Sometimes a situation arises when a woman proudly shows her lover a new hairstyle, but he does not notice that any changes have occurred to his partner’s hair, be it a different shade or shortening by 5 cm. Based on this, many women tend to believe that men don't notice anything about them. However, this is not the case as they are excellent observers in some situations. Here are ten things that women think men don't pay attention to when in fact they don't.
What you eat
On a first date, if it takes place in a restaurant, most women decide to order only a salad, although men like to see a good appetite, and not the consumption of “grass”. If women are dissatisfied with their body and want to get rid of a few kilograms, the partner will definitely ask if they are doing anything to achieve this goal.
If a month later the ladies are upset to find that they haven't lost a kilogram, or even gained it, even if they live only on salad, the partner can easily list all the little "unnoticed" snacks to his beloved.
Nails
For girls, nails have long become something important. Now it is not enough just to give them a beautiful shape and varnish them. Manicures have become almost mandatory. And every day new trends appear that you need to have time to follow.
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But for some reason it is believed that guys don’t care about girls’ nails. Even women themselves believe that they get a beautiful manicure to complement their image and show off to their friends. However, guys also pay attention to girls’ nails. Using them, they determine whether their chosen one cares about herself or not.
Changes in your body
Believe me, they pay attention to this. We can say that men are programmed to notice any small changes in the body of their woman (and not only her). In their male company, they discuss changes in the figure of their colleagues, classmates or neighbors with great interest. Do not doubt that your partner notices changes in your figure, but he may simply not tell you about it.
The man is offended and ignores
How is a man different from a woman? First of all, he is a strong core
, a cold-blooded person who does not show her emotions and
is simply a strong person
. But even he has such a feeling as resentment. He may be greatly offended by the fact that the woman he likes openly flirts in front of his eyes with male representatives, even she does this on purpose in order to cause another stream of jealousy. He may be upset that the girl does not give him enough attention, communicates with him in a rude manner, and other similar things.
How to understand that a young man is offended?
Just look at his behavior. He may be silent for a long time, reluctant to answer questions put to him, stop answering phone calls and avoid meetings in every possible way. In some cases, a young man may stop going to work and console himself with alcohol.
At this time, almost every person has the thought that the man wants to break up, stop communicating, or that he has another object of sympathy. But no, he was just offended. It is much more difficult to make amends to a young man than to a girl, but this must be done and the sooner the better, before his resentment develops into indifference
.
What are you drinking
A man knows perfectly well what drink the woman of his dreams likes. Many men know how to understand exactly when she wants to drink it. Whether you prefer to drink wine after dinner, liqueur before dinner, or relax with a cocktail at a party, he will know about it and bring exactly what you need.
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How to recognize the look of a girl in love?
The duration of a woman's eye contact does not indicate the presence of love. When reading a girl’s behavior, you should pay attention to other non-verbal signs of communication, when posture, movements, actions and manner of speech indicate sympathy.
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A girl is interested in you if she:
- embarrassed, blushes;
- her head and body are constantly directed in your direction;
- while looking, he touches his neck, hair, fidgets with earrings, pendant;
- in company he tries to stay close;
- laughs at your jokes, etc.
Important! The main sign of flirting is a fleeting glance, when a woman looks, and as soon as she receives a visual response, she turns away, embarrassed, lowering her eyes down.
What gift do you want
For most men, all it takes is a reminder from time to time that you like a particular necklace or earrings. They will definitely pay attention to this and even take notes to surprise their woman on her next birthday or anniversary. But you should talk about it periodically. So don’t be afraid to remind them if you really want something.
Reasons for male indifference and ways to overcome it
When a man is indifferent to a woman, there are reasons for this. Indifference can appear both at the beginning of a relationship and after years of marriage.
If the relationship is just beginning, and the man is indifferent to everyone, it means that he is simply using you.
The reasons for the indifference at the beginning of the novel - the girl didn’t catch on, the man was bored. He is with her only because there is no one else on the horizon. Have you met such couples? Share in the comments, I read everything.
What to do?
- Guys love open and easy-to-communicate women, but at the same time unpredictable, unavailable women. Be a mystery to men. And under no circumstances force yourself. Sometimes women try to earn love, run after a guy, and come up with entertainment for him. These are serious mistakes. The best option is to mirror his behavior, to show yourself from an unexpected side. Or stop communicating altogether. Why would you want to win someone who only shows indifference to you?
- If a man has become indifferent to the woman he once loved, his wife, and lives with her out of habit, then it’s worth fighting. The reasons may be different: a crisis stage in a relationship, a woman’s incorrect behavior. For example, excessive control and mistrust always slowly kill love. Or here’s a common situation: after marriage, a gentle and caring bride turned into a fury who is dissatisfied with everything. He saws and saws. Then falling in love is replaced not by love, but by irritation, the desire to escape and subsequent indifference.
- Love needs to be cultivated. Work on yourself. Add some sparkle to your relationship with the help of flirting and change in your husband’s eyes. If he once loved and appreciated you, then apparent indifference will not last forever. The main thing is to act, fight for love. Of course, if you want it yourself.
- What you definitely don’t need to do is accuse your beloved man of indifference, shower him with reproaches, make trouble and demand attention. This will have the opposite effect. Start with yourself, change your behavior tactics. For some couples, a pang of jealousy or a change of scenery helps shake things up. And think carefully - what led you to this, why your husband became indifferent. Errors need to be corrected.
Girls, if you want to learn how to easily attract male attention and keep it, and maintain a love interest in marriage, come to my online course “The Art of Female Flirting.” After mastering special flirting techniques, it is unlikely that there will be a guy left who is indifferent to you. And how to understand that a man loves you, read in the section of our official website of the Pavel Rakov shopping center “Ideal love relationships.”
Girls, why do you think a man loses interest in a woman and becomes indifferent? Write your opinion in the comments, I’ll be waiting.
Wedding or runaway groom
And so, at one fine moment, the woman lifts the veil of her mystery and feigned indifference, and allows the traveler she meets, who has been hanging around her royal palace for many days now, to look into her heart. And what is happening?!
In the first case, the so-called prince will come to visit, see what’s going on, take advantage of the hospitality, and come to the conclusion - oh, why do I need it?! And carefully, in reverse and unnoticed, he will leave the royal chambers, leaving the chosen bride in bewilderment and sadness.
She will never understand at first what it was - a blow of wind or someone really entering her mansion. And only the persistent courtship and fiery speeches of a gentleman from the past will bring a sad smile on her face, and the thought will creep far into her subconscious: “I knew it”...
The second option is more optimistic. True, here it is worth taking into account the restrained behavior of a woman who is going to allow a “knight on a white horse” to approach her. Restraint, accuracy and self-control can play into the hands of both men and women in such cases.
Often, people rush into the whirlpool of passions, without controlling the further flow of events and letting everything take its course. This is where many problems occur that do not lead the couple to anything good. And you just need to learn to control yourself and your emotions. And then, even after many years of living together, the woman will remain a mystery for the man, which he will not tire of solving.
Reasons for not wanting eye contact
Blinking his eyes when talking to a woman, he feels confused and has no further course of action. When he looks left and then right (or vice versa), he is confused and tries to find any words. A man gets embarrassed when he meets his eyes if a woman is just a friend to him.
Eyes are incapable of lying - everyone knows this. They connect a person with the world around him and reflect his state of mind. Many people do not want to reveal their soul even to close people, let alone strangers. Those who have something to hide also do not like to make eye contact, for example:
- treason;
- lie;
- desire to separate forever;
- your bad mood;
- mental pain.
If on a date a man looks away, and it was he who initiated the meeting, the guy is simply shy and timid in the presence of a girl. He fears that she will see the sparkle and desire in his eyes ahead of time and consider them to be lust, which is why he hides them from his interlocutor.
Body language will also help to understand the reason why a person does not make eye contact when speaking.
Reasons why a person does not make eye contact
- Shyness or lack of self-confidence;
- If he wants to hide something, such as affection or love;
- The insincerity of his feelings. On the contrary, he may hide something, the fact that he is married, married or other acts;
- Heavy look. People who are very powerful have an incredibly heavy gaze that pierces and is unpleasant to others. Cold, seemingly empty, embittered eyes will not please everyone;
- Doesn’t want to give information about himself, is used to avoiding answers, often lies;
- No interest in the interlocutor, fatigue.
Other reasons:
When there's just nothing left to say
Why doesn't a person make eye contact when talking? Is this a sign of lying, or are there other reasons that explain the situation? Looking straight ahead imposes certain obligations, such as answering honestly a question that has not yet been answered. I don’t want to lie, but I can’t tell the truth either. That is why a man hides his gaze and avoids answering. There can be a lot of reasons. And an open, “honest” look does not always mean that a person is not lying. They hold up just fine when looked at point-blank. Such people are used to it, and their gaze is quite trained.
If you are shy and vulnerable
You should not pay special attention to this fact. Not everyone likes to be in close quarters; many are stressed by crowds and views from all sides. If one is confident in himself, then the other may be in constant turmoil. Therefore, you should not judge by the look and assume that since a person does not look into the eyes, it means that he is lying, in love or wants to deceive. Maybe he's just not confident in himself or doesn't want to show his weaknesses. People are different. Upbringing, habits or character very often leave their mark.
How to get a man to look you in the eyes?
If a person does not look into the eyes, then you can try to look into them furtively. Call for a conversation on an interesting topic, intrigue, ask a difficult question and see the reaction. Many people open up at this time. You can look at his communication with other people. If a person does not make eye contact all the time, perhaps he has such a character. May be stubborn or hide feelings. He cannot control himself all the time, so sooner or later he will be able to look into his eyes. Not all people like to look directly at the other person. Some people generally find direct gaze unpleasant. If a person avoids looking at you, it doesn’t mean that he is hiding something or not saying anything, maybe he just has that style of communication. Most often, people who are shy and unsure of themselves look away. Also, some people do not make eye contact if their parents, leaders are authoritarian, or they have a habit of obeying. It’s easier to lower your eyes and tell them “yes” than to hold your gaze.
Or maybe everything is much simpler. If a man doesn’t look you in the eyes, it means he doesn’t plan any relationship.
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