Are you a girl with a home upbringing, who was taught by her parents to be polite with adults and modest with guys, or, on the contrary, a street leader, whom even adult local authorities are afraid of?
The latter is, of course, a joke, but if you are a girl, then no matter what your character, temperament and upbringing are, your soul is sensitive and vulnerable. How does this manifest itself?
You love. And all the rules by which you lived before suddenly collapsed or showed their complete failure. Do you blush in his presence, don’t know how to behave, what questions to ask a guy so that he doesn’t get bored with you? Let's deal with this problem together.
Can any topics be discussed?
At the very beginning of the conversation, we said that the guy could be asked questions on any topic from the list of decent ones. And what is indecent, you will understand for yourself when you think about what question you would absolutely not want to answer. Each person has his own sore subject, try not to bring up those layers that he does not want to stir up. If you are constantly met with his excessive secrecy, perhaps he never became yours.
Try to avoid topics that are unpleasant to him
Tricky
Well-formulated trick questions are necessary in correspondence with young boys and adult men. With their help, the girl creates a provocative situation, forces the interlocutor to reveal his real thoughts and express his point of view on controversial life issues.
Take several phrase options from the list and send them to your chosen one:
- Is it true that weak men are afraid of strong women? Or are you not afraid?
- How do you feel about cheating in marriage?
- Do you often deceive others?
- If you know that you will not be punished, what dirty trick would you like to commit?
- Can you trust your wife with the family budget?
- For the sake of your beloved, will you give up friends, work, hobbies?
- If your ex calls and asks you to reconnect, what will you do?
- Who should apologize first after a quarrel: a guy or a girl?
- Will you allow your beloved girl to view your SMS, calls, read messages from friends on VK?
- How do you feel about emancipation?
Tricky questions from a pen pal are often not to the liking of the interlocutor. The fact is that, according to psychology, men become more constrained if they are asked about personal matters and are put in an uncomfortable, ambiguous position. To move on to this series of questions, you need to gain their trust.
On a note! If a guy takes your relationship seriously, he will not answer tricky questions in a hurry, he will take pauses and think through the message.
Topics for conversation
If you are a lively, active girl who constantly refreshes her knowledge, you will always have questions for a guy on any topic - with a trick or a hint, provocative or funny. Liveliness and flexibility of mind are developed over the years, and questions for conversation with a guy can arise spontaneously - from hearing the news, after watching a movie or reading a book. Of course, the guy is not a girlfriend, but you shouldn’t tremble at the thought of what questions you can ask him.
If he likes you for who you are - spontaneous, this is the best thing that can happen in your life.
A few words to think about:
When you use these questions to get to know a guy, you are trying to establish a connection with him.
Conversations are not meant to impress people. Instead, they create a bridge where the two of you can meet halfway and move beyond formal communication.
Remember that the deeper the connection, the stronger your relationship with that person.
Now it's time to ask yourself how well you really know the person and evaluate your relationship with them. We hope you enjoyed these questions to get to know a guy better.
Correspondence
When communication begins on a social network, a girl seems to be deprived of her main weapon - feminine charm. On the Internet, she is judged only by what and how she writes and what photos she posts. Therefore, you need to write correctly, briefly and clearly.
Questions for communication on VKontakte
To start dating, you can ask a guy any question on the social network VKontakte, whichever one comes to mind first. Women's intuition can be very accurate, so don't stress out about what questions you have. Just look at his page, photos, you can look through the pages of your friends (without fanaticism, just for reference) - and the first list of questions will probably appear on its own.
What to write
It’s good when the guy himself offered you acquaintance and friendship on VK. But if you initiate this, there will be continuous doubts about what questions to ask a guy to interest him. Don’t invent anything, write it as it is - I’ll be glad to see you among my friends, do you mind? Or something like that, and then time will tell.
Interesting questions for a guy
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1.If you could get into my dreams today, what would you do?
2. What do you think is my favorite piece of clothing?
3. Which part of my body do you like best?
4. Where would you like to be now?
5. How do you feel about me?
6. How would you behave if you were shy and I was flirting?
7. What do you prefer to sleep in?
8. What do you find irresistible about me?
9. What is your idea of a perfect date?
10. If we were stranded on a desert island, what three things would you take with you?
11. How would you make me fall in love with you?
12. If you liked a girl, how would you like her to seduce you?
13. How do you let a girl know that you like her?
14. Which touch best conveys “I love you!”
15. Where is your favorite place to spend your weekend? Am I included in your plans?
16. Would you prefer a swimming pool or a jacuzzi?
17. What would you do if I kissed you?
18. Would you like a cute or sexy photo of me?
19. If I showed a little nudity on a date, would you like it or be turned off by it?
20. What is your favorite type of kiss?
21. What kind of underwear do you like on a girl?
22. If you saw me naked, on what part of the body would your gaze linger?
23. Would you rather see me in my underwear or completely naked?
24. What is your favorite thing to do with me?
25. Would you rather hug me for 5 seconds or kiss me for 1 second?
26. What do my lips taste like?
27. How would you react if I opened the door for you while completely naked?
28. Name a few nice things that you would like me to do for you?
29. Tell me an embarrassing story that happened to you.
30. What is the biggest misconception about you?
31. What interesting tricks do you use on girls?
32. Tell us about your most secret weakness?
33. If you had x-ray glasses, what part of the body would you check first?
34. If a genie gave you one wish, what would you wish for?
How to interest a man? Psychological techniques for communication
The first practical technique is admiration for a man
Men are attracted to girls who are truly interested in them. If you find him attractive and cool, he will be attracted to it. But here it is important not to confuse two concepts: considering a man cool and being emotionally dependent on him are two different things. Many girls are afraid to express their sympathy for a man, fearing that he will lose interest. So, don’t worry, this won’t happen.
Representatives of the stronger sex only lose interest when they feel that the girl is emotionally dependent on them. When you are dependent, you don't show genuine admiration. Because any expression of sympathy is made with an attempt to please, and this is repulsive. You don’t need to try to please or impress a person, just sincerely admire him, remaining a self-sufficient girl (without losing your head), and he will feel it.
Tip #2 - Love yourself
Men love girls who love themselves. And the more you love yourself, the more you will be admired.
If you love yourself, then you automatically begin to communicate correctly with a man. You will no longer allow your interlocutor to cross the boundaries of your comfort zone, and he will respect you. Plus, a person feels very well how you feel about yourself. And when a man sees that you are enjoying yourself, his brain automatically starts looking for reasons why you are cool. And he will definitely find (he who seeks will always find).
Tip #3 - Positivity
When communicating with a man, be positive. There are a lot of people in life who constantly complain about life and are in a negative mood. They immediately push away. But if a person is positive, he immediately stands out from the gray mass and is more pleasant to communicate with. Men are crazy about such girls. Never complain to him about his life. To the question; "How are you?" or “How are you?”, always answer excellent or everything is great.
Of course, I think there are men who are attracted to women with pessimistic thinking, but such representatives of the stronger sex can hardly be called positive and successful.
Tip #4 - Find something in common between you
People like those who share their point of view. If you pay attention to those things in which you have different points of view, then you will not have the necessary connection with your man. You need to find something in common. For example, you may like the same cuisine or music. You may like the same countries or have the same opinion on an issue. These are the things that you should focus on. And try to avoid topics in which you may have disagreements.
Tip #5 - Experience intense emotions together
Emotions are the foundation of great communication and falling in love.
In order for a man to remember you for a long time, experience some bright events together that will remain in his memory. For example, it could be a roller coaster or going to any extreme attraction.
If a man experiences a strong range of emotions next to you, then he remembers these moments well and for a long time. And these memories will be associated with you, because... it was you who were with him at that moment.
Life story: I am actively studying the topic of seduction, going on dates, talking to girls. At some point I became very bored. Because everything has become familiar and monotonous, and all people are the same as a carbon copy.
And then one girl writes to me and invites me to the climbing wall. It was her hobby, and she was really into it. The height of the walls that had to be climbed was unrealistic. In order to impress her, I managed to climb to the very top, but the fear inside me said that I might crash if the insurance didn’t work. The adrenaline was just going through the roof.
In the end, everything went well and I will remember this day forever. I remember this girl more than all the others, only due to the extreme and unusual (for me) time we spent.
Tip: There is no need to go on a date to a cafe or restaurant. Conversations over a cup of coffee will be boring, and the date will most likely be rotten. Better do something together (it is joint actions that unite people). Going on a quest, cool attractions, camping together, or surviving in the wild forest with a minimum supply of food, this is what will make your date cool and your relationship more trusting.
About relationships and love
Men don’t really like to answer questions about relationships. But girls, on the contrary, love to ask about it.
- Would you go with your beloved to another city or country if she needs it?
- Can you confess your love in public?
- Can lovers have secrets from each other?
- How long should you date before marriage?
- What is more important: sex or supporting each other in times of need?
- An ideal relationship is... Name three key words for the definition.
- Is a relationship without commitment cool?
- Where do you want to go on your honeymoon with your future wife?
- Which song suits me best? You? Our couple?
- Do opposites attract or repel?
