that are of interest to everyone. Joint attendance at social events, watching films, performances, and so on is also useful.

Perhaps it is also worth deciding on a joint vacation, especially if people have known each other for a long time. Seeing a lover outside of usual circumstances, you can look at him in a new way, experience an interest that was not there before. Of course, a joint vacation in a romantic setting that evokes the right emotions is welcome.