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- 13-01-2022
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Today, in order to meet a girl you like or just a beautiful stranger, all you need to do is write to her correctly on the Internet. But how to start a conversation first? What to ask without seeming intrusive or boring?
How to talk to a girl you like
Variations of “Your mom doesn’t need a son-in-law” and “Hi, how are you?” show your unnaturalness or mediocrity . Are you not like that? But these first words will ruin the whole impression of you.
What works best? Humor, honesty, naturalness . And if you also speak with confidence, then any girl will want to get to know you better and get to know you better.
Your first line should not be florid, difficult for her to understand, or have a double or triple meaning.
Everything should be simple and concise so that she doesn’t have to ask again several times and feel deaf.
Before you start a conversation you need to do a few quick and easy things that will make it easier for you to get to know each other :
1. Smile at her and catch her eye.
2. Observe the response - did she smile back? Has her gaze stayed on you longer than on any other person? These are moments, but they are easy to notice. And they symbolize a clear interest in you.
3. Pay attention to her body language. If the girl is turned towards you, her arms are apart, she is currently free - these are all open poses and signals that now is a great time to start a conversation.
If the pose is closed - legs and arms are crossed, the body is turned away from you or stands sideways, but so that the eyes do not see you, then you should wait. This is especially true when a woman is busy with some kind of work.
Facial expressions also play an important role. Relaxed face, moving gaze - green light. Frowning, knitted eyebrows, concentrated gaze - red. She's not ready.
4. Calm yourself with a deep breath. The worst that can happen is that she won't want to talk. But it's not the end of the world.
Original phrases for meeting girlsPretty girls know their worth, so they like to be conquered. Where does the conquest of a pretty female begin? Since meeting! If on the street a guy approaches a girl he likes and asks, hesitantly or confidently: “Girl! I can meet you!” What does he hear most often in response? - No! Because this answer comes naturally to a beautiful and proud girl. To avoid being rejected right away, you need to intrigue the girl (woman) or make her laugh with a funny phrase. This is the beginning of what is now called the very fashionable word PICKUP (Pickup rules or acquaintance for the purpose of seduction)
So, original phrases for dating:
“Could you smile, it’s dark outside.” (Any girl will melt) - How do you manage to do this?.. Look so good. (100% version) - How lovely! Are these your legs? - Why did you stop smiling, I just started to fall in love?! — Haven’t young people crawled at your feet before? - Can I look at you?..
- You are so beautiful that I forgot the phrase with which I wanted to approach you. (Definitely disarms the girl)
— Have you turned off many people today? I've only got three so far. Well, the arrogant girls have gone. - You must have been the ringleader. At least you really turn me on. - Do you need a husband? (“No!” - “Oh, then I’ll come to you!”) - You’re so cool that I’m ready to drink the bath water after you! “Hey, do you think we’ll be like a young, dynamic couple?” — Girl, are you interested in cute unmarried guys? No, I'm not talking about myself, I'm talking about a friend. His girlfriend is a bitch and left him. Aren't you a bitch? - Walk past her, then turn around sharply and ask: “Didn’t you just pinch my butt?.. No?.. Damn it!” It’s a pity...” - Do you look at everyone like that or only at those you like? - Why are you looking at me as if your parents had gone to the dacha? - Who do you think likes whom more: you or me? (Presumptuous, so look at the girl) - Help me go left! (Rough, but it might work) - Is it okay that I come to you with such a smart look? - Stop! We stared at each other so much that we forgot to introduce ourselves. Let's try again. (This is if the girl really stares) - Your dress looks great on you, but it would look better on the floor of my bedroom. (Suitable only for real womanizers) - Could you wake me up tomorrow morning with a call to your cell phone, otherwise I’m afraid to oversleep.
- Your most beautiful place is dirty. (Very intriguing) - Girl, can you tell me how to get to your heart? - I looked in the dictionary for a synonym for the word “beautiful” - your name was there too... - Girl, I’m looking for a partner... for dancing. Allow me to study you more carefully. — And by chance, you don’t have my book?.. No? Yes, I gave it to someone to read, and to whom... I only remember that someone was very nice! - What will you do this evening after we meet you? — Shall we talk, or will we continue to wink at each other? “Did you happen to see that my white horse wasn’t running through here five minutes ago?” “You smiled so beautifully that I forgot where I was going.” - You are so sad... Can I take away your sadness? I need it for experiments. - Unfortunately, now I don’t have time to melt your cold gaze, but I can call you in the evening. — What is your shoe size?.. I have 45. Well, we met! — Girl, what time do you think is appropriate to be late? - Hello! Today we are lucky... - Girl, please call an ambulance! Cupid just shot me! - Hello! Did you recognize?.. I didn’t recognize you right away either. - Let me walk you home. At least with a glance. - I have an unusual question for you - what should you say to a girl in order to get a slap in the face?.. - Girl, excuse me, aren’t your legs tired?.. You can’t get out of my head all the time. - Girl, do you believe in love at seventh sight? - Girl, I liked you so much that I’ve been following you for three stops already... Do you mind if we sit down and rest a little? — Girl, you don’t know how to get to the Eiffel Tower? — Girl, do you know what’s good about Tefal cookware? Because it can hit someone on the head who is very tired of it, and since you don’t have this valuable utensils now, I decided to find out your name and ask for your phone number. - Do you play drums?.. No... Me too! Look how much we have in common, let's - Sorry, I forgot my phone number. Can you lend me yours? - You know, after a long search, I finally found a cafe where you and I can have a wonderful time. - Do you have a thread to start our relationship right here? - Girl, do you have a compass? What about the hourglass? I don't think it's worth asking about the barometer. - Girl, your help is urgently needed!.. The fact is that I am going to drown. And your eyes are perfect for this. “The only thing your eyes didn’t tell me was your name.” - I'm a newcomer. Can you tell me how to get to your house? - I noticed that you noticed me, and I would like to notice that I noticed you too. - Girl, don’t you know why the lens is round, but the photos come out square? (before that, you can ask to take a photo of you) - Giving a girl a flower: “I really wanted to show this rose how beautiful you are...” - Do you know what this street is ( station, square, carriage) is different from all the others?.. Here I met you... - If you think that I am going to meet you, then you are mistaken - I also want to invite you on a date! - Girl, you don’t know whether the New Year will be this year or next? - Girl, over there, do you see that young man? So he doesn’t know yet, doesn’t know yet... What’s your name?.. And mine is Misha. So, that young man still doesn’t know that we just met. - You know, I have absolutely no idea what I should say in order to get to know you, but let’s better imagine that I’ve already said all this. - Girl, did you sleep well yesterday? And didn’t even toss and turn? But I couldn’t sleep all night waiting for our meeting. — Girl, do you have plush toys at home? Me too! Let's introduce them. - I bet you are a stubborn person... I read in one magazine that girls who wear round earrings/red pants/green bags/whatever else are very stubborn individuals. (Most people consider themselves stubborn, so it’s very easy to start a conversation.) - Could you tell me which direction I should go to meet a girl who is ATTRACTIVE AND SMART at the same time? There? (pointing in one direction) There? (pointing in the other direction) Or stay here (smile)? - Hello. I agree…
- Don’t you remember me, I lived next door? No? And it’s not surprising - after all, I never lived next to you. Maybe we have everything ahead? - Hello, I'm your dream. - Having come close enough to the girl, you can stand for a minute or two with the air of a person thinking about something of his own, and then stun the unfortunate girl with an innocent question: - Girl! Can I hold on to you, otherwise your beauty makes my legs give way - When I get old, I will remember the brightest moments of my life: the day my children were born, the day of my wedding, and the day I met you. - Please remind me what I was wearing the last time I saw you? - Can you tell me the time?.. How about free time? - Girl, do you meet young and attractive people? - Hello, Vera! (You come up and hug him tightly). How long have I not seen you! (Kiss her) Wow, how you have changed! (She, not understanding anything, answers: “I’m not Vera.”) What? My God, you even changed your name! - Girl, wait! You seem to have lost something!.. I don’t see your smile anywhere!! Oh, no! Here I have found it!! - Girl, kiss me if I’m wrong, but it seems your name is Evdokia? - Girl, do you know what I just saw? I saw one young man who had just met a girl. And literally after five minutes of conversation they communicated as if they had known each other for 100 years. By the way, you know how the young man started the conversation. He said: “Do you know what I just saw?..” - Girl, forgive me, weren’t you hit by a shrapnel?.. You just broke my heart as you passed by. I thought, what if I caught your attention? — You approach the girl with a smile: “Girl, lend your hand, I’ll tell you what you have on it.” If she reaches out, you take her hand, actively touch it, and with huge eyes and a surprised voice: “Amazing!.. It’s all in your fingers!” — Such a beautiful girl should have a beautiful phone number! - After trying for a long time to catch his eye, smiling: “Why are you looking at me so intently?” She: “I’m not looking at you.” “Okay, why don’t you look at me?..” - The girl is standing with her back to you. You take out a piece of thread about 30 centimeters long from your pocket and pretend that you are removing it from the girl’s shoulder. Here you can say the phrase: “How long has this been hanging on you?” — If a girl is wearing sunglasses with mirrored lenses, then you can ask her to use them as mirrors (to comb her hair, for example). — If a girl is reading a book, then give her a beautiful bookmark with a picture of a nice animal or flower; at worst, a leaf from a tree will do, with the words: “I noticed that your book doesn’t have a bookmark, so I decided to give it to you.” It seems to me that this bookmark suits your book very well.” If she has a bookmark, you just need to offer a more beautiful option. - How did you know I was here? “It was very interesting which of us would smile wider.”
- Can I look at your profile? Thank you. You have one of the most beautiful profiles I've ever seen in my life. “Can you forgive yourself... if I don’t get to know you?” - If you are afraid of being sent when trying to meet someone, then approach twenty girls with the goal of being sent and try very hard! What are you afraid of - that you will be sent or that you will not be able to be sent? If girls ask, just say so: “My friend said that being sent by a girl is very difficult. I bet with him for 20 rubles, so you can help me earn money for beer. But I ask you - the message must be of high quality, I will record it on a voice recorder.” — While next to the girl, inflate a balloon, write or draw with a marker what you want, and solemnly hand it over. - Shake off her shoulder, sleeve, back (but not butt) and say: “Now you look even better. I am Alexander". — You hand the girl a piece of paper with the words “Please read it, otherwise I can’t see well.” On the piece of paper is the text “I really like you, and I suggest we get to know you. My name is...” - You appear in front of the sitting girl and say: “I’ll be right up.” And you disappear, after which you appear again, but as an old acquaintance of hers. — You look at the girl and smile, trying to provoke a response. If she doesn't smile, stick out your tongue and smile again. — You buy soap bubbles and blow them towards the girl, not forgetting to smile. Then you can go up and give them to her with the words: “Now it’s your turn.” - You ask the question: “Girl, what’s wrong with you?” After her surprise: “Now, here...” You take out your mobile phone, take a picture of her and show her the picture. “See?” She will be even more surprised. You answer, smiling: “HOW??!?? There’s no smile on your face!?!!” — You rip out a simple flower BY THE ROOT, go up to a girl or a group of girls and say: “This is a flower, and I am Sergei.”
In transport
“Didn’t you just pinch me?” -Girl: Are you going out? You: If you invite, then yes. - I can’t reach the handrail - can I hold on to you? “I saw such a crowd of people three times in my life: at the carnival in Rio de Janeiro, during student unrest in Cambridge and in Bondarchuk’s film “War and Peace.” - They don’t put much pressure on you?.. Do you know why? Because I'm holding them all back. Now I know how fish feel in a tin can. - Please stamp my brains with your name and phone number. - Girl, you know today is a big holiday, like an anniversary! A holiday means that I have the pleasure of riding on the same tram with you, and an anniversary means this is the tenth time. How about going to “...” to celebrate this cause? (go for a walk...) - I just thought that if it weren’t for your smiling face, which I see every morning, I would probably quit my job and stay at home. - Is it okay if I stare at you from up close, and not from across the bus? “You see how good we are at fighting for our balance.”
At the bus stop
— Girl, can you tell me how long ago the required bus left? — Girl, what do you think is the best trolleybus door to enter (which tram car to go in)? “Excuse me, can you tell me which bus is best to take?” “No, I suggest not to miss such a wonderful moment and get to know each other right now!”
In the underground
- Why do you always get off at the same stop as me? -Have you ever met an interesting young man on the subway? — Do you want me to give you a ride on the escalator? - Excuse me, but if I get into the first carriage, will I get to the Borovitsky Gate station? What if I sit in the last one? What if together with you? — Can you tell me where the dining car is? In the store - Can you recommend a book for a friend in the hospital? - You probably know. I bought pasta, but I have no idea what to do with it... Is it possible for me to always consult with you? — Can you tell me where men's tights with holes for hair are sold here? — (In line) Doesn’t it bother you that there’s a handsome single guy standing behind you? — [Counting change] Girl, how much is your smile worth?
In the cafe
Sorry, I have a little problem here. Do you see that table over there?.. There are too many lonely chairs around it. How about you join me? Girl, would you like me to treat you to a French cake or Turkish coffee?
In the museum
— Would you hang this picture in your home? - If I had a million dollars, I would buy you this painting. — In my opinion, this is a portrait of your great-great-great-grandmother.
In the elevator
“Aren’t you afraid of staying in a stuck elevator with a maniac like me?” - You don’t know if this elevator goes to heaven?
In room
- It seems to me that you are a creative person... - Do you believe in love at first sight or should I enter again?
In the dark
- Do you meet in the dark? And under the lantern? - You are beautiful?
On the beach
- Girl, help me squeeze out your swimming trunks, please... - Girl, I see you swim so well, could you watch me, otherwise I don’t know how to swim at all. Ice cream and coffee as a thank you. - Please give me your glasses, otherwise my swimming trunks have sunk. — You look very sexy in fins and a mask! - Please look after my things while I bathe. - Girl, teach me how to eat watermelon, huh? Otherwise I can’t. I eat the crust and I’m already full. - Young woman! Be so kind as to stop walking past that old man with your hips swaying. He's already had two heart attacks! Better walk past me, I have a strong heart. - Girl, would you like me to guess what you have under your swimsuit? (Risky!) - Girl, can I sleep on your lounger? Don’t get up, don’t get up!.. (even more risky) - Girl, where is the sand you walked on? I'll run and kiss him. If you want, I’ll kiss this asphalt for you! I’ll kiss any trash for your sake, even your girlfriend and your husband! (this will make a girl laugh a hundred pounds, and that’s already half the battle) - Girl! Don't pass by. Then the men are even worse! In a place that is not very suitable for meeting someone, for example, in a queue to a paid dry toilet: - Have you ever met a girl in the toilet? SMS wishes Good night to your beloved girlfriend, wife
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All these phrases can be changed to suit the circumstances or to suit your mood and character. They are only designed to attract the attention of the girl they like and keep it.
Once you have her, immediately move on to the next step - introduce yourself and ask her name.
“My name is Pavel. And you?"
It's better if you reach out. But keep in mind that girls are not used to handshakes! Therefore, there is no need for male business and tough crabs. Gently wrap all your fingers around her fingers (all of them, not the tips), squeeze lightly and shake a couple of times, barely noticeably.
To improve your contact, hold her hand with you. Make eye contact, tilt your head and smile.
The technique for further behavior is described in the publication What to talk about with a girl: 54 smart questions (will open in a new tab).
Try not to avoid physical contact (with your hands) when getting to know each other. This is very close and inviting. Almost 90% of the men with whom girls communicate during the day respect their personal space, not letting anyone into it. If you do otherwise, it will greatly benefit you:
1. She will see that you are a serious man and even when meeting a girl at such a sensitive moment, you do not get lost, do not begin to shrink, feel shy, but maintain your masculine dignity.
2. You will enter her comfort zone, but very gently and openly, which will make you “her” person at the subconscious level, and will set you apart from all the other men around.
3. Touching and physical contact will do their job - you will become close without even really knowing each other. This is a feature of our psyche.
Be yourself when you meet someone, playfulness and positivity are your weapons. The first sentence might just be thinking out loud about what's going on, but then you turn to her and ask her opinion. This is captivating - it means you are interested in this opinion.
Compliment her personality and hobbies
Girls are tired of receiving messages from guys who only pay attention to appearance, as if everything else means nothing.
These messages are always superficial and meaningless, focused on quick sex without commitment.
You're not that kind of guy, and you have to show it.
The best first messages are always about profile information, not appearance.
Here's an example of the first message:
"Hello! Judging by your profile, you are a very interesting girl, so I decided to write to you. I see you are a Game of Thrones fan, just like me. Have you already read any of these books? If you like the series, you'll love the books. In general, what kind of fiction do you prefer? Or does it matter? Have a nice evening, Max.
PS – Go out onto the beam now and look at the sky. Such bright stars appear once a year.”
This is a great message for three reasons:
1) Max compliments the person, not the face. This sets him apart from other guys.
2) He asks the girl a question based on a specific detail in her profile, and then asks another broader question so that he can develop the topic (bonus!).
It's a win-win because Max:
a) proves that he read her profile,
b) starts the conversation with common interests,
c) additionally confirms that he is interested in her thoughts, and not just her appearance.
3) Max shows some facets of his own personality when talking about the stars. The girl will probably be excited and interested in this, and she will look forward to the opportunity to talk with him.
