Female pickup - tips and tricks to conquer any man

It just so happens that the popular word “pickup” is first identified with the male art of seducing women. This “biased attitude” existed, at least until recently. Today, women are increasingly taking up the baton in this simple matter, developing their own ways of easily seducing men and developing and improving the technique of female “pickup”.

Long gone are the days when, seeing a handsome man, women waited for him to decide to come up and speak. Now representatives of the fair sex are increasingly taking this initiative into their own hands without hesitation.

Female pickup: how to make a man fall in love with you

1.Women's pickup: goals set
2.Female pickup: techniques and techniques of seduction 2.1.Woman’s view
2.2.Appearance
2.3.Gestures
2.4. Start of communication

3.A car will help make a man fall in love with you

3.1.Where and how to look?

4.Conclusion

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Pros of a pickup truck

Are you charming, smart, modest and guys don’t give you a pass? Congratulations! My friends are probably going crazy with envy. But is there a reason? Analyze the experience of your relationships. Who was the initiator? Particularly persistent and daring alpha males? This is not the kind of thing you dream about on sleepless nights. Leave the right to choose for yourself! Among the undoubted advantages of a pickup truck:

She is her own boss. Light and non-binding flirting lasts exactly as long as you deem necessary. Didn't you walk enough, didn't play enough? Don't deny yourself anything! I wanted to go down the aisle and do some magic at the stove - please. Tell your conquered chosen one that the concept has changed and you prefer a prenuptial agreement to sex without obligations. He will be sincerely happy about such long-awaited news.
There is something to be proud of. Dressing up and putting on a daily parade for your friends or older boss is pointless. Apart from black envy, you won’t get any other response. Look at yourself in the mirror! Hiding such beauty within four walls is a crime. Get out into the world immediately! Collect compliments and keep track of broken men's hearts. Successful flirting increases self-esteem and forces you to set the bar high in order to retain the title of fatal beauty.

The ideal female pick-up artist is the one who...

Loves and respects himself.
Not aggressive, but proactive. Independent.
Relaxed and free in relationships.
He doesn’t carry around a suitcase of complexes.
Understands a man and accepts him for who he is.
Knows how to give pleasure.

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Any woman is already a natural pick-up artist. In fact, she does not need to learn the science of seduction at all, because nature has already given her all the tools for this. All that remains is to use them competently and wisely. And the main thing is to understand what exactly are you waiting for? Imagine that all the men are paying attention to you, salivating and dreaming of at least holding your hand. Are you sure you need this? Or do you still dream of meeting your future, one and only man?

When turning to trainings and plunging into the science of seduction, be sure to realize that the level of male attention to you will increase. And decide for yourself whether you want it or not.

Pickup Basics for Women

How to dare to flirt if you are afraid of being rejected? With such a mood, it is worth postponing the attempt to attack the opposite sex until better times. The first rule of pickup for women: prepare properly before you go all in. Find the zest in yourself and learn to demonstrate it to the handsome men around you, choose the right words to make acquaintances, practice NLP techniques.

Developing your strengths

Remember on what occasion do male colleagues or friends usually give you generous compliments? A wasp waist, a velvety voice, a stylish image or a sparkling sense of humor and a broad outlook? Conventionally, all potential bounty hunters can be divided into two types: beauties and smart women. For the former, “pumping to the fullest” means intensive training in the gym, frequent visits to fashion boutiques and beauty salons. For the latter, personal growth trainings, advanced training courses and reading reference literature are provided.

Opponents

So where to start the dialogue? We present a selection of effectively working openers - initial lines of conversation with the future victim of your spell:

Sincere compliments: “I’ve never met such handsome men before. I can’t pass by without making an acquaintance”; “You have an amazing perfume: you inhale and feel in seventh heaven. Let me be close to you to prolong the pleasure.”
Requests for help : “Can you help a natural blonde start a car?”, “Can you walk me home? I’ve never returned so late alone before.”
Valuable information. “It looks like this is a fan of spectacular football. I know one sports bar where you can cheer with your heart for the right team in a good campaign”; “Aren't you interested in the best bird's eye view of the city? I’m ready to take you to the observation deck and become a personal guide to an unforgettable experience.”
Apologies. “I’m sorry I accidentally offended you. I'm so awkward. Are you okay?"; “I accidentally stepped on your foot. What can I do to make amends?”

NLP

Are you used to setting ambitious goals for yourself? Neuro-linguistic programming life hacks will help you achieve the favor of the best representatives of the stronger half of humanity. If innate modesty and strict home upbringing prevent you from openly hanging yourself on the neck of a muscular stranger, then the method of psychological “processing” of the male consciousness will definitely be suitable. He will run after you like silk! Among the most popular pickup techniques for women:

"Pendulum". Today you are behaving like a young lady head over heels in love with a gentleman. You start conversations on frank topics, look intently into the eyes, dangerously approaching the victim of your radiant smile. But tomorrow the partner, with bated breath, observes obvious signs of sudden cooling. You don’t look in his direction, keep your distance, remain silent. You unexpectedly say goodbye in the middle of a date, citing incomprehensible urgent matters. Nothing warms up guys more than the need to catch up and keep at all costs the girl they mentally called theirs.
"Hidden manipulation." A woman's initiative is usually not welcomed by men. Any attempt to control a partner will definitely be met with hostility. Watch your language: any guide to action can be formulated in the form of a veiled request. "Give me a hug!" – no alpha male will obey a general in a skirt. “How I wish someone would come up and put an arm around my shoulders” sounds to men’s ears like a plea for help. What knight would deny a fragile and tender girl the fulfillment of her cherished dream?

Non-verbal communication

Don't get hung up on what exactly you say to a man. He loves not with his ears, and this feature should be taken into account in order to “blurt out” his true intentions at the right moment with an eloquent pose of his hands or feet. Let your body show your partner all the shades of passion that you are capable of during close contact:

Head. Tilt it slightly to one side to allow your gentleman to admire the beautiful line of your neck and the wave of flowing hair.
Lips. Half-opened, calling for a kiss... Your chances of success are obvious if the interlocutor does not take his eyes off them.
Hands. Make sure your palms are open. Touching trustfulness looks very feminine and inspires the interlocutor with the right thoughts about the possibility of moving to the stage of closer communication.
Legs. Socks spread to the sides will serve as a sufficient hint to the gentleman that the way is clear. The time has come to allow yourself something more than just admiring from a distance the bend of your knees in thin transparent stockings.

"Mirroring"

“Be on the same wavelength with him” - this is one of the basic rules of a female pickup line on how to make an interesting man fall in love with you. Imitate your interlocutor’s behavior to speed up the rapprochement process:

do not raise your voice if your partner is used to speaking quietly;
don’t look away when a man tries to make eye contact with you;
talk to him in the same language, avoiding lyrical digressions on narrow professional topics that the object of attention is clearly uninteresting.

How to kiss a guy

A brave and confident pick-up artist can take the initiative during the first kiss. To do this, it is better to choose a romantic setting and a suitable moment when both partners are in a good mood and no one can interfere. On the eve of a date, it is not recommended to eat foods with a strong unpleasant odor, such as onions and garlic. And before a date, brush your teeth and chew mint lozenges.

If a guy hugs you, then kissing him will not be difficult. To do this, turn your head towards him, look into his eyes and open your lips slightly. The man will understand everything and will definitely kiss you. It is quite natural to kiss a guy when meeting or saying goodbye.

Internet pickup (message examples)

Some shy and indecisive young ladies have difficulty communicating with the opposite sex. The fear of appearing funny (being stupid or blushing with excitement) forces you to postpone contact with the guy you like for an indefinite period. Virtual communication can be a good pickup lesson for such girls. Looking at the profiles of men bored alone on a dating site will inspire you to engage in bold, non-committal flirting. Advice for aspiring seductresses:

Cast a shadow of mystery over yourself: “A beautiful stranger dreams of intimacy with you. All details in a personal meeting”, “I feel an intense attraction to you, despite the distance. Who knows, maybe I am your destiny?”, “I often dream about the man of my dreams. You look suspiciously like him. What if the dream really came true?”
Talk about your suddenly flared passion: “Broken my heart. Would you provide first aid to someone who has suffered from your charisma?”, “I saw your photo and lit up. A strong desire to touch you, to feel the embrace of strong arms.”
Promise enchanting sensations: “I’m ready to open the doors to another dimension for you. I’ll teach you bad things quickly and in a fiery way! Before meeting me, you definitely never experienced anything like this”, “Do you miss the thrill? I'll help you catch up. It will be hot!".

The line between seduction and obsession

If a man's initiative is always received with a bang and the more a man makes attempts to conquer the lady of his heart, the better, with a woman's initiative the situation is not so rosy. Nobody likes obsessive girls, and a man may perceive your initiative as being too sticky.

It is worth showing signs of attention to a man carefully, otherwise he will get off the hook and go in search of a less proactive person. Since by nature men should conquer women, and not vice versa, women should be more careful in showing their sympathy. For example, when leaving a club, you shouldn’t give the guy you like a note with your phone number.

Even if he calls, your initiative will be inevitable, because the guy already understood from one gesture how much you wanted to get to know him. It’s better to direct all your efforts so that he himself wants to beg you for the treasured numbers.

Don't think that you can't master the science of seduction! It is subject to all women who really want to arrange their personal life with a good man and are ready to make efforts to do this, and not just live in anticipation of a miracle.

Cons of a pickup truck

Innocent game or dangerous activity? It's up to you. We still consider it necessary to warn about the main risks:

The creation of a family nest is postponed indefinitely. Why bind yourself with unnecessary obligations and hang out at the stove all day long if you’re already happy with everything? Prolonged flirting and an active search for an ideal companion are dangerous because a lady who is too interested in a relationship forgets to look at her biological clock. You need to have children, arrange a home and plant a garden on time, while you still have the strength to do so.
Relationships with female friends and colleagues are hopelessly damaged. Unable to compete with an experienced predator, the surrounding ladies will begin to avoid your company. You don't give them a chance to get male attention. This cannot be forgiven.
Some men prefer to keep a safe distance from you. The fear of falling into the web of flirtation at the cost of their own freedom or adultery forces them to cowardly flee. The notoriety of an accessible, “concerned” lady will relentlessly haunt those who “overdo it” with unbridled flirting.

How to hint to a guy about sex

When the candy-bouquet stage in a relationship has already passed, and you are ready for a close relationship, then you can hint to a man about this with gestures, glances, and facial expressions:

Play with a strand of hair while looking the guy in the eyes. If your hair is short, stroke your earlobe.
Wear dresses with deep necklines that reveal your knees or shoulders.
If you are sitting at a table in a cafe, you can play with the shoe. A man will appreciate the beauty of your legs and think about continuing.
Use musky amber scents or perfumes with pheromones. They arouse sexual interest.
While kissing, stroke the man's back, shoulders, and hair. He will understand that you also feel desire, just like him.

You can also simply whisper in the man’s ear that you are not against continuing.