Are you bored?
Nope
She is a very charming woman and is well versed in the psychology of love.
In general, I often find it funny when they don’t distinguish between male and female handwriting. Well, you can see it right away.
Don't you feel that a man is answering you?
Uh-huh, uh-huh. They decided to starve the boy out.
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And I would answer something like that they miss not the person, but the relationship
You are not in a relationship, and the answer clearly hints that Vasya needs to move on! When you arrive, we’ll see if there’s ANYONE to miss
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“who knows what I want.)) you’re right, damn it”
Exactly
I would advise you to mentally formulate your desires, then your actions, and then the consequences.
Simply put, use your head. If you have any questions, the forum will help.
Mohammed Ali _ wrote: >> “
I would advise you to mentally formulate your desires,
Aha. Then you won't need the help of the forum.
Well, you read the books! What kind of treatise did you write in response?!
You should have answered twice as short, i.e. in a word. Well, what words can you come up with here? They would write “yes”, “no”, “of course”. In fact, I would generally limit myself to an emoticon. To such a strange message from a distant person.
If he is at least a little interested, he will 100% find on the Internet what it means (if he doesn’t know). And then let him think about what to write in response and generally what it was, your interest or just a friendly attitude. It’s just that if he’s not interested, he’ll fall off, then that’s where he belongs.
In general, it is strange that a stranger asks such questions. In the same situation with a more or less close person, you can limit yourself to a normal and well-known smiley “
". This is generally a universal smiley. It seems to have answered something and something pleasant, but it seems to have nothing of substance. Moreover, it is better to avoid virtual communication between close people altogether.
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How to understand that he is truly bored
If a guy is truly bored, he really expresses his desires. Strong gentlemen see no point in deceiving themselves, no matter what the situation is at the moment.
There are main signs of melancholy:
- Calls often;
- Writes messages daily;
- Always answers your calls;
- Shows interest when communicating;
- Looking for meetings;
- Caring, worried, worried.
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Such emotions can truly be shown only by those gentlemen who have positive feelings for young ladies and are looking for a meeting. If a man says that he is very bored, he immediately changes his behavior, begins to show more attention, and tries to fill the void of presence with virtual communication. It is not difficult to recognize such a person; it is enough to observe his actions and control his emotions.
How to respond to “I miss you” to a girl?
I write mainly for guys, and I will consider this problem from this angle. Although girls also often ask this question. However, men are indeed more closed in relationships than girls
. Therefore, you can usually hear this from an inexperienced young man - girls here more often take the initiative.
In the first case, everything is fine in your relationship. And therefore, if she is really dear to you, then you can safely answer that yes, of course, you missed her too. However, you shouldn’t pour out all your feelings and experiences in endless SMS messages.
If you're really lonely, the best thing to do is just call and chat a little about nothing. A girl will never be the first to write such words to you if she is indifferent to you. Moreover, most likely she needs you. But in order to maintain the union, you must show who is in charge in your relationship. And usually this is the one who needs a little, but less. And this is why you will be concise in your answers, you will not rush to respond to every SMS.
And further. You should not let her end the conversation or correspondence first; you should always do this. And not just because you want to, or because it’s some kind of game. Like the last phrase should always be yours. In a relationship there is always a leader and a follower, and it is correct when the leader is still a man. And she, too, somewhere deep down, understands this, although sometimes she rages openly.
Case number two. You decided to break up for a while to test your relationship or because you were already a little tired of each other. Although the latter option, of course, is more suitable for adults and serious people. If we are dealing with inexperienced youth, then such a separation usually occurs after the first serious quarrel. This means that the answer to the question “Are you bored” can be extremely important.
But first you must decide for yourself whether you really need it.
During a break in your relationship, it would be good to have some quality time. No, you don't have to cheat on her at all if you're still officially together. But having fun with friends, especially in the company of other young people, will help you refresh your perception of reality, which until this moment was focused exclusively on it. Remember that the world did not end with her.
So, she wrote to you first that she misses you, what should you answer? If you understand that she still means something to you, then you must pull the balance of power towards yourself even more. Don't bother answering her. You may be busy with various important things. Therefore, show her that she is not the center of the Universe at all. Answer in a couple of hours, but more succinctly - no snot.
You can generally joke a little: “Are you really bored?” Such a Jewish question to a question that, if the outcome is favorable, should bring her into conversation. And then everything according to the first scenario, do not forget to remind her who is boss in the house - not rudely, no. But persistently and firmly show that you need her, but you know your worth.
Option number three. The girl is just running after you. What to do in a situation when you don't care about her. Then say so. But maybe you don't want to hurt her feelings, although then you're also being stupid. After all, if you stupidly and for a long time give her groundless hope, then later she will simply hate you. Unless, of course, you are saving it as an “alternate airfield” for lovemaking. But here it all depends on your pick-up artist skills. A real macho should always have “available” numbers in his telephone directory.
Case four. I don't know why you should date your ex. But cases of communication between exes sometimes occur, for example, if you were the initiator of the breakup. But even if it’s the other way around, guys often want revenge. So, your ex is asking if you missed her, or is she trying to get a reciprocal confession from you through her statements. What to do in such a situation?
It all, of course, depends on how much you need all this, and what goals you have set for yourself, and whether there are such goals at all. However, in any case, you should not follow the lead. Why on earth would you even miss her?
But if you want to achieve something, then you shouldn’t be rude. Just say that you somehow didn’t think about it, and you basically didn’t have time to be bored. This should immediately increase your status in her eyes.
If a man misses a woman, does it mean it's love?
A woman is an emotional being, and when she hears the cherished “I miss you,” she begins to fantasize wildly. Many girls, having received recognition, think that they have received a sure sign of a man’s love. Looking for hidden meaning, thinking things through is the wrong way. The simplest solution to understanding what is behind the words is to ask directly: “What do you mean?”
A friend or acquaintance misses the company of a friend, communication, understanding. A guy who sees himself as a partner will answer that he longs to hug and kiss. When clarifying, there is no need to be afraid of seeming stupid; it is important to understand that the answer may not be what you wanted to hear.
So what is the answer to “I miss you”...
Instead of a conclusion. Women are more emotional, men are more closed in their feelings. And no matter what newfangled family psychologists and psychologists from social networks tell you, going against nature is not always right.
Of course, you don’t have to hide your feelings to look like a real man, but you also don’t need to stoop to declarations of love in every SMS.
And, at a minimum, because a real man should have no time to be bored, because he has hobbies and work. Otherwise, over time, she will definitely understand that she needs someone else. As they say, less words - more action. And sometimes it’s really easier for men to show their feelings through actions than words. And that's okay.
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How to answer the question in an original way: “What do you miss? Why are you bored?
How to wittily answer the question: “Girl, why are you bored”?
How to answer the question with humor: “Young man, why are you bored”?
"Why are you bored?" or, in another version, “What are you missing?” I had to hear it too; I had to answer differently, depending on who was asking and for what purpose. Most often she answered like this:
If you try to answer with originality, you can choose something from the list of answers:
So to answer the question: “Why are you bored?” you can do this:
Or like this (if you want to tease the questioner):
It is in this spirit that the answers to this question will be given:
Can I answer what actually came to mind while I was reading the question? “I’m not bored, I’m just chewing, and my denture has moved.” I guarantee that this will be a very original and unexpected answer from a young girl. But, I am afraid that by answering this way, I will then continue to be bored.
What to answer to a man or guy when he says “I miss you”: options
Don’t know how to respond to the words “I miss you” to a man or guy? Read the article, there are many options.
When a person is bored, it is always pleasant. Of course, if he admits this, then you want to answer right away, and it is important to find the right words.
Read another article on our website about how to wittily respond to the word “Why,” “Why, explain.” You will learn how to say the right thing with humor and originality.
It also happens that the word “missed” can be uttered by a person who is uninteresting. How to answer in this case? Below in the article you will find different options for words that should be said to a man when he says “I miss you.” Choose what suits you depending on the situation and answer. Read on.
conclusions
If a man says that he misses you, this either means that he really misses you, or he simply benefits from your being around, for example, to satisfy a sexual need. Therefore, do not take this word literally, try to understand what motivates the guy. Your further reaction will depend on this.
Remember that a man who cares about you will prove his attitude through actions, and not just bombard you with messages and calls. Don't take my word for it if you don't want to be deceived.
A man, a guy who is uninteresting writes “I miss you”: what to answer?
A man, a guy who is uninteresting writes “I miss you”
It is very pleasant to hear that the desired person was thinking and yearning. In such cases, as a rule, they answer: “I also missed you very much” or “I also wanted to see you for a long time.” But what should you do if a guy admits that he misses you and you don’t want to hear these words from him? How to answer the word “missed” to a man, a guy who is uninteresting?
Of course, you shouldn’t be cunning and answer positively just to avoid offending him. After all, you are not obligated to communicate with those who are unpleasant and imitate pleasure from this process. However, you need to answer in such a way that the person does not get too upset, but at the same time understands that no one is going to share his feelings.
The following options are possible:
Of course, the answers are a little “dry” and sometimes even rude. But it’s impossible to do it differently with men for whom you don’t feel sympathy, but they insist. It’s a completely different matter if the man is attractive and you have the same feelings for him as he does for you. Read on.
What does the male “I miss you” mean?
Every girl at least once in her life heard a guy say: “I miss you.” You can hear it from a friend, acquaintance, or pen pal. Sometimes girls don’t know what it means if a man says he misses him a lot. To understand the essence of what was said, it is necessary to consider the context in which this phrase sounded, with what emotions the guy said it.
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By saying “I miss you,” a guy can show his warm feelings towards you and express sexual desire. You shouldn’t immediately take this phrase as increased sympathy. You can miss a person in different situations, namely:
- As per the interlocutor;
- Like a girl who is pretty;
- Like a friend whom you haven’t seen for a long time.
If a guy does not show feelings of sympathy, but says: “I miss you,” take a close look at his actions and emotions. If, when he sees you, his eyes fill with interest, he is having fun with you, perhaps these signs of boredom indicate serious intentions. If this is expressed only in correspondence, and nothing like this happens during personal meetings, it means that the guy does not attach importance to these words at all.
How to respond to the words “I miss you” to your beloved man: options
Beloved man writes “I miss you”
As a rule, lovers wait with trepidation for the moment when they can see each other again. In this case, it is completely normal to feel sad during a long separation. In the case of mutual feelings, it is quite reasonable not to hold back, but to show the person dear to your heart that you, too, were sincerely looking forward to meeting him. How to respond to the words “I miss you” to your beloved man? Here are the options:
In the case of a beloved man, words should be spoken sincerely and sensually. Good luck!
What does it mean if a man during a live conversation says that he misses you?
At the moment of real communication, the boyfriend’s phrase means a desire for speedy solitude. Guys are designed this way, the level of testosterone in the male body is 20 times higher than the female threshold, naturally the libido is stronger.
Afterwards, he will happily lie down hugging, stroke his beloved, talk and do everything else dear to a woman’s heart. Most men measure the level of “boredom” by the degree of lust for their beloved. They get offended if she doesn’t support the initiative (she’s sick, she’s busy with work).
How to respond in an original way to the phrase “missed me”? What should I say in response?
The best options are witty, interesting answers, but not rude.
What can you answer to a girl/woman or guy/man who asks the question “missed me”, “missed me” in an original way so as not to show indifference, but also the fact that you are suffering without him or her, so that he is interested or hooked?
To the question “Did you miss me?” you can offer the following option: “Yes, I missed you very much. But I don’t understand, for you, or for myself next to you.” Let him understand as he wants.
Or another comic version in verse, which would be appropriate with a slight mysterious smile on the lips: “Yes, I missed you. I don’t have the strength to bear parting - I’m losing consciousness from melancholy.”
the system chose this answer as the best
I think we can say this:
If a woman asks a man, then I offer this answer:
“You guessed it right, I was waiting.”
“Being bored and yearning is not in my habits, but I waited.”
“Even though I didn’t miss you, I also remembered you.”
Is it possible to tell a man that you miss him?
This phrase is nice to hear, but you shouldn’t say it, immediately “revealing your soul.” Many guys are able to play on this, as a result of which they begin to think that the woman is loving and dependent, this gives strength. This can lead to the destruction of connections and friendships, so how to say this phrase is worth thinking about and making sure your partner is reliable.
If love has occurred between partners, you can talk about feelings without hesitation often, this will bring the couple closer and strengthen ties. Pleasant words are good, but it is better to express them with attention and care, thereby showing concern.
Many girls are pleased to hear such words, but it is worth remembering that a real man must confirm them with actions. Relatively, he can take care of a sick girl, help with solving a difficult issue regarding society, work.
Those who are truly bored will never leave a loved one without attention; a man can express feelings in words and confirm them with actions, care and communication.
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