Any relationship in our life does not pass without a trace, and the energetic connection between a man and a woman remains for a long time even after a breakup. When breaking up, a woman is closely connected with her partner on an energetic level for another seven years. During communication, a powerful emotional outburst occurs between the couple. All the feelings that the girl experienced at that moment are so strong that they are stored in the depths of her subconscious for years. And it doesn’t matter at all whether positive or negative emotions prevailed in these relationships. They are equally important for the fair half of humanity.
And even after breaking up, the girl, without even knowing it, continues to give most of her energy to the man with whom she was close physically or spiritually. Such an attachment has a negative impact on a woman’s well-being and personal life. Even if the relationship has long outlived its usefulness, a strong mental connection becomes a kind of “black hole” in the energy field and deprives the girl of her vitality. Therefore, a completely predictable question arises: “How to break the energetic connection with a man?”
Energy Communications
Did you know that people only need to shake hands or touch each other for thin threads of energy to appear between them? If people begin to communicate more with each other, then this connection strengthens and turns into a thick rope along which energy flows from person to person.
Energy vampirism
When everything is harmonious in a couple or family, then close people feed off each other. On the physical plane, this is expressed by support, understanding, and intuitive feeling. But what if the relationship becomes unbearable? Constant quarrels, scandals, hysterics and showdowns provoke an outflow of energy. Sick relationships are swings, when people either quarrel or passionately reconcile - this is exactly the case. And if you find the courage to break this, then you will reach another level of your development.
This is quite difficult to do, because many people are attacked by strange emotions at such moments. It’s easier for them to put pressure on their ego’s throat again than to start solving the problem. And why? But because they are afraid that they will be left without their beloved “tormentor”. Tormentor...
But so dear! That is why this method is suitable only for the strongest, who are ready to sharply tear off the bandage from the aching wound and begin to sew up the hole with magic threads.
Even if you have ended a relationship and stopped communicating with a person, this absolutely does not mean that you have broken the connection on an energetic level. Part of your energy still flows into a past relationship or family.
How to break the energetic connection with an ex-man, husband, lover, woman, with your partner, relative, mother, father, sister, brother, friend, colleague and in general with any person? Let's get a look.
Types of energy connections
There are several energy connections:
- Energy connections that accumulate throughout the day: communication with relatives, trips to the store, work, study, people on the street, etc.
- Connections that arise during conflicts, quarrels, and if someone has offended you.
- Love connections: cordial and long-lasting.
Why do you need to get rid of the invisible threads that connect a man and a woman?
It is not without reason that almost all religions have paid special attention to female chastity. The girl is by nature very vulnerable and susceptible to energy flows. She seems to dissolve in the man’s energy field, giving him her life force. After a break, this process cannot be stopped. A man continues to feed on streams of feminine energy on a subtle mental level. This connection persists for 6-7 years after separation.
Modern girls are not so conservative and rarely date only one young man. However, not everyone knows that old connections have a huge impact on their future lives. Former partners continue to drain energy from a woman, weakening her health, taking away her beauty and attractiveness. The phrase “I gave you the best years of my life” is very appropriate here. It has so much meaning, but not everyone realizes it. Indeed, a strong connection between a man and a woman affects her well-being and emotional state. That is why experts recommend getting rid of old attachments, forever breaking the threads of past relationships.
Practice
If you don’t know how to break the energy connection, then here are a few techniques that will help. You can do them at any time convenient for you: at home, on the street or at work.
On every day
If you know how to work with chakras, then here is a simple method to break all connections:
- Find a comfortable position and relax.
- You need to ground yourself. Imagine that from your first Muladhara chakra, in the tailbone area, a dark brown column goes down to the center of the Earth.
- Go through each chakra, starting with the first. Imagine that you are removing all the dark spots or any growths on them with your hands, cleaning each one with an imaginary vacuum cleaner.
Let's remove the offense
If someone has offended you, then you should try to cleanse yourself as soon as possible, without accumulating anything.
How to break an energetic connection with a person:
- Mentally imagine your offender standing opposite you.
- Place two tubes at chest level that go from you to him. Energy flows through one tube from him to you, and through the other from you to him.
- Take imaginary scissors. For greater effect, you can take real scissors and do the same with them.
- Cut off both tubes.
- You close the ends of your tubes to each other.
- You wash the offender’s tubes together on him.
Relationship room
If there are too many grievances that have accumulated and it is quite problematic to work through this with each person, then this technique can help you.
How to break an energetic connection:
- Take a comfortable position and relax. You can play your favorite music, meditation music or mantras in the background.
- Let go of your thoughts and try to stop the internal dialogue.
- Imagine that your head is a room, and all the furniture in it are your offenders. Let’s say a closet is your father, a floor lamp is your mother, a chair is your ex-partner, a chandelier is your boss, an armchair is your colleague, a table is the saleswoman in the store who was rude to you, etc.
- Start removing all items from the room.
- When the space is completely cleared, force yourself out of the room by any means: pull your ear, take it out with a bulldozer, or fly away in a hot air balloon.
- Look into your room through a keyhole or window. If it's still empty, come out of your trance. And if some items are still standing, take them out again until the room is completely empty.
If energy decoupling does not help: what to do?
If energy decoupling does not help, then you can read these words.
It doesn’t always work out the way you want. If energy decoupling doesn’t help, what should you do? Here are the tips:
- This happens in extremely rare cases and most often signals the presence of some unclosed gestalt associated with a former lover.
- Obviously, in this case, it is this past “dissatisfaction” that needs to be dealt with.
- Emancipation and gaining freedom in one area will one way or another lead to similar liberation in others.
Sometimes untethering does not help people with mental trauma. Those who are inexorably drawn into the past are usually difficult to get out of such states. In theory, a failure to unplug in this case can be a good signal that you should monitor your health more carefully. That self-care is always important.
It should be noted: many women have to turn to untethering, to build an “emotional fortress” at least once in their lives. All this, even if it remains a purely esoteric action, nevertheless smoothly enters modern life, successfully coexisting with it. There is nothing reprehensible in such things, and no thoughts about “sins” and supposedly “black magic” are acceptable here - these are completely different categories of energy manipulation.
Love Bindings
With love connections, everything is a little more complicated. It will take more effort, energy and time to remove all the dryness. But you will definitely succeed if you really want it.
Burn everything you gave me
How to break an energetic connection with a man or woman:
- Take a piece of paper and a pen.
- Determine the place on the piece of paper where your resentment or irritation wants to settle.
- Use a pen to draw whatever you want. Don't think about time, just draw.
- Fill a basin with water and light a piece of paper with matches.
- Wait until the entire design burns, and then put the paper in water for safety reasons.
- Drain the water.
Airing the heart
The technique is quite simple:
- Take a comfortable position and relax.
- Mentally find a black hole in the area of your heart.
- Inhale through your mouth and mentally exhale through the hole.
- At first black smoke will come out of it, and with every breath it will get blacker and blacker.
- Then the smoke will become light, and then a draft will form in your heart.
- This means you have completely removed the energy connection.
- Close the entrance with your hand or an imaginary stopper. Or maybe you want to patch up this wound.
How does a man feel after energetic release?
It’s always interesting how a man feels after an energetic release.
- The one who was the “receiving party” in a one-way energy channel (that is, in our case, a man, an ex-spouse or just a lover) usually experiences few feelings about this at all.
- These are often people who lack empathy, are emotionally closed, and cold.
- Consequently, any energy manipulation on the part of women will produce the slightest effect, and the likelihood of a negative impact is completely reduced to zero.
There are also exceptions:
- Those who have been involved in esotericism quite a lot, that is, have great awareness in such matters, are able to feel any manipulation that concerns them. And this should not stop the closure of the channel.
- The harm to the health of the recipient in such a context is many times more significant.
If the ex-husband feels the channel is closed, he still won’t be able to do anything. Fortunately, this will simply not be in his power.
Key words
While performing the techniques, you can turn to the person with whom you want to break the connection and tell him something like these words (you can also add on your own):
My dear (name)!
I know that you feel and perceive all my words on a subtle level. And I, with full responsibility and with all my heart, here and now renounce you. I stop all possible offenses against you.
Our relationship was great at the very beginning. But today this is not what you and I need from life. From now on and forever, I free myself from you with a clear conscience and an open soul.
Here and now I make the decision to be the master (mistress) of my life, my thoughts and feelings. I am under the divine protection of the Higher Powers (God, Allah, Guardian Angels, etc.).
I wish you harmony and joy in life, but without me. All is well in my wonderful world!
Important Note
There are situations in everyone’s life when they want to cut off the energetic connection with a person so that they don’t vampirize you. But we need to keep communicating. This could be parents, relatives or friends.
Then imagine that you are connected by 2 tubes. One is good and pure: the connection between mother and daughter, friendly, etc. And the second is dirty, through which quarrels pass. This means that you only need to trim the dirty one.
How to close the energy channel with ex-lovers, ex-husband: candle plot
A tougher and rougher method is to perform a similar ritual with candle wax. How to close the energy channel with former lovers, ex-husband?
- While the candle (it’s more logical to take a not too large one) burns out, look at it, blinking as little as possible, feel every moment in strict reality, breathe deeply and fully.
- As soon as the light goes out, the leaked wax must be taken as far as possible from the house and buried, or thrown into a trash can on the outskirts.
While the candle is burning, you can read the following plot:
Candle plot when closing an energy channel
It is noteworthy that this is the only method that can negatively affect the ex-husband. This is unlikely to be something psychologically or physically difficult, but mild anxiety and malaise will definitely remain with him for several days. Usually, esotericists, in principle, do not recommend this particular ritual - the connection with the “dark side of magic” is too high.
There are very complex practices that are carried out if the ex-husband or lover has deliberately opened a one-way energy channel (for example, in the case of a professionally performed love spell).
- They require precise calculations - in terms of timing up to the phase of the moon, tracking the state of your own body, and so on.
- This, for obvious reasons, requires certain skills in the field of “Navi”. Most often, it is difficult for a woman to carry out such a “rite” alone.
- If you want such a strong fundamental intervention, it makes sense to turn to professional esotericists or even shamans who are well versed in the “world of spirits and auras.” It is best if it is a female specialist in matters of closing the energy channel, since male intervention is highly likely to cause harm.
The obvious disadvantage of this method is that it is too easy to run into all sorts of charlatans and scammers. So it is wise to leave such a powerful ritual for the most extreme case.