Many people have probably thought about how to become more feminine. A girl who looks like a fairy - soft, light, fragile, affectionate, well-groomed, radiant... The portrait of such a woman can be described for a very long time, because the feminine energies developed in her make her a real goddess in the flesh. Of course, everyone has their own ideas about the ideal woman, but, perhaps, femininity is present in each of them. Unfortunately, now many female representatives suffer from the fact that masculine qualities are more developed in them: determination, perseverance, iron grip, authoritarianism, the desire to subjugate, control everyone, etc. So they gradually, without noticing it, lose their feminine nature. This is not their fault, because the modern world dictates its own rules to us: “You need to be successful!”, “You need to earn money!”, “You need to build a career!”. Many women are now developing, fighting for their rights, striving for equality with men. But in the pursuit of all this, their femininity often weakens. Therefore, so that your inner man does not completely absorb you, and also does not make you a “man in a skirt,” you need to nourish your feminine energies. In this article I will tell you in detail what ways you can become more feminine.
Cultivate love within yourself
A woman is energetically strong when love lives in her. I'm not talking about love for a man now. First of all, develop love for yourself and the world around you. Stop criticizing everyone, feeling angry, offended, envying, throw away your grievances. Without an inner feeling of love, you will be empty, and accordingly, you will not be able to give anything to your loved one, family, or children. On the contrary, you will begin to “vampire” their energy through quarrels, scandals, and claims. This will especially affect your man. He may lose financial success or become ill. A woman by nature gives love. This is where her strength lies. Try to start practicing a warm attitude towards everything that surrounds you, and then you will see how you become softer and calmer.
The purpose of the fair half of humanity
In the modern rhythm, many women have forgotten about their natural purpose. It seems that each of us is doing ordinary things that are familiar to everyone: building a career, doing housework, making plans with her husband for a joint summer vacation. But a moment comes when, in pursuit of equality, we begin to understand how much work, everyday life, and children exhaust us. But the problem is the lack of femininity, which needs to be developed and embodied. In this article I will try to cover this topic as much as possible. Implement techniques for its implementation in real life.
The basis of the basics is to accept yourself as a woman - a perfect creation.
After all, without awareness of your natural purpose, all exercises and techniques for developing sensuality will be a failure in advance.
Chat with your friends
It is extremely important to communicate with other girls to reveal your feminine energies. That is why a woman should not be prohibited from communicating with her friends and sisters. You've probably noticed yourself how sometimes we really want female communication, and how good we feel after it? This is because at first we experienced a lack of feminine energy, and then we made up for it.
Modern ways to activate energy
It's no secret that any man next to a gentle, sensual woman begins to demonstrate his masculine qualities to the maximum.
After all, the strong half of humanity is naturally designed to protect and protect their chosen one. I would like to invite you to consider the basic techniques for developing female sexuality and grace. In my life I had a wonderful opportunity to meet and communicate with one very interesting woman who fascinated me at first sight. She simply radiated crazy energy, which manifested itself in every movement, captivating everyone around her. The most interesting thing is that my friend was also amazed by the energy of this fascinating person. Then he admitted to me that thoughts about her haunted him for several days. To be honest, I was simply amazed how much the energy of the opposite sex can influence a man! After this incident, I seriously began studying that issue. I offer several really working techniques that I have tested in practice.
Go to beauty salons and spas
A woman’s body simply needs massage, first of all, for her health. It needs soft tactile contact, because... Thus, it improves the circulation of not only blood circulation, but also energy. This is why after a massage a person feels so good. Don't forget about manicure, facial and hair care. All this is not just a woman’s whim or whim. This is the basis of her psychological health and self-esteem. Self-care always gives a woman pleasure, and this is important. Don't forget to enjoy your bath without rushing. Give yourself at least half an hour to soak in the bath with soft foam and drops of aroma oils.
Exercises to develop femininity
Every female representative has the inherent nature of perceiving the world through sensations and emotions. Therefore, it is very important for the fair half of humanity to develop these senses. This is facilitated by regularly performing the following exercises. By performing any simple gymnastics routine, each of you will discover the true woman within you and will be able to build strong, trusting relationships with yourself and the people around you.
It’s better to start revealing your femininity in the morning.
We are used to jumping out of bed when the alarm clock rings, rushing headlong around the apartment getting ready for work or school. You should start your morning with words of gratitude directed to the universe for the fact that you see the sun, breathe the air, live in this world.
Try to slowly get out of bed, go to the mirror, and smile wholeheartedly at your image in the mirror.
Don't skimp on compliments or words of admiration.
Love yourself, your appearance. She will respond with gratitude to this.
Then do morning exercises, which will wake up the muscles, joints, and disperse the blood.
Affirmations
The following exercises will follow affirmations for female self-improvement. Affirmations are the realization of the fruits of our imagination in real life. The power of our thoughts is enormous and cannot be underestimated. Each of us has probably noticed that if we really want something, if we live a dream, then it will miraculously come true. Therefore, it is most important to visualize the object of your desire with a feeling of joy and happiness. Same with femininity - the main thing
present yourself clearly and clearly as the most seductive, desirable woman in the world.
The main thing is to make this visualization detailed, thinking through every little detail, down to how you dress, what you do, how you speak, what gestures you convey emotions.
Exercises on affirmations are simply necessary to consolidate positive thinking in the mind, because we are what we think about, do not forget this.
Getting rid of negative thinking
The next exercise to develop the feminine principle is to get rid of negative thinking. A feminine person embodies calmness, tenderness, and caring.
“But what to do if your soul is filled with resentment, anger, and bitterness?”
, you might think. Of course, screaming and breaking dishes is not befitting a true lady, but keeping everything to yourself is not a way out. A very good option is to release all the accumulated negativity in the absence of the offender himself. An alternative is to place a pillow in front of you, mentally imagining that the offender is in front of you, and express everything that you think about him. You can even give free rein to your fists, kick her well, thereby step by step approaching a state of calm and tranquility. If at the moment of “communication with the pillow” tears roll up, do not hold them back, let your heart be freed from accumulated bitterness and remembered grievances. After completing this exercise, you will feel clear relief, liberation from negativity.
Feminine flower
Another good exercise to improve sensuality is a technique called “Feminine Flower”. An exercise that should be performed in complete solitude will help you discover your inner potential for developing your own inherent femininity. I think each of us has a favorite nook at home. Create a relaxing atmosphere in this place: turn on light music, light scented candles, and lie down on the floor. The body should be completely relaxed, thoughts freed from all unnecessary and negative things. You need to imagine that you are a beautiful little, fragile flower. This beautiful flower will be your femininity. Give him care and attention, because he needs it so much. Feel for yourself all its value and importance for yourself.
It is necessary to feel with every cell of the soul how this small flower begins to gradually sprout, penetrating the neck, chest, arms, gradually spreading throughout the body.
Learn to fill your body with a mysterious light that breaks out, trying to illuminate the space around you with feminine energy and boundless love.
Dance in the development of the feminine
You can maintain femininity at the required level with the help of a variety of dances, including oriental ones.
Diagnostics of internal signals
Let's try to put things aside right now and do one effective exercise that won't take much time. Concentrate on your body, listen to the sensations, slowly inhaling and exhaling air through your stomach. Realize that the body will never deceive you, you just need to learn to understand it.
If you receive alarming signals during the exercise, then something is wrong with it.
Pleasure from the process
Reading these lines, you are probably wondering how to unlock your potential in dance? Of course, techniques in the art of dance take first place, but the fundamental role lies in the ability to enjoy the process. To be honest, it is very rare to meet a dancer who would not worry about how good he looks on the dance floor. There are few people who know how to dance as if they are alone in this world, without worrying about the opinions of others. It is this tightness that does not allow us to open up to our natural, energetic power during the dance process.
Remember that movements should not be perfectly honed or soullessly executed.
They should come from the heart with pleasure in everything that surrounds you at that moment: partner, music, atmosphere. Any dance will become delightful, unforgettable if you perform it not only with your body, but also with your soul, catching the pleasure of every movement of your body.
Dealing with tension
Remember, femininity is given to us by nature, we just need to give it the opportunity to manifest itself and break out in full. As long as tension reigns in our body, a constant struggle with the inner world, dance movements will never be able to become graceful and feminine. Therefore, if you ignore these points, then no teacher will be able to teach you how to dance well. Relaxation in everything, including dancing, is the first step towards achieving grace and attractiveness.
The next stage is to enjoy everything you do and with whom you communicate.
Just remember, each of you probably had moments in your life when you easily achieved the most unattainable things, but no great efforts were made. This rule works in any area of life
Develop grace and elegance
Purely female activities will help with this: stretching, strip plastic, yoga, oriental dancing, etc. It is very important to engage in sports or dancing that will bring you joy. It is advisable to exclude a male environment during classes. Because it is in the women's circle that your energies grow and develop.
By doing all of the above, you will already be on the conscious path of female transformation. Of course, this is not all you need to do to become more feminine. However, starting is already half the success! Add to this some pleasant women’s practices, of which there are a huge number now, and you are guaranteed a visible result.
First steps
First you need to love yourself, your body, the image in the mirror and set a goal. Try to emphasize the fact that you are a woman in the most accessible ways.
Dress yourself in beautiful dresses and favorite shoes as often as possible, and don’t go out without makeup or hair styling.
Reading these lines, you probably think that there is simply no time for such things as femininity and its improvement. The fact is that this state is inherent for a woman by nature, it just needs to be awakened.
Do not hurry
Try to learn to live without constant rush, enjoying the process of life itself.
Why it is very important not to rush!
Simply because when we do everything in a hurry, we begin to involuntarily develop masculine qualities, and this is completely contrary to the natural feminine nature. Let overcoming problems and obstacles remain with the strong half of humanity, and let us girls begin to learn to develop the feminine principle in ourselves. The main thing to remember is that at the behest of a magic wand this will not happen overnight.
This process is long and labor-intensive, but how exciting it will be depends directly on you.
The charm of a smile
A smile should become your calling card if you want to be charming and charismatic. Firstly, this way you will immediately demonstrate to others that you are supportive and friendly , and secondly, there is no such person for whom a smile would not suit. Is it possible not to use such a powerful trump card ?
It is especially important for the fair sex to be blooming and smiling, because a good mood not only makes you look younger and beautifies, but is also passed on to others .
A smile is a woman's best adornment
And people who know how to cheer up attract you like a magnet and illuminate harsh everyday life like sunlight.
Techniques for developing femininity
Movement
Try to stay on the move as much as possible. Physical stagnation leads to energy clamps. Therefore, no matter how circumstances change, try to stay in an active state for as much time as possible.
Refusal of men's clothing
Give preference to feminine silhouettes in your wardrobe, wear less of such a masculine attribute as trousers. Make it possible for wind energy to touch your body freely without any restrictions. Do a little experiment. Give up your favorite jeans for a month. Observe your feelings at this time, you will understand how much trousers can limit the movement of energy flows.
Have an orgasm
Aim to have an orgasm with every sexual intercourse. If men lose energy during ovulation, women, on the contrary, accumulate energy, which gives us a visible advantage in this regard.
Chat with other women
Take time to connect with other women. After all, through emotional conversations, women's channels are also opened. The beautiful half of humanity simply needs to be given the opportunity to speak out.
Pamper yourself
Don't forget to pamper yourself, your loved one. Try to get real pleasure from eating your favorite food. Go shopping, touch the soft fabric of the dress you like. Try on the shoe model you like. Try to switch your brain impulses to the sensation of your body.
Get creative
Feminine energy has a creative nature, aimed at creation. To activate this energy channel, start drawing, writing poems or composing a cute song. Do everything that can relieve you of the burden of everyday life.
Charm of speech
An indispensable feature of a charming person is correct speech . It must be clear, intelligible and measured, because few people are interested in listening to inexpressive speech.
And although speaking talent , you can still learn to speak beautifully on your own.
Recite poetry in front of a mirror as if you were an actress in front of a full hall of listeners
The following exercises are useful for developing clear speech:
- reciting poetry
- conversation in front of the mirror
- reading tongue twisters
- chanting sounds
It is very important not only to be able to pronounce all sounds beautifully and clearly, but also what you say . Competent speech is one of the main attributes of a charismatic person. In order for speech to be harmonious and filled with meaning, it is necessary:
- eliminate parasitic words from the vocabulary
- pay attention to self-development and reading books
- do not use words whose meaning you do not know
- use the richness of your native language: comparisons, exquisite metaphors, sayings
- try to be pleasant to your interlocutor: spice up your speech with humor and compliments
While telling a joke, it will relieve tension and set you up for warm, friendly communication.
Is magic needed for fulfillment?
Desperate women take up spells, runes, and Tarot cards. But is it worth it to load yourself up like that? Of course, a good spell will cloud a man’s mind for a while. When will its effect wear off? New to read?
The same with runes. The tool is as powerful as it is dangerous. In the wrong hands, it turns into a weapon directed against one’s own happiness. Why take such a risk?
Use magic in exceptional cases. For example, getting rid of dependent relationships. An excellent opportunity to understand the principles of how runes work and to immerse yourself in real magic. And attractiveness will come on its own when you master the techniques described above.
How to understand that there is not enough feminine energy
The lack of feminine energy is felt in all areas of life:
- At the emotional level, a woman becomes irritable, aggressive, anxious or apathetic. She can neither explain her condition nor control it.
- Emotional swings are replaced by a feeling of emptiness, when nothing makes you happy and you don’t want anything. What used to fill you with energy: various hobbies, friendly meetings, family evenings - now does not bring pleasure. Life guidelines and understanding of what to strive for next are lost.
- Changes in the emotional sphere affect family relationships. The number of quarrels with the spouse and children increases, and the desire to get a divorce appears. At the same time, if previously a woman easily recovered from a quarrel and could enter into a constructive dialogue, then in a state of lack of feminine energy this becomes difficult to do.
- Feelings of guilt and uselessness complicate the situation and lead to a new round of conflicts and self-deprecation. This continues in a circle and in the most severe cases can lead to illness.
Therefore, it is important, at the first signs of loss of feminine energy, to introduce simple and easy practices into life that will help restore it.
Afterword
Femininity is a complex of external and internal qualities attributed to women and expected from them. Men's ideas about femininity are approximately the same, and we have examined them. But every man has his own ideal of a woman. Femininity is only one aspect, and not every image of an ideal woman is inherent. Some people like strong-willed, masculine girls.
Femininity or its absence does not indicate the happiness or unhappiness of a woman, a couple of a man and a woman. What is more important is what image a woman is comfortable in, what kind of man she needs and what kind of woman he needs. Read more about female ideals and male preferences in the article “Which female images are attractive to men from a psychological point of view.”
Charm of appearance: stylish clothes, stylish jewelry
An attractive and charming girl should be well dressed . Fashionable clothes and accessories emphasize taste and charm, but you should not blindly chase after all the new items . You must remember that clothes should emphasize beauty, and style should be individual.
Clothing should highlight individuality
If super-fashionable jeans or a dress don’t suit you at all, then such a new thing will be of little use. If clothes do not decorate or highlight your individuality, then such things should not be in your wardrobe , even if they are super branded.
Properly selected clothing should:
- emphasize the advantages of the figure
- hide flaws
- match your personality (if you are feminine and sophisticated, then rock style is clearly contraindicated for you)
- all elements must be in harmony and combined with each other
