Many men may notice strange behavior in their wives.
For no apparent reason, a wife may start screaming, swearing, and even hitting the man.
Of course, such feminine behavior does not mean something good for a man. But it is important to understand the reasons for its occurrence in order to avoid it in the future.
Then the wife will not be angry, but on the contrary, she will always be kind and gentle with her husband. But why do women get so irritated and angry? Let's name 5 reasons why your wife became so angry and irritable.
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You don't communicate with her much.
A mandatory point for a good family relationship between a man and a woman is communication. No matter how many years you live together, you must communicate.
If this communication does not happen or only the woman initiates it, then she will be angry with the man. It may seem to her that the man simply doesn’t care about her.
Therefore, always try to communicate, ask about her affairs, mood, desires, interests, and so on. Then the woman will feel needed in marriage and will love the man even more.
Author: Sergey Tumanov
For men - 15 reasons why your wife became angry and irritable
Do you feel like your wife is constantly stressed? It is better to try to figure out the reason yourself rather than resort to outside help.
By identifying the underlying causes of her anxiety, stress can be alleviated.
You are not the first to find yourself in this situation. Experts have identified 15 main reasons that create tension in relationships. Here they are:
1. You don't talk to each other. Undoubtedly, you communicate with each other. But when was the last time you had a good conversation?
If all you talk about is tomorrow's obligations or how hard your day was, you're probably stressing her out. Spend some time together and just talk about abstract topics.
2. You don't change. At least the way she wants. How many times have you discussed responsibilities in the home? How many times have you committed yourself to doing your best work?
It's no wonder she's annoyed because you're not making any effort to deliver on what you promised.
3. You're not asking the right questions. Undoubtedly, couples communicate, but mostly the conversation is about obvious and everyday things.
You don't want to try to find out more, but you still want to know what's going on in her head. If you don't know what she's thinking and feeling, how can you be a better husband to her?
4. You don't support romance! You are interesting to each other when you are in love. But after a few years, you will have to make more efforts to maintain this excitement and interest in each other.
Special dates, gifts, special moments and surprises - it never gets old.
5. She is the only one who cooks. Every family needs three meals a day. It’s great when you can just sit back and have someone cook for you all day, and even set the table.
No one will force you to create culinary masterpieces. But you can cook something very simple to distract your wife at least a little from the routine of daily cooking.
6. You don't clean. It's not that hard to keep track of things. You can simply put scattered items back in their place, throw dirty dishes in the dishwasher to keep things looking neat and tidy.
The process of cleaning the house is also important. From time to time, some people need to vacuum their house, while others need to wash their entire home with cleaning products. But if you still divide the work unevenly, this leads to another stress.
7. She feels like the only parent. Your children have two parents, so it makes sense that you should divide your responsibilities evenly.
If child care falls entirely on one partner, especially when there is a second one who is constantly resting, this creates dissatisfaction and stress.
8. She doesn't feel cared for. When was the last time you asked your wife what movie she would like to see or where she would like to go for dinner? Everyone needs love and care, and chances are your wife isn't getting it as much as she used to.
Make an effort to show her how much you appreciate her.
9. She needs time. We all know the feeling of not having enough time in the day to get everything done.
You can help her: finish what she is already doing. Or clear up your schedule a little and help her with something. She will definitely be grateful to you for this.
10. She needs space. Everyone knows how important it is sometimes to just lock yourself in a room and be alone. If you have children, constant noise can be very tiring, and sometimes you just need a little rest.
You can also give your wife some free time and space. Take the kids for an outing while your wife can relax a bit in the bath and read a book.
11. Your priorities are wrong. Many men give 110% that they only come home to spend the night. If you do this too, trust that your wife notices it too.
When you devote yourself completely to work, your relationships at home noticeably deteriorate. Consider whether you are doing enough for the benefit of your family.
12. You dominate arguments. Disagreements will surface, that's a fact. In arguments, do you listen to her? Or do you go straight with your arguments?
When a person cannot solve his problems with his loved one, it only causes discontent and stress.
13. She is responsible for everything. Your home definitely has its own obligations, expenses, problems, etc. Of course, someone has to deal with all this. And, as a rule, it falls on women’s shoulders.
Don't be just another roommate in the house. Become her assistant, not her hired worker.
14. She is depressed. You are stuck in your daily routine day after day. You feel it just like your wife.
Talk to her, ask her about her feelings and help her around the house. Be a good husband because that's what she deserves.
15. She does everything. Have you ever felt like your wife is constantly busy while you are just relaxing? Unfortunately, this is true.
Even when you are tired or stressed, go home if possible.
And if she wants to share something that's bothering her (even if it's just a sigh), listen to her. Source
How does a man see a woman's hysteria?
When a man first encounters his wife’s hysterics, he becomes very scared; he does not know how to behave in such a situation, how to calm an angry woman. He tries to please and fulfill all the whims of his beloved wife. But when this begins to happen constantly, the husband becomes confident that a performance is being specially staged in front of him so that he will take pity on the poor thing and fulfill his next wish.
Signs of hysterics
The hysterical wife is extremely selfish, she is driven by increased pride, attention to her person, the desire to be in everyone's sight and the desire to dominate her partner, suppressing his personality.
A characteristic feature of hysterics is the simulation of various illnesses, for example, migraines, in order to attract attention to themselves in any way and force them to fulfill their whims. Often, women show others unusual manifestations of their illness - fainting, seizures and other inhuman suffering.
Such women often start a scandal for no apparent reason, the purpose of which is to get what they want through blackmail and hysterics.
Knowing her husband’s weaknesses, the woman begins to put pressure on what hurts most, trying to make her dream come true. A man should not rush to blame a woman, since in most cases she is a hostage to psychosis and frayed nerves.
An attack of hysteria begins acutely and is expressed in the following symptoms: raising the voice, redness of the skin of the face, crying, sobbing, slurred, chaotic speech. The girl begins to scream, stomp her feet, and theatrically wring her hands. However, these emotions are clearly exaggerated. At these moments, they are characterized by deceit, dramatic behavior, and posturing.
Many women claim that when they are hysterical, they experience clouding of consciousness and do not remember most of what they said.
"Don't piss me off." What to do if your wife is annoying
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