How to make peace with a girl: TOP 10 proven methods

When there is a quarrel with a girl, the guy always finds himself in a difficult position. Firstly, during a scandal, you should not scream or resort to assault, since these are not masculine methods of talking to a woman. Secondly, it is unknown how to behave after what happened: should you be the first to make peace or show your iron character and wait for her to come?

But what if her resentment does not go away and she refuses to communicate and does not make contact - is it worth insisting on continuing the relationship? Indeed, it is difficult to resolve the conflict in such a way as not to lose your dignity and save love. But there are no hopeless situations, and psychology comes to the rescue in such cases.

After a strong quarrel

Strong grievances and quarrels often lead to separation in a couple. To make peace with a girl after such a scandal, you will have to make a lot of effort, especially if she does not want a conversation or meeting.

The algorithm of actions may be as follows:

Analyze the situation. Remember the reason for the quarrel, your behavior and hers.
Admit the mistakes you made, rude phrases that should not have been uttered.
Choose a time to have an honest conversation. It is better to schedule a meeting for 2-3 days after the quarrel.
It doesn’t matter which of you is to blame, go for reconciliation first.
Ask for forgiveness for mistakes made, rudeness, rudeness.
Discuss the reason for the quarrel.
If possible, point out to the girl her mistakes in conversation or behavior.
Listen to your significant other's point of view. At this moment it is better to remain silent, let her speak out and support her with the words: “I understand that you are angry; I understand you” and so on.
At the end of the conversation, take her hand, remember the romantic moments that are important to your couple. Promise not to quarrel anymore.
After the conversation, tell her that you are going to leave, you don’t want to take up her time. If a girl decides to forgive, she will try to detain you. If she doesn’t stop and lets her leave, then she needs more time to make the right decision.

How to make peace in an original way and more

So, the pause is over, the passions have subsided. It's time to start acting actively, but delicately. In what form you will apologize depends on your imagination, financial capabilities and preferences of your girlfriend. Do you know what can make her happy?

We will not consider options like a holiday in the Maldives. This, of course, will delight any girl, but not everyone can afford it. Let's look for something simpler, but no less effective.

Lettering and images

In recent years, confessions written in paint on asphalt have become popular. A girl, looking out the window and reading your message, will probably be touched by such sincerity.

In the early 2000s, some men could afford to pay for advertising space on billboards or LED screens along highways, and posted their confessions where their offended lovers drove by.

A very effective method, but it was banned due to periodic emergency situations, since touching messages were read not only by the girls to whom it was addressed, but also by all other motorists.

Recently I saw luxurious graffiti on the wall of a small technical building in the courtyard of a multi-story building. Whether the artist himself asked for forgiveness from his girlfriend or the painting was created by order, but the bouquet of forget-me-nots depicted on it in drops of morning dew and sun rays made all passersby turn around. The laconic inscription “Lisa, I’m sorry...” left no doubt about the intention of the painting.

Gifts with meaning

Use your imagination, think about what can touch the heart of your beloved. Even a small souvenir can evoke a warm response in a girl’s soul if it is filled with meaning that only you two can understand. Girls love symbolic gifts and often make them their talismans.

It could just be an elegant figurine of an angel with her name on it. A person’s name is the most pleasant and important sound in the world for him, because from birth we perceive being addressed by name. It's like a password that gives you access to your inner world and helps you understand that you came with good intentions.

Place her name with sleeve candles on the asphalt under the windows of her house on a warm summer evening - and rest assured, she will understand exactly what meaning you put into it.

Interesting place

In every city there are such interesting places where you can invite a girl not only to talk about reconciliation. Having a good time and forgetting about worries after a quarrel will be useful for both. Take the time to explore the opportunities your city offers for romantic dates.

Of course, you need to take into account the preferences of your partner. If she loves a small cozy cafe on the embankment, the atmosphere of which puts her in a romantic mood, there is no need to drag her to a climbing wall or a quest, or take her on a paragliding flight, even if it seems incredibly exciting to you.

However, this option is also possible if your girlfriend is an extreme sports fan and doesn’t mind pumping adrenaline through her veins. The main thing is not to make a mistake with your choice, otherwise, instead of a conciliatory conversation, you will get a showdown on the topic of your frivolity and irresponsibility.

Flowers and candies

Such traditional signs of attention should not be considered banal. Almost all women love flowers. Moreover, it is absolutely not necessary to present pompous, bulky bouquets the size of your chosen one.

You can give just one flower, for example, an elegant rose, the stem of which is decorated with a matching ribbon, or a delicate bouquet of wildflowers that you collected yourself, lush peonies or luxurious lilacs from your summer cottage - the field for imagination is truly limitless.

Not all girls love sweets, but if your chosen one doesn’t mind eating chocolate, you have an additional trump card in a conciliatory conversation. Nowadays, many private confectioneries offer handmade chocolate products made to order. It is enough to write a couple of touching words on a chocolate bar for your sweet gift to turn into a sign of sincere repentance.

Letter

Sometimes it is difficult to find the right words to express everything that has accumulated during a quarrel and ask for forgiveness so that there is no doubt about your sincerity. Excitement, confused thoughts, and a pounding heart make it difficult to concentrate and clearly convey everything you want to say. Not all words can reach a consciousness clouded by strong resentment and anger.

In this case, the epistolary genre will help you. A very convenient and completely in vain forgotten way to express your feelings. And you will gather your thoughts yourself, find the necessary arguments, without the risk of blurting out something unnecessary, and the girl will be able to re-read the message several times and realize the depth of your repentance.

Reconciliation after betrayal

Another very controversial topic is betrayal. It can be both unilateral and mutual. There are so many reasons leading to betrayal that a conversation on this topic can last for hours. Is it worth reconciling after betrayal at all? The question is extremely difficult. How to behave when you know you have been betrayed?

In my opinion, if a couple is young and has been together for a short time, it makes no sense to establish a relationship after one of the partners has cheated. Cheating at an early stage of a relationship indicates immaturity of feelings and the unwillingness of partners to sacrifice personal freedom for the sake of a monogamous life. Parting in this case would be a more reasonable decision.

In couples who have lived together for many years and even decades, the reasons for betrayal can be so deep that even psychologists are not always able to correctly diagnose them. Arguments from the series “the devil has fooled you” or “what you can’t do when you’re drunk” cannot be taken seriously.

The main reasons that lead to cheating and deserve close attention are:

long-term dissatisfaction with sexual life;
lack of attention and interest;
loss of mutual respect, understanding and intimacy.

In any case, there is no universal recipe for how to make peace and improve life after betrayal. Whether such a relationship is necessary at all and whether you will trust each other in the future is up to you to decide. And before making a decision, it won’t hurt to stay at a distance from each other for some time. It sharpens your senses and clears your thoughts.

If she doesn't want to talk

If a girl doesn’t want to talk and is very offended, it won’t be possible to make peace quickly and easily. In this case, follow the advice of psychologists:

Do not rush to make amends immediately after a quarrel. Emotions are raging, a woman’s feelings are hurt, let her breathe out and cool down.
After a couple of days, gently remind yourself. Do this through a pleasant SMS with wishes of good morning, good night. Do not insist on a conversation or meeting.
Send the girl flowers, a nice gift using a courier.
Try to arrange a meeting on neutral territory. Her agreement is a good sign.
Don't start the conversation by talking about a past fight. Show your beloved that you missed her, try to get a hug or a kiss.
When she thaws a little, ask for forgiveness for the offense. When the relationship is tense to the limit, the girl is ready to take extreme measures and break up with the guy, the main thing is not to rush. And refusing dialogue and meeting to talk is a reason for panic. In this case, you need to act carefully.

Time cures

Instant apologies will still not be accepted, especially if you did something very bad in the girl's understanding
. When she learned the unpleasant truth. She will remain in a heated, excited state for a long time. And here it’s better not to touch it at all, give it time to cool down. Otherwise, you will have to apologize again and again, stumble upon the same mistakes and checks.

Predict the moment when her rage will be replaced by a simple cold attitude towards you. This is exactly the case when it is time to apologize.

If a girl doesn't want a relationship

The rules for gradually getting closer to a girl will be useful to you. Moreover, the stronger the quarrel, the longer the period of separation will be. While the relationship is calm, behave like this:

Don't pursue girls with offers to hang out and talk.
Do not spam information from messages and calls.
Consider the quarrel situation from all sides. Put yourself in the girl's shoes.
When your loved one cools down, this may even take several months, begin to gently remind yourself. First in correspondence, then by calls, “accidental meetings.”
Craft a speech for genuine conversation. It should be short, clear, without unnecessary snot. You can practice in front of a mirror.
Watch your appearance. Come to meetings neat and attractive. The girl must understand who she has lost.
Listen to your loved one’s claims, don’t argue.
After everyone has spoken, talk about something else, set your beloved up for the positive.
At the end of the date, find the right words that will help bring the relationship back. For example, confess your love, that you missed her very much, you often dream about her.

If the above points are completed, and the girl still remains inaccessible, avoids conversation, and does not agree to resume the relationship, do not despair. Determination and self-confidence are your main helpers. Try to reach her heart repeatedly if the feeling of love is alive in both.

What to do if you have already made mistakes

After all the mistakes made, it is very important to return your girlfriend to an emotionally neutral state.

After all, now she is most likely angry with you and is definitely not happy when she sees that a message has arrived from you. The quickest way to make things right is to send a short message apologizing and start following the rules of the “no-contact period.” You received a link to this rule, but I will briefly describe it here again.

Eliminate any communication with your ex-girlfriend for a while. Yes, you'll probably see some psychology gurus on YouTube who won't agree with this tactic of mine, but in my years of experience, it's a must-have for most couples going through a recent breakup. Of course there are exceptions, but for most people this is a must.

So, if you've been sending any of those desperate messages I shared earlier, send a short message like:

“Sorry, I’ve been a little out of sorts the last few days. There was so much more going on besides our breakup, and I just exploded emotionally. Good luck"

That's all!

With this message you will kill two birds with one stone:

firstly, you will show your ex that you forgive her;
secondly, you will make it clear that there were reasons why you behaved incorrectly.

Now comes the fun part. You need to get out of her sight for at least 30 days. It doesn't matter whether she answered or not. Asks you how you are doing or not. I'll repeat it again. This is the “no contact” period. So NO messages during this time. Now I will explain why this is so important.

She thinks that you are stalking her and that everything depends only on her decision. She can bring you back whenever she wants. And you need to make sure that these positions change, and she begins to pursue you.

Imagine the situation:

Your ex sends you a message after 15 days of this silence and then doesn't receive any response for several days. She will constantly check her phone, waiting for at least some answer. She will begin to worry and think why you are not answering. This is why the “no contact period” technique works! After all, he changes places with you , and now she herself will want to talk to you. Of course, this technique is just a small step towards getting your relationship back.

I am often asked:

how long should this period last?

It all depends on:

How bad did your relationship end?
How long has it been since you broke up?
How often did you communicate after the breakup?
Have you sent those “telephone terrorist” messages I mentioned earlier?

Ask yourself these questions and please be honest with yourself. If everything is very bad, then you will probably have to wait more than thirty days. Sometimes I advise my clients not to communicate with their ex for sixty days or more. It all depends on the situation. I can also help you analyze the situation a little right now. Take a short test that will help you think through many important issues for relationships, and will give you not just an assessment of the situation, but also small recommendations for action.

After betrayal

Establishing relationships after betrayal is a complex and lengthy process. It is difficult for girls to forgive betrayal and trust a guy again. Here's how to apologize for cheating:

Don't expect the girl to forgive you right away.
Don't make excuses, admit the fact of betrayal.
Give your partner time to cool down.
If a girl doesn’t want to talk, record a video message or write a letter to VK.
Prove that you feel shame and guilt for the offense.
If you get a chance to continue the relationship, behave perfectly.

Often couples experience the fact of betrayal in a difficult and long way; girls constantly remember their loved one’s misdeeds and torment themselves and the guy. In this case, you will need the help of a family psychologist.

What needs to be done to get it back

There is a simple action plan that will help you avoid being scammed. You are unlikely to get a girl back if she doesn't want it. But by following this plan, you will do everything right and get the best quality result.

Be alone. At least a couple of weeks. Bring your feelings and thoughts into relative order, get over the breakup, think about everything.
Give yourself some attention. Devote these two weeks or more to activities that bring you joy. Enjoy life and freedom, do what you love, remember how bachelors live and why this lifestyle is also good.
Think about the reasons for the breakup. Where there was incompatibility, where patience ran out, where there was no way out. If we are talking about a girl who left you, think about what finally brought her down.
Contact her if after the first three points the desire to return everything to normal has not disappeared. Show a positive and light attitude when calling or texting, and talk about serious things when you meet.
Keep your face up when meeting. Act like you're going out for coffee with a friend—even if it's hard. Don't create drama. Show her the guy she fell in love with, not the guy she broke up with.
Continue seeing each other if you haven’t changed your mind even after the meeting. Follow your feelings - do you really need to return everything, or is it an obsession with an idea, or a hunter's instinct.
Lay out all the cards after a few irregular meetings. Tell them that you went through a breakup, came to conclusions, changed and still want to be together. Convince that you are working on yourself, that you have heard her words and are ready to change.
Having received consent, start working on the relationship to avoid previous mistakes and not make new ones. Talk about what is happening, gently criticize each other, and be patient.

If you hit

On forums and chats for men, the question is often discussed: “How can you quickly make peace with a girl if you hit her during a quarrel?” Of course, rudeness and aggression from the stronger sex are unacceptable. Assault hits a woman’s vanity hard, and it’s very difficult to forgive.

If you have made this fatal mistake, then bright manifestations of tenderness, care, affection, and demonstrations of love will help you make amends. But you definitely won’t be able to regain trust right away, so be patient.

After the breakup

Making peace with a girl after a breakup is very difficult. The main condition will be the reciprocity of the partner’s feelings, as well as the absence of strong grievances and betrayal in the couple. The main way to solve the problem and reunite again is to have an open conversation. Organize your conversation like this:

Find out how much distance has arisen between you as a result of separation.
Make sure that the feelings have not passed, the relationship is still needed.
Determine what was the reason for the separation. Identify and talk through all the grievances and disappointments so that there are no more disagreements in the relationship due to misunderstandings.
Establish contact with the girl, take her hand, hug her.
Be sincere, falsehood and flattery will be your enemies during a heart-to-heart conversation.
Promise that the new stage of the relationship will be better than the previous one.
Be grateful to the girl for the second chance. It is given to you so that you can restore trust and show your best side.

When the danger of a final break has passed, fasten the bond with your partner. Find a common hobby, visit a family psychologist, spend more time together, talk about small problems at once. The more points of contact you find, the stronger your love and marriage will be.

Step-by-step instructions for everyone

To improve relationships after a quarrel, you need to build the right line of behavior. If you immediately behave in the wrong way, you can completely ruin everything. Psychologists advise taking several steps towards reconciliation.

Step 1: Don't run away

Even after a serious quarrel, do not run away from a person, even though at that moment you may literally hate him. The maximum that is allowed is to go into another room. Otherwise, leaving may be regarded as a point in the relationship.

Step 2. Calm down after an argument

There are a lot of techniques on how to calm down. For example, drink water or do some simple breathing exercises. Or open the window and take a deep breath of fresh air.

Step 3: Ask for forgiveness

Apologize for being at fault, for shouting, for misunderstanding your opponent, for behaving inappropriately, for offending. There is always something to apologize for. You just need to do it sincerely. And then, regardless of the answer, smile.

Step 4: Distance yourself

Only after this will it be appropriate to leave if you do not live together (but after explaining in advance that you really need it), or to do things around the house (by offering to help your opponent). Do not return to the topic of the quarrel. Take a pause from several hours to 3 days to calm down and objectively assess the situation.

Step 5: Restore good relationships

At this stage, it’s time to appease the person with whom the quarrel occurred, especially if you are to blame. Methods of reconciliation will be discussed below.

Step 6: Solve the problem thoroughly

After reconciliation, have an open but calm conversation and discuss the cornerstone that caused the quarrel. Try to find a compromise, make concessions. The voice should be soft, calm the interlocutor, think through your arguments in advance so as not to accidentally offend him. And most importantly, control yourself. If you feel that the conflict is flaring up again, stop the discussion and pause again.

Many people skip the last point, afraid to return to a sore subject, lest a new scandal break out. This mistake then backfires: the problem, along with the remaining resentment, does not disappear, but grows like a snowball. And next time she may destroy the relationship. Therefore, promptly resolve all difficulties that cause conflict situations with loved ones.

On topic: Quarrels in relationships

If she's to blame

The opinion that girls are always right and it’s better not to argue with your significant other, it will backfire on the guy, is incorrect. It is for this reason that women often do not admit their mistakes, they get used to the fact that the man himself will come to her and ask for forgiveness, even without guilt. This position entails the following difficulties in relationships:

The girl does not adequately evaluate her behavior, so she continues to behave “badly” without thinking about her partner’s feelings.
A man with a self-centered woman feels uncomfortable, and his self-esteem gradually decreases.
Permissiveness leads to fatal actions that provoke final separation.

To prevent the listed difficulties from arising in your couple, teach your beloved to be aware of mistakes. You can improve your relationship with a girl in such a situation in this way:

Don't rush to apologize.
In a couple of days, when she realizes that you are offended, express your complaints clearly and clearly.
Talk through the situation in a calm environment.
Find a reason to apologize yourself, for a minor offense, a word spoken in a quarrel. This will make it easier for the girl to admit her guilt.
If she continues to stick to her line and doesn’t want to apologize or listen, take a break for 3-4 days. This time will be enough for the girl to think about her actions. After the break, we can have another serious conversation.

What you definitely can’t do in such a situation is humiliate yourself. If a girl does not admit her mistakes and does not want to do anything to save the relationship, think about whether you need such one-sided love.

How to behave and what to avoid

Under any circumstances, a man must remain a man. This truth, although truism, is still relevant. Don’t follow the lead and don’t allow yourself to be manipulated under the pretext of guilt.

Before you take action, take a break. Immediately after a quarrel, both partners are usually in an overexcited state and are unable to think sensibly. “Cool down” for a couple of days, and at the same time reflect on your relationship in order to prepare for a constructive dialogue.

While this pause lasts, try to refrain from some irrational actions.

Don’t “loom” in your girlfriend’s field of vision, don’t follow her yourself or through mutual friends, don’t impose yourself through calls or messages. If she doesn’t call you herself, leave her alone for a while, she also needs to think about the current situation.
Don't try to make someone jealous by flirting with other girls. This way you will not increase your “value”, but will only increase anger and irritation towards you.
Don't gossip behind her back, don't turn mutual friends against her, don't let strangers into your relationship.
Don't try to bribe her with expensive gifts. This will not affect the speed of reconciliation, and in some circumstances may not be appropriate at all.

By SMS

A personal meeting after a quarrel is not always the best method for restoring relationships if the woman is angry and does not want to talk to the offender. In this situation, telephones and SMS come to the aid of men. The following messages will help you make peace with a girl after a breakup, betrayal, or major scandal:

Romantic. These are sweet letters about what you miss, love, and dream of meeting.

Let mountain meet mountain, let all the seas merge into one, then we will part with you, but now you are only mine and I will not let you go anywhere.

Beautiful. Be sure to contain compliments and declarations of love.

What a pity that I can’t touch you with my hand, my unshaven cheek. I love you so much.

Funny. They should make the girl smile and lift her spirits.

And I am luckier than anyone in this world: every morning two suns shine for me - one in the sky, the second is you.

Work for results

You had a fight with a girl and want to fix everything. But what exactly are you hoping for in this fight? Get more confirmation of your emotions? Or maybe less misunderstandings when you make plans?

Whatever it is, think of a mutually beneficial goal you can achieve to avoid future conflict.

"Instead of burying your own needs or your partner's needs, trying to win or come out on top, you need to think about working together to find an outcome that satisfies both of you," Parker says.

There is no need to try your best to achieve what you want or unquestioningly agree with your friend’s position; try together to find a compromise that you both agree with.

In contact with

You should only make attempts to make peace with a girl online if she wants to forgive her offender. You need to find words that will help you forget about the scandal and remind you of the good. Express your feelings without hiding, give your loved one virtual gifts, like photos and write comments on them. Try using humor when reconciling.

If you want to be original, master Photoshop and make a collage of their photos together with captions. Post your finished picture for discussion among friends. Let them write what a beautiful couple you are. The opinions of others will definitely affect the girl’s mood and disposition.

After what time should you put up?

To think that the saying “Strike while the iron is hot” would work here! - a serious misconception. It is worth understanding that you both need time to reassess values and answer pressing questions. Start the relationship from scratch, while changing your handwriting.

The feeling of love and affection should not go out completely; always keep the fire burning within you. Time changes, but if feelings remain, you will be destined to get along with a loved one.

Rapprochement after a conflict should be gradual, careful and slow; it is better not to rush the course of events and wait for the most suitable opportunity. You cannot act aggressively: it is impossible to achieve reconciliation by force.

It will be useful to look at the situation “from the girl’s side”, understanding what exactly she wants to get. Actually, actions need to be taken based on what exactly happened between you. Everyday problems are one thing, but large-scale conflicts are completely different.

According to zodiac signs

You need to choose ways to reconcile with a girl after a quarrel taking into account her character. Characteristics of the zodiac sign by date of birth will help you predict how she will react to gifts and apologies.

Zodiac sign	How to make peace with a girl
Aries	Aries girls do not expect initiative from a guy if there is a major or minor quarrel. They will come first for investigations, and this makes life much easier for the guys. But you will have to give a bouquet of flowers, make a compliment and arrange a date.
Taurus	Taurus girls have an extremely difficult time with discord in relationships with guys and find it difficult to reach reconciliation. The guilty boy or husband will have to reassure his beloved of the sincerity of his feelings, back up his words with gifts and actions.
Twins	This is a sociable and open to conversation sign. But it is extremely difficult for Gemini girls to be the first to reconcile, so after a quarrel they expect action from the guys. Don't hesitate and quickly take the initiative into your own hands. After fasting, switch your loved one’s attention to something extraneous, it could be a theater, a movie, or going to a club.
Cancer	These are vulnerable women who are having a hard time experiencing a breakup or quarrel. They need to be given time to think and lick their wounds. One thing is for sure, getting a second chance with crayfish is hard.
a lion	After an argument, you will have to be creative and be as generous as possible. Buy a nice gift for the angry lioness and plan a mind-blowing date; empty promises will not be enough. But don’t be too happy if she accepts all advances favorably. Now your beloved will watch every step of her erring husband.
Virgo	Virgo women are distrustful, vulnerable, and have a hard time withstanding criticism, so they hold grudges for a long time. It is difficult to make peace with them, so it is better not to bring the situation to a critical point.
Scales	They are never the first to reconcile; they expect initiatives from guys, regardless of guilt. But they are very sensitive to apologies; they must be sincere and long.
Scorpion	Scorpios love gifts and going to restaurants. Come up with an original present and invite her on a date. Apologize loudly, for everyone to hear, you can even propose marriage.
Sagittarius	Sagittarians are helped to relax by a relaxed atmosphere, pleasant company, or a picnic in nature. Arrange a one-on-one meeting outside the city, drink a glass of wine, and the Sagittarius girl will be ready for the most serious conversation.
Capricorn	Intuition helps to establish relationships with Capricorns. Do not show jealousy or distrust of them, fulfill all your promises and be submissive to the extreme, then the offended wife will quickly cool down.
Aquarius	Aquarius girls behave loyally towards male misdeeds, but their patience runs out. After a quarrel, you will have to demonstrate love and have long, intimate conversations about a future together. But don’t even think about offering sex or even kisses to an offended Aquarius woman, this will offend them even more.
Fish	Pisces girls seem calm only at first glance. If a guy offends, they will quickly decide to break up and will not regret it. It is extremely difficult to beg forgiveness from fish. Try to find an approach to a touchy person in different ways: devotion in the eyes, gifts, serenades. The main thing is to show that you are submissive and can be relied upon in the future. But hurry up, otherwise you will quickly become an ex, since Pisces are popular with men.

The truth about lapping

In most cases, all this “friction” between a guy and a girl is the very test that you simply must pass.
The girl will try to bend you, see how you react to this or that action, and draw certain conclusions. And only in 10% of cases do all these actions require a real apology from you or her. Let's look at a simple example. Girls love to put a limit on something that you already have a right to. She may be offended that you simply didn't buy her a gift on one of your dates. Basically, it's your right to buy her anything or not, and she is well aware of this. And you also realize this and try to defend your interests. You are objectively right.

And now you see how upset the girl is. There is now a completely different goal in your head - to cheer her up right there. From the point of view of a man’s logic as simple as two rubles, this is correct. You lift her spirits and do a good job. And everyone does it in books and movies, so why can’t you? You perceive this as the norm.

In fact, when you manage to cheer her up, she will be friendly with you, the same as she was, nothing will change. Only the attitude towards you in the subconscious will change. You will be a much weaker male, since you retreated from your principles, caved in to her, showed that you depend on her. Be careful, my friend. A few more such antics, and you will simply turn into a walking bag of money, to whom the girl will not feel any sexual attraction.

Male logic immediately looks for who is right and who is wrong, but this does not play a role here at all. It is important to play on emotions correctly. Remember that you are not obliged to evoke exclusively positive emotions in a girl, you are not a clown

. There must be a whole palette of emotions, and negative ones also occur. Don't become weak in her eyes.

Psychologist's advice

Quarrels and scandals in psychology are not considered something unacceptable. On the contrary, in the process of a heated conversation, people are able to find the truth, even through tears, express claims against each other and come to a compromise. But after a quarrel, the time comes for reconciliation, and it should also be approached wisely. In this case, psychologists have prepared some tips for us:

Don't be humiliated. You need to beg for forgiveness only if there are feelings in the couple. Without love, it will never be possible to achieve mutual understanding.
Don't stalk your loved one. Don’t bombard her phone with messages, don’t wait after work or near her house. Obsession irritates girls and scares them. This behavior will only make the situation worse.
Don't gossip about your ex. Rumors will definitely reach the girl, and you will regret what you did.
Don't try to buy forgiveness. Gifts should come as an appendix to the apology, after the girl relaxes a little. And expecting forgiveness for giving a ring is an insult to your beloved.

Reconciliation after a quarrel, and the scandals and misunderstandings themselves are only small parts of the multifaceted relationships between men and women. But these troubles can lead to couples breaking up and people losing each other forever. Therefore, try not to quarrel, treat the feelings and views of your other half carefully and tolerantly. Then there will be less discord in your family.