For men, as a rule, everything is simple: “get up and drive.” And they may sincerely not understand why suddenly his beloved, who just a couple of months ago was riding him like crazy, now doesn’t even look in his direction.
In family life, things appear that push sex into the background, reducing its priority. This is fine. It is not normal if it disappears completely. And if the wife begins to avoid “marital duty” in every possible way, then it’s time to find out what happened and start correcting the situation.
In what cases is a conspiracy suitable?
Love magic is used for sexual attachment.
The ritual for sex can be performed by those who wish to have intimate intimacy with the person they like.
Spells can also be used:
- wives, if passion has faded over the years of marriage;
- mistresses to add brightness and get new emotions in bed;
- girls who want to get a guy.
Passion rituals will help your partner become relaxed, confident, and cope with intimate problems.
To enhance the effect of conspiracies, you should combine them with the advice of psychologists:
- dress nicely and put on makeup for your husband’s arrival;
- prepare a delicious meal;
- put your body in order by starting to play sports;
- throw away old and unsexy things and buy revealing underwear instead;
- ask your spouse about his secret fantasies.
Why a wife doesn’t want a husband: all her energy goes into quarrels
Who would have thought, but scandal is an analogue of sex! During a quarrel, the same changes occur in the body as during lovemaking: increased heart rate, pulse and breathing. The same enzymes and hormones are released into the blood as during sexual intercourse. But from a psychological point of view, a scandal is of higher quality, since there are more stages in it than in sex. In a scandal there is always a prelude, a main stage and a climax. Whereas in sex, some stage may be missing and complete release will not occur. In this case, the person has to “discharge himself” through scandal and quarrels.
Woman’s behavior: She often “clings on” to little things in order to quarrel, raise a scandal, express how sick of everything she is, angrily throws things, breaks dishes. It can even lead to assault on the part of the woman.
Solution: As soon as you feel that a scandal is approaching, try to extinguish it in the bud. Women need release, and if you let her release it through a quarrel, then you can assume that you had sex, only in a perverted form. Don’t let her get angry by applying the “principle of depreciation,” that is, agreeing with what the spouse says in a guilty voice with her head down. You can continue to scold yourself. As the saying goes: “Not even a sword can cut a guilty head.” You simply won’t leave her any stock of accusations, because you’ll bring them down on yourself.
If after sex your wife remains dissatisfied or grumbles, then she has not “discharged.” Try to use all your knowledge, skills and body parts to obtain complete satisfaction for your woman!
How the passion spell works
Spells to awaken sexual desire arouse a man's strong interest in the witch, making him desire the woman. Unlike love spells, this type of magic does not create love feelings, but only affects the physical side of the relationship.
Conspiracies for passion work quickly, but not for long. The maximum period is 1 year, the minimum is several days.
Such rituals have almost no consequences, since they do not suppress the will of a person, but if the object experiences negative emotions towards the witch, then the ritual may not work.
Take on some family responsibilities, give her a day off
A woman's work and business projects can take a lot of energy and strength.
And then she returns home tired, where hungry children are waiting for her.
Then she still cooks in the kitchen and plus she needs to wash the floors or do laundry.
And it is not surprising that the wife does not want her husband and constantly complains of fatigue
There is no talk of intimacy with your loved one.
Here the man needs to do the following:
- Or give her a day off and let her just relax at home after work. When you take over all her affairs for a few days, her energy reserves will quickly replenish.
- Or take on at least half of what she used to do at home. Prepare food for your children and family yourself, no need to wait for your spouse to arrive.
- As an example, it would be helpful to give her a relaxing massage after work.
Rules for reading conspiracies for sexual desire
If a mistake is made during the ritual, this can result in major problems for the fortuneteller: loss of sleep, deterioration in well-being, headaches.
To avoid consequences, you must adhere to the following recommendations:
- Read the spell at any time of the day, unless otherwise indicated in the instructions.
- Learn the text by heart, pronounce it loudly and clearly, without hesitation. It is forbidden to swap phrases and add expressions of your own.
- Do not tell anyone about the ritual, do magic in complete solitude and silence.
The main requirement is faith in yourself and your own strengths. If a woman doubts the result, then nothing will work out for her.
Take the two of you on vacation to a new, early, unseen place
You don’t have to immediately imagine Fiji or the Canary Islands.
You can go away together just to relax. Where you can swim, sunbathe, where it’s sunny.
There is no need to take friends, her girlfriends or anyone else with you.
It would be better if the place was new. The dacha option is not suitable.
There may not even be much need to do anything there. In sunny and warm places, rapprochement, attraction, attraction to each other occurs faster.
If the two of you were fine before this, and then problems surfaced and a routine fell in, then solving all this there will not be a problem if you are two absolutely normal people.
Black egylet
Egilet is a love spell of a sexual nature. Immediately after it is carried out, the victim will feel a strong attraction to the witch and cannot look at other people.
For the ritual you will need:
- photo of a man;
- a set of needles of different sizes;
- black candle;
- paper.
How to make your husband always want his wife:
- On the waning moon on Monday or Tuesday, place a candle in the center of the table and light it.
- Place the man's photograph on a piece of paper and wrap it like an envelope. Fasten the corners with needles and cast a spell.
Black magic ritual.
Hide the package under the mattress. It is important that the husband sleeps on this bed - then he will not be able to make love to anyone other than his wife.
Why a wife doesn't want a husband: resentment and disappointment
We were brought up in such a way that we did not learn how to correctly express our dissatisfaction to our partner and discuss problems in relationships. It is much more common to remain silent and accumulate grievances. This is especially true for women. They pout their lips and don’t speak, the man has to guess what she’s offended by. Naturally, she has no time for sex, because in her head she conducts an internal dialogue with her husband, where all good feelings towards him are destroyed.
Woman's behavior: Acts offended, does not speak, ignores the man's requests or communication. She doesn’t ask to do anything, she does everything herself.
Solution: If you have chosen a “beech” who is used to being offended and sulking, you will have to take the situation into your own hands. If you notice that the situation has acquired a similar character, do not wait until the problem reaches its climax and thunder strikes. Come and say the state that you saw on your wife’s face: “Darling, it seems to me that something is bothering you? Please tell me, I’m worried about you and would like to help.” Only the tone of your voice should match the phrase, showing your sympathy and experience. By doing this you will emphasize that you notice your woman’s condition and show compassion and empathy. This leads to rapprochement, trust and improved relationships. And one more thing: keep your word! Your word is an advance of action. A person's actions speak about him. I didn’t keep my word - resentment, disappointment and distrust.
Conspiracies to incite passion between spouses
Rituals aimed at enhancing sexual desire are simple to perform and effective if you truly love your spouse. They can easily be done at home.
To a shared bed
If a woman has suspicions that her husband has taken a mistress, she should talk about sharing a bed. Then he will forget about the homewrecker and again desire only his wife.
How to get your love back:
- After undressing, lie down on the bed, spread your legs and arms to the sides.
- Clap your palms on the blanket 3 times and say:
Repeat the words three times.
The ritual should be performed on Wednesday during the waxing moon, after which it is recommended not to wash the bed linen for as long as possible.
Charmed water
The spell is whispered over water poured into a deep bowl. It must be new, never used. The whisper is said 3 times: in the morning, afternoon and evening - after which the husband is given the charmed liquid to drink.
Spell text:
Conspiracy with water.
Another ritual will require spring water. Having typed it in the palm of your hand, they say:
Learn the text by heart.
A little liquid is put into a bottle and placed near the bed. After the ritual, they immediately go to bed without speaking to anyone, and in the morning they wash themselves and drink the charmed water. The remains are poured into my husband's tea or coffee.
On my husband's underwear
Sexual binding is performed on the spouse's underwear on Monday, Wednesday or Friday. It is important that the clothes are dark in color. During the waxing moon at dawn, they approach an open window, holding panties in their right hand and a burning church candle in their left.
They pronounce the spell three times.
Then they cross themselves, kiss the candle and extinguish it. The husband must wear underwear on this day. You cannot perform the ritual during menstruation.
There is another ritual for sex, which is performed near a natural body of water. The wife should come to the river or lake early in the morning and wash her lover’s underwear, while imagining their intimacy in detail. After this, stand facing the water and say the text of the plot three times.
Ritual with panties.
Kneeling down, the wife must scoop up water from the river and wash herself. The dried laundry should be given to your lover.
Old spell for wine
If the husband has grown cold and has not pampered his wife with signs of attention for a long time, then she should prepare his favorite dish, set the table and light scarlet candles. Whisper a spell into a purchased bottle of red wine.
Ritual with wine.
Then you need to invite your loved one to dinner. It is important that he drinks a glass of wine.
With food
On the full moon on Friday, people buy raw meat at the market without haggling or taking change. Returning home, they undress and apply a piece of beef or pork to their bare chest. They pronounce the conspiracy loudly.
Food plot.
Then a delicious treat is prepared from the enchanted meat. The spouse should eat as much as possible, and the leftover dinner should be thrown away.
There is another food ritual in which spices are used.
You will need:
- salt;
- ground pepper;
- dried herbs: basil, ginger, cardamom and saffron.
The spices are mixed in a bowl and a spell is cast when added to the dish.
Salt ritual.
Charmed meat
While frying meat, you need to look at the blood coming out of the piece and say a spell.
Repeat the ritual with meat 3 times.
On a handkerchief
For the ceremony, you need to discreetly take a handkerchief from your husband, which he often uses. You will also need:
- red candle - 3 pcs.;
- jasmine oil;
- photo of a man.
How to do it:
- At midnight, place candles generously greased with jasmine oil in a triangle on the table. Place a photo in the center.
- Place 3 drops of jasmine ether on the image and place a handkerchief on top.
- Say a spell.
We read the ritual with the scarf 7 times.
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You never know what happens to people: stress, poor health, troubles at work. But if the situation drags on, and you have to beg your husband for warmth and affection in your own bed for months, then it’s time to ring the bells. Not very loudly, of course: the piercing howl of a siren will scare away the last fluids in the soul and body of a man, even if they still remained.
So, we need to decide on the level of hopelessness of the problem. There are only two of them: the end of a relationship and a break, giving a respite and a chance for a new outbreak. In any of these cases, most of the useful tips in this article will turn out to be universal: both options require not to lose shape, self-esteem and respect from the partner, even if his desire is lost forever.
First, stop the hysteria . Panic attacks, scenes of jealousy, angry choking and other accompaniments of such situations are normal and standard occurrences. Even for those ladies whom others consider to have cold reptilian blood, and their husbands consider frigid statues, similar periods are painful and painful. There is always a place for wounded pride, if not love.
Therefore, do breathing exercises . count to ten, buy some rags, get drunk with a friend and cry into her shoulder, in the end. Just don’t torment your man with ugly scenes, losing your face in his eyes and the remnants of warm friendly, if not sexual, relationships.
A rare exception: if your husband is a pathological masochist or a very peculiar extreme person, then a little thrashing may stir up old desires. But here you need to be very careful: these games are not to everyone’s liking, and two or three random “reconciliations” will slightly correct the weather in the house, but the general climate will remain the same.
So, you are outwardly calm and ready to reason, plan and correct the situation. Your heart beats steady or almost steady. The fight for your husband begins!
If you are a young mother, then the lack of intimacy is an easily explainable thing. A beloved but restless baby requires all your attention, and when the tired breadwinner comes home, then his father’s too. Physical and moral strength is running out, and the bed evokes associations only with sound sleep. If you don’t have a separate nursery, then the new father, who is unaccustomed to a small roommate, may become completely withdrawn. He already has in his arsenal a baby whining at the most inopportune moment, a wife dying of fatigue, who, moreover, does not have time to take care of herself, and, God forbid, a mother-in-law or mother behind a thin wall. In such a situation, the main thing is to survive, and there is no time for libido.
• Such cases are by no means hopeless if your husband is not of that nasty breed who may stop loving you because you have gained weight after childbirth or the shape of, say, your breasts has changed. Unfortunately, there are quite a lot of such complete egoists. And, no matter how painful it may be for you to lose such a husband, his loss will be your step towards a normal life.
But let's be optimistic: although your husband doesn't want his wife, he loves her. Ask your mother, mother-in-law, neighbor, friend or nanny to take the baby to your place at least for the evening. Use this time wisely: take a fragrant bath, clean yourself up, light candles and order dinner from a restaurant if you haven’t had time to prepare anything edible. Seduce your husband like a movie femme fatale. He will probably be so stunned by surprise that your victory should be easy.
It often happens that a husband would like a wife, but cannot: constant fatigue after work, work stress and various similar problems. In most cases, the culprit in this situation is work. In this case, the husband is physically and mentally exhausted. There is an unbearable burden of worries on his shoulders, his bosses are sitting on his head, his car’s engine is acting up. Moreover, my idiot son brought home three D's in math - and why is he so stupid!
Most likely, he will withdraw into himself and would prefer to spend any free minute alone - at the computer or with a book in his hands, rather than in bed with his wife. Because in this state, the thought of sex is associated with another frightening responsibility - this time a marital one.
Seduce this man again, since you already succeeded in this. Since he is still benevolent, respectful and affectionate with you, and after work he drags his mortal body home, perhaps all is not lost to you?
This problem is much more complicated than the previous ones: the husband does not want his wife due to the loss of attraction to her as a woman.
If he is simply sad, bored, tired of your identical everyday life, your home “outfit” in striped socks and a faded robe, then positive changes can be achieved simply by changing the scenery. Then your favorite stretched robe from your great-grandmother’s time will go to the closet or the trash bin, the socks will take their rightful place in the chest of drawers, and they will be replaced by a glossy peignon or a knitted tight trouser suit.
And don't forget to get rid of that hellishly sloppy ponytail that's nesting on your head at home! There's nothing sexy about it, so you'll have to sacrifice convenience.
• He sees what you look like when you go to work: well-groomed and attractive, in the best clothes. Is he, the husband, really unworthy of even a shadow of that beauty that passers-by and employees see?
This case of male reluctance smoothly flows into another: you are so different at home and in public that the dearest man in the world simply does not understand why and for whom there is such a carnival if you have to be alone with Baba Yaga. And you relaxed, decided that he loves you and that’s it, you don’t have to try.
This myth was inspired by novels and TV series: love and desire must be fed, provoked into outbursts, constantly stroked on the head and given nectar. Perhaps then it will take root and bloom wildly according to all the known patterns deduced by old man Freud.
He treats his wife extremely warmly, as a dear and close person, but does not consider him as a sexual object. Anything can happen: friendship, understanding, agreement, but not attraction. It may even happen that just the thought of sex with his wife-friend will cause hostility in a man. It is impossible to predict which path your relationship will take in such a situation. It all depends on whether you are ready, like Assol, to wait for scarlet sails on a sea where there are no ships? Are you patient enough to hope for success in a situation where your husband doesn't want you, and most likely won't want you anymore?
Sex without love is devastating. This is unanimously stated by many psychologists. If your husband no longer wants you, then perhaps he just fell in love. And it’s not even that he has enough sex on the side, it’s just that the object of his languid sighs and serenades at the moment is another woman. You remember how proud you were of his ardent glances, directed only at you.
• Don't look for a meeting with your opponent, don't try to determine who is better. This will deprive you of your last strength, already undermined by long sexual hunger.
• The husband's infatuation may pass. Romance - evaporate. The flow of life is to return to the old channel.
Many real cases confirm this: husbands returned to bed with their wives after the most dizzying affairs. They returned, cooling down after an affair, and stayed in that bed forever, having “feasted” their passion, experience, and variety of impressions “on the side.”
And the spouses who knew how to wait again received devoted and sexually strong macho men, ready for exploits on the sexual front.
Not every husband admits to an illness of this nature to himself, much less to you. These circumstances force men to withdraw into themselves much more than in the first cases. After all, here He, still young and strong, feels like a flawed, crippled, inferior man. He is driven into a corner and “rewarded” with severe depression by the inability to get aroused at all: neither from your erotic lingerie, nor from watching explicit videos, nor from taking magic pills.
• Special – diseases of the reproductive system that directly affect male sexual performance.
• General - other ailments that dull intimate desires due to pain and discomfort.
Fortunately, 21st century medicine can solve many problems. And this case just falls into the category of options when you can apply pressure and present some kind of ultimatum of moderate severity. After all, we are talking not so much about sexual bliss as about the health or even the life of your soulmate.
What needs to be done in all scenarios without exception? In the worst case, you will simply improve your appearance and not lose self-esteem; in the best case, you will return everything to normal.
1. Think carefully about your course of action and possible risks. Forcing your husband or under torture to find out from him the reasons for his reluctance is a dead end. Throwing hysterics is useless; making threats is even worse.
3. If in his explanations you see the outlines of any of the situations described, act according to our advice.
4. Regardless of the results of the “interrogation,” take care of yourself. Remember the last time you visited a hairdresser, massage therapist, or cosmetologist. Join a gym or just start jogging in the morning - maybe even with your spouse.
5. Try to penetrate his world without signs of mental violence: go fishing or paintball together, yell together at a football stadium or hippodrome. Probably, the husband is simply lonely and does not want to sleep with a strange woman who does not understand his tastes.
6. Add tenderness and romance to your life. Diversify your weekend and don’t overload your already difficult modern everyday life with responsibilities. Romantic evenings, surprises and relaxing holidays will help melt not only his heart, but also some of the functions of the male body you are looking for.
7. Tell your husband about your naughty fantasies. Sometimes curiosity can overcome even resentment, not to mention boredom and despondency. Role-playing games within the tastes of two loving spouses would be condemned only by the last prude.
8. Feel welcome. In the end, convince yourself of this - such impudence can become contagious!
Being a desirable woman is a great science. At all times, women who traded desire at a high level were required to receive an education, master the art of dance, music, and special grace. Japanese geishas and French courtesans constantly courted
the skin of the face and body, the silkiness of the hair and the softness of the hands, pursuing one single goal - to please men.
The ability to charm and seduce your man again and again, even imitating such seemingly unworthy persons, is truly a huge job. But the result of such work is worth the effort, isn’t it?
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Christian prayer
Praying to the Lord will help return your spouse’s desire and interest in a woman. You need to turn to God in a quiet, deserted place where no one will disturb you.
The prayer must be read repeatedly, in a quiet and confident voice, by the light of a burning candle and in front of the icon.
You can come up with any text - the main thing is that it is sincere. If you can’t compose, then you should light a fire and, looking at the smoke, whisper:
Read the prayer over the smoke of the fire.
The fire element will strengthen the energy flow and make it so that the Lord will hear the prayer.
Your behavior after
There are men who, at the end of a stormy night, like to quickly pass out, turning on the other side and snoring.
When the wife does not want her husband for the reason above, you should implement the following :
- After your nightly caresses, do not go straight to bed! Even if you really want to.
- Show her through your actions and behavior that you appreciate her.
- Stroke her, kiss her, caress her. At a lower intensity for at least 10 minutes.
- Compliment her. You can tell her how good you had it together.
- How you behave afterwards is very important. This is what cements the impression of you!
Keep your distance
According to the research of famous psychotherapist Esther Perel, men and women experience the greatest craving for their partner when they are apart and anticipating the joy of meeting. It is not necessary to travel to different cities to give your husband the opportunity to get bored. You can also social distance at home. Create your own personal space. There is no need to get lost in the affairs and concerns of your family. Find something to do just for yourself. Go to a cafe with your girlfriends, to fitness, to the pool, or even to a cutting and sewing course. If your evening conversations boil down to discussing your children's grades and tomorrow's menu, you turn into an open book for your husband, which is no longer so exciting to read. You need to have your own interests in order to become interesting to others.
